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Hey.So i'm pretty good at advice and try to give you the best answers you need. Hopefully my words will give you what you were looking for, When in doubt, ask aloud!
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Hello im 19/f and im a healthy weight and height for my age. I want to start eating healthy and stay away from fatty foods. I have problems with buying junk food or microwavable food because its quick and easy. After the holidays im gonna get a membership at the YMCA and start working out.. but i think i need a push on that one too because i hate working out. Everybody has told me bring a friend to help encourage me but all my friends work 40 hours a week and never seem to have time. I also have a problem with when im hungry i stop at McDonald or some other fast food place. Its like this overwhelming need to have it. Almost like its an addiction when i get hungry. How can i stop this? I feel good when im eating junk food but once im full i really regret it and the food makes me sick to my stomach and feel like crap. The thing is when i get hungry i dont care if the food will hurt my stomach, i just want to eat it. Also i say i want to stop drinking soda. I tell myself after this 12 pack im gonna not drink it anymore but i find myself buying more and more. Anyways how can i stop all of this? I want to get healthy and start eating right but its hard. Nothing in the healthy part of the store seems to interest me. I tell myself i wont eat that so why should i buy it. I just need help! Any advice on what i should do? Thanks and i do rate
Hey,
Let me start off by saying, I was in the EXACT same position as you. It's basically just the lack of motivation. Literally, thats it. When you're motivated, you become determined! It takes a whole lot of committment. Plus before you start, your key word would be PATIENCE.It does take time. So heres what you got to do, REPLACE your soda with water, or flavoured water. I started off with flavoured water and eventually went to water, it's easier that way! Second, Come to terms with what the consequences will be by eating unhealthy. Put up a picture of someone you look up to and want to be like. It'll be helpful for the motivation. Whenever you get hungry drink water, it fills you're stomach more, or a helpful tip would be go on the "green tea" diet. Basically, drink green tea AS MUCH as you can. Plus it gives you great skin and cleans out you're internal system. You can never have too much of it. It doesnt take the best, but you will get used to it. WILL POWER is what you'll need tto stick to. Do you're best and believe in yourself! P.s try going to the gym during the morning, it's refreshing and will help you control your portions throughout the day.All the best with you're diet, prove to yourself you can do it and say hello to the new and healthy you!
i have been unintentionally sluttying it out this past month.
i get with a lot of boys who are all close friends and im usually drunk but im so sick of being treated like worthless ass.
i know i sound stupid but to them i prob seem as though i have zero reespect for myself and enough is enough!
how to i change my reputation?
how do i stop being percieved as the slut and start being taken seriously?
i know the first step is too stop drinking and stop gettign with byos obviously...
thanks agian
Hey,
Firstly let me say, I'm very proud of you for wanting to change. The first step IS realizing the type of person you are, and if you're not happy with what you are, you change. Your doing that. So well done, must take courage. My advice to you? Is to literally TAKE yourself seriously. Show everyone your drastic change. DONT do anything with any guy, for a very long time. Control yourself and resist. Make sure you never come across as EASY, be extremely hard to get and have BOUNDRIES. Dont tell people "Im changing now. I've changed"..because who doesn't say that? Just keep yourself to yourself and dont tell noone about your changing process. They'll notice themselves. Also, Good luck and stay motivated to change your ways!Have boundries.
so i'm eighteen girl and i dont know whats wrong with me but i'm always feeling really crappy. i'm not sick or anything. but i just don't feel good. as in, i'm not happy. all of my friends are always hanging out and making plans and they ask me to come with but i always say no because i'm not in the mood to be around people and i always just want to go home and sleep and be by myself. what is wrong with me? i used to be so social and happy.. now i'm just always in a bad mood. yes there was a lot of crap that happened in the past, so that could affect my mood. but that was in the past, and i'm trying to forget about it and move on. but i just can't seem to make myself happy again or in a good mood. i used to love shopping and going out to the movies. now all i want to do is come home and lay in bed. what do i do to get myself back to normal???
