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my mom is constantly telling me tha ti am fat... i never thought that i was before but now that my mom keeps saying it i am begininng to think that i am.. i dont want to loose weight becasue i am happy wiht the way i look but my mom doesnt get that. i am 5 foot 3 and 195 pounds but i knwo i dont look it because i do have alot of leg adn arm muscle. i dont knwo if i shoudl tell my mom to stop or jsut loose the weight to amek her happy even thought it wont matter to me... please help (link)
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Gurl if your happy the way you look than dont try to make anyone else happy not even your mom,.. ur mom should except you the way you are,. just sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel bout this,.. My mom once called me fata ss and it really hurt my feelings than i talked to her bout it and shes never gonna say ne thing like that again!! It sounds like ur not fat at all!! and your mom needs to understand that! ,..i hope it works out x0x rate me! =)
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hey katy .. theres this guy i rele like but idk what he'll say if i tell him how i feel soo all we do is talk like friends talk .. :-/ idk if i should tell him how i feel or not .. we're REALLY good friends and i don't want to hurt our relationship :-/ help me please!! (link)
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u gotta tell him how yah feel or he will never know!! gurl go for it i did it alotta times and we became better friends,. like u can tell him anything after that because its like a bIG weight lifed off your heart!!,. who knoes maybe he feels the same way bout you and u guys could hang out and evenually hook up!!
hope everything works!!
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My friend is bi and sez she loves me. I love her too but I don't think my mom would except our relationship cause she's being homophobic. But i'm afraid to tell her that we can't can't be together because she cuts herself. I'm afraid of what she might do... HELP ME I'LL RATE YOU IF YOU DO!!! PLEASE!!!! (link)
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Alright,. tell her that you cant be together because she cuts and hurts urself.. who knows she myte go crazy and cut you!! lol jk jk... Just put it to her nicly if shes your friend and loves you than she wont do anything to hurt you!,.. if she keeps cutting herslef get her help! thats what friends are for or just sit down and talk to her bout her problems.~
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hope i helped!! x0x good luck hun!
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hi katy .. i have a problem :-/ there is this kid i rele rele rele like but we've went out 4 times 5 times in the past month .. the longest was recently and it was 2 weeks but he broke up with me bcuz he liked some girl that would give him head and have sex with him :-/ i love him alot .. and he says he loves me .. what do i do??? (link)
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this kid doesnt know what love means ,.. fer real.. who dumps their gurl friend and than goes n sleeps around.. y0u can do way better hun!~ never believe a guy that says he loves you believe the guy taht shows you.. and who knoes u guys might go back out and he might want head and sex for you.. and gurl u got ur whole life to do that..~ find a guy that wont break ur heart.. if thats possible.. =/
hope thsi helps rate me pleaase
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man...u guys ... how do i tell my bf im mad at him?? its somethng from the past but still he hasnt apologized or even brought it up and im really surprised...i dont wanna juss randomly be like OH WHEN U GOT A NEW GF AND JUSS DROPPED ME THAT REALLY HURT ME...i juss dont kno how to say it *we werent tekinially bf/gf but we wer dateing and then he stoped callin n got a new gurl and juss left me hanging!!* hes really is a sweet guy n told his best friend he made a huge mistake blah blah but when is a good time to bring it up and wat exactly do i say???? (link)
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from experienced, i wouldnt talk about past girlfriends to your guy.. becuz it does cause some problems ,. but who knows,. just tell him taht it really did hurt your feelings!! .. like start out by sayin.. hey i really need to get this off my mind,.. and ask him questons like WHY he did that to you,. and make sure he isnt going to do the same thing to you again~ protect urself from getting hurt,.. I would do the same thing to him and see how he likes it,.. but thats just me =) lol* ...Just say you were thinking about the subject and u need to get it off your chest!!
i hope this helped~
let me kno how things went
Rate me please =))
thanks x0x
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dear advicenators,
i like this boy and he doesnt like me...i want to go out with him but i dotn know what to say....what should i say to him?
love,
sammie (link)
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well i sure in hell wouldnt ask him out! lol Gurl dont waste your time on some guy taht doesnt like yah!,. find a man who cares and loves you... Just tell him how you feel bout him and that u really wanna have a chance , but if he doesnt like him dont ruin a friendship!!
