hey yall if anyone has any questions i would love for you to ask me them! i know i just started my site but i was the advice columnist for my school paper so having it on the internet shouldn't be much different..... please do ask questions, i would really appreciate it! also, feel free to visit my quote site- www.xanga.com/xo_from_the_heart_ox thanks loves
lovelove, anne givings
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i havent gotton my period yet and i have a ?. when i get it for the fist time will i know, or will i not know till i go to the b/r? i dont want it to like leak through or nething, that is what i m most afried of! just tell me if i will know or not! thxs! (link)
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my first time i didnt know but my stomach hurt so bad that day i had to go home and then i realized it was just cramps-- i havent had cramps that bad since but now at least i have a little warning-- you will probably get cramps or have a little discharge days prior to, plus its usually fairly light and wont leak though- all three of those things applied to me so i had no prob cause i was wearing "light days" for the discharge- dont worry youll be fine!
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please help if i am sneaking out of the house tonight to meet my boyfriend outside cuz he lives by me! my moms window is in the front! and mine is in the back and i have a back porch should i tell my boyfriend to meet me on my back porch?! give me tips on how to sneak out w/o my mom findin out (link)
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i would suggest not sneaking out, but i pretty much know how since one of my best friends does alot-- if you have a screen they usually come off and if they dont, scissors work and its usually not that obvious.... if you do decide to meet at your house make sure youre really quiet and the floorboards or whatever on your back porch dont creak. make sure its not too early and your parents arent light sleepers- if ya wanna make it easier go over to his house cause its always harder on the person whos parents are a few feet away.... make sure you close the window and the blinds/curtains, but dont lock it-- dont take anything that will get caught and make sure you can see and wont fall off the roof- thatll make for a perfect night, im sure
haha so ya i hope i helped!!
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ok, well my ex girlfriend and i just got done breaking up with each other cause we aggreed on it and stuff on saturday night, well today i was hangin with this girl and i really like her (ive only known her for 2 days, but theres somthin about her) and i dont know if i should go into a relationship with her, or if i should still think about it, cause really i dunno
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wait at least a week or two so nobody thinks youre just insecure or anything-- and give yourself time to figure out if you really like her or not
hope i helped!!
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I want to lose weight and I was reading somewhere that you just need to burn more calories than you take in for the day. Is that true? So if I eat, let's say, 400 cals a day and try to burn that much or more w/ exercise, will I lose weight? (link)
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i hope you eat more than that everyday....
but ya burning more calories than you eat will make you loose weight
check the back of anything you eat then go to this website http://www.stayinginshape.com/3osfcorp/libv/d12.shtml# and click on the "calculator"
itll tell you how many calories you burn
just make sure you burn more than you eat!
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ok this is my first time having my period n ive had it for 5 days already and my mom told me its only suppossed to last 3-5 days and the longest shes ever had it was for 7 days. please help me , clue me in on whats going on!!!!! thanks sooooooooooo much
sincerely,
troubled girly (link)
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okay it is different for eveyrone like i have a friend who always has it for ten days, heavy everyday, and always has cramps, i have another friend who always has it five or less days, i know someone else who has it usually about a week at a time- my first time it only lasted three days but its usually been longer-- you cant tell anything by your first time... except that you have had it! it should be fine but if youre really worried you can always ask a doctor!
hope i helped!!
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im going into the highschool next year and i heard that you have to carry like a little backpack around school.. i have a normal sized backpack like what you would wear to the middle school.. is that too big? what should i doo? like should i get one backpack to cary around school and the other for home? PLEASE HELP! (link)
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ive never heard of having to get a small backpack for highschool... for my highschool i would prolly need a bigger one-- okay it depends on what kind of school you go to-- i know some schools where nobody carries backpacks, some where its kinda just some do some dont, and some (like mine) where the school is so spread out that you have to carry half your books everywhere cause you cant get to your locker and make it to class so everyone carries them-- just incase, on the first day take a backpack (whatever kind you have-- i have a jansport) and if nobody has backpacks just leave it in your locker but if everyone has one then at least you do too... but its just a backpack and it doesnt matter how big it is
hope i helped
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Ok...So I am getting my hair cut, and I dont know how to cut it. and I cant find any sites with nice pics of hairstyles and stuff. I need a few sites that have alot of pics of long and medium hairstyles. thankies. (link)
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go to http://www.matrix.com/find_your_hair_style/
it has millions of hairstyles from what ive seen
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does anyone know how to make this site a home page? you know, so that each time i open up the interent, it will automatically go to this site right away? thanks!!
~*jaimee*~ (link)
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go to "tools" then click on "internet options" and change it to this site-- click "ok"!!
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im going into my freshman year of highschool and my bf reaseantly broke up with me and it hurt ALOT...but i did nothing to be meam or hurtful to him apart from say one thing , that i didnt even mean, and now he wont forgive me. Why does he need to forgive me? I should be the one trying to come to terms with the way he acted.
i could never feel the same way about him but still care about him.