Hey,
Basically your allowing yourself to be put down even if you don't realize. Your letting you're past experience take over you. Have will power and make sure it doesn't. Only YOU can take control of YOURSELF, and you're emotions. Try and force yourself to go out more and hang out with you're friends,because soon enough you'll realize how fun it is! And how much your missing out by saying no. You've had enough days to mope around, its time to get back on you're feet! And overcome this emotion. Now, hold you're head up high and STOP feeling sorry for yourself! It may be difficult, but try to be optimistic! Realize you only live once, just once. You don't have time to be upset and stay in you're room! If you do that, you won't have time to..have FUN. This is you're own time and moments of life you're messing with, take control of you're life and live like a girl you're age should ! hopefully what you need! Good luck and don't fret.
so,i am always lonely when it comes to dating & friends...i havent had a boyfriend since early 2009 and all of my friends are so popular and dont really have time for me...what can i do? i really need some one to help me kill my worst enemy [too much time on my hands] urrg!!!!
Hey,
First of all, STOP feeling sorry for yourself. It's not right! Don't feel lonely, you're time will come for you to be truly happy. Everything takes time and patience. Look at the positive side and enjoy the good things in your life! Like the fact that all relationships come with baggage, tears and arguments! Having too many friends leads to gossip,rumours and fall outs! Be happy that you don't have to deal with that sort of stuff and take advantage of it. Everything happens when it's meant to happen. Keep yourself busy,try things you'd never think of trying! Acting,Singing,Dance! Unleash the talent in you. Everything has it's bright sides, so enjoy the awesome life you have! Good luck and don't fret!
so this group of friends I leaned back on because i was depressed and needed i guess a non popular click to hear me out. When i was sad and lonely i was like them, but now i am out going and i wanna be closer friends with my REAL friends, that i love. So i'm not really depressed anymore. I just don't want to be around people that were like me in the past, they don't fit in with my click and i don't want to be friends with them, so how do i get out of it? And please don't say "you shouldn't not be friends with hem anymore" They are annoying and bossy and crazy that why there not in my popular friends group, i just want them out. Not to be like a bitch but they really helped me out a lot but i really don't want to be friends with them anymore, and the people i am hanging out with now or my long-time friends are good listeners too. They are more social and out going and loud. Which is exactly my type thats how i am. But i felt out of place a year ago so i leaned on those other friends, but i know i cant have a relationship with both. SO HOW DO I STOP BEING FRIENDS WITH THEM? THANK YOU.
Hey,
OK, I have to tell you I'm completely honest when I give advice. You were basically using them, right? Ofcourse,you actually appreciated them at the time, but not now, as your back to your old self and you want to ditch them. You should tell them that you won't be hanging with them so much anymore, but you still would like to talk to them time to time. You have to say this so it doesn't seem like your abandoning them. Thank them and let them know how much you appreciate them and also, tell them they're welcome to hang out with you and you're old friends anytime! They probably wont, but it's always better to offer. Be sure not to come across as mean/rude, you have to remember that these people were nothing but helpful to you,and were probably the reason you got back on you're feet. Be polite and break it down gently!
so im going out with this guy and he's super amazing!!!!! but then theres this other guy who im best friends with but we've been a little bit more then just friendly lately...i dont know what to do should i break up with my bf for my best friend or just stop being as friendly? im 15 and female
Hey,
What do YOU want to do? What do you feel suits you? It depeneds on who you like more? I say you stick to you're boyfriend especially if he's super amazing, you seem like you're really in to him. Friends and boyfriends are completely different things. If you decide to go with you're best friend, things might go bad in the future, and you wont have only lost him as your boyfriend, but you would also have lost you're best friend. So stick with the boy you're already with, unless you think otherwise. Just that if you have you're best friend as you're boyfriend then you will lose him as both, and he will no longer be in you're life, because things might go bad
how do you know if he really loves you
Hey,
You know if he truly loves you if he's compeletely honest with you, doesnt act any different when he's with friends. Respects you and you're decisions. And when you know you can trust and feel comfortable around him. Also especially if he doesnt pressurise you into anything, and he always talks you whenever he gets the oppurtunity.Especially if he tells you he does love you, and if you see that look in his eyes, that he means it, then its true! I hope i helped & hope he does love you :) all the best.
Ive known this guy since 6th gradee, and we have dated since then, a little affer last Christmas we were dating&i ended up screwing up andd left him for someone else which was a mistake. We finally started talking these past few weeks or so andd seeing&talking to him made me miss and want him back so much more, but unfortuantley he's dating someone now. I want him to be mine for Christmas again, what should I do?! Could there be any creative or cute ways to get him back?!
