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KateStar1011
My horse started limping yesterday and I dont know whats wrong with her. She is 23 years old but acts like a young horse. I cant afford to take her to the vet because Im only 13 and I already babysit to get her food. i even got her for free! I would really like to know what is wrong with her. (link)
check to make sure a rock or something like that isnt stuck in her hoof.. if you cant find anything wrong with her, try to raise money take her picture and put it a tack store, or a per store with a coffee can or something to put money in like a fund raiser, on the picture, add a piece of paper at the bottom stating her name, the problem, and why your raising money. have fun!
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*Melissa


Hi...ok i just got 2 baby turtles and i have read a lot of aticles (like be4 i got them and everything so i would know what 2 do) and stuff but i was wondering if anyone with turtles would reply 2 me when they got there turtles and how big there tank was and how they took care of them and how long u have had them and anything else...ok thnxxxx!!!!! :) (link)
the tank should be big enough for them to swim in and grow in (find out how big they get by doing research!) if its a big turtle about the size of a dinner plate, get a child waiding pool for them (the plastic ones =D) and put fencing (chicken wire) around it so they dont get out! have fun!
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*Melissa


I have a male Australian terrier .last week i got a female in heat so as to mate but when i put them in the kennel together they refused to. Eventually i released them letting them get to know each other but again as my dog tried to get on her back the female sat down and refused to get up. What did i do wrong or if it is not me what could be the reason for this? (link)
give the female time, she may not be used to the dog yet, it takes a little while to get used to each other! sometimes it just doesnt work out, but if they fight, try to keep them in seperate rooms! the female might not find the male dog suitable mate for her! if that happens dont worry about it! have fun!
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*Melissa


i just reciently got an juvenile iguana, named Draco. hes pretty small, and verrrrry skiddish. whenever i put my hand in the cage, he spazzzzes out so badly. my mom and the pet shop ownver said he will sooner or later get over it and trust me. does anyone know how long it will take, and what i can do to help our relationahip grow?


please help---will rate well if answered;)

-britski- (link)
your mom was rite, its just a phase they go through! try holding it and petting it, and talk to it! talk with it gently! feed it treats by hand too!
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*Melissa


well, my horse is being trained, and i want her to trust me more. although, as a girl, she has a bitchy attitude. i know i should do groundwork, but whatelse could i do?? i can almost ride her, maybe in a few weeks.

will rate well!! (link)
spend as much time with her as much as you can and talk with her, sweetly and softly, as you talk to her, feed her treats and pet her on the head, also its back! be gentle with her!!
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*Melissa


my foster kitten is a biter! ahh!! he does not know what to do with himself if he is not biting something..including me! What can i do to stop him from doing this? (link)
get little toys or wood blocks (not big, small!) so they can bite on those! give it food, also give it tuna or chicken when it doesnt bite! also tap it on the nose when it bites! also if it doesnt work get a spray bottle/water gun and squirt it on the face, (try not to get the eyes!)once every time it bites! have fun!
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*Melissa


arite well rite now im cleanin my hampster cage and im soaking EVERYTHING in dish soap and hot water...well my hampster like is in his lil hampster ball while im doing this and hes not like a tiny lil hampster hes really big!! and healhty...well he peed in his hampster ball and hes done this b4 but i juss wash the ball after i get the cage back together...shuld i wash the hampster??? how wuld i do it?? like in a bowl? i dont wanna kill my hampster but shuld i wash him? (link)
wash them with a damp towel on hot days, no more than once every 2 1/2 - 3 months, try not to get it too wet, and dont blowdry it! hehe! hampsters get sick (colds) very easily when wet so dry him quicky and throughly! have fun but be careful!!Hope i helped! if ya need anything else drop it in the inbox!!
*Melissa


I want to get a pet SOOOO bad but i cant convince my parents ive done the research i have all the money i have threee of the best dogs to choose from but they still wont let me (link)
try showing your parents your responsible by maybe babysitting pets aroung your neighborhood, yes you can take the kids too!! that will probably help! also try getting a small pet, try a fish (BETTA!!) first, next try a hampster, they are easier than dogs and cats, also try guinea pigs (i love the american short haired, they are sooo soft!!! and easy to manage!) also try a perivian! (dont curl/straighten/crimp ect. their hair! it might be tempting though! hehe!)then just move up!
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*Melissa


My dog has been sleeping a lot more during the day than usual and i dunno why. She isn't feeling up to going out to play or anything either. I am worried. Will this stop soon? She is 9 years old though and she is healthy too. What is wrong?

Signed- Puppy Love XoXoX (link)
your dog may be tired more than usual because she is getting older, she may have arthritus, and older dogs need more sleep. go to the vet and get it checked for arthritus, if the vet says she doesnt have it, its just because shes too tired and getting older!
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*Melissa


whats a good name for a new fish?

