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can i just ask you people a question....
how old were you when you had your first boyfriend or girlfriend and your first kiss?????

15 for both, kinda late but i didn't care.

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Ok when you go to a site or something and you want a blinkey how can you get it if theres not URL link or anything to copy?

you can right click on the picture, go to properties, and under "address/URL" that's the link. sorry if that's not what you meant!

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okay i have this boyfriend and he's a bad kisser...wats a girl to do without hurting his feelings??

you can say something along the lines of: "you're not a bad kisser or anything, but i prefer it more like this" and show him, but that's a brave gesture. unless you wanna be brutally honest to him, you either have to put up with his bad kissing, or just kiss him how you like it and he'll copy you maybe.

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I have a keyboard and I wanted to start playing it. Can anyone tell me what the keys are for it? Like what each key is so i can look up tabs and stuff? THANKS! Ill rate.

i've played piano for four years, so if what you want are the keys, then:
the first white key directly to the left of two upper black keys is called C.
from then on, it's just D, E, F (F is directly to the left of the set of three black keys, just making sure we're on the same page), G, A, B, and then at the next set of two black keys is back to C.
it just goes like that all the way down the keyboard, it's not too hard.
if you're wanting to play, most beginning songs start at middle C, which, obviously, is the C in the middle.
i'm sorry if that isn't what you wanted or you wanted me to go in more detail, just drop me another question if you need help!

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heres my big Q is on my column I want to put a image on it but have no Idea how? if you want to check it out my column am opin8ed thanks a bunch.

go to profile settings, and if you have the link go under "url a picture of you" and put it there, or go to "upload a picture of you" if the picture's in your computer, go to browse and find it. hope i helped!

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18/m

My next door neighbor is this beautiful, green eyed angel to me. We spend all our time together, late nights till 5 and 6 in the morning just cutting up and looking at the stars. We share everything in common, even the lil things we love each other for. Ive known her about 4 months now and we have gotten very close, romantic settings, kissing hugging etc. Now heres the punch line .. shes 24 and married and she has her own kid.

I mean ive raised kids all my life and this is no big deal to me but I dunno what to do .. leave her to her life or start a relationship when shes divorced

if she truly wants to be with you, she'll leave her husband for you. but if this is just a little fun on the side she's having and refuses to divorce her husband, i'd say bye to her. you have to find out just how serious she is with you. for now though, i would stop seeing her until she gets everything sorted out. just remember, things happen and you can't help who you love.

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what are some flirty sweet names to call a guy besides sexy or baby???

my boyfriend and i use the dorkiest names, like they aren't suitable for a guy but i use them anyway, he thinks it's funny. but i call him sweetie, sugar, honey, pumpkin, sweetie pie, and all that. cheesy and silly, but we're like that lol.

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does anyone know any game websites that you don't have to register in?

this is an emergency!!!

gprime.net, i don't think you have to for neopets.com, or you can go to msn.com and go to the games section. hope i helped!

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has anyone tried the veet rasera bladeless kit? does it really work? is it worth it? thanks
♥BLAiR

yea i've tried it, it worked surprisingly well. my legs were really smooth afterwards. i don't really think it kept them any smoother than using a normal razor would, but it's still faster. however, make sure you follow the time, i kept mine on for over the time said, and it started burning. i wouldn't really say it's worth it though, shaving is cheaper and more convenient cuz you can just do it in the shower.

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Ok so I met a girl at a picnic. Shes very shy and so am I. Im 21 shes 19. I saw her again at another picnic the week after and I asked her for her number and got it and we hung out that whole night. I called her Tuesday and like she didn’t ask one question and I opened up somehow and asked a lot. Thing is shes very shy and actually never had a boyfriend before because she focused on family and school. So what do I do to open her up and find if she even likes me. Any advice is helpful.

P.S. What would a good first date be for some one who never had a bf?

all you can do is spend time with her, get her more comfortable with you. i'm really shy too, and it took over a month before i was completely normal around my boyfriend. the only way to find out if she likes you is to ask. as for a good date, do something that wouldn't be awkward. i'd skip going to dinner, there'd be silence. maybe just a walk through the park, hanging out and watching tv, something easy where you can get to know each other but there's no pressure. or you could go to some sports game together, like football or basketball if you're into that. just be creative!

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this year i was in 9th grade and i had to go to summer school because of my grades what suggestions do u have to keep my grades up for next year so this wont happen?


The student

take notes during class and pay attention. and ask questions if you don't understand something! do all of the homework, because in one class i never did the homework because the teacher never checked, and i did so horrible. study at least three days before a test, so you aren't cramming everything in the night before. for things that are hard to remember, make a flashcard and look at it every day to try to memorize. sometimes i make up songs with facts, it's a really easy way to recall them. if you don't get something, ask the teacher if you can come in so she can explain it better. if there's a chance to do extra credit, always do it.

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I know there have been alot of kiss questions lately so I'm sorry if this has been asked before. When my boyfriend & I are kissing, we don't use any tongue & I think that's because we haven't been dating for long & we're just getting used to eachother. Is there anything we can do to make the kisses more exciting without tongue?

