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ok well, theres this girl that like hates me and i didnt do anything to her! can anyone think of a reason why she hates me so much? shes really annoying, like shes pissed off at me because my best friend((whos a guy)) like loves me and he calls her a bitch all the time. Also another reason why i think she hates me is because me and her best friend have become really close, and shes mad. what can i do so i dont KILL her?
and also, i feel really bad because the best friend i was talking about earlier, he is sooooo good to me, he always sticks up for me and no matter how mad i think im making him he never gets mad at me, and when i told him i liked him a little while ago he still wanted to be around me. how can i get over it? (link)
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well first off you need to take a deep breath or do something that relaxes you so you won't harm the girl. and second, you need to see how your guy friend feels about you before you make any moves. see if he shows that he likes you back. if he doesn't, then you're probably better off as best friends. and the girl you're having problems with, see what's her deal and why she hates you so much. if she doesn't respond or gets an attitude, dont fight her. get even. that way you won't be breaking any rules (not like that's important, people break rules all the time, especially me) or doing something you'll regret. hope i helped at least a little.
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I was with my girlfriend for 2 years when she got pregnant. It wasn't a planned pregnancy but we decided that we would deal with it. The first week that she brought that baby home things were good. We got a little apartment and I was working full time during the day and she would work a couple hours at night just until I could support us with only my job. Well one day I got home from work and she was gone. She left a note saying that she wasn't ready for a child and that she's leaving our daughter with me. It's been a week since then. I've been doing the best I can but I don't know the first thing about being a parent and I have no one to ask about it. I grew up in foster homes my whole life. I love my little girl to death but I just don't know what to do anymore. She doesn't stop crying. I've tried feeding her, changing her, rocking her, everything that I can think and she keeps crying. I brought her to the doctor and he said that there is nothing physically wrong wtih her. I don't know what to do. If anyone has idea of what could be causing this please let me know. I would also appreciate it if any one knows anything about taking care of a 3 week old baby. Please help me.
Jack (link)
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well jack it looks like your in a tough position. there isnt really a specific reason why your baby is crying. my cousin does that all the time. it must be difficult being a parent and i cant really say i know how you feel. because i dont. all i know is that you should really try playing with her or singing to her or reading to her. if she still keeps crying then it must be something wrong. babies arent supposed to cry all the time. you should really try checking on her health and trying to buy her some things that she'll need to keep her satisfied. i'm not saying spoil her, just give her everything she needs and try to be both mommy and daddy. im really sorry for the position your girlfriend put you in but you cant abandon your baby. you have to do whats best for her and even if the doctor says theres nothing wrong with her, get another doctor's opinion. and keep checking until she shows some signs that there's nothing physically or emotionally wrong with her. good luck to you and your baby and god bless you. hope i helped some
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a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
thanx (link)
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That does put you in a difficult position because you're a guy and you need to be there for her. And you need to show her all the support you can. Best friends don't tell secrets, so you should keep it to yourself until she's ready to come clean with her family. You must really be a good friend for asking advice on your friend that you care about so much.
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K today this guy i like , came up to me and hugged me. He held me for atleast 5 minutes. Then when we got of the buss after school, he kept huggin me, and he asked me if he could hold my hand , and i said yes. So he did, then he asked if he could kiss me , and i didnt know what to say. So i kept quiet. Then my friends walked me home from their house, and he followed us. My friends are saying he likes me, but I dont think he does. What should i do?!?!?!?! i rate high. Please help. oo and hes 15/m and im 14/f (link)
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Yeah girl, he likes you. If he wants to hold your hand and kiss you and hugs you all the time, he definitely likes you. If you like him, then show some signs.
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This boy admitted to liking me a while ago and I have recently told him I think we should just be friends. He wanted to go out with me during the summer. He doesn't listen and I think I need to run it by him again in different words...will this do?...."I need to talk to you, about this summer, I have to be honest, I don't think we should go out because I like you but not in that way and I don't think it will work out. You deserve someone who can return your affections for them. I just want to be fair with you. I'm sorry, but I want to be upfront." What do you think? and also, if u have anymore advice feel free to share the love. (link)
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you don't need to lead him on anymore, that's for sure. maybe you should tell him gently if he's a sensitive person. if he a pimp, honey, he ain't gon miss you. but this type of thing ain't all that complicated. it's just the right words you need to find. however you say them, just make sure it doesn't make you feel bad or break his heart. good luck and god bless
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i've liked this kid from a different town for like half a year but i didnt realize it until recently. he started acting really flirty and i started to like him more. and then i told him about a week ago. i havent really talked to him much since, he hasnt really been online. one of my friends says maybe his computer crashed or something, because he was really nice and wouldnt just avoid me but i dont know. any help? (link)
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guys tend to be scared during relationships. maybe he just liked being friends with you. you didn't scare him off i dont think. but i do think that you should find a way to straighten this out. but if he's really ignoring you this hard, you dont need him
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I like this guy ALOT!!! He is really sterling. We've hugged and held hands but, I don't know how much he likes me or if he likes me at all. We havent been going out for long. I've tryed calling him but, he's grounded. Female,13
Please may I have only guys ansering this guestion! Thanks! (link)
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he's gotta like you, cause if he didn't he wouldnt be your boyfriend. take it slow. starting off a relationship isn't easy. he'll come through, im sure.
