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Hey Guyz and galz!!!!
I'm 15...i go to a fine arts school. (love music questions) i'm there for singing and piano! I love giving advice! I think that everyone needs someone to talk to! If you have any questions, please ask! I love helping people! and remember........ aria luvs u 333!

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hey... lately iv'e been getting the feeling that my boyfriend doesn't have enough time for me. We're in a long distance relashionship and i'm always the one calling him, which is pretty messed up if you ask me. He hasn't been returning my calls either, and he still hasn't sent my christmas present. The past three times i called him he's like "i gotta go do my homework, i'll call you later tonight k?" and then i wait till like 11pm and he never calls and then i don't hear from him for like a week. We've been going out for soo long and i really trust him, but i can't help thinking he might be with another behinde my back, cuse i have no possible way of actually knowing. i don't want to comfront him about it, but i really want to know what the hell is going on cuse it makes me so ed off and confused at the same time. [dont tell me to dump him cuse i love him :-/]please help!!

well...when you call him again...and he gives u that homework excuse...just say wait...whats going on with you...why haven't you been returning my calls? and say....please don't say your gonna call if you don't plan on it...(that way your not accusing him of cheating on you your just simply asking a question) so hell probubly feel bad about not calling you and then he'll talk to you.
hope i helped!
Let me no what happens ok?
~*~ Aria ~*~

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i sometimes feel uncomfortable singing infront of people! how do i over come this fear?!

signed,
Afraid2Sing

i no this might sound a little crazy but...when your home alone...go up to your room...and lipsync to your favorite song in the mirror and dance it out! keep doing it! Then once you get a little more comfortable sing along instead of lipsync...once you start thinking that your good...sing for your parents or friends!! That will help you! perform as much as you can!
thats what i do!! lol hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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hi,

one of my dreams has been to become a singer but my parents say that if i dont sing in like a talent show at my school then they wont sign me up for anything.. the talent show passed and i didnt try out because i had something else planned for the date that they made the talent show.. ok so ALL my friends tell me that im an amazing singer and stuff ( i dont want to sound concided ) but i dont think im terrible ! any ways.. how can i get my parents to let me go to auditions and signups and stuff.. what can i do to follow this dream ? .. thanks in advance- i rate! :-)

love, singingmyheartout

[ sorry about the length ]

ok...you have to show thme your committed! Practice at least an hour a day (when both your parents are around) and sing to the best of your abliliy!Then theyll see that you have potential. When an audition comes around, say mom, ive been working really hard and i would really like to do this. Then sing for them! ...i wanted an agent really bad becuase i love to sing and write songs. I wanted to get my songs out there. I had to show my parents that im really commited, so i got on the internet ...and now i go to a fine art school! That was proof to them that i was serious. ( ( but u don't have to go to that extreme ) ) I'm in the process of making my demo...and my dreams are coming true. It's all about commitment! Oh! do whatever your parents tell you to do, and make sure your grades are good so they have no reason to say no! Please let me no what happens! ( ( if you talk to me directly I could give you some information on how to get and agent and stuff! or nation wide auditions!! ))my screen name is aria luvs u 333!!!
hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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I am writing an essay for school and the prompt is What Courage Means to me. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas or examples of courage and tips on what I should write.

what does it mean to you?

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I went out with this guy for about 4 months, all put together. We went out for 2 months broke up he got a gf for a month broke up with her and asked me out and we went out for 2 months then broke up. We dont talk to each other much now either and I dont even talk to his friends like I did before and I really want to talk to him I just dont know what to say or do so if anyone can help me thatd be awesome!

WOW! This is exactly what happened to me! today! me and my ex broke up about a month ago, and have not talked to eachother since. Today, it really bothered me that we weren't talking anymore, so i went up to him and said, " Hey, can i talk to you? I still want to be friends! So can we start talking a little bit more please? I don't want it to be awkward." and it worked out perfectly!...i even told him about my new boyfriend!! and he acted like a normal friend would! anyways...just go up to him and be nice. let him no you still care about him, that you hate not talking to him. and hopefully, you will start talking more!
hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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Okay, there is this really hot guy in my science class. I know that he knows I like him, but I dont think he likes me. How can I find out without having
one of my friends ask for me?

be creative! Just go up and talk to him...if he flirts with you alot then he either is leading you on...or really does like you! however, if he doesn't really seem interested in what you have to say then i would say he doesn't like you. But, whatever you do make sure you come across as confident. If he doesn't seem interested just say , well see ya later! be nice....don't be afraid to take risks! let me no what happens!!!!ok?