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depends what kind of fish it is, try thinking of what it looks like besides a fish, and how it acts!
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*Melissa


Hey i have a dog and Our family loves him to death. He is an outside dog but we take care of him very well. The problem is that whenever i invite a friend over it seems like they think i abuse my dog and they ask me tons of questions what should i do so that i feel more confedine and not get scared when friends are coming over or when i invite a friend over? (link)
if the dog looks really thin, and you can see its ribs, there might be something wrong with the dog, so try going to the vet and see if something is wrong with it, to make sure its ok, also you should always bring your dog in during blizzards or bad weather and make sure it had shelter all the time.. also food and water..
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*Melissa


does anyone on here have a shar-pei? if so, does yours smell really bad? mine does and i was wondering if its just the breed, like odor gets up under the wrinkles or something, or if its just rolling around in something really nasty (link)
try washing it everyday, (sometimes with a damp towel!) and cleaning where it stays! also try brushing it everyday.. good luck! Hope i helped! if ya need anything else drop it in the inbox!!
*Melissa


how can I get my dog trained fast (stuff like doing his business outside and stuff) without paying money for it??

ps. I RATE REALLY WELL!!! (link)
the 1st step is lighty scolding it when it goes to the bathroom inside, when it goes outside and goes to the bathroom give it a doggie biscut! or any other treats! to get it to sit, push its bottom on the ground and say sit, while you do this, (give it a treat too!) also to make it stay, walk slowly away, go step by step though, slowly and softly and when it stays give it a treat! have fun!! Hope i helped! if ya need anything else drop it in the inbox!!
*Melissa


i am interested in getting sea monkeys. ive done tons of research and know all about them now. does any one else have them? if you do, do you like them? also, how much is a good kit? there are many kits, so im not sure which to get! thanx, i rate :)
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sea monkeys are a great pet to have! they dont require much care but are really fun to watch! a good kit costs about 7 - 10$$ make sure the kit contains these items :
*the eggs
*a small take (a 4 X 5 tank that can hold about a cup + 1/2 of water)
*food (not for u lol)
*water-clearrrrer-upperrrer (lol.. it cleans the water)
if you have any other pets, make sure u/them knock over the tank
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*Melissa


My husband and I are adopting a cat today from the Humane Society. The cat is 4 years old, and has not been declawed. I feel it would be inhumane to do declaw her, but I am worried about her scratching my furniture, and me as well. Does anyone have any alternitives to declawing, or how to prevent her from scratching the furniture.

And any other tips for a new cat owner would be appriciated. (link)
1st of all, declawing a cat is painful and tramatic for a cat, 2nd of all it wouldnt be able to defend itself, either an outdoor/indoor cat, its still needs to defend itself just incase it does get out! no matter how careful you are it still happens! to get it to not scratch the furniture, try spraying the cat with a spray bottle, or a water gun, and also get it a scratching post, and reward it with treats (tuna or some chicken)!! Hope i helped! if ya need anything else drop it in the inbox!!
*Melissa


I have allway wanted a pet chicken do you think they are a good pets ? cuz my family is thinkin about movein to a fram like in 3 year and i just wanted no if they would or not :) (link)
yes, they would most likley be a good pet if you have the time and energy to take care of it.. it also depends on where you live, if you live in he city, its nota great idea, if you live in the country, its a great idea!! but dont put 2 roosters together, they'll fight and prolly kill each other! so get a female, so she can make more eggs to eat for breakfast and shes less likley to fight with another chicken than a male... good luck and Hope i helped! if ya need anything else drop it in the inbox!!
*Melissa


ok well about a week ago ii got braces and on my bottom lip inside i have like this sore from them and the dentist sed i would for a few days but it hurts REALLY bad wen my braces hit it or i smile and i dont know what to do help!!!! (link)
Ok, well you can use wax, go to a grocery store and ask the clerk if they have wax for braces, also try Peroxyl, its cheap and you can get it at grocery stores too. If ya need anything else just drop it in the inbox!!
*Melissa


How do I get more people to ask my column for advice? I have answered a couple random questions, but how do I get people to ask me directly or more or at all? Any Advice welcome! (link)
Ya cant make people ask ya, just answer like 20 - ?? (how ever many u want) and put "If you want to ask anything else, ask me by sending it to my inbox" If they feel comfortable, like they want to ask you, and dont feel you'll give bad advice, they'll ask you, and the more they ask, the more they'll tell friends! Good luck!!
If you want to ask anything else, ask me by sending it to my inbox
*Melissa



how long should i wait b4 i tell a girl how i feel about her after she breaks up with someone she really loved.the only reason they broke up was because he was moving to another state. thanx
dan (link)
give her time to get over him, or stop worrying about it, talk to her abotu how she feels then if she gets into no1 cares about me, say i do al ot and stuff like that! hope i helped!!
*Melissa


i am 13 (almost 14) and a chick. i am like realli tall for my age (5'9") and i look way older than i realli am but i cant help it. and i am also deffinatly not ugly. but alot of guys that are older than me (16 and up) like constantly hit on me, whistle at me, check me out, flirt wit me, etc.,etc. what can i do to appeal to guys my own age? (link)
older guys rule!! lol!! try some of them!




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