x0x good luck
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i just won tickets to go and see the "special sneak preview" of "I, robot"... are the tickets for a PREVIEW? or for the movie itself? please answer this soon soon soon! (i rate people) (link)
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Its a preveiw,. kinda like the movie itself,... like it shows bits and pieces of the new movie,. before anyone else gets to see or even hear of the movie,.. lucky bum* =) have fun!! rate me
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IM USUALLY NOT ALLOWED TO SPEND THE NITE AT PEOPLE'S HOUSE BUT I ALWAYS ASK NE WAYZ AND THREE NITES AGO I ASKED MY PARENTS AND THEY SAID YES SO I SPENDED TEH NITE AT MY FRIENDS HOSUE LETS SAY HER IS aNNA* I'VE KNOWN ANNA FOR 5 YEARS AND I'VE ONLY KNOWN MY NEW FRIEND FOR 1. SO SHE GOT REALLY MAD AT ME FOR NOT SPENDING THE NIGHT AT HER HOSUE AND YES TO ANNA'S HOUSE BUT I GUESS MY PARENTS HAVE TO KNOW THE OTHER PEOPLES PARENTS TO LET SPEND THE NITE.I WILL RATE A 5 TO ANYONE WHO ANSWER THIS QUESTION!!!! (link)
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yea that happened to me a while back,. talk to your parents and maybe all you guys can go out for lunch and your parents can get to know her parents better and maybe let you stay,. let your friend kno that it was your parents choice not yours and that maybe next time u can spend the night at her house =)
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I did not know what category to put this under...
Ok it seems that I'm always at least half way depressed. I just stay stressed out. School, friends, family...and mainly this guy. But also, little things happen. I spill my drinks all the time...cut myself shaving all the time...trip and fall...stuff like that. What are some things I can do to take my mind off this guy? B/c he's what makes me so stressed out. So what can I do just not to worry so much and to be in a better mood? And not let little things get to me? (link)
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What i do ,. to get my ex off my mind is hang out with my best of friends. It always works and i always feel so much better just to get a good laugh or do sumtin crazy.. go to the mall, movies, beach, or Just go out to eat,. Maybe u can tell this guy that he has been putting alot of stress on you? are u going out with hiM? if so, then maybe u need a break to focus on other important things,. try to be best friends with him instead so you can tell him everything. Get involve with sports. you shouldnt let little things get to y0u ,. just chill and be cool with it.~ i hope it works,.. rate me if u like teh advice =)
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I've had this one friend "Helen" since 5th grade. I just met "Sarah" this year, and we became really good friends. For some reason , Helen is being such a mean you-know-what to Sarah. She's called her a h** and said she did something with another kid, which is SOOOOOOO not true. Helen doesn't even know Sarah, and she's talking about her. What am I supposed to do?? I don't want to get caught in the middle of this argument. (link)
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Sounds to me that she is jealous because maybe your spending more time with sarah than her and she feels rejected so it brings her ate and anger,. spend some time with both of them so you guys wont get in arugments anymore,. hope i helped
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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me. (link)
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Gurl,. y0u need to be y0u,. maybe y0u can be even prettier than her,. Just be yourself- maybe change your style around or whatever. DOnt compare yourself to your sis,. than it will give her the idea that she is better than you,. which anit tru,. maybe she has a flirty attiude with boys ,.. n thats why they like her soo much.. =) good luck!! ratE me.!
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I'm a 15 yr old gurl and i'm in love with the show Lizzie McGuire. Its a disney show... made for like little kids. Am I totally retarded for liking this show? I dont know why I like it SO much but i realllllly do! I watch it everyday... twice a day! and I have a tape of all the recorded episodes which I watch a lot too. And of course the Lizzie McGuire movie too!!!!! I just cant get enough. I even cut my hair like hers (of course it looks better on her but whatev) please help i dont know what to do
Signed,
Confused Gurl (link)
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haha i like lizzie too, her shows are pretty cool,. and y0ur not weird for watching her,. SheS a pretty good role model to look up t0o =) and her hair is cool,.but yea u myte grow out of her shows once u seen everyone and they are all re-runs.. so its cool~ x0
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I just moved into my new house and I want my room to be really cute! Do you have any ideas on decorating it? ThAnKs! (link)
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0h my friend Is just moving into her new house too and she is going to do a beach theme,. which sounds really cute.. like shes going to put beach pictures around her room with sea shells. and bed sheets are even going to be beachy,.. i think she painting sand and water on her walls with palm trees! i think its gonna be so cute
also we were shopping and we went into victoria serect and thur walla were BIg pink Polka dots.. soo kute! =) lol
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My Mom doesn't like when i watch like MTV cuz she sez there is always junk on. like and she wants me to lead such a sheltered life. Like she thinks i don't know anything about like sex and drugs and stuff. i'm 12 wut should i do? (link)
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omg,. i watch mtv all the time,.. And theres nothing about sex n drugs... well cept for the condom commercials,. lol* Tell your mom thats your growing up and your tried of other boring shows, maybe she will understand? .. I had this friend that her parents did the same thing.. well actually blocked mtv,. thats so stupid* She probably thinks that u will get ideas or sumtin,. who lives without music?!
