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I totally blew it...
Ok. I was planning a surprise for the best teacher of all time. I had the principal call my teacher out of the room and had the assistant principal come in and i discussed the surprise and collected some money. Right after my teacher came back, my friend shouted out, "Mrs. *******, we have a surprise for you." The class went dead silent and I almost burst into tears. During my next class, I wrote him a note explaining that if he had any consideration for other people, he wouldn't have blabbed. He is now officially supermad at me, and I feel terrible. I think I came off as a bitch and i need to fix that by the morning! Ahhh
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wow hun you shouldn't worry about it. No your not a bitch. First off you did the right thing you told him how you feel and what he did was wrong. oh my god if that was me i would have punched him in the head or kicked him in the balls or something
but then agian it wouldn't be the wrong thing to do. so i respect that you took the time to write him
a note so that no one could see it. So i dont undersrand what hes problem is! He was wrong and he needed to know that! And you told him in the best way you could have. Dont worry hes just a baby and you didnt do anything wrong!
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Okay, if you really did act bitchy, then you should apologize. Of course, what he did was inconsiderate. So what you should do is wait for him to talk to you. Then tell him that you're sorry about acting like that. If he doesn't come around... then that's not right.
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what are you talking about?
-hitler
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You didn't blow it, your friend did. Its ok to be upset about a surprise you had planned and somebody shouted out about it. You are right, if your friend would have cared about everyone elses' feelings he wouldn't have even thought about it. Your friend honestly has no right to be angry with you, hes just mad because you're mad at him. You came off as a "bitch" because you wanted this to be a surprise, don't feel so bad, your anger is suppose to be there. Your friend needs to fix this, not you, hes the one who broke it. Hes just mad because he made a immature joke to ruin something and nobody cared to laugh, and it made him more angry that you didn't laugh either. I understand you want to fix this, but don't please him by saying, "Oh I'm so sorry [John], I was just being a bitch to you yesterday." You set him straight by saying, "I'm not going to be mad at you forever, but you ruined something that was important to me, so I'm not apologizing for acting the way I did." What you felt is right, your friends reaction was wrong.
-TheTeenGirl
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There's no reason to be feeling terrible. You wrote a letter instead of yelling at him so you're far from being a bitch.
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Just tell him you may have gotten a bit carried away but you yourself was pretty mad at the fact that the surprise didnt work out. Tell him your so sorry and you shouldnt have blown out of porpotion. He may need a day or 2 to cool down. Sorry i hope all works!-trix
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why should you feel terrible if he wrecked your whole surprise??
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