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Ok. I was planning a surprise for the best teacher of all time. I had the principal call my teacher out of the room and had the assistant principal come in and i discussed the surprise and collected some money. Right after my teacher came back, my friend shouted out, "Mrs. *******, we have a surprise for you." The class went dead silent and I almost burst into tears. During my next class, I wrote him a note explaining that if he had any consideration for other people, he wouldn't have blabbed. He is now officially supermad at me, and I feel terrible. I think I came off as a bitch and i need to fix that by the morning! Ahhh (link)
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wow hun you shouldn't worry about it. No your not a bitch. First off you did the right thing you told him how you feel and what he did was wrong. oh my god if that was me i would have punched him in the head or kicked him in the balls or something
but then agian it wouldn't be the wrong thing to do. so i respect that you took the time to write him
a note so that no one could see it. So i dont undersrand what hes problem is! He was wrong and he needed to know that! And you told him in the best way you could have. Dont worry hes just a baby and you didnt do anything wrong!
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My best friend and I are both girls and I'm 14 and she's 13. We have experimented 3 times and we've liked it each time(nothing below the belt). On one day she says she wants a boyfriend really bad,then other days she says that she wishes she could be with me and life would be so much easier and i'm the only one who listens to her seriously and cares and truly understands.I feels she very insecure about her liking for me because she feels God won't love us becuase she's sinning and that her parents will not except her anymore. Her parents barely except her now and they really don't take her seriously and they really don't trust her with the simpliest things. I wonder if she really wants to be with me because she would believe that our love for each other can't stop God from loving us and our love can conquer over her parents. Also on some days she made a strong statement that she wants to find her partner in life thats a man. She would only go for woman if they were the last human species on earth. I thought that was harsh and cold blooded because every time we experimented we never thought about any males while we were being affectionate to each other. I know for sure i'm bisexual and i'm comfortable with that, but the way my best friend talks it seems like she's confused big time about herself. I'm wondering if i should talk to her about it or she just needs to figure it out on her own. I'm ready to talk to her about it, but i want a second option on what I should do. (link)
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well she is your bestfriend so i understand why you might like each other in that way.you are very young to know if you are in love and it seems like she is confused big time maybe shes not into girls but wants to try it out becuase shes young and foolish. who knows the best thing to do is let her deal with it on her own. Becuase to be honest with you i dont even think she knows what she wants yet.
just give her time
hope i helped
love always maria
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Me and my friend were walking up to her house, we got round the corner near the lampost and we were like 20 metres away from her house. As we got round the corner there was a tall white van parked and a man standing there with his door open, I saw his arm moving so i looked down to see him wanking!! It was groose and he smerk at us.
I told my friend and she looked down to quickly we walked up to her house, when outside the house she shouted "MUM!!" as we climbed over her fence, he looked up at us quickly jumped in his van and drove off at the speed of light. He now knows where she lives and she cant sleep at night. Her mum didnt believe us and we told everyone in the neighbour hood to keep an eye out.
Im scared for life when anyone metions the words, wanking, penis, white van. I hate it so much i went white as a ghost when i saw him doing it.
I was shaking all day we tried to get her mum to report it to the police but she said "He might have just been goin for a piss" but i know he wasnt or piss would be comeing out of his dick.. not spunk. and he wouldnt exactly point it right at us..
How can my friend get over the fact that he knows where she lives?
sorry for it being so long lush me x (link)
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It's really not a big deal hun. There are so meny people out there like that. Doing nasty stuff 24,7.
Once i was walking by and saw a guy playing with himself. i didnt really care much. i thought it was very nasty but whatever. You know?
Just try to forget about it. About he knowing where she lives well trust me hes not gonna be bothering her. He was just having some fun with himself hes not gonna waste his time doing something like watching your friend or trying to hurt her.
I mean he never hurt her or said he would.