Could i please get feedback asap!!
Heyy!
If you've dated this guy since 6th grade and then you both separated, the chemistry you both have had with eachother doesn't just disappear like that! I'm sure he feels a little something for you deep down too. He might like this new girl hes dating, but a strong possibility is that he's trying to get over you. Sounds odd, but trust me on this. It may look like hes REALLY in to her, but deep down I'm sure you name keeps on popping up! You're not guaranteed to get him back for christmas, but hey! What's life without any risks,right?! All you have to do, is speak to him, face to face preferably. Tell him how you feel and let him know you made a mistake by leaving him and you've learned you're lesson and that as soon as you left him, you left a big piece of yourself with him. Also that you need him back and also say how you will completely understand if he wants to stay with his girlfriend and that you don't want to cause any fuss, you just wanted to let him know how you feel rather than avoiding it and wondering the rest of you're life how it would have been if you didn't take any action. I really truly wish you luck, and i hope i helped so don't worry about it! Good luck!
18/female
ok so i have this best friend, well i don't even know if i can call her that anymore...we've been best friends for two years, and like any normal set of best friends we've had our fair share of fights. The last year has been running pretty smoothly and we we're inseparable. Then she started tafe, she was doing a music course and she met this girl, they quickly became good friends and soon enough all i would hear about is how close she and this other girl were getting. they even started a band together, when my friend knew how much i wanted to be in a band with her. Months had past and i still hadn't met this other girl yet, but apparently we were ridiculously alike. So we met one day, and i became that awkward third wheel, they would bring up personal jokes between them two that i didnt understand and i felt awkward to say the least.
as the months began to pass, i was slowly fading into the background, the new girl was a better me then me, well thats what i feel like anyway. My friends band has become really successful and its only brought them two closer together. Me and this other girl tried to get along but she thought i was weird and whatnot and i found it hard to talk to her even though we were so much alike personality wise. my friend is no longer calling me her best friend and now i feel so alone and replaced. Just to top it all of the two of them keep on rubbing it in how awesome their band is every time i talk to them.
but what really upset me happened two days ago. Me and my friend first became best friends over the love of a band that not many other people liked two years ago, ever since that day we went to see them in concert we had attended every single one of that bands gigs and meet and greets. So anyway i went to this gig unsure of whether she was going or not. only to get there and see her there with my replacement. the one special thing we used to do together and now it was no more. Just to top it all off, i had an AMAZING experience talking to the band members, as one of them that i have a little thing for actually remembered me. This was a HUGE deal to me because they see thousands upon thousands of faces every day, yet he remembered mine. After i had finished talking to them (and holding up the cue i might add) i waited and watched as my friend and her new bestie went and talked to them, the then came over and i told them that Bradie remembered me. they then rubbed it in that the band was obsessed with their band and that they were listening to their song on the car trip to the meet and greet.
The whole car trip home i had to listen to them talk about how awesome there band is and making my experience seem like nothing, when it meant the world to me. I just don't know what to do really. I mean its really hard for me to make friends and whatnot. I'd love to start a band too, on a side note so i can at least pursue that. Do i still even make an attempt to hang out with her?
Heyyyy!
Firsties, let me just say , you sound like an awsome friend! It's her loss that she seemed to have replaced you. I'm sorry if that sounds mean, but its true. My advice is always 100% honest, so please don't mind! You both have actually drifted apart, further as time went buy. She probably spent so much time with you as you both were inseparable, that she might have felt she needed a little more space? Thats usually healthy for best friends, because if you're always together, you'd run out of things to talk about, whereas if you both are like separated for a while, then you can always catch up with eachother and hear something different. If you know what I mean? But it seems that you're best friend has been too caught up in her new friend that she forgot her other one. This is crucial and you have to do it, if you want her back. You tell her how you feel. Trust me, this is from experience-successful! Tell her how left out you feel, but don't seem "needy"..and she might feel bad and whatever, then if you feel she STILL isn't giving you enough attension, then you move on. Hang out with others, and ONLY speak to her when she speaks to you. Okay? That way when she gets bored of her new friend she will miss you and come back to you. Thats a definate! She won't even need to be bored of her new friend to come back to you, she will just realise that she hasnt been seeing you around as much as she used to and regret the fact that she's pushed you away and think "oh my gosh, what have I done! i need my best friend back!". Sounds unreal, but guess what? It'll happen. She will miss you, let you in on a little secret, If you've been bestest friends, then that Chemistry that bestfriends have, doesn't disappear just like that! good luck!
Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. Okay well the thing, I have this thing where I get really uncomfortable with people man handling me... Haha I'm around 5'5 and I wiegh a little over a hundred pounds (106?) so I'm not big and I'm not strong. See I wasnt exactly raped but oneof my ex boyfriends did force me to give him a hj and held ne down and fingered me against my will. He also hit me a few times.. Only my closest friends know about this. Its just made me really paranoid when a guy grabs me... I'm scared (irrationally,probably) that they'll do something to me even if it's one of my friends and were out in public.. My immediate response is I just shut down. I basically try to make myself as small as possible and shut my eyes and then it gets hard to breathe. I just don't know what to do. And I have one guy friend thar does this a lot and it really freaks me out, just the smallest thing like holding me back from getting shotgun... I don't wanna tell ppl what happened to me but they'll get suspicious of me being so uncomfortable with such a small thing... What's wrong with ne and what do I do??
Hey,
first of all, its completely natural for you to behave that way, its understandable that you get paranoid. My advice to you? Is to just take a minute to calm down, when you're alone, think about what happened to you and you must think about how much STRONGER that experience must have made you. Its sounds like a stupid idea, but once you go through the whole thing in you're head and realise thats the worst that could happen, and you'll have got over this fear. Its gone now, and it'll never happen again. Do you understand? It's gone. & If you really dont want to tell people, then don't. You DON'T have to. As it would make it very uncomfortable. As long as a few friends now, surround yourself with people you know you will be safe with. This paranoia will disappear before you know it, next time just dont panic and always remember that, that experience has gone, and it isn't coming back! Good luck and dont worry, its only a fear. We all get over them sooner or later, no matter how long it takes, it depends how you handle it. You need to realise to calm down and remind you'rself that you're safe!
Okayy well i have this boy in my school and my bus and i like him and he really likes me and all. Last year he asked me out but i said no because he did things that could ruin peoples live ( drink, Drugs) and im on the right track and i plan to stay on that track!! But the thing is He told me he doesnt do those things anymore for me i part of me thinks he is lying and part just want to run into his arms but mY Friends made a excellent point to me he has nothing going for himself and That isnt part of my right track plan. Im a Straight A student who is also a very talented athletic person i play many sports and so does he. I thought his grades was the deal breaker * Its a No* But two days ago he told me that he is going to try and work harder and do better. I still have a strong feeling that he is playing me just because he likes me. I want to maintain my grades and talent but i like him. Im a 16 Year old Girl Who is Very Confused. Usually in my school my advance classes the boys( my Ex's are extremely hot and smart but jerks There is something different about him i mean its not his looks Because i dated plenty hotter. He isnt stuck up he is funny Not like the guys i usually date. He is ALso TWO years older than me so my think he wants to get in my pant so to speak but i dont cause he knows i never let him i would see pigs fly before that happens. YOU SEE HOW CONFUSED I AM??? Ughh I need ADVICE, ANYY TOO GIVEE :)
Hey,
First of all, stop worrying!
If this guys really in to you, which i think he is, he could change. People always say people don't change, but that's not necessarily true. I mean he could be one of those guys that could change because they're inspired by the girl they like. And you could be that girl! The girl that changed him, right? I'm not saying get your hopes right up, but set a good example for him. Make sure he knows whats right and wrong. If you like him, go out with him, and if you see any signs that he's still doing drugs and drinking then dump him. You never know unless you try, so give it a shot!
I've always been a positive person. Though deep down inside I've dealt with a lot. I hate the person I am, and it's hard to change without any help... I've seriously thought about killing myself so I won't bother those around me, and so I can be done with being miserable. I can't afford to see a Psychologist, and I just want to know if anyone has ever been in this type of situation. A situation where everything is going downhill, you hate your own self, and you seem to have no way out. Thanks to everyone who answers.