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I want this guy to like me but I dont want him to know that I like him I kinda want to play hard to get I have gone out with him several times. So I wanna make him fall 4 me so bad what should I do?
~Urs truley~
Delila (link)
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that's easy. act like you don't care. not so much but some so he will notice that you're messing with his head. guys like that. then ignore him and be really short. the shorter they are the more they wanna talk to you. then act like your better than him. it may seem weird, but it breaks the ice. it might also help if you act like you're noticing him and see if he's noticing you and ignore him until he says something to you. hope i helped.
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I'm 16 and I have this friend I have known for like 5 years. She's like a sister to me and I love her to death. The bad thing is that I feel like I can't trust her. I went to my ring dance and I didn't want to go with my ex-b/f who still likes me and I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I didn't tell him. Well I told her and my other best friend not to tell him or mention anything about the ring dance to him. Well they didn't and everything was ok and all then he came up to me at karate class (we take karate together that's how we met.) and told me that my friend had told him I went to ring dance with someone else. I couldn't believe she told him then she was talking about me to this other guy that I didn't like but he liked me. I stopped talking to him cause he was bad news and all. I don't know what to do with her. Please help me.
~confused chica~ (link)
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Don't fight her talk to her. She might have a reason she told or maybe not. If she's a real friend she'll have a good excuse. But do you even know if she's really the one that told him. He could be making that up. But you should definitely check it out. Because after you lose a friend, it's hard to get them back.
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I have been involved with "Louie" for a while now and his family has been going through some really hard times. I have been there for him, and have even help his family to raise money for some of the problems they are having. Once everything settled down, everyone sort of turned on me. I have helped them financially, and emotionly. Now, they are accusing me of stealing money. I have never taken anything from them, and never would. When I was growing up, I was always taught to work for everything, nothing in life comes free. Before this situation "Louie" told me that he loved me and that he would never turn his back on me. I realize now, that he is listening to all the gossip that his family and friends are telling him. He hasn't even given me the chance to tell him how I feel. I live a few houses down from him, and it is very painful to pass by his house, knowing that he is home, and probably talking about me. My family says to just let him go and don't see him anymore, my heart is telling me to run over there and talk to him and straighten out this problem. I haven't seen him in about a week, so I guess I'm listening to my family. My question, should I go and see him and defend myself, or do I just forget him and let it all go? (link)
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Don't let it go. You should follow your heart. Go talk to him and maybe he will understand. Your parents are trying to keep your heart from breaking. And I don't know what's the deal with his folks. But if you really care about him then you should definitely talk to him. You might not get what you want out of it, but at least you know you said something.
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I've been thinking of becoming bulimic for awhile now... and I don't think there is nothing that can stop me, I just need to lost the weight because I feel so fat and left out all my friends are skinny and im fat and I hate it and it will stop when I become bulimic... im not going to stop (link)
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dont be bulumic because thats like committing suicide. try exercising. doing sit-ups. and not trying to be mean or nothing but why ask for advice if you made up your mind already? but please dont be bulumic.
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okay so im not like fat but i dont hae a flat stomache and i liek take my moms diet pills and take them every morning, i dont really think they do anything but who knows.. i just wanna like get a flat stomache i think i need to do sit up to this tape i have but idk i dont ever have time and i dont wanna like throw up all the food i eat i think thats gross but does it work faster than sit ups?? (link)
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Whatever you do don't take pills. I have the same problem. But it's simple. It has nothing to do with what you're eating really. It's just baby fat. That's not bad. The way to get rid of it is by doing a lot of crunches--not exactly sit-ups, but they're sort of like that. And doing push-ups and running laps helps a lot.
