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i have a problem :/
okay so an ex of mine randomly started hating me. we were both fine after the breakup and stayed friends. then out of the random he started hating me. and i mean HATING me. the thing is, i don't even know what i did to him but apparently i "screwed him over" and i'm such a "bitch" and a "cunt". i tried talking to him about it and even apologizing and everything but he's so cold-hearted and will not forgive me for whatever i did. obviously i should just drop it and leave it alone but i don't like being hated for a reason I don't even know. what should i do about this? i know its best to just forget about it and leave it but thats the hardest thing for me cause its gonna piss me off until i know what was so bad that i did..
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PAY HIM NO MIND. You are better off. A guy who insults you out of nowhere and refuses to give reason to, is a waste of your valuable time.
I can see why it would bother you to have no clue as to why he's giving you this treatment. Your last resort would be to find him in a good mood, be polite, and maybe get on his good side again. After some time, you may be able to ask him why the fuss earlier then. If this fails, go on about your business, and maybe he'll feel stupid after a while and probably get over it.
Some guys are known to hold grudges and attitudes against girls like this. Let the guy drown in his own glass of water. When he decides to stop acting like a kid, he will most likely try to talk to you. Let him be, and you be a butterfly flying in the breeze if you know what I mean :P
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The best thing you can do is to totally ignore him and get his number blocked from your phone. My guess is he has a new girlfriend in the picture and she needs reassurance that he has no feelings for you. I'm sorry to say but even if that's his excuse, it's still not a good enough reason to treat another person like crap. Maybe in 20 years when he decides to grow up, you can try to be friends again. Hope this helps and good luck.
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Hey,
No, i dont think that you just drop it and leave it, don't let him walk all over you. You've already said sorry, so don't apologize any more. You have done your part, and that's all you can do, especially considering you're not even aware of what you did and he's doing it for no reason. You need to ask him just once more for a final answer, which is "why" hes doing this. If he doesn't give you a straight answer, you tell him you've been doing all you can to please him by apologizing for something you dont even know you've done! Or if you really want to figure this out on you're own, he's your ex right? The problem could be that he still likes you but you've moved on? This is possible, he could become bitter because you only like him as a friend now, and he can't handle that and people have their own ways of dealing with rejection. But try doing what I said for straight answers. Good luck
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