I am 16 and in high school. I like this guy who is a year older than me. I really like him and for awhile he led me to believe he liked me too. My school ring dance is coming up and I asked him to go with me. He said that he had to probably work so I said ok. Monday night I went out with him and two other guys to Hooters. (lol)I rode with his best friend and I asked him what was up with him. He told me that Chris (changed his name)was just Chris and he didn't know what to tell me. I try not to bother Chris to much so it doesn't look like I'm desperate or anything, but I really like him. His friend told me that he's "talking" to another girl at his school (we go to different schools). I didn't know if I should believe him but the whole time we were at Hooters Chris acted like I wasn't there and completely ignored me. I am out of ideas on what to do. If he hasn't figured out I like him by now then I don't know what to do. Can anybody tell me what to do? I know most people are gonna say get over him but I really like him and I have tried to get over him...please tell me what to do.
babygrl101 answered Friday March 11 2005, 10:40 pm: i've been in the same position where i liked a guy and he ignored me. but it seems like your friend is afraid of commitment to you. and you have to talk to him about it. im sure he'll listen if you say the right thing.
ashLeycee14 answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:47 pm: Well i think you should just tell him how you feel, even though he might have an idea you like he'll probably like to hear it from you personally and not other people or his friends. hope i helped. xo-ashley [ ashLeycee14's advice column | Ask ashLeycee14 A Question ]
iNdEeD2isBaK answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:28 pm: well you may have run out of ideas but you could always have come up with this simple solution.....tell him you like him alot maybe then he'll understand!
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grape answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:21 pm: WELL I WAS IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS BEFORE.........but i just let it go and you know what?....he told me that he liked me and wanted to always go with me and all im saying is follow your heart girl give him a chance to make him want you....most likely drop a little hints in showing him that but if it doesn't work then he must obviously doesn't like you back but im rooting for you and hoping the best comes out for you ok so dont you ever give up at all"hope i helped:if you need any more help let me know by leaving it in my inboxx and rate please:GRAPE: [ grape's advice column | Ask grape A Question ]
needadvice? answered Friday March 11 2005, 9:18 pm: sounds like this is playing you....maybe not but idk think yourself who do you trust morehis friend or him.......if its his friend then it may be that the guy "chris" is just playing...but if you believe him then go for it see if you wants to go out before you ask him to the dance.............that what i would do!!! [ needadvice?'s advice column | Ask needadvice? A Question ]
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