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Age: 15
Member Since: January 8, 2006
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Is giving head considered Anal Sex? (link)
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givng head is oral sex anal sex is having sex from the front and back anal sex requires the penis to go in the girls private part
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wellllllllll..... i moved here last year, and everybody hated me, they didnt want a new kid, the girl who is now my best friend was the only one who gave me a chance, but the problem is, she is really popular and her friends hate me, and she has had to choose who to stay whith when she is with me because they just bug her about it, i feel reallly bad, What do i do (link)
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well stick by her because if she wasnt going to be your friend she wouldnt have talked to you in the first place. she must not care that her friends dont like you. and if they dont except you who cares. as long as she likes you it doesnt matter. and if you feel like she may stop being your friend because of her other friends then try doing some of the things they like to do. but your best friend likes you because you are differnt have some thing to offer that they dont have and is a great person all around.and she stops being your friend because of them then she wasnt really your friend and ask her to stand up to them and tell them to leave you alone you are the same as them and should be treated equal. good luck
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Ive been going out with my boyfriend Jon for about 7 months i met him last year when i started at a new highschool weve always had a relationship that we get into little arguments about nothing but they never last very long.now were going out and we still get into little arguments alot id say like every day 2 or 3 times.Its kind of like the arguments that the couple had in the notebook theyd be yelling at each other but theyd still kiss and say i love you,lately weve been talking about the way we act and why we let each other get to each other so bad.I know we both care about each other alot everyone tells me how much he cares about me that theyve never seen him so happy with any other girl..but these fights why do you think they happen?is it a bad thing?if it is how can we just stop arguing? (link)
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These fight are normal your relationship os never going to be no arguements because that would mean that you are exactly the same which means the relationship is boring. the reason you argue are because of stress or differences. it is normal for you to have fights because your not going to agree on everything. you need to understand that you wont always agree on everything, when you are fighting over him looking at another girl just remeber he adpres you. dont fight over jealous things because your relationship will be over. instead of argueing you should talk out the problem instead of yelling. you should be open to what he as to say and vice versa you should not be madd at the stuff that he thinks are funny and not all that serious both of you need to come to a mutual agreement and be able to understand each other.you shouldnt dwell on the beadd stuff that he does to you or the stupid things that he may do.and if continue to argue then you may not be cut out for each other because yeah your going to have arguments but yeah you should be happy. but if jon makes you happy then try avoiding arguements stuff that he likes do it unless it nasty or offensive to someone. but who ever you are with be happy and good luck
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14/f
My big winterball is coming up. I have:
- my dress bought ( its a like a mini prom dres[its puffy at the bottom, but only goes to like a few inches below my knees] and its coral [like an orangy color])
- limo rented
- hair appointment set up
- make up appointment set up
- manicure/pedicure appointment set up
what I need is:
- shoes
- a hair style.
could someone help me pick out wicked cute shoes from off the internet. and/or send me pictures of cute hair styles?
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Hey i have just the answer your looking for and the perfect website to find shoes the website is called zappos.com it has the color shoes your shoe size and the kind from casual to dress from slingbacks to pumps it every womens dream maybe men just click on search and put in your information that you want for your shoes and you should get instant results they have brand names like carlos santana they have much much more and women even rate the shoes so they can tell you how wonderful they are or not. but here the best part you get them the next day after you order them and no shipping and handling it FREE! know your hair find something that you but sexy fun but sexy and goes what your outfit and sexy where something different but will go with your poersonality look in books to find hair stles or go get your hair done and if i find some ill send them to you ok just give me your email and put in in my imbox or send to my email then ill send it to you!have fun at your dance and hope this websites works out for you
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should you blow dry your hair before you straighten it er let it dry naturally??
