ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months, but we've been close friends for about a year. when we first got together, everything was great.. we were so happy together!!! but then over the summer i went on a family vacation for alomost a month (i kept in touch with him as much as i could while i was gone, but i was overseas and it was hard) and when i got back (on his birthday! wouldnt think that was a good present? lol) he acted like he didnt care about me anymore. and it gets worse.. im a senior and he graduated last year, and he works two jobs, so it makes it hard to see him. when hes not working he "forgets" to call me and goes fishing or some other manly thing with his friends. now, i dont have a problem with his friends, but for some reason, his friends dont like me. whenever my boyfriend is with them, he acts like he doesnt like me either. for example, the other night he called me when i got off of work, and then in the middle of my sentence i could hear his friends come over and hes goes "look b!+
Aww Im sorry. This is the hard truth: When a guy calls you a B---- then it is over. His friends are influencing him a lot. What would your parents think if they knew you wanted to be with someone that called you that? or ditches you, or ignores you, or doesnt make time to spend with you? Guys dont like breaking up with girls...so they act like cruddy boyfriends. Let him go. and find someone that will throw you a party on his B-day just b/c you got back, or someone who will tell his friends to back off if they are saying stuff about you, or will take a sick day to spend extra time with you. Your boyfriend kind of stinks.
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sorry it's so long, and please look at this in an open-minded manner, and i'm not looking for answers that say you're waiting for marriage so i'm a slut. i'll rate high if you tried, and low if you're ignorant.
my ex-boyfriend broke up in august and aren't dating exclusively, but we still hook-up from time to time. hooking up meaning having sex. we had sex today, and then i went to the movies with one of my close guy friends. we went back to my guy friend's house and we had sex. i really want to forget it ever happened and not tell anybody, though. the guy promised he wouldn't tell, and i trust him. the thing is, if it gets out somehow, and my ex-boyfriend finds out, he'll hate me. should i tell him or just let it slide? by the way, i'm on birth control and i only have sex with a condom.
wow. ok. Having sex is a hard thing to forget isnt it? Your ex shouldnt be mad...that is the thing about exes, THEY ARE EXES. If he is mad then so what? He is just mad because he lost his booty call. That is confusing, but I think that you need to decide this for yourself. Do you want to keep Ex or go with the New Guy? I can tell you right now it is going to be hard to have both.
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right i think i like two guys and i can't pick between them they both told me they have feelings for me and they have both asked me out and because i could not pick i said no to them both. So heres the thing Jacks a muslim it will never be allowed by my mum if she found out she would go mad. James would be allowed its just i don't spend much time with james everyone says how cute me and james would be... but james just seems like he never wants to be with me in college. i am not sure what to do.someone help please. thank you.
this is going to sound cheesy, but follow your heart. I really liked a black guy and I had kept it from my mom for a while and so when i told her she told my dad and then they started yelling at them I callde them a racist and they were all "WE ARE NOT RACIST" even though they totally are. Anyawy, the point of that schpeal is that your parents arent perfect, but it is up to you to decide what you want. Your parents and other family members may not want you to do this, and remember, hell hath no fury like an unhappy familes wrath..
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Alright, Me and this guy were talking a lot and he told me he loved me and all that jazz. Then he started getting mad at me over stupid things and once I would explain myself he would be like alright. Then we got in this huge fight. And fought for a week. Then just yesterday he IMed me out of the blue. He said that he wanted to try the friends thing for now. I really like this kid, If I don't love him. I don't know what to do. He's always flirting with other girls and everything and I'm just like...wow. I really want to go out with him. But I know he would say no. I just wish he would like me.
I mean whenever he said he wanted to try the just friends thing for now part he sent me this poem/letter he wrote during the week we were mad at eachother and it made me cry. It basically said that he will always care about me and that sometimes he's stupid about things and wishes I would just over look them.
I really don't know what to do. I'm so confused. I just want him to like me..Wow...Please help me.
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Aww that sounds sweet! And a little confusing. Ugh guys..anyways..just tell him you like him.
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Well I have been dealing with an impulse control disorder called Trichillomania. For those of you who don't know what that is, it's a disorder in which you have impulses to pull out your own hair. Well about a year ago I started pulling out my eyebrows, I have pulled them all out and they have been this way for that amount of time. I keep plucking them out every time a new one grows in. Well now I am in therapy for this and taking anti-depressant medication(Zoloft) which has helped the intensity go away to pull. Now my eyebrows are starting to grow back. It has taken them a week to finally start growing back without me touching them. I was wondering how long do you think it will take for them to be fully grown back in, and is there anything I can do to make them grow faster? Rogaine? I heard it works, but not so sure.