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My mom always has me wearing what she thinks is cute. I told her I want to change to like a punk style but she wont let me. I want to be comfortable in what I wear but I cant get her to except my style!!! How should I explain this to her again??? (link)
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I think your mom should respect what you want to wear,. I mean shes still in that baby stage where she picks out what you want to wear . lol. maybe she thinks the wrong idea when you say "punk". She tell her that your not going to turn into one of those gothic freaks,. Or i would just go out with my friends to a mall,. and buy my own cholthes and than she cant do anything about it,. lol =)
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ok well my grandpops has cancer and he has like 1 yr to live. well hes all into church and that stuff and he always asks me to go with him. well i havnt gone to church since i was like 10 and the only reason i went is bc i liked this guy. well idk how to tell him i dont want to go. cuz im just not a church person like i believe in *A* god but the whole worshiping thing is totally off the wall for me??? wut can i do
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I'm really sorry to hear that.. I dont like church either.. Its so boring and no one goes to my church but after my Grandpa died i started to go. I think you should go with him at least once,. he only has a year. n i think he would do that for you, spend as much time with him as you can i think it would make him happy. And you dont have to worship in church,. you can just stand there,. =) lol! Try to have fun and meet new friends,. I mean sunday school is a lil better than church - h0pe it works =o
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ok well im very upset at my father for sumthing that he does. so my boyfriend is a really big guy and i dont mind at all and my dad likes him and all but my dad always calls him shrek when my bf is not around. i always get mad at my dad for sayin that bc i like my bf alot and he cant help if hes a big guy. i mean my dad isnt that skinny either so i dont think he should be sayin nething. but its like everywhere we go my dad finds sumthing shrek and says "hey we should get this for shrek" and it really hurts me. how can i make my dad stop before he slips up and says sumthing in front of my bf? (link)
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Maybe you should sit down and talk to your dad,. Say that your being seroius and it really hurts your feelings,. and it would probably hurt your boyfriend if he ever found out. Thats a surprise that hes your dad making fun of your big guy! hope it works
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I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
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Brother Hater (link)
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Omg the same Thing Happened to me,.. Like When My Brother Answered the phone n it was my friend,. he would go Hey LInds its your Lesbian,. *kissy kissy* ,. oh god and when he dropped me off at skewl,. he and his friends would scream out the window,. Dont kiss any boys in the bathroom,. OMg? like I ever did that.. He was Just trying to impress HIs gUys. But yea I think that hes Just trying to make you mad,. u sound like a busy person babysittin and stuff while everyone else goes n has fun.. I think u should tell your parents that he should baby sit a day so you can go out with your friends or sumtin. Hes just immature,. try to change your password on AOL.,or sont save it so he cant get on. n Sometimes theres a lock on cell phones - Just give it time and maybe he will growww upp!!
haha Good Luck with y0uR boyFriend*
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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awll,. I kno How tHat FeelS* n it sucks,. =/ well the first thing i would do is talk to my friend,. and see if She likes him,.If she dont than its all good,. n try to get this guy to like you again. Sounds to me that he is a big flirt and likes to play around. Maybe you should move on,. i mean its not the end of the world and i bet you could find a guy who likes u and only you! h0pe i helped =)
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Ok guys, here's ,y question! I'm turning 18 soon so I can legally pierce anything I want. When I was 16 I got my belly button pierced on the top. For some reason something went wrong and i got very infected and I had to go to the docotrs n take it out. Now I have a scar there. When I squeeze the scar tissue it hurts. And my doctor said yesterday that it would be difficult to repierce through it. Anyways I guess my question is do u think it would look dumb or hurt if i got it pierced from the bottom??? I heard people say it hurts more but maybe thats just a rumor? Thank You guys so much for your help!!! (link)
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well how do ya kno that its not going to get infected too? Thats up to you if you wanna take chances ,. but i wouldnt do anything that hurt just to impress my friends or whatever..u can even get something else pierced beside your belly ,. like your eye brow or a lil dimond in y0ur nose?? well whatever y0u do G0od luck!
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