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If you want your hair to come out the best possible way that it can then blowdry then straighten because if it dries naturally then you risk the chance of your hair getting all tangled up it will take longer for your whole head to dry and your hair can also dry up because you cant put grease in while its wet but if you blow dry your hair you can oil your scalp make it all silky smooth and shiny then striagnten your hair and style take half the time and comes out much better, and just by blowing your hair dry it is half way straighten you just need to but the flat iron or hot comb which ever one you have on your hair so tnat it may last curl it put your hair rollers on and have a good great look for your hair
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well..i guess i should start from the begining to give a good backround for ya'll to work on. well it all started back in 7th grade when this boy started bugging me. he was a new student so i tried to be nice but he was kind of annyoing and he would keep bothering me about stupid things so i ignored him most of the time. so in 8th grade, me and him actually became really close after a dance that we had at school. a lot of people thought we were actualy going out, we were that close. anyways 9th grade comes around and at we were still pretty close but not as much as we were before. now it's 10th grade and i don't really talk to him at all. now i don't know if ya'll get this but i really really like him more than just a friend and i have since 8th grade. me and him have the same lunch EVERY DAY but he sits at a different table and its weird because everytime i look over at him, he's always starring back at me with his gorgeous smile. i probably haven't talked to him in a few months. but i really want to change that. and every single day..i tell myself that i'm gonna go up to him at lunch and just sit down with him and just be there with him but i get wicked nervous and i chicken out. the same with calling him too. i just chicken out. does anyone have any advice for me on how to get my best friend back?? thank you soo much
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well since you already know him then it should be easy walk over and and talk to him hows your day stuff like that since you know him so well you should know what he likes so talk about. write a note to him expressing how you feel tell him some of the things you wrote about what made you like him why you like him. get is number if you dont already have it and call him thst way you can have a one-on-one conversation. get him alone so that you can talk to him and just let him know and if you dont tell him you can lose him so tell him i like you maybe he feels the same way he might have liked you since the 7th grade but you never gave him the time of day. he may like you know if he is stirring at you but may be shy to ask you to go out with him. he may not feel that he can ask you because you are very close. and because you are striking a good useful loving conversation should be very easy.good luck
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ok im really shy around my boyfriends, and i dont know why..but im sick of it.its like i wont do anything not even be close to him. i'll be like on the other side of the room and if i do get close to him i get real nervous and crap...does anyone know how could become un shy around him and not be as nervous? thanks! (link)
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Boys are sometimes difficult to talk to talk to and be really stress you out. But talking to boys is easy and you have to have effective good communication otherwise ot wont work. So how do you talk to you boo? well you have to one thing in common so what is it sports what. and if you cant think of any why not try walking over and giveing him a hug maybe a kiss on the cheek. try getting to know is interest by listening to one of his conversations. give him your phone number let him call or you call you guys can sit on the phone and listen to each other breath or say hey what are you doing and hell tall you Bam conversation and the pther way around just ask little simple questions and if your not ready for that write notes and get someone or you give it to him and you guys reply back and fourth until you finally comne up face to face. But start talking to him soon cause you can or you may lose him. be sweet think about why you go with him flirt harmlessly and there is alays the passing of notes. good luck, hope this helps
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I'm turning 14 and for my birthday I'm having a dance. I've been going out with guy for a while now but we don't go to the same school so we haven't had any dances together. What are some good love songs that would be good for a first dance. I need as many as you can give me. This would mean a lot to me. This dance is really important. Thank you so much! I'LL RATE YOU!!!♥ (link)
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you have many songs old and new fast and slow:
girl tonight:twista and trey songz
my boo: usher and alica keyes
laffytaffy: d4l fast up beat
check up on it: beyonce
dangerously in love:beyonce
i in a million: alliyah
we belong together: mariah carey(PLAY THIS)
pretty ricky as well
ginuwine
like you : bow wow ft ciara (highly recommed fast beat )
there are many songs lot are fast beat you can slow dance to some but then you can dance on him to some know i know you want to slow dance but there are not any slow songs that are not newBUT mariah carey we belong together this is basicly going to tell you why you guys belong together why you cant live without each other! also buy the love songs cd they they advertise on t.v all the time good old classic song.good luck
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I put this in spirituality even though it doesn't really fit...
When I was a young teen I was very active in my church and school. I was in the choir, I helped to organize the children's liturgy, and I took part in the discussions and events that our Catechist organized all the time.
When I was seventeen I feel in love with another girl. For a few months we kept our relationship secret, but eventually it had to come out and my church pretty much ostracized me and told me in no uncertain terms that my help was no longer needed. My relationship with that girl lasted for two years and we are still very close friends. What happened with my church makes me very sad, but I don't regret my choices. I am a bi-sexual woman and I'm not ashamed of it.
The problem is now I am dating a guy and have been for a while. Old friends from the church are suddenly talking to me and being all nice and welcoming again. It's breaking my heart because I know if this relationship ends and I meet a woman I want to date I'll be kicked out again just as quickly. They keep inviting me out to dinner or to mass, (I have kept going over the years but I'm basically ignored by everyone.) Part of me wants desperately to be accepted and loved by these people again, the other part of me is just furious with the way they treated me and the pressure they are putting on me now to conform. Should I just accept this while it lasts or should I maybe say something to these people? (link)
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if they really loved you it would matter what you are black white bi-sexual or striaght. if they are only going to talk to you because you are dating a man why be bothered with them. u dont come to church to make friends yeah you come to have fellowship but when you walk into the house of the lord you shouldnt feel like your being judge the church is a place for you to be loved and welcome and your heart be full of praise to the lord or god. and if they cant look past you being bi-sexual they are not listening to the word and are not getting to know the real you and who you are inside. what you do in church and personal is none of there buisness as long as you are praising him hell bless you and you dont have to worry the lord will take care of them they just hating. and if they continue then then thats not a place of god and thats not where you need to be find a new church that can accept you that you feel is allowing you to grow and easy to fellowship and you love and if you decide that you want to stay there then you just praise him and dont worry about them and just worry about you cause he will bless you at the end. good luck god bless you
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My sister-in-law is getting married and moving away at the end of the month. I've only known her for a year now, and we've just started to bond. I'm really upset and depressed that she's moving and I want to do something for her. The problem is, I don't have a lot of money, or any idea what I should do or what I should get her.
Does anyone have any ideas of something special we could do together before she leaves, or something I could give to her? I really want whatever I do to make an impression, and I'm going to miss her a lot.
I'll leave more information if anyone needs it. (link)
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Getting close to someone and them having to m ove away is always hard but there are ways you caan make that person and you all feel happy wanted and loved. why not throw her a going away party! invite family and friends that she might be leaving behind as away of saying we love you and are going to miss you. or why not take her out to dinner and you say you dont have alot of money what about o'charelys applebees cheesecake factory have a day one one you can go shopping to the movies and out to eat. and if you want her to remeber while shes gone buy her something that she likes but will make her think of you whenever she wears or sees ot shell say my sister-in-law gave me this!then plan out visit where you can come visit her and she can come down and visit you.also exchange phone numbers you can call each other daily or weekly to check up on one another to see how ones doing. and a card and a simple i love you hug and a kiss can go as far as the party the shopping movies dinner maybe even more. Hope you find some of my ideas useful and will help you keep in touch with her i know its hard but you will get through it!good luck
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I've never had vaginal intercourse, but about 6 years ago I fooled around with my first and only bf. I performed oral sex on him and also let him perform anal on me without using a condom.
I tell everyone that I'm still a virgin and saving myslef for my husband. No one knows about what I did with my ex bf.
Should I get tested for any STD's? Just to be on the safe side? I know it was 6 years ago. Also, what are the chances that I could have caught something? (link)
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yes. some people have sex with other people amd dont realize that they have an std. some people aslo go ten or more years and die suddendly because they didnt get tested. also just because you didnt use a condom and it was your first time doesnt mean that you shouldnt get tested because he could have been with other girls wether he told you or not he could have had sex with many gurls and he not may not have told you why cause he wanted to have sex with you. and just because you use a condom doesnt mean that you cant get an std because you can a condom doesnt protect you from getting and std it protects you from getting pregnent. if i where you i would get and test because you never know what can happen you should get tested every two years or so just to be on the safe side. and also the next peron you have sex with use protection and make sure they take the test to see if they have any stds. because they may say there a virgin but they may not they may be but when you are born of your parent has aids or an std you can have ot to.so know who your with and good luck
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I really want a boyfriend now i am 13 but it seems that the guy i like doesnt even now i exsict but he knows that i like him (link)
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well if he knows that you like him then he knows that you exsist. also he may like you but be shy. try talking to him maybe. also why dont you dress up look extra sexy and maybe that will get his attention. and if it doesnt dont worry about cause he is not worth your time. find someone that likes you that is cute funny sexy smart senstive. whay do you like him? because if its just for looks then the relationship maynot go anywhere cause you have nothing in common.But hopefully youll get him flirt a little maybe attract his attention be edgy be nice be sweet. but remeber boys will come and boys will go. but do something sexy crunck sweet cool that will make him say wow shes pretty and beautiful dont me clumsy. be you but sexy fun loving you. good luck
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for probably about a year now my dad has been screaming at my brother and i for the stupidest reasons and at this point im pretty sure that he is verbally abusing us (not physically or sexualy) like on friday i was going to my friends party and i told him to get ready in 10 minutes....7 minutes later i gave him a three minute warning and then when 10 minutes came up and i wanted to leave, he started screaming at me that i didn't tell him that we were leaving in there minutes i mean i was crying to death and he was about to take me to this party, but saying no you didnt tell me your a liar!!! but screamed it and he started making this whole drag about it and i started to cry my mom was right there on my side, she was mad at him for actually going through all this crap. So then i waited by the car and at this point i didn't want to go but my mom offerend to take me there, while my dad came outside and my mom was getting her phone he apporached me like he was going to hit me or strangle me i started hyperventalating and crying but he didn't he then went around and went to his car and left. A couple of hours later he came home before i did from the party that my mom took me. But a second time if he makes a statement to my brother, my dad would scream why didn't you answer me!!! answer me now!! and it wasn't a question or anything, and when he screamed it i was in shock for about three hours cause i was just really scared i talked about it with my friend shes like talk to him, but i did and he just argues with me. So on monday i want to talk to the school psycologist but i think there going to make a huge deal about it. but do you think based on what i've told you hes being verbally abusive.