Honestly I am not sure. Mine grow back a week and and a half to 3 weeks fter I get them done. By the way, good job on not pulling them :)
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Okay this is pretty unlike me and I know I'm gonna sound retarded, but this weekend me and a few of my buddys are going to the mall and they're are always reeeeeaaallll fine girls there and even though I'm not a bad looking dude (shallow?) I always never have any courage to approach them, any suggestions? I would be mucho greatful =)
Any girl will take it as a compliment no matter how ugly a guy is if he approches her and her friends at a mall, or anywhere. I know I would. Just relax and be yourself.
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wondered if there are any advice on this topic. i don't mind players, as long as they don't play me... are there any signs to tell if a woman is looking for more than just (pretty shallow) fun?
Yeah, if she doesnt sexual with you a lot. If she acts like she cares, or remembers lil things that you say then she really cares about you. If she only remembers what you *ah hem* look like, then you might want to find someone new...
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My crotch incessantly itches, wich I know can be a symptom of an STD/STI, but I'm a virgin (no one other than me has touched it since I was a baby). I've had problems with urinary tract infections in the past. So should I really be worried? 14/f
me too...I am too embarrased to tell anyone though so I just ignore it it goes away..
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Well there a girl I really like and we have been awsome friends. I want to tell her the way I truly feel about her, but I don't want to make anything more akward then they are, and ruin our friendship. It already came close to being decimated, and so whats the best way to let it out.
Aww, I like my best guy friend and I wish he would tell me if he likes me or not..tell her. For me.
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Mmk.. I was supposed to get my period around the 13-15 and now it is the 18...what's wrong??
Thanks.
Sometimes stress can do that or if you are being really athletic. Everything is probably normal unless you have had sex recently in whihc case you might want to get a pregnancy test or something.
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Does anyone know any cheer websites that i can go to?? I need it fast!!! Please and Thank You.
14/f
go to about.com and type in cheerleading on the search. Their sites are really good.
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I had my period for two years not and it still doesnt come every month. Like when i do sports i never have it but over the summer i have. Is this normal? Im a 14/f. I asked my mom and she says its normal but my friends started last year and they have theirs every month. Do i need to get it chech or am I worring about nothing.
Thanks For the HELp
Sometimes when you are athletic you dont get your period. Also if you are stressed you may not get it either. I am a hard-core cheerleader (yup there is such a thing) and I miss my period sometimes, especially near a competition. Dont worry, your mom is right.
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Ok, my girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 3 weeks. Last night we went out to dinner and we made out under the star-blanketed sky at the beach. She called me later that night and sometime later she asked me If I had thought about having one last "night". What should I do? I want to. But I don't know if I should.
Psh Im sorry hunny but you are her booty call. Find someone who cares about you. And makin out? Yeah, not exactly what I'd call "broken up". But since you seem to want to then you might want to let her know if it is really "one last night" or the beginning of a bunch of "one last nights", because you dont want to find Ms. Right and then have your ex over there wantin you to come over and make babies with her! NOPE! Let her go, even if she is a babe.
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ok my best friend or was best friend is trying to get attention from everyone in a bad way. shes getting on everyones nerves and i want to tell her real bad but i don't know how to tell her. she hates volleyball and shes over there going i love volleyball its the best sport just to get a attention and its getting way out of hand what can i do to keep our friendship because we are fixing to lose it. HELP!!
Im sorry. Go ahead and tell her, but make sure that you stress that you DO NOT feel that way. It might make her feel like everyone is against her and that is not what you want to be doing. Tell her that people are saying XY and Z and just be gentle to her, but honest too. Maybe tell her that while you are getting your nails done or shopping or something casual...
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Me and my friend Alex I thought were pretty good friends. Her and I borrowed some clothes from eacho other. And last week I called her to ask her if I could come and pick up some clothes and my mom was yelling really loud in the back ground and Alex said my mom hates her. I went to her house to pick up my clothes and she really didnt say much. It was homecoming week last week and AL and I did tug of war at our pep rally and she didnt even say anything to me really. I saw her at our homecoming on saturday and all she said to me was hi..I heard from this girl Rae that I know that Alex told her about my mom. And Al doesnt like drama. I dont know if her and I are friends any more. Its not my fault that my mom was yelling. I told Al that I was sorry about it..Al and I used to hang out alot and I love the gurl to death bc she was one of my best friends..Idk if I should just ignore the problem or talk to her about it..i am usually good with situations like this but this time idk what to do..I just want all this fixed..what should I do.