Hey,
I'm sorry to hear what you're going through. You must use the positive side of yours to hide your feelings so noone sees how down you are. First thing you must do is tell a best friend, or someone you can trust, about all this! Let them know exactly what you feel and why. It's a great way of getting things off your chest, and you will be relieved when it's out of you're system. Telling someone makes a good impact and it is better for you, then that way you wont feel so alone and helpless. You need to STOP thinking you're a burden, because your NOT. You need a way to make yourself feel and be more confident, confidence makes everything better! Remind yourself constantly that everything WILL be OK,this may be strange but music makes you feel better, if you listen to the right type. Or read the lyrics, which is more important. Katy perry-firework. Just read the lyrics. This song actually changed someones like, just read them.
Dont be so down because after lightening theres always a rainbow! Whoever's putting you down should never drive you to suicide, why should YOU think about suicide when THEY are the bad ones? Dont give them the satisfaction! Smile be happy and be confident. Good Luck.SMILE, it only opens so many doors for you :)
16/f
There are some people in my class and out of it who always try to get me down.I'm not cocky but I'm really successful at school,good-looking and a good person,they can't stand it and try to make me feel bad.It annoys me to no end but their words don't hurt me.I just wonder why I still listen to them.I shouldn't care about those no-ones at all.I have true friends,a great bf,overall a life I've always wanted-but still sometimes their words get to me.I wonder why...
Hey,
You know what? lets start off by saying You do have a very good life! So you should be confident,Happy and proud it. You have everything you need, so obviously they'd say things to put you down because you're so happy and they dont want you to be, as they are well and truly jealous. They cant stand to see you happy as they have their own life crisis and own unhappiness so they want to crash your happiness to!
Good luck and dont let it get to you, you deserve better.
i started dating a guy in june, we dated for 4 months. his ex broke up with him a month before we got together. she just told him she didnt love him anymore.
now he has broken up with me and gone back to her cos she wants him back. i cant help but feel hurt, i will never take him back but i cant help but think what goes around comes around, do you think it will???
Hey,
I'm sorry to hear that.
It's his loss if you ask me.
Listen to me, he seriously looks like a fool
for going back to her as he looks a little desperate. Do you know what this means? It means she will treat him good for now, then later it will get worse, she can treat him however she feels and get away with it, as she did the first time. He will probably keep going back to her. Which means she can walk all over him and he doesnt even know it, and when he does realise that, he will regret breaking it off with you and realise that he's lost a big part of his life, not only you, but his dignity too.
So, to sum up, Yeah..what goes around will come around, maybe not today, nor tomorrow, but it does eventually
okay so an ex of mine randomly started hating me. we were both fine after the breakup and stayed friends. then out of the random he started hating me. and i mean HATING me. the thing is, i don't even know what i did to him but apparently i "screwed him over" and i'm such a "bitch" and a "cunt". i tried talking to him about it and even apologizing and everything but he's so cold-hearted and will not forgive me for whatever i did. obviously i should just drop it and leave it alone but i don't like being hated for a reason I don't even know. what should i do about this? i know its best to just forget about it and leave it but thats the hardest thing for me cause its gonna piss me off until i know what was so bad that i did..
Hey,
No, i dont think that you just drop it and leave it, don't let him walk all over you. You've already said sorry, so don't apologize any more. You have done your part, and that's all you can do, especially considering you're not even aware of what you did and he's doing it for no reason. You need to ask him just once more for a final answer, which is "why" hes doing this. If he doesn't give you a straight answer, you tell him you've been doing all you can to please him by apologizing for something you dont even know you've done! Or if you really want to figure this out on you're own, he's your ex right? The problem could be that he still likes you but you've moved on? This is possible, he could become bitter because you only like him as a friend now, and he can't handle that and people have their own ways of dealing with rejection. But try doing what I said for straight answers. Good luck
Well l am a teenager and I'm dating a guy who has A LOT of experience. He wants to have sex, and I do to but there's only one problem....I am over weight and I have stretch marks on my stomach. I don't think he knows because I haven't told him and I always wear a shirt around him. We've been dating a long time, we know all about protection, and I can honestly say I love him and we are planning on getting married when we graduate high school. But I need help, I am scared to death that when we are going to have sex he will take one look at my disgusting body and never want to get physical like that again. Please, any advice? Serious answers only please. Thank you for your time.