I honestly think your making a big deal out
of no nothing. Another thing why tell your nighbourhood to keep an eye out! He never did anything warmfully of course its nasty but not
anything that will hurt you.
well good luck
love always maria
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Okay, so I have this problem, im 16/f and ever since i can remember...Ive been harrassed by hispanics because of my butt. I have a ghetto booty and im white. People call me racist because I dont like talking or getting to know hispanics but its not that im racist i have NOTHING against them because i know a lot of them arent "dirty mexicans" but those who are, Im SCARED of them, I cry in public because im harrassed and the littlest things they do like wink at me, will make me cry just because i have been sexually harrassed since I can rememeber...Ive talked to my parents and they say im full of myself and that I think everyone is in love with me, so they dont help, ive talked to my sister , same thing and my friends cant do anyhthing about it. I talked to a lot of people about it, and im honestly scaared to death of them because they always make me feel uncomfortable, ive had them grab my butt and say dirty things in my ear, and I just cry...in public, please help :( I cant take it anymore. Please dont answer if your just gonna call me racist because Im not. Im scared. (link)
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I feel you all the way. I feel the same way as you do. When i walk dwon the street they always say stuff to me and i always feel so dirty. It makes me feel so uncomfortable. But i learned to ignore them.
Think of it this way they like the way you look.
so take it as a good thing. Also if that doesn;t work think of yourseld as a queen and walk by them
as they do not matter to you.
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My family is know for having a history of skin cancer/moles. I have a mole on my right cheek and i really dont like it.. everybody thinks its really pretty... but i dont see how... should i get it removed? i really wanna ask my mom... but im not sure how... any ideas? or should i leave it? (link)
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well its really just up to you. not other people.
if you feel it makes you look bad then sure go get it removed. I mean i am sure your still very pretty with the mole, and im sure it doesn't make you a bad person. But it's really just up to you.
good luck hope everything goes good.
love always maria
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Well, So far alot of guys have turned me down. SO i asked my ex why he broke up with me, and he seyd "well, All the guys say you really need braces so they dont like you" .. i have 2 teeth on the bottom that are slightly crooked, but i cant get my braces on till July, whut do i do?!??! (link)
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wow guys are really messed up. Well you should feel lucky for not dating guys like them. Guys that only care about looks. You need a guy that won't care about the outside but a guy that cares about the inside. A guy should love you for you and not ur teeth. God i can't believe guys are such assholes.
Just watch when you get your braces and then you get them off and you'll look so beautiful which i bet you look now and they will be dying for you.
but you should just look at them and say no i dont date guys that are so ugly on the inside. dont worry you'll find a guy that will love everything about you. No matter what. Dont waste your time with those losers.
hope i helped
love always maria
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I have just came back to school after my 2 weeks off and these girls are pushing me around and calling me names, they only ever stop when my friends are there im not fat nd spotty im just small is there a crime in being small?? caz i feel lke dere iz... and soon my m8s are all going on a holiday to france wiv the skool and we didnt have enought money as my mam and dad have just split up, plz help me i am down and depressed :(! (link)
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All i have to say is keep your head up high!
who cares what they say. i know it's hurtfully but
that's life. There are always going to be those people that will pick on you for no reason. I learned that it was mostly becuase they feel bad about them selfs and dont want to show it. So for everytime they say something just say to yourself wow i am really lucky that they care so much about me to make them selfs feel better. Dont let them feel better about them selfs. Show them that you dont care. About you beimg small thats ok i am small
and most boys like that. Its not really about you being small its just they need to find a reason to pick on you for. otherwise they wouldn't have anything to say. Its like them saying oh your beautiful haha lets make fun of the beautiful girl. The would use anything just to make fun of another person.
and please dont feel depressed about the money thing. Not having alot of money isn't a crime. Its just something that happens. dont bring yourself down because of it.
If you ever wanna talk just im me.
I will always be there to help.
Love always maria
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One of my best friends has been dateing this guy for a year. we are both 14. well i have always thought this guy wasnt good for her, i mean he has kicked her, black mailed her, and even sent threats. the threats were jokes, but they wee serious at the time. like there was one rape one. well lately she has been ignoring me for him. it is true that he hasnt been so bad lately and it seems like her does love her, but i still cant take it. it doesnt seem fair that i have always TRIED to be with her, and he hasnt and she takes the side of him. what should i do? should i tell her? should i just let it slide? (link)
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First off if she really was a true friend she wouldn't leave you for him unless you told her to pick one or the other. That would be wrong by the way.