What shall i do/say?
oh and i might go to the movies with a guy. Is that considered a date and is it ok to date someone after i have just got out of a fairly heavy, long-ish term relationship? (link)
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first Q: dont talk to him for a couple days, give him time to get over whatever you said that obviously hurt him. later, when he is alone, let him know how truly sorry you are and that you understand if he doesnt forgive you, but you wanted him to know just how much you really care about him, and you dont want him to be upset with you (thats only if he doesnt come talk to you in those two days) if you really wanna be mean rent "two can play that game" but its rated R if you arent allowed.... if he doesnt forgive you its okay just be nice and he will probably become a friend again even if he isnt your boyfriend anymore
second Q: no its not a date if you think hes nice and stuff and you like him. if your ex has a problem with it or something then just remind him that he dumped you and got mad at YOU, not visa versa... if you feel okay with going out with this guy its fine... i would just refrain from making out and such or people would say youre a slut-- im sure everything will be fine if you go out with him
hope i helped!!
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I have the weirdest phobia (Well to me) I can not swallow pills. My sister used to have trouble with it too, but she eventually got over it. My younger brother has ADD so he has to have pills so he it's no problem for him. But when I was little I had choked on something and I blacked out before it was dislodged, and even though I know it's not going to happen just because I try swallowing a pill, I still have a "pill phobia". Anyway is there anything I can do that will help me get over it. Or just ways to make swallowing pills easier? I'm almost 15, and a sophmore in high school, and I'm still telling doctors when I'm sick that I need a liquid or chewable, I don't want to be an adult doing the same thing. It's embarassing. I have friends that won't swallow a pill unless they have to, but even if it was the only way, I'd rather just be sick. So if you have tips on making swallowing pills easier or just getting over the phobia, please let me know!! Thanks in advance! (link)
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i know somebody who puts pills in water and lets it dissolve, but i can assure you that tastes SO BAD. its not really that strange that you are scared cause there is a phobia about peanut butter getting stuck to the roof of your mouth...
the second the pill goes in make sure to drink water cause that will make it go down easier. when youre nervous about something like doing a flip off the diving board, the first time you do it (and make it) you feel really great and it makes you wanna do it again. then it gets easier and easier everytime. im not saying you will ever enjoy taking pills, but you should just try it sometime and have someone there just incase you do choke, which is very unlikely if you swallow with water. thatll make it easier each time. after a while it shouldnt seem like anything to you.
hope i helped!
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my mom is always saying im ugly. last sunday for church, i let my hair dry into natural curl/waves and she said it was ugly and i should brush it (badddd idea) and wear some makeup because my face looked "bad". i didnt wear earrings & she always says i look bad when i dont wear them. when i do wear makeup for other occasions she says i look like a prostitute. i dont know what to do anymore! i cant always be best dressed and miss cheerful like she was when she was my age. shes always telling me how thin she was and how everyone liked her figure just to rub it in my face that i have no womanly shape. my dad says i look ok because he sees what it does to my self esteem. everytime i get the slightest blemish, shes the first to point it out. i hate it! someone please help me! any advice will help! ill rate 5s... (link)
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it sounds to me like your mother cares a little bit too much about looks. obviously she thinks having perfect makeup and hair lead to a perfect life. you need to tell her that it makes you feel bad when she says your ugly, and you would really appreciate it if she would stop. you just need to be upfront about it. i think its nice looks arent top priority for you cause you can bet they arent for me! i never wear makeup! it sounds like shes trying to relive her perfect childhood through you and you should let her know this bugs you and would she please just not talk about looks, cause there are more important things in life
i hope i helped!
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my best friend is moving to new zeland today she is 16 and really does not want to go. Her dad says she is not allowed to come back home to england till she is 18. What rights does she really have and could she come back before she # is 18.
Thanx nicki xxx (link)
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since she is a minor she has no real choice unless her parents are willing to let her stay with a grandparent or aunt or uncle or something; if her parents are getting a divore she could always stay with them. otherwise just write her and email her alot cause thats what i do with my old friends from other states and such.... although her dad says she cant come back, she could always try to earn money to fly to england one summer- you could even help her out!
hope i helped!!
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Hey there, I am a 20 year old MALE with a serious hair dilema! My hair is naturally thick, dry, curly and quite rebellious aka the worst hair you can have for styling lol!
A few monthes ago I got my hair chemically straigtened, and it did wonders for me combined with my ghd straighteners, after SO long I have GREAT looking hair! I wash it everyday with Aussie shampoo and conditioner, and straighten it everyday also using my ghd's and tre semme heat protect.
But after a while, no matter what I do, the ends look frizzy and unhealthy and its REALLY starting to annoy me! I get them cut off every four weeks, but they keep coming back!
I refuse to stop straighteneing it everyday, because I have so much more confidence with my new hair now that its straight and styled, I have done everything I can, even the heat protect spray!