Hey,
He seems sweet and committed, so I doubt he will
take a look at you and leave. This isnt how reality is, so stop worrying for starters. He seems like he makes you happy, and I'm sure you make him happy, why else would he be with you for a long time? He won't care about any of that sort of stuff, everyone has flaws. My advice to you? Is be happy,bold and confident! Dont let him know that you're self conscious otherwise that could also come across as you not wanting to do stuff with him! And if you cant be confident about it, then FAKE IT. Fake the confidence and soon enough you will start to think that way and become truly confident. Dont put yourself down, I'm sure your super beautiful, inside and out.Good luck! Be confident and Fierce girl.
Hi! I am a freshman in college (18/F). I live in Illinois but I'm going to school in Nevada. I have major health issues that are making me leave school and go home to focus on fixing my health. I have made friends for the first time since jr. high at school and I am really going to miss them. While I'm at home, I will be a part-time student at the local community college. I have no friends at home because high school was really rough for me (still health related problems). I am really worried that I will go back to being how I was before, really shy and not talkative at school, and lonely and bored at home. Is there any ideas on how to make new friends in a community college setting where I won't be taking many classes? I am REALLY shy when meeting new people and quite self-conscious about everything. I know the usual advice is be out-going, relax, and be yourself, but does anybody have any other ideas that would help me make new friends?
Thanks in advance!!
Hey,
I can't imagine what you're going through with the dramatic change and all. But the best thing to do is if you arent comforatable with reaching out to other people, make yourself look approachable. Try not to be so self conscious, remind yourself constantly that it'll be okay and the anxious feeling will blow over in no time. I know you probably dont want to , but you really should speak to other people and interact with them, start of with little things like asking them what to do with your work and then begin to make small conversations. Everyone has to go through having to talk to other people when they're too nervous, but they all do it, and you should do. Dont hold back, do your best.Good luck, You can do it.
Believe in yourself and achieve anything !
So im having my boyfriend of 7 months over. He usually comes to my house but only when friends are coming. We are both 16 andI want to avoid doing anything ill regret but im afraid he will get bored easy. What if its awkward? Im a little nervous. If hes coming during the daytime and we cant go anywhere what are some thinks we can do? I need advice pleassee and thank you!!
Hey,
If you both have been together for that long, I'm sure he wont get bored of you! Go out to the mall or something, go outfit shopping, try out a bunch of wacky clothes and have a laugh! Or go to the movies? See something you're both interested in.
ok so i am 16f/. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 months this december 22nd. its really not long, i know, but i got him a present in october(bc it was cheap and i knew it would go up in price if i wait, and if we broke up then i could just return it or keep it. i got hm a chain with a duck emblem on it since he likes to hunt.) so he needed to know what i was getting him bc he was going to tell people he wanted that, so i told him and thought that he might as well see it.when he saw it, he was sooooo happy and he hugged and kissed me and it was really sweet. but now he has nothing to get from me for christmas. im happy he liked it, but im kind of dissappointed that i couldnt wait to give it to him on christmas :/ so now i need to know, what is something i can do for him for christmas. i dont want to buy anything for him again bc he would get mad at me for spending more money on him (the necklace was $77)so i just need something sweet to do or say to him (i was going to do the whole writing down how many reasons i love you, but I'm saving that for something else.) and he already told me what he got me. its a nice necklace. but i would really like to do something sweet for him ON christmas lol. please give me as many ideas about it as you can!!! every little bit will help:)
Hey,
You both sound like a sweet couple!
Go to a peacful restaurant on christmas eve
or on christmas, a place where you both can just talk..about anything. That is real romantic believe it or not. Or organise a picnic with just you two or a group of friends too, and have a lot of fun, keep your guy smiling. I'm sure he'll appreciate anything you do for him, its the thought that counts right?
Good luck .
ok so there is this guy and he tells me everytime how he thinks i'm so pretty and how much he likes me...well one day we were texting and he told me he was gonna ask me out the next day. waited and nothing ever happend then i got a txt from his phone saying he'd blocked my # and he started ignoring me. then like a week later he started talking to me again and txted me so when i asked about the blocking and ignoring he said he didn't and the text was an accident also he still likes me....what do i do???? player or being honest???? HELP!!!!!!!
He might be playing mind games with you. You should ask him once and for all for a straight yes or no answer, to if he likes you or not. You should play hard to get and dont seem eager to talk to the guy otherwise hes going to think you're way easy to mess with. Leave it for a while and see if he makes an effort and if he does, your good to go.
Good luck.