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I am 13 and at school there is this guy who I like ALOT!!!!! But the problem is he is VERY popular with the girls and all girls like him! how can i get him to ask me out?

Talk with him. Make friends with him that way you could possably do things on weekends. That could also lead to more than friends! When you talk to him don't forget to flirt!!hehe

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im going to a new school and i have a friend there that hangs out with a lot of guys. for some reason im really shy around guys so, what do i do???

how do i break the barrier of being shy towards them?

HELP!!

Get to know them. Talk to them, go places. I think if you become friends with them you won't be shy!



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me and my sister fight all the time. shes a teenager. and i am three years younger than her. will she grow out of it? how should i act towards her? beacause right now i feel like i really need a sister, not an enemy :.(

Don't worry its totoally normal. me and my sister and 3 years apart too and we fight all the time. Just tell her how you feel say you don't like fighting and you wanna work it out! Hope I helped!!


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yesterday i threw up... 9 times and all day yesterday i ate a bananna {{b4 i thru up}}, a peice of chicken {{after i thru up}}, and half a slice of turkey {{after i thru up}}. today i ate a bowl of ceral with milk, maybe half a bowl of ceral {{dry}} prolly less then half a bowl. i still dont feel good but w/e. well im really hungry and tonight for dinner were having pork {{i personally dont like it and it might make me throw up again}} i dk im really hungry wut do i do??

Umm it sounds like your sick. You might have the flu. Take your temp. and if you have one your most likely sick!! rest a few days!



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I'm going to my boyfriend's house sometime before summer ends..we're both 13..my parents don't know I have a boyfriend because I'm not aloud to..but I'm nervous about going over there..I've never even gone over to a guys house when were just friends with just the two of us! Does anyone have any advice for me, what can make me less nervous? I mean hes never done anything besides hug a girl..which of course was me and I was his first girlfriend, we dated before this. So I don't have to worry about him doing anything I wouldn't want him to do. I mean..im sure we're gonna kiss bcuz he said he wanted to and he said he wanted me to be his first for everything since I already was for the girlfriend and the hug..but any advice? I'll be online for a while on secretAsquirrel..thats not my normal sn but its the one im gonna be using for the time im at my friends house.

I go over to my boyfriends house all the time! Its not big deal and theres nothing to me nurvus about. Just think...His parents will probley be around so if he dose anything it can't be THAT bad!



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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!

Aww don't worry no one will make fun of you. I think if you really like him you wouldn't care about what people think. If you think he might break up with you ask him about it. Just say will you promise me somthing? and ask him not to break up with you no matter what. And if he really likes you and is a good boyfriend he will do that. So don't worry!!



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I am a 15 yr old who plays sports but i got injured (i fractured a vertebra in my lower back) ne ways i had to sit out for over a month i could not work out... Just a simple yes or no is 5'9" and 140 fat or not ?

No!!!!

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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!

i rate high! =)

Sit down and talk to him about it. Say your not really intrested in him and you just want to be friends. He'll understand!



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hi my name is amanda and i was wonderin if anybody has some good weight loss tips .. i wanna loose weight so i can wear just tee shirts to school not sweaters to cover my fat .. please help me !xOxO MAndah

Amanda, the best way to lose weight is to eat healthy. Only eat 3 meals a day and two snacks that are nonfatting. Also run 1 or 2 miles a day. Whatever you do don't starve yourