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stupid arguments..is this normal?
Ive been going out with my boyfriend Jon for about 7 months i met him last year when i started at a new highschool weve always had a relationship that we get into little arguments about nothing but they never last very long.now were going out and we still get into little arguments alot id say like every day 2 or 3 times.Its kind of like the arguments that the couple had in the notebook theyd be yelling at each other but theyd still kiss and say i love you,lately weve been talking about the way we act and why we let each other get to each other so bad.I know we both care about each other alot everyone tells me how much he cares about me that theyve never seen him so happy with any other girl..but these fights why do you think they happen?is it a bad thing?if it is how can we just stop arguing?
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These fight are normal your relationship os never going to be no arguements because that would mean that you are exactly the same which means the relationship is boring. the reason you argue are because of stress or differences. it is normal for you to have fights because your not going to agree on everything. you need to understand that you wont always agree on everything, when you are fighting over him looking at another girl just remeber he adpres you. dont fight over jealous things because your relationship will be over. instead of argueing you should talk out the problem instead of yelling. you should be open to what he as to say and vice versa you should not be madd at the stuff that he thinks are funny and not all that serious both of you need to come to a mutual agreement and be able to understand each other.you shouldnt dwell on the beadd stuff that he does to you or the stupid things that he may do.and if continue to argue then you may not be cut out for each other because yeah your going to have arguments but yeah you should be happy. but if jon makes you happy then try avoiding arguements stuff that he likes do it unless it nasty or offensive to someone. but who ever you are with be happy and good luck
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I think that most of the fighting that goes on in relationships happens because of the differences between guys and girls and how hard it is to understand each other sometimes. When a guy and a girl say the same thing, it's very likely that they'll actually mean something very different. I believe that you two can be a very good couple and have the potential for a very long relationship. What I think you need in order to stop the fighting is a lot of willpower and communication. Don't let him get on your nerves. Try to talk a lot about feelings and reasons and try to be more understanding. Things that may seem pretty common sense to you might not be so common sense to a guy. You two think the same, just express yourselves differently and get frustrated about that. Having conversations about feelings and such can be a very big step in a relationship. It can get personal and emotional, but I believe that it's time for you to take this step. I hope I didn't confuse you too much and I hope I was able to help. Good luck. :)
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hey sweetie
well all i can give you is really my opinion
Maybe you get into these fights because of (maybe) jealousy?Maybe you two aren't cut out for eachother. You can do better and be better off with someone else who you dont fight with so often? I think it could be a bad thing only because- wouldnt you be happier with someone who you get along with 10x better? I don't think there would be a way to stop the arguing because you will still stick with your opinion which will build up on you and eventually, in the end, come out. Everyday you fight? Thats a little much. Please don't be offended or mad about what i said and the advice i gave- i try to be straight foward. and i hope everything pieces together. Good luck with jon.
hope i can help
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