so i hope you didn't do that. But if you still feel like you love her and miss her just talk to her tell her how you feel. That would be the best thing to do. But dont make her pick one or the other. It wouldn't be right to pick your best friend over the guy you love. I actually think it should be chicks before dicks but when your in love you dont care about anything anymore so try to understnad her. i am sure if you talk to her everything will be great
love always maria
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My mom is like soooo annoying! She constantly makes me repeat myself and takes everything the wrong way(for example: i'll say something like completely random and not in a mean way or anything and she'll take it as an insult and i'll give her an insult and she thinks its like a joke or something). Also, she still treats me like i'm about 3 years old and I'm actually 14!I try to put up with her the best I can but I usually end up being mad at her for severaly pissing me off. I know it doesn't sound like that big of a deal, but believe you me it gets extremely frustrating after 14 long years! Also she always points out the odvious and asks stupid questions and never listens to any answers! plus I just wanted to send in a question cuz this is my first!:) (link)
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I think any child can feel what ur going thorugh because all mothers are like that. they never want there kids to grow up to fast and leave them. You should try to understand her side to this. But if its really bothering you that bad just talk to her if you dont want to just write her a letter telling her how you feel. I think its best if she reads it while you are out of the house so she can cool down without gettin mad and that way she has time to think. I hope i helped out
love always maria
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Well my bf of over six months is leaving for the summer. Im not gonna be able to talk to him or see him all sumer till he comes back. So I'm thinking do we stay together or should I just tell him well see what happens when he gets back (not necciseraly breaking up)or should we just stick it out all summer and stay together. we both love each other very much Im confussed what should we do? I rate 5's! (link)
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Sweetheart if y0u love him stay together.
would you want to lose him over the summer to some other girl? I wouldn't want to see someone i love see other poeple. I mean come on hun so what if he goes away for the summer i know its gonna be hard.
But if you both love eachother it will be ok.
A true love should last no matter what. True love has its ups and downs so if in the end ur still together and so much more in love you know it made it!
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Ok first of all...this is really long but please read it because i really want some help. My dad has seemed to be a lot more meaner all of a sudden. Well hes always been mean sometimes but I mean hes just started to become physicaly mean. I was downstairs before because I was checking his email because a friend of mines mom was emailing him. So, I kept going down there to check it. (while he was on the phone down there) He started to get really annoyed and started yelling (like almost silently so of course the person on the phone couldnt hear him) and he just freaked out. He got off the phone with the person..and I walked passed him because I was going to go upstairs. He grabbed my arm and goes Whats your problem? And I said you! And hes like why? And I said nothing and attempted to go back upstairs. But he gripped me harder and it hurt because it was like squeezing my skin together and burning. Then he like grabbed my whole body and was pulling me towards him saying come onnn give me a hugg..Aliciaaa what is wrong. And he just wouldnt let me go upstairs. I was like uhh what the heck..whats so bad of me wanting to go upstairs? But yeah he just kept gripping onto me. And yeah I was of course trying to fight back and was quietly screaming. When I went upstairs my mom goes..what was going on down there? And I said dad wouldnt let me go..and he wouldnt let me go upstairs. She goes pff yeah right uh huh. And I was like he did!! didnt you hear me yelling?? He was gripping onto my arms. And she just kept saying riight im sure. And just now we were eating dinner in the living room and his business phone rang. He went and picked it up and goes..blah blah blah..then goes to go turn down the volume on the tv. And I go ooohh my goooshh..now we cant even eat dinner without you having to be involved with your business? (he is wayyy overly obsessed and its all he cares about..and no matter where we are he will always talk about it) He didnt answer me and gave the phone to my mom. Then he came over to me and did his little silent yelling thing and goes..you shut the h*ll up! And I go oh my gosh im just trying to eat dinner. And he just kept telling me to shut up. Then for some STUPID reason he grabbed my plate and took it out to the kitchen. I go oh my gosh what are you doing?? Now I cant even eat?!? He came back out to me and grabbed my arm tightly and it burned again and he pulled me out to the kitchen. He goes you eat this out here. Then I tried to leave the kitchen because I was going to go up to my room..but he wouldnt let me and just kept pushing me back. Then I finally went up to my room and slammed the door and locked it. He came up and got it unlocked and came in and goes..what the h*ll do you think your doing? Shes trying to talk on the phone and all your doing is yelling. I was like oh my