HELP!!! (link)
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okay you have hair like me and my dad. my dad just leaves his curly and he got my mom that way he just kept it short. HOWEVER if you want to keep straightening it then you need to keep getting it chemically done. i have dry frizzy curly long hair and i got it chemically straightened. its been six months and i need to do it again because its GROWN OUT TWO INCHES and chances are, yours has two. you oughtta go get it chemically straightened again adn if thats too expensive and ya have to keep straightening then do two things
1) use moisturizure (or however its spelled) two great products are paul mitchel super skinny serum and tusk sensories smoother
2) i hope ya dont straighten it when its wet cause that is sooooooooo bad for your hair
3) i know you probably dont wanna hear this from a fourteen year old, but no girl likes a guy who obsesses about his hair and theyd rather see you as you not how you make yourself based on hair- thats just not cool
hope i helped
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Ok, I'm trying to lose weight but I get bored often and I've found that I eat when I get bored, even if I'm not hungry at all. What are some things to do when I get bored?? I mean, I live in a place where you have to drive 15 minutes to the nearest mall or movie place so shopping isnt an option. And I'm only 13 so I can't drive...What are some fun, random things to do around the house? (link)
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i know this sounds terrible but you can clean your room. sometimes i run around the house even though my mother doesnt appreciate it and it can help you loose weight and keep you from eating. if you have a swimming pool do a few laps. when i watching TV i do crunches. sign up for a dance class or something like a musical instrument. draw even if you arent any good. i write poems when i am really bored. if you like to read thats always a boredom buster
hope i helped
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ok so, last night i went to a party and met this really cool guy. he's a friend of one of my ex's. he said it was a birthday party when he invited me so one of my friends wouldnt feel lonely. well i found out later that the party is for his girlfriend. but he really wants to end the relationship. she controls him all the time. and so idk i just kinda like him. and he called me up last night and we talked for a couple of hours and he asked me out on a date tonight so we can get better aquainted. it seems fine to me but im just not sure, hes 18 and im 16, which isnt bad because ive dated 18 yr olds before, like all last year. i just dont really kno what to do. is being interested in him wrong?
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definately not! if you like him thats awesome and if hes going to dump his girlfriend its all the better. just do what feels right
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Hello. Well, when I make presentations at school or read a paper to the class, I always get nervous. I can't help it. I've tried everything: looking at the wall, looking at the people's noses, practicing a million times the night before, etc. My question is, are there any pills that help with that, or help with nervousness? If there are, are they expensive and do they actually really work? Please help soon because school is coming up. Thank you. (link)
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okay so i dont think there are pills or things you can take.... you could always try having a little too much to drink ;) but i would suggest this: practice infront of your mom or dad, then practice infront of them and any siblings you have
then practice infront of friends
grow on how many people you say a speach infront of-- nobody is going to think youre a dork or anything if you just get it over with, but they will think youre weird if you just sit there all nervous- just dont worry cause you wont know these people in ten years! talk to somebody with leukemia nad they will tell you how udnimportant the next speach you give will be. just dont plan on runnign for prez!
hope i helped!!
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i just took a dump before, and it was RED. I dont have my period, and it's not like i'm bleeding out my ass. the shit was red!! I'm like really freaked out, and i just want to kno if this is normal, and if it isnt, what should i do? (link)
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you could have a liver problem. ask a doctor
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thanks for your advice..im the same girl that is having problems with her bf and i got him a bracelet! but i just called him a little bit ago cause when we were talking on here my computer froze and when i got back on he was off! and i was crying and hes all like its gonna be ok sweetie, i love you sweetie, and ill call you later tonight..just dont give up on me, im not gonna move on, and all this other stuff! i just dont know what to think..it breaks my heart so much! please help me..could this mean n e thing? (link)
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he sounds really sweet and he obviously cares about you. it sounds to me like you dont have anything to worry about- i dont think that if he flirts with some other girl it will necessarily mean he's going to leave you. he probably cant help it but it seems like you are so much more important to him than anyone else right now. im not quite sure what you're asking, but hold your head high cause it sounds like some other girls are gonna be jealous that you have a guy who really cares about you- dont lose that!
hope i helped!!
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Would any of you agree with "a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts"?
The other night, my friend, who had had a few, told me he liked me, he thinks it can work between us, even that im the girl he sees himself marrying. The next day I asked him about it. I asked if he remembered what he said and he said yes. So I asked him if he meant it, and he said yes. I really like him. but im scared to take it any further because I don't know it its true. (link)
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if you really like him then dont be scared cause he probably wouldnt say he liked you that much if he didnt mean it. take a chance, live a little!
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Ok, I've been going to private school for 9 years, and for the first time I will be going to public. I'm really freaked out. Is public school really as bad as everyone says? I mean do people like actually get beaten up and raped? and how do I protect myself? How do I know who to hang out with? Please help me. (link)
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same here next year i am going to a huge public school and i havent been in one since second grade but it depends where you live. i dont know anyone at my school that has been beaten or raped and i know alot of people. about the hanging out thing, just hang out with whoever you think is nice because nice people usually wont hurt you
i know its vague, but i hope i helped!!
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