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break up blues
im going into my freshman year of highschool and my bf reaseantly broke up with me and it hurt ALOT...but i did nothing to be meam or hurtful to him apart from say one thing , that i didnt even mean, and now he wont forgive me. Why does he need to forgive me? I should be the one trying to come to terms with the way he acted.
i could never feel the same way about him but still care about him.
What shall i do/say?
oh and i might go to the movies with a guy. Is that considered a date and is it ok to date someone after i have just got out of a fairly heavy, long-ish term relationship?
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first Q: dont talk to him for a couple days, give him time to get over whatever you said that obviously hurt him. later, when he is alone, let him know how truly sorry you are and that you understand if he doesnt forgive you, but you wanted him to know just how much you really care about him, and you dont want him to be upset with you (thats only if he doesnt come talk to you in those two days) if you really wanna be mean rent "two can play that game" but its rated R if you arent allowed.... if he doesnt forgive you its okay just be nice and he will probably become a friend again even if he isnt your boyfriend anymore
second Q: no its not a date if you think hes nice and stuff and you like him. if your ex has a problem with it or something then just remind him that he dumped you and got mad at YOU, not visa versa... if you feel okay with going out with this guy its fine... i would just refrain from making out and such or people would say youre a slut-- im sure everything will be fine if you go out with him
hope i helped!!
<3<3 anne givings
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