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Ok, my gramma has cancer and shes dying. We dont think she will make it until Christmas. I have a big family, and we are all very close, so it's a sad thing. But for some reason, i just dont feel sad. I feel guilty, it feels like i dont care. I know i do care, but i dont feel sad. It seems like everyone else is sad except me. Am i like a bad person? Is this normal? Please help! (link)
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its ok to not be sad even though everyone else is you just have a different way of expressing your feelings that doesnt make you a bad person at all even though your not sad you should still try to spend as much time with her as you can
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My dogs just chased a Ups man (lol) and he ran for his life. I got my dogs calmed down and I told him I was very sorry. But what can I do to prevent this in the future? I have 2 House Dogs (that stay outside!) and 1 other 'old' dog that bit a boy one time. So what Can I do?? Thanks! (link)
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well in most pet stores they have training centers that if he or she is not to old... if its to old to get them trained then you should just tie him up when he comes
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ok i have a wierd question i dont no why im do enterested in rape im 13 f and i like to look at pics and read storeies of it.. is it like normal (link)
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well its not really normal to be all that obsessed with it but in a way its good to know about it if anything you should read about things on how to get away if anyone does it to you. or you may just be interested doing something on investigations about that when u get older
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14/f so i've been with my boyfriend for half a year.. and umm we made out a little i guess... so we were lying on my bed...watching tv and whatnot. his hand was on my pants playing with the belt hoops and suddenly he put his hand down my pants slightly...then he went farther and i kinda jumped...and told him no so he was okay with it...soo its a couple of days later..and i'm hanging out with him... he has his arms around me from behind and then his hands drop around my stomach and lower..then he puts his hands on my legs and he moves his hands... brushing up against /there/ and then he suddenly moves his hands to my stomach again...then few minutes later he puts his hands against THERE again...and i kinda got stiff...and i told him not to do it again.. i dunno.... so im just confused. in my mind i wouldn't mind if he did it but my parents said that im too young to do anything below the neck so.. yea and thats stuck in my head so i'm just stuck in middle of wondering what to do.. so..
the next time he does that..what do I do? break up with him or seriously tell him 'NO'. yeah..
lately hes getting a little weird..or horny i guess? cuz when we hang out...he's always behind me pushing my ass into him and whatnot... or like..he pushed me up into a table and talked to people while he was between me..then he would come closer and kiss me while leaning over the table a little too much.. almost like the missionary position. yeahhhh. i dunno. i'm just..blah right now. i don't want to have sex because that ruins a relationship...if you dont get enough or if you do it too much. gah. i dunno! (link)
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well you are kind of young to do things like that any way but just tell him how you really feel, tell him that your not ready for something like that right now. and if he doesnt accept it then you dont need him anyway
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Ok, I love animals. Right now I have 2 dogs, one outside and one inside. We also sort of have a cat, but really it just eats our cat food. Haha..anyway..I want to get a cat. Yesterday I went to the SPCA for a science fair project, and I just fell in love with this little white kitten. It is 80 dollars and I have the money, but the problem is my dad. Everyone else in the family is OK. I just need some things I could say to my dad to convince him! Thank you! (link)
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i love animals too and some things i might tell my dad to let me keep one is that they are some what better then dogs, dogs eat things and chew on things, when you have a cat you give them some little toys and they will play all day lol they train better they dont run around and make alot of noise unlike dogs when they bark
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hey i have quite a big ass but i go in at the waist quite a bit then at the top im like not big but not small, c to be exact but like i have huge love handles and whenever i wear like baggy jeans or joggers even if there was falling down is still like look like i was over hang :S!!! i dont get it, is there any exacises or like a certain food im eating thats coursing it, or could it just be my big trunk? x x x (link)
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you shouldnt worry about what you look like. your you and thats how your always going to be. if your trying to lose weight or look better stay away from sugars and fatty foods. eat more fruits and things like that, you could do alot of diff excercises you should run though thats the best thing there is for you
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Okay well, I like this Boy named jonathan. But I am afraid to ask him out. What if he says no or somthing . Well the most basic thing is that I am really shy and dont know what to say to them. umm. like what I say I have his phone number or I can talk to him at school but what should i say to him??? Please help if you give me a good answer then I will give you a rating so if you want your rating to go up you can answer this seriously and I will for sure give you a five is if it's good advice (link)
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ok, well you should first just play it cool with him and try to hint it to him that you like him, you could either tell him yourself or have someone find out if he likes you or not. if he does like you then you could either call him or ask him in school like u sed. just start of saying how u have feelings for him and you want to be more then just friends, if he sais no just say you understand or something he sais yes then there ya go
well sorry that you cant understand it dont take my advice then but a 4 is fine idc
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is it normal to not like it when other girls are around the guy you like??? (link)
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yea its normal but it usually means your jealous and thats a big thing with girls. were always jealous when other girls are near the boy you like or go out with
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My dance iz comin upp!! i have to choices on wat to wear.. I could wear RIPPED JEANS N A SHIRT or A SHORT SKIRT WITH SOME HIGH HEELS. what would you perfer? (link)
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you should wear the ripped jeans and a nice shirt you shouldnt go to a dance with a skirt and heals on because then you cant dance lol