hope i helped! Good luck!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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I like this guy who likes me too, but the thing is I'm so scared to fall in love because i dont wanna get hurt! My friend thinks i've already fallin for him but i'm hoping that It's not true! It's weird because when i'm not around him I feel so empty! But then when he's with me I fell like my feet won't ever touch the ground again. How can I not fall in Love?!

you cant not fall in love! im sorry but thats the way it goes. I felt the exact same way a couple of months ago...ended a realationship over it. I think the best thing for you to do is just to take it slow. So you wont get hurt that easily and may be able to detect when your about to be hurt! keep in touch let me no how it works out! my screen name is arialuvsu333
hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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I really love the laid-back, hippieish, original style of Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen...
Does anyone know where to get clothes that look alot like theirs for not too much money...I'm really not into spending 200 dollars on a teeshirt:-P

well...they do have their own clothes line at walmart, target, practically anywhere! and there usually not to much money!

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Hey, theres this guy. Me and him lately, we've been fighting. I don't really know him in real life. But he was a good friend. Well, what happend was he made a "bet" with a guy who will remain nameless that he could win me over. "Nameless" and me have loved each other for about a half of a month now. We never started dating because we wanted the space and everything. And this guy goes and says he makes a bet after making me cry and everything. You get me so far? I know I can be confusing sorry. And well, then, today, after he made the bet. I asked "nameless" about it and he claims there was no bet, and I actually believe him. He never lies to me. And well, this guy who screwed around with my mind I really don't know what to do. I want to be friends. But I'm scared the same thing will happen again. But he was such a good friend. He always helped me out when I needed it. What should I do? Please, tell me. Should I try and be friends again, or just not be friends and try to forget him?

if you guyz have been friends for a while, and hes helped you out through everything then i suggest giving him andother chance. I mean, that still wasn't right of "nameless" and the guy that you like to make a bet. but, you have to remeber that nobody is perfect, people make mistakes. This happened to be their mistake. I would just tell both of them that you didn't think that the bet was very cool, and that if they were your real friends they wont do it again. Let them no that your mad and upset, but still be nice to them, when they give you and apology (which they should) forgive them and then act like it never happen. Chances are if your mature about this they'll be to. They will feel bad about doing that to you!
Hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~

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Aria my girlfriend says that we should have been friends first before we went out. She says we can stay together just become good friends. How can i trust that she will not say that she enjoys me better as a friend and doesn't want to go back out

whatever will be will be....if thats going to make her happy then... im really sorry. you no...you could just call and explain how you feel...its not like i don't know who this is...its about you n me! Yes and thats what i thought! next time...just talk to me one on one...don't be a looser and wright my advice column k?

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I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move?

i, being a musician myself, know that they are really busy. I wouldn't say to back off... I just think his priorities are in a certain order. Music, being pretty high up there, is probubly more imporatant than a girlfriend...not trying to be rude....just honest!...but i have heard that some gys like it when girls make the first move....and then again...he could be completely oblivious to the whole situation and not even realize that you feel this way.
I for one love musicians..you have great taste!
hope i helped!
~*~Aria~*~

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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and I live with him now. Well, he wants a kid really bad and I told him no because I'm almost 20 and we both work at MAC. And, MAC doesn't really pay us good. And obviously, you need money to have a kid. I'm on BC and have been for like 8 months and somehow I lost my pills. I'm organized, and I dont misplace things hardly ever and I think my boyfriend stole them. I'm getting more pills tomorrow but I just KNOW my boyfriend stole them! He hasint talked to me in two days because I accused him of stealing them. Why does he want a freaking kid so bad!? I dont want to break up with him, its been 3 years and I dont want to throw our relationship away. But what can I say to him to get his mind off kids!!!

ok....well if he is older than you...he just wants a family. You BOTH need to be ready...not just one. Explain that to him...that it takes two...you can't do it alone...and if your not ready to commit at age 20?...theres totally nothing wrong with that! This is not something to be taken lightly...When the time is right...and your ready to become a mom...and both of you are committed...thats the time to start a family. You shouldn't of accused him of taking your pills(even though it sounds like its true and probubly is )..you should of just been like...huh? my pills are missing! do you have any idea on where they went? and if he says no..just say ok...ill go get new ones then!...but ...now...just tell him your sorry for the acuisation and be nice about it! it was just a sudden, spur-of-the-moment, reaction.

hope i helped!
~*~ Aria~*~

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ok.. well today me n my friend jess and lindsey got into trouble in health because me n jess told lindsey to rip this thing off of our teachers picture and she did and now hes blameing it on me and jess.. sayen it was all our faults because lindsey is in special education classes!!! what should i do to make things better. he said hes going to press charges for distruction of personal property. he cant do that to me n jess right, besides lindsey isn't even retarded ..

that teacher is all talk. You can't even find an attorney to back you up on some ripped picture and call it destruction of personal property...(i mean you can...but thats really lame) you sohould go in and talk to the teacher though. Tell him that your sorry, for the ripped picture, influencing lindsay, and anything else you may have done.