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I'm 17 and I have started going out with someone a few days ago. I have liked him for awhile and before we started going out he was messing around with another girl but promised me he had called it off with her. I want to believe and I'm trying to trust him, but this weekend I went camping and I tried calling him to say hi but he wasn't home so I called his best friend wondering what he was doing but he wasn't with him. He finally called me back and said he had been driving around but he wouldn't tell me with who. I'm scared that he was with the other girl. And also at school I show affection to my b/f's but not alot to smother them. He doesn't show any affection at all except when we quickly kiss before I leave for class. I know we just started dating but he shows all this affection for me when were alone but none if someones around. What do I do? please help me.
~confused chica~ (link)
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It sounds to me that he's kind of shy around other people. Some guys don't like other people to be all in they business when they with they girl, you know? I mean I'm sure he cares and wants to be with you. I don't know how your boyfriend is, but I'm guessing he's just like almost every other guy that has a girl. He just likes to be all mushy around you when you two are alone. I don't know--I don't think he's with the other girl, but I do think if it's bothering you that he's not showing enough love in public, you really need to talk to him. Hope I helped some.
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i have a boyfriend and he nevers calls or any thing with his old girlfriend he would call every day but when i call hes never home and we never hang out with his old girl friend thay would always hang out but his friends say he really likes me but then one only ONE of his friends say he doseint like me wut should i do dose he like me?:( (link)
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grl, you need to confront him and ask him whats up. tell him how you're feeling and you're not cool with him spending so much time with his ex and not you. ask him whats the deal
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My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do? (link)
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ooh, really talk to her. she can't do that. whatever the problem is it's not too late to fix it.
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my best friend well that is what she says that she is my best friend but she keeps hangin out with tiffany my other friend and she just leaves me out when she grabs tiffany away from me or like if a am standing by tiffany she get right in the middle of us. And she is not good sercet keeper wut should i do should i till be her friend even though she leaves me out of stuff and the only reason i and her friend still is because the school is a cathoic school and there are only like 13 kids in a class. what should i do (link)
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you should ask her why she's coming in between you and tiffany. and tell her what you're feeling about the whole situation. and ask her if she ever feels left out when you're with tiffany. i bet she does otherwise she wouldn't pull the two of you away so much. why can't all three of you be together? just ask her
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my friend is one of those people who is geneticly(frakishly)super skinney. no matter how much she eats or how lazy she gets she stays the same size. she is a great friend but sometimes she can be very inconsiderate of other people's feelings about their weight.she dosnt know how it feels to be fat or to feel fat. and she makes fun of people who look fat or chubby to her. this really makes me mad but being the quiet person i am i never say anything.im afraid if i confront her she will get upset with me because she dosnt understand.how do you think i should talk to her about it? (link)
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you should ask her how she feels about it. and if she gives you a smart remark, then come up with some super skinny jokes. i know it's mean, but it shows her that you can really hurt people's feelings. if you're not comfortable with the joke thing, then talk to her about it. if she doesn't listen, then she's not a good friend anyway. if you want to crack jokes, they have a lot of them on www.jokes.com. it works.
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I am 16 and in high school. I like this guy who is a year older than me. I really like him and for awhile he led me to believe he liked me too. My school ring dance is coming up and I asked him to go with me. He said that he had to probably work so I said ok. Monday night I went out with him and two other guys to Hooters. (lol)I rode with his best friend and I asked him what was up with him. He told me that Chris (changed his name)was just Chris and he didn't know what to tell me. I try not to bother Chris to much so it doesn't look like I'm desperate or anything, but I really like him. His friend told me that he's "talking" to another girl at his school (we go to different schools). I didn't know if I should believe him but the whole time we were at Hooters Chris acted like I wasn't there and completely ignored me. I am out of ideas on what to do. If he hasn't figured out I like him by now then I don't know what to do. Can anybody tell me what to do? I know most people are gonna say get over him but I really like him and I have tried to get over him...please tell me what to do. (link)
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i've been in the same position where i liked a guy and he ignored me. but it seems like your friend is afraid of commitment to you. and you have to talk to him about it. im sure he'll listen if you say the right thing.
hope i helped
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I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks (link)
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ask him why he's sellin you out like that. when you didnt do anything. and if he gets an attitude, theres no way hes still a friend
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Ok, there is this boy named David in 1/6 of my classes. He sits in the last seat in the row next to me. My friend sits right behind me and whenever I turn to talk to her, I catch David staring at me and we suddenly make eye contact. Out of that infomation ( I might add more ), do you think he likes me? (link)
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maybe you should talk to him and see if he flirts a little. if he does and smile a lot, then he definitely likes you.
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