note- he does this at least twice a week
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well i wouldnt call it verbal abuse unless he is threating but he is hurting u and and making you cry so yes it is a form of verbal abuse. Your dad loves you but he may just have anger problems maybe he thinks yelling is the only way to get through to you that may be the only way he can get his thoughts and his feelings out,Tell your dad hpw you feel tell him you are scared to talk to him and to tell him whats going on with you because of what he might say and that youre scared because oneday it might turn form verbal abuse to physical abuse. let him know that you love him with all your heart but you want him to talk to you rationaly and calm instead of loud because it frightens you and your brother. tell him that you want to have a wonderful relationship with him but that you cant if he wont stop yelling at you. and you should try to do what he asks you to do instead of giving him the time limit and expecting him to follow thru. you should give him the time limit then ask him calmly after the limit may be is done. be respectful and dont argue back because that is making the situation worse. ALso show him that you truely love him and will do anything to make him proud and make him happy. his is your father and you should confront him and make your relationship better so that all of you can be happy and get along. and if that doesnt work maybe try conseling just you and your dad so that your relationship can get better but both of you have to be willing to try. Good luck to you
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Ugh, my huge winter dance is in a few weeks (about 3) and I asked this kid i dont know too well but i mean i talk to him everyday jus sayin Hi or somethin. well, I asked him at 10:57 and then he didnt answer. then at 11:23 i asked if he was there nd he didnt answer (this is all online) then an hour later i saw he went away and then came back. so i IMed him nd asked if he saw what i said. here was the convo when he came back
him: yeah but im leavin soon im readin some stuff on a few sites then goin upstairs what ya need ?
me: did you see what i asked you earlier?
him: yes
me: and .. lol
him: .... ill get bac to u
he's probably goin to make me wait a really long time and i really need to find a date fast because tickets go on sale until wednesday. then they are unavaliable. i dont want him to keep me waiting to the point that i wont find a date. what do i do? do i tell him i dont want to go with him any more( thats weird). do i wait it out? what do i do?!?
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Gurl you are to beautiful to wait on any guy and you say you dont know him very well. Find someone that you know and you really like an are comfortable with dont miss out because he wants to play games. but if he tells you tommorrow then yes go with him otherwise dont let him mess up a day that sopposed to be happy and joyus. and if you dont go with anyone just remeber you dont need a man to make you feel good you should be able to stand on your own to feet and have a good time with yourself and maybe find someone at the dance. Just make sure when you go to the dance you be happy with date or without you have fun!!!!!!!!good luck
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im 14/f and i want to get a job but i dont know any. i tried looking it up on the internet but i didnt get anything ill rate 5! and leave good comments! thanks so much! (link)
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Hey why not volunteer or babysit do some work ion your community or babysit a cousin or a neighbor if you are responsible and adults trust you you can get a job around your neighbor hood like dog walking. and if you dont find one then ask for an allowane by doing chores that you may not do everyday. but good luck there a jobs everywhere and even if you cant do any of this just enjoy not having one cause one day your going to get a job that you may hate hang out with your friends you only get to be a kid/teen oncebecause once it gone it gone. good luck
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I have a friend that lives in my appartment complex. She's always phoning me and asks if she can borrow one of my DVD's. I always say yes because I own lots and she's pretty good about returning.
Well I just got two movies from my dad, Willy Wonka and The Fog. She asked me already if she could borrow them and I told as soon as I finished watching them.
She just phoned me about a half hour ago and asked if she could borrow one of my movies. I told her sure. When she came over I told her she could watch anything except for those two movies that I hadnt watched yet. Then she got mad and said" well then I guess I won't be borrowing anything because those are the ones I wanted to watch". Then she left!!
I felt angry, like she's just using me to watch my movies. If she was a true friend wouldnt she have at least stayed for a visit to chat?