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Today I found out that my boyfriend may be moving away. There is still a chance that he will be staying but if he does move, I don't know how I am going to cope. It would be very hard to visit him as I am too drive so I would only get to see him once every month or so, probably not even that. If he does move, how do I cope? Is it worth carrying on the relationship or should I just end things? Thank you.

wow! Thats hard! If the realationship is awesome...and you think you really have something...then don't let anything get in the way!...Then again if you are having trouble now keeping the realationship strong...then a long-distance realationship isn't going to make it better...it will probubly get worse! Trust me...if you feel no connection...long distance realationships don't work out.

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dear arialuvsu333,


I have a major problem. A smelly, annoying, demanding problem named jackie. jackie is a simise cat (i dont know how to spell it) that is either not potty trained or is on srike. you see, jackie is always peeing all over my beanbag and it really smells bad. Also jackie is always meowing when im not in the room with her, i can hear her meowing from the opposite end of the house. anyways, i have thought about kicking her out but i decided i am too attached to her. what should i do arialuvu333?

hmmm lol....thats a good question....id say keep the cat outside for a while...and then get it trained. SORRY ABOUT YOUR BEAN BAG!
you need to come over some time it's not like you live far away!lol

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Ok well i have this friend.He and his girlfriend just broke up after a 4 month relationship.Since he broke up he's been going out with all of these girls and dumping then because he always has his ex on his mind.And i'm getting really worried because he started cutting himself!I need to talk to him b4 he hurts himself anymore!PLZ HELP ME!!!!
I Rate!!!

You need to talk to him... make him feel important, like he has a reason for living. Explain to him that there are plenty of girls out there...he just needs to take time to find the right one!

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I always thought my wife liked my body. But recently, in front of a whole group of friends, she stated that I'm "not allowed" to wear a swimsuit, which got a laugh. She then expounded on this, stating that I am "very white, and very hairy, and when I wear my work shorts, I get a "tan line" from just above my knees, to just below them. This shows in my swimsuit. Everyone thought it was really funny but me.
Do you think she was "just kidding', or did the truth slip out there?

There's a little bit of truth to everything thats said. But she did marry you, so chances are she likes you.:) She might just be joking around...you might want to casusally bring it up like ..."hey honey, are you happy with the way i look?" don't act like your mad...just ask it in a sincere, questioning way!

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I love singing cuz I look up to Alicia Keys I take up piano and I love to sing but my brother and sister make fun of me.Whenever I plan on writing songs I need the right sound but my sister won't let me use the keyboard.She yells at me no it's in my room not yours do you apprehend or is that to big a word for you and so I have to tell her something in big words so she'll shut up for a few minutes.I go to my room and second guess my talent.I wonder when I was in the 4th grade was I only in the All city chorus cuz the other people sucked?If I want to live my dream what should I do while juggling myschool,love,home,and musical life at once? I have too much pressure what do I do?

I myself go to a fine arts school. I love writing songs! At first, I had a lot of people working against me, but if you are serious about your talent, then do everything you can to acheive your dream! I have written 10 songs and I am in the process of making a demo. Work hard, if you really love it. Have you ever thought that your sister might be jelous of you? Maybe she wished she could write songs like you. I would check in you school choir room and talk to the choir teacher and tell her your passion for music and explain the situation with your sister and then ask if you can come in early a few days or stay after school and use the piano!

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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help!

don't worry! Theres nothing wrong with you! you have a long time to grow!...It's ok! your only 13! you have along time! You shouldn't be focused on stuff like that yet! Now..if you are 18 and still flat...then you should worry! Just give it time!

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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf just broke up. Well, i'm not suppose to talk to him ever again and I did. Huge mistake, but now he's saying he will tell my mom we've been talking if I don't see him or do what he wants me to do. What should I do?

tell your mom first! all you did is talk! this guy is a jerk! Chances are your mom will be happy that you didn't do what he wanted you to do!

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