i like this guy alejandro.. he's like my best guy friend and i can tell him nething n he's always thea 4 me.. one dai we hooked up and i got the feeling tht maybe i like him more than jus a friend.. all my friends told me he sed he liked me but they all thot i didnt want a bf (which i didnt but then i kissed him n i decided i did). the next day, he tells me he's going out with this girl debbie that he's liked since june and she lives near him so its easy 4 him. hooking up is usually no big deal so i guess he thot i had no feelings 4 him whatsoever but i did. the past couple dayz he's been saying how much he likes debbie and how hot she is and all that kind of stuff and it breaks my heart to hear. at one point i was gna tell him i like him and everyone told me i shud but then that nite i was talking to him and i asked him the ? if he was happy.. he told me he was realli happy n i cud tell he meant it so i cudnt get the courage to tell him how i felt about him cuz i didnt wanna confuse him or ruin his relationship with debbie somehow. since then i kind of give the hint to him but he just seems pretty clueless. i got the advice before that i shud tell him but since thats not an option nemore, i dont know what to do.. kat plzzz help cuz i know your right most of the times wen it comes to advice.. what shud i do???
<3 dEniSe..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? berrybum324 answered Monday August 9 2004, 11:38 pm: ok denise furst off i luv u soo mcuh nd its ok..i meen think about it this is ales first gf lik all year besides bri .. u hav had allot of boyfriends im not tryen to b meen and call u a slut cuz ur not n evrythign im just seyen..de u cnt tell him ne more i meen hes happi he luvs this grl..u just gutta sit by and let sumone else hav the boi for a change..ur not used to having ur hart realli broken and ur deff not used to having sumone else make the boiz of ur dream happi..but lik for this one u just gutta bak off u sey ale is ur bffl in the hole wrld and all that shit .. well then let him b ur best friend and do wat u wued do for ne othr best firned...make them happi and if u wnt ale to b happi u gutta just let him n his gf hav a chance i meen at one point or another they will break up and if its absolutly killing u then u can tell him that u dun wnt him to always talk bout her but de...this time it cnt b abbout u im not tryen to b mean but this time it dun mttr how u feel or nething its about ur best friend sacraficing ur hart is just sumtin u gutta do for him..and one day ull get ur chance baby i promise u one day he will realize jthat u make him happi not debbie or w/e and wen he realizes that ur relationship will b bttr then evr..becuz if u steal him frtm debbie hell always think of wat cudda happened wit her..so u just gutta b patient and wait..i luv u grlieeee . . . KaT * [ berrybum324's advice column | Ask berrybum324 A Question ]
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