Thanks,
Elle

you can tease him and kiss his neck, cheek, ear, anywhere besides his lips and make him go crazy. or you can increase touching, but i'd say that's even more than french kissing. there isn't really all that much you can do, except maybe nibbling on his bottom lip.

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well im 14/f and i have no idea how to make out lol...i was wondering if anyone can help/give me tips on doing it because im sort of afarid to because i think ill mess up :( like should i wear lipgloss? ahh what should i do?

confussed

p.s i rate

first off, i wouldn't wear lipgloss. it may taste good but it kinda feels gross when you kiss, like it'll make it slimy. wear chapstick instead, that's all you need. and making out is easy, we all get freaked out before it, but once you get to that point you'll know what to do, just by instinct. here are some steps though:
1. lean in so he knows you're about to kiss
2. start off with a few little, sweet kisses
3. once you get going, tilt your head a little, open your mouth, hopefully he will too, and think of it as your two tongues dancing together, if that makes sense. just mess around with this, you'll find out how you like it.
4. find where you want your hands to be; one of mine is usually on his back, then the other one is around his neck, playing with his hair.
5. make sure you breathe lol
6. kind of press your whole body into him, guys love that.
7. if you want to stop, close your mouth slightly then go back to the little kisses and eventually pull away.

it'll take a few times to find out what you like and stuff, you'll also have to find a rhythm that you and the guy both enjoy, whether you like it slow or fast or what. sorry, it's a lot harder to explain it than it is to actually do it, so don't worry. and there's really no way you can screw up when you make out, some guys will like what you do and others won't. good luck!

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Hi um...evertime my period stops i always have this goey white stuff come out of my vagina i dont kno if it is normal or if i should tell a docter.

it's normal, unless it has a fishy smell, is thick like cottage cheese, or is a different color than white. if it's any of that, you could have a yeast infection.

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I'm really worried about my girl friend her grandpa is in the hospital. Well she's sad and streesed out. I'm sad for her, but I don't know what to do for her. So my question is... What should I do for her? Or should I do anything at all?

just be there for her when she needs you, make sure she knows she has a shoulder to cry on if she ever needs it. don't be overbearing, though, she might want some alone time as well.

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I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers.

i don't think you should be with either.. for now. think about how you really feel, and ask yourself things like: what makes you like both of them? who makes you feel the best? who makes you laugh and smile the most? who do you know will be there for you whenever you need them? who could you imagine being with 10 years from now? who knows you the most? who is sweet and treats you like a princess? who are you more comfortable around? who do you have more in common with? who would you always have a good time with? who can you talk to nonstop and never run out of things to say? who has those adorable things about them that you love? after all of those and more, hopefully you can figure out who's better for you. but if both of them are equally great, then just wait and see what happens; maybe zach will get over alli, maybe your feelings for elijah will grow, or maybe you'll get over one of them. just wait and figure your feelings out, and follow your heart. good luck!

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hay, me n my boyfriend get along GREAT, and we both love eachother ALOT, and he always asks me to go places with him, and i always think of an excuse not to go anywhere with him because i dont feel comftorable(sp?) around him, i dont know if its because hes older then me, or like what, and im not shy around boys, we've been going out for 2 months and i havent even hugged him, the one and only time i did was at our school fair and we werent even going out then!, please help, i dont know what to do

how can you love him if you aren't even comfortable around him? i'm sorry, but after two months, i don't think that feeling is going to go away, unless you make it. if you like him a lot, try to figure out what's making you uncomfortable around him, and fix that problem. but other than that, you may just have to move on; you can't have a relationship if you aren't comfortable around the other person.

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hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do?

i'm sorry but you can't do anything, that's a thing called incest, a no-no in all 50 states. even if you guys did get together, the entire family would be so weirded out, it just wouldn't work. wouldn't you get a little grossed out kissing a family member anyway? you can talk to him about it, but i really wouldn't do any more than that.

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im 13/f
what should i do if my crush would ask me out or something, but my friends realllyy like him too?
(i have this one friend, she likes the same guy that i do. she says she loves him and everything. but she doesnt know that i've like him since like 5th grade.) i have an idea that he kinda likes me too. i hear that he talks about me to his friends, and whenever im around him he asks me for hugs. im not sure if its just playful, or actually something. im not sure how to react if something happened, and he asked me out?? nfsap idk. im really confused. any tips????
-stuckkkkk

talk to your friend about how she'd feel if you two went out. if she doesn't like the idea and you're really good friends with her, i wouldn't go out with him. boys will come and go, but friendships can last forever. but if she's ok with it, then go ahead! hopefully she wants to see you happy, and she'll accept it.

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i shaved my pussy so my bf could fingure me, but it itches alot and it used to have red bumps, should i use nair or will it come back? thanks!!!!

oh geez, whatever you do don't use nair down there, it's not meant for that area. yea it's gonna come back, so you're either going to have to shave it again or get it waxed. waxing it will make it grow back more slowly and you shouldn't have the red bumps like you get with shaving, so i'd go with that.

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