Aww Im sorry. Tell her what you are saying here. Say to her that you love her to death and that you are sorry your mom was yelling but you cant really help it. Ask her if she is OK. Take her out. ust pretend like everything is normal.
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When I was younger, I was a gymnast. I quit gymnastics and started karate, and doing other things. When I became an actual cheerleader, [I started cheering again in second grade], in about 8th grade I started tumbling again. But I'm scared to try anything. What do I do??
Me too. I used too. That was exact situation a year ago. I had this huge mental block on just a back-handspring, but then my coach said something I will never forget, and I live by it; "Dont think about what might happen, think about what you need to do." And now I have my full!
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does he like me?
i like this kid who is in my group of friends that ij ust started really talking to at the end of the summer. he is soo good-looking with a nice body and everything and a ton of the girls like him. most of them barely talk to him and just like him because of his appearance but other do talk to him too and know he's a nice guy.
i really really really like him. my best friend (who's a guy) is good friends with him and he is going to ask him who he likes..but i want to know what you guys think.
-in gym class we had to do this thing where you had to sit on the lap of the person behind you..he was going to have to sit ona guy so he asked me to move behind him. hahaha.
-he comes over to talk to me a lot in gym
-he's walked to study with me both times that i've gone the same way as him (i usually go a different way and don't see him)
-in that same activity in gym i had to wrap my arms around his waist so i wouldnt fall (alright, alright..cause i wanted to) and he told my best friend about it later.
-in study i was sharing a seat with my friend who sits next to him so i was between them so i was sitting pretty close to him and i was trying to read his french (i take spanish) and he was laughing and turning red when i talked to him.
-when my friends and i went out to lunch he asked "is maggie..or anyone else coming?" (my name is maggie)
-when my best friend was talking about bio class he started talking about how he did bio homework with me in study. it was completely random..had nothing to do with what my friend was talking about except it had to do with biology..and the story had no point whatsoever.
-he smiles and says hi to me whenever he sees me in the hall
-after study he always walks out with me and walks with my until we have to go different ways.
that's all i can think of right now. please tell me what you think. i think he might but i don't know if he is just being friendly cause we haven't really talked a lot before.
Oo la la! Yup, he prob likes you. Good luck maggie!
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Okay so theres this really creepy older guy that is living common low with another woman and is always hitting on me. He honks at me when he drives by in his car (which is almost every day)and has called me cutie when he was on his bike.
This one time he came into my work ( I was receptionist) and started asking me how old I was, where I lived, and then told me I looked really good and he wanted to phone me. I told the staff and they were going to phone the cops, but he never came in again so they never called them.
He is a total sleaze, I talked to one of his kids once and they said that he's fathered nine sons by nine different woman.
Other people have told me he his really mean to his wife. He has spent time in jail and was banned from the place I worked for harassing other people.
At first I just laughed off his behavior but It is really beginning to bother me. I don't want to tell him to stop honking at me and stuff because I don't want to piss him off but also don't want him to think I like him.
What should I do?
Uhh, I would think the police could help. You never no what this guy might do. He sounds really sick to me. He could try to rape you or something. This is beyond a web sites or your help.
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Righto, my monthly visit (period) just came by again. It's weird, it's really uncomfortable and it hurts just to walk.. I was just wondering how can I make my cramps a little better and any hints/tips on periods? Thanks
Try an Advil or Midol. But if it doesnt help you might want to go to the doctor or something because my friend had to and she takes birth control now for her cramps. Also she says it is funny when you see the reaction of people when they find out you take birth control. lol.
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theres this bump on my arm. its really itchy and its in the shape of a heart. people tell me its a misquito bite but i dont think it is. the funny thing is that a few weeks ago i was drawing a heart on my arm with a pen in the exact same spot were its itchy. now the bump is kinda yellowish and around it is an out-line of the heart in a very very faint pinkish purple. i dont know what it is and im starting to get scared. please help and no smart asses please. thanks in advance
EEK! Ok, I dont know what it is..but you know who does? A doctor. And I think you should definately ask one what it is.
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