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well i was just wondering what do you do when you really have no one to turn to? when you grandmother don't care, your father is never their, you mom dosen't seem to understand and you sister just critizes you and you don't really have anyone to turn to? i just need some advice please help.. (link)
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i am basically going through the same thing. even though people in your family dont understand or listen to you that doesnt mean you cant go to friends or anything. friends are usually always there for you. dont talk about it inless your close to them because u never know if they will tell other people. there are alot of places you can go to talk to people they even have coucelors in school
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i really like this guy but he JUST got a g/f that i really dont like/know[the g/f]. what should i do? (link)
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you should tell the guy that you have feelings for him maybe he will want to be with you instead of her. or you can get closer with him and maybe he will start to like you
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hey is it true that when you sleep you're supposed to take your bra off? (link)
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lol... well its not really the truth or a myth but some people take it off when they sleep because they think your boobs will get bigger lol.. but i sleep with it on i dont know why. but it really doesnt matter if you do or not
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welllll .. i made a HUGE mistake and umm kissed another boy while i was going out with my boyfriend and well he didnt dump me exactly and he always brings it up though =| idn what to do i cant live with this anymore. what should i do ? (link)
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you should tell your boyfriend how your really sorry and that you regret it. he must really love or or like you alot and want to be with you since he didnt leave you. even if he knows or not. but let him know that your really sorry and that it hurts you when he brings it up
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I need major help , im 15 f dc and i'm just
confused about my love life. My boyfriend told me that he loves me but now i don't think he means it. The reason why is because i haven't talked him in about 7 weeks. i talked him like twice and all he had to say was whats up and then he would leave out of nowhere with out saying goodbye or what not. It's starting to get fustrating. He didn't tell me he was going on vacation or anything and when ever i try to talk to him its like he has nothing to say. Now im really wondering if he has another girlfriend or something ... i mean could it be true or what?
please i am asking for your advice. please help me. (link)
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well your boyfriend may just be confused about his feelings. he may not know wat he wants or wat he is doing. 7 weeks is a long time not to talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend, you should let him know that you think he is cheating and that you want to know whats going on with him and why he has not been calling you and acting normal
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I am kind of scared because one of my friends got sexualy harrassed today, a guy lifted up her shirt in the hallway. One of my friends says that her boyfriend tried to rape her or sexually assalt her in the bathroom, she wont tell me if thats true. What should i do to get her to answer me, and what should i do about her harassment?? (link)
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you should tell her that your scared for her and that you want to help her get help.. if she did get sexually assulted she should tell someone even if she is scared or imbarrased it may be hard to let people know things like that but its better to hold it in. if its a rumor she should let everyone know it is so that the boy does not get in trouble and noone thinks differently of her
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My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do????????? (link)
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you should tell her that even though you were always friends or however long you were that you fight to much with her and you dont think that your friendship is gonna work out. or just tell her the truth that you and your mom dont like her and that you dont want to be friends anymore. the truth may hurt but its better then you not liking her and her calling you all the time
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Ok there is this new girl at my school and I am friends with her. My ex boyfriend broke up with me the other day due to he liked someone else. So today it turns out that they have known each other for 2 years! So I am getting the feeling that he likes her. Like today when she first came he kept standing beside us listing to our convorsation. I still have feelings for him and still love him but I am so confused whether he likes me or her! He flirts with me but then again he acts like he likes her. So what can I do? Sorry that I asked this question b4. :) (link)
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well your x is confused..he doesnt know what he wants. you should ask him if she is the reason you broke up or if he just didnt want to be with you. you should also tell him how u still have feelings for him and that your friends with that girl and you wouldnt like if he got with her. even though they knew eachother for 2 years if he is leaving you for her he should have let you know.
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I'm 14/f and I'm a virgin. I have only kissed and had a guy feel up my shirt. Recently I have found little white bumps 'down there' and I don't know what they are. It's starting to worry me. It kind of hurts but not really. I sort of look like a white head. The kind you can't pop. Of course I didnt try popping it. I had one between my thigh and it went away. Now I have 1 around my womb and my vagina part. I don't know what to do :-( ... help plz (link)
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well it cant be anything that bad, if you are a virgin you have nothing really to worry about. there are alot of different things it could be. you should tell your mom even though it might be imbarassing and go to a doctor they will tell u what it is
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Well, one of my best friend, her friend keep flirting with her boyfriend. it really pisses her off, cuz it isnt like your verbal flirting, even though that some things are deffinately not meant to say. She ((my best friend's friend)) like rubs with arm and she like backs off whenever Kelsey ((my best friend)) comes back. I want to know how to help my best friend whenever she needs it because she needs it, if she doesnt do something, she'll explode from anger or something. (link)
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you should just tell your friend what she is doing..because if you hide it from her and if she finds out you never know she might get mad at you for not letting her know that you knew..and if anything happenes between them you should let your friend know before anything happenes ya kno??
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