gosh you were the one who was yelling and who started it. you didnt havvve to answer the phone..and even when were eating dinner! and hes like bulls**t blah blah blah. Then I kept saying..get out of my room! And I pushed him out. Now he keeps coming back up here and asking..did I leave the remote in here? and I go no...and he just stood there and then left. Then he came back up and was like it has to be in here...and then he searched all over. It was stupid because we both know he didnt bring it up here..and I was just like uhh what the heck?? He just seems to like to start fights and likes to keep bringing it back up. My mom doesnt believe what I say..mostly because I think she would be too scared to say anything to him. So, she just pretends to not believe it and doesnt do anything about it. He is not a alcoholic. He just gets mad easy and for stupid things. Do you think hes becoming abusive? What should I do?? (link)
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Hello. I am really sorry to hear that you are having such a problem like this. I understand what you are going through because some of my friends had abusive parents. Although it doesn’t seem like your father is such an abusive man. He just seems very sick as I like to put it. He probably just has a weak nerve system. So does my grandmother. I could relate to you in your situation because there are times when she does go crazy and start to yell or bitch at me for no reason. She sometimes could squeeze my arm but that hardly ever happens. But it does. But I leaned to understand that it’s not really her fault. So I try to get over it no matter how wrong she is. And so should you. After all he is your father and he hasn’t done anything really that harmfully and I hope he doesn’t. So just try to ignore him, don’t talk back and just try to make things around the house easier for him. But if god for bid he does start to hurt you please talk to your mother or the cops or someone you know. Because it is wrong for him to be hurting you and always remember no matter how scared you might be its better to tell someone then hurt people you love around you and most of all yourself. But for now just cool down and maybe just talk to him when he’s in a good mood and tell him how u feel. Maybe you’ll let out a good cry.
Well good luck I wish you and your family all the best and if you ever want to talk
I am here. Just im me on adOrablexOmaShka
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hey im a 14 year old guy..ok theres this girl who lives in a different city who i met thru some friends who i LOVE! she is so aweosme! and she loves me too, which is great. but theres a girl at my school who really likes me and i kinda like her..and i might want to ask her out in the summer, but i wouldnt be able to flirt with the girl i love and she'd never forgive me or trust me again. but its hard cuz the long distance, even tho i visit her a few times a year. should i ask the girl at my school out or stick with the girl i love? i rate high for good advice (link)
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I ask of you one thing as a women . . please dont say that you love her without really feeling it! love is such a strong word and shouldnt be used if you dont mean it! im not saying that you dont but as i see it if you do then why would you ever even think about going out with another girl. If you truely loved her you wouldn't even see yourself going out with another girl. another thing is your young only 14 you have your whole life ahead of you. More girls to pick from and so on. But the real question you should ask yourself is do i really love her? if you do. And i mean really do then stick with her. Love is such a beautiful thing and if there is love theres never an end.
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ok, there's this girl, i'm not really 'friends' with her but i act like it because she is shy and not a lot of people can stand how shy she is...anyways, at lunch yesterday her chicken sandwich wasnt cooked properly and she started telling me to bring it up for her. so i said 'no, it's yours, i'm eating my lunch, you gotta do some things on your own' was i right? because she always wants someone to do things for her....like take out her trash go to the bathroom with her...i'm sick of her being so dependent on others. (link)
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Im sorry to say hun but you didn't do the right thing or at least in my eyes. I have a friend just like her. And the reason for her acting the way she does isn't becuase shes lazy or wants people to treat her as a princess its actually because she has problems of self Confidence. She feels shy around people because of that reason only. She feels as if though people are gonna think she's ugly, or not cool, or whatever the reason is. She may had also had bad experience with another person putting her down. So please next time why dont you actually take the time to talk to her and ask why shes so shy. You may be surprised with the answer. You yelling at her to do it her self may have put her down into thinking she's a bad person. And i dont think thats the case. By the way another word of advice if you dont care about her and arn't really her friend you shouldnt make her feel as though you are that could really hurt her feelings. Its better to leave people that you feel sorry for alone then to hurt them even more then the already are. Trust me on this.
dont mean to sound like a bitch with everyone else telling you you are right but juts telling it how it is and maybe some other points of veiw
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