Am I overreacting or was that down right rude? (link)
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That was down right rude she is a fake friend. Because if she was a true friend she would waited for you to finish with the movies. BUt if you like her that much you should try watching them with her like friend should be friendly. Or just stop talking to her chances are shes going to find someone else or call you up tommorow and ask you the same question besides you dont want a friend who is going to use you for the things youn got because a true friend is going to stick by you no matter what. wether you have or dont have. and she is just using you for what you have. and you want a friend who is going to stick by you through thick or thin. best of luck. but if this continues dont allow her to be your friend. because you could just end up getting hurt because as soon as you stop or were to stop getting dvds shell stop being your friend and if you let her continue shell ask for more and more and then shell continue to get madder and madder when you dont give her what she wants. Also who knows she could be talking about you and just pretending. my advice is to set some bounderies (limits) and if she does go along cut her loose just keep the peace with a friendly hi and bye. good luck
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Ive known this kid for a while lets call him joe. Me and joe have been on and off friends for 3 years now. He really means a lot to me. But he doesnt really know. Were in highschool now and he has a lot more friends now that dont like me so he doesnt like to talk to me when theyre around. My friend just recently told him i liked him like more than a friend. So now he knows and its weird when we talk now. Last summer he sent me pictures of his dick so he said i owed him so about a week ago he made me send him pictures too. He really liked them but hes still not going along with the whole more than friends thing. We almost hooked up a few times but someone else always comes in the way. I really like joe and ive tried getting over him but i cant forget about him. And its christmas break and he told me that we would hang out but he never did ask me. I asked him a few times but he always said he couldnt for some reson. I dont know what to do. I cant forget about him, i think about him all day. Help please? sorry its so long. (link)
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Gurl forget him i know its hard ive been there but trust me even if you do go with him hes not gooing to do good by you all he wants is sex showing you pictures and you showing him pictures what do you think thats abput sex. there are a lot of better boys out here take advantage of them not some boy who asks fake and doesnt want anything to do with you when your in piblic how do u think hes going to act if you go together. But worse hes going to want to keep the relationship quiet and you want a boy who is not ashamed of you not ashamed tp tell the world what he thinks of you. Not someone who wants to hide from you and act like you dont exist. There might even be a boy who likes you at school but your to wrapped up in Joe. Personaly i dont even think you should consider him a friend because a friend will stivk by you no matter what! you should consider him as an associate and get on with you life stop waiting for him and find someone who likes you right now for you.
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well. im 15/f and i like this guy that i KNOW likes me back.. i see him about every week or so.. we flirt and all.. but hes not doing anything about it.. all of my friends say that he told them that he 'adores me' and all.. but hes really not taking anything to the next step.. is there something i can do to show/tell him that i want him to go further? tell me if im doing anything wrong.. or if i should be doing something..
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Well in this case i think that you should take the next step just because you know he likes you doesnt mean that he knows how you feel about him. He may be shy. So u should tell him how you feel he'll like you even more especially if he already adores you hell love you now. Boys like a women who takes charge.But express how you feel otherwise the relationship might just end up being just one big flirt instead of living it out to its full potiential. So open up and tell him the deal you like him want to go with him dont miss out cause some other girl might come along and snatch him and then you will never get to know how sweet and good it feels to be his lady. Best of luck to u
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Alright so a few nights ago I got really, really drunk. Like, I can't even remember anything besides taking the shots.
But the thing is
I got drunk and this guy fingered me+I gave him head. I'm a virgin so really the only thing that's 'been in me' was his finger...
and I'm pretty sore
But the thingis...
I don't know If he actually put his dick inside of me. He might've, but he doesn't remember either.
I got my period the next morning, so I'm wondering if there's any possibility at all that I may be pregnant.
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Gurl you are fine you wouldnt have gotton your period if you were pregnent but to be on the safe side take the test but the badd part is that you are not a virgin anymore as soon as that finger went up you lost yours but u didnt get dick so technically you you are not a virgin but you can call yourself one still but go easy on the acholol this was a lesson dont drink more thsn what you can handle before you get drunk and be safe best of luck to you. just remeber if you were pregent you would have had a missed period.
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When a boy says "he likes you" then you dont tlk and you send him a card saying I dont like you I just want to be really good friends. Then after you tlk to him for awhile and you start to fell that you really do like him. How do iI tell him now that I like him? Rate 5's on good answeres (link)
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WELL first dont come of like im just playin with your heart and your emotions dont make him feel like hes a boy toy let him know why you like him is the way he laughs is he funny? is he sweet kind and sensitive? does he care for you! right him another note tellin him why you like him and why you want to be with him and maybe even apologize for turning him down before you really got to know the true boy inside. And if he accepts your apology and you be honest with him and sure he will love to go with you but if he doesnt remeber boys come and go and you are beautiful and will find your one true love but all the best of look to you and remeber be honest and tell him how you really feel because chances are he still likes you and wants to go with you. But u told him you wanted to be friend now just tell him that you want to give him a try because there something about him that makes you jump makes your heart skip makes you feel wanted.!!!!!
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