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ok well im very upset at my father for sumthing that he does. so my boyfriend is a really big guy and i dont mind at all and my dad likes him and all but my dad always calls him shrek when my bf is not around. i always get mad at my dad for sayin that bc i like my bf alot and he cant help if hes a big guy. i mean my dad isnt that skinny either so i dont think he should be sayin nething. but its like everywhere we go my dad finds sumthing shrek and says "hey we should get this for shrek" and it really hurts me. how can i make my dad stop before he slips up and says sumthing in front of my bf?
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ok, you talk to dad and explain to him that he's really hurting your feelings and that you don't like him being rude about your bf behind his back *or in front of his back come to think of it-lol :p* he's your dad, and he loves you, he'll understand. <333
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Maybe you should sit down and talk to your dad,. Say that your being seroius and it really hurts your feelings,. and it would probably hurt your boyfriend if he ever found out. Thats a surprise that hes your dad making fun of your big guy! hope it works
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Tell him that your boyfriends is important to you and that when he says that, it wouldn't only hurt your feelings too. If your bf is important to you and you are important to your dad, i'm sure he'll understand. Good luck
Lizzy
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you have a right to be mad at what your dad is saying. maybe you should tell him how upset it gets you, and how pissed your bf would be if he knew your dad was making fun of him. its incredibly childish to make fun of people who look different than you, and if your dad is too immature to see that, i say give him the cold shoulder and refuse to speak to him until he is on your level of maturity. peace out
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look him in straight in the eye and tell him NO NO NO NO NO NO NO! explain to him how you totally hate it wen he does thah because its like talkin bad about your bf wen hes not around only not... tell him its not cool and you dont like it wen he does thah to YOUR bf...let him understand...if not then ask your mom fer help...im soore she can talk him out of it...ya noe?
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The next time he says it just politely say to your father that you would appreciate it if he would stop calling your bf that and that it hurts your feelings when he does that.
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Tell him it hurts you when he says it, ask him if he can stop
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Tell him nobody deserves to be called names and im pretty sure your bf is not AS BIG AS SHREK ( that is really mean ) so dont feel bad when your dad says he is as big as shrek because i mean nobody deserves to be called names and stuff so i would try to tell your dad that you really like your boyfriend and you dont want to lose him for soemthing you didnt do ( he did )
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Listen, Tell your dad you want him to respect your boy friend, and that you really like him and you don't want him making fun of him because he is big. Even tell him "People don't go around calling you Shrek" Tell him to treat your boy friend the way you would want to be treated and if he says he wouldn't mind then call him somthing for awhile(if hes no so stricked) Give him a taste of his own medicine...
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