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grandpops
ok well my grandpops has cancer and he has like 1 yr to live. well hes all into church and that stuff and he always asks me to go with him. well i havnt gone to church since i was like 10 and the only reason i went is bc i liked this guy. well idk how to tell him i dont want to go. cuz im just not a church person like i believe in *A* god but the whole worshiping thing is totally off the wall for me??? wut can i do
-non religious girl
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I'm really sorry to hear that.. I dont like church either.. Its so boring and no one goes to my church but after my Grandpa died i started to go. I think you should go with him at least once,. he only has a year. n i think he would do that for you, spend as much time with him as you can i think it would make him happy. And you dont have to worship in church,. you can just stand there,. =) lol! Try to have fun and meet new friends,. I mean sunday school is a lil better than church - h0pe it works =o
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If you're so against going to church, don't. Stick to your guns. Church shouldn't be the only place your Grandpa wants to see you. Just tell him you wouldn't feel comfortable and would rather the two or you have dinner together, or go boating. Hopefully he understand. Let me know how things go! Take care!
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He is not going to live much longer. You should just go.
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just go at least once youyll want to spend the time with him even if your no a church person he's asking you to spend the only time he has left with him so just go please
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You should go with him.Spend as much time with him as possible.So you will have memories of him.If he has a year to live, make it the happiest year of his life.My grandfather died of diabetes when I was little and I have almost no memories of him to remember him by.
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Just go. You know for a fact that your grandpa isn't going to be with you much longer, so just quit whining and go. I don't think that going to church for an hour a week is that much to ask if it means making your grandpa happy.
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Go with him! Think about how happy it will make him. Plus it will make yall closer!
Im sorry he has cancer. He'll probally will live longer that a year! Doctors never know and there sometimes wrong about those things!
--Julie
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Well, just say "grandpop.." im not really the church kinda person..and if i was..i would totally go with you..but im not i dont mean to hurt your feelings or anything..but anywayz..lets try to find a way we can both have a good time before you pass away
-Advice giver-brittany s/n liL x3 bRit..IM me if you need anymore advice right away.!
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You really should go. It wont hurt you to go with him for ONE year. You need to make him happy now. I can guarntee that you will regret it later if you dont. I learned the hard way.... Just do the right thing okay? Make his last year a good one...
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Thats how I was too. I didn't want to go to church, but once I found out my grandma had 6 months to a year to live... I started going. Trust me, I've lost both of my grandmas. So, just please go with him to church and just be there for your Grandpa, thats all you really can do. And even though you're not into church all that much, your Grandpa would really like it. And at night pray for him maybe he'll live. I've been praying for my mom everynight because about a month ago she had a Brain Tumor. And God always listens to you! Although you don't like going to church, just go and try to have fun and just spend as much time with your Grandpa as you can!!!
xoxo Kourtney
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Maybe just go with him once... It wouldn't kill you to go... But if you REALLY don't want to, just tell him you don't want to because you aren't really in to it...
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suck it up and go with him anyway... you're going to be there for your grandfather, not to participate in a religious activity that you don't necessarially agree with... you are there to support your grandfather. You're doing it for him, not for yourself.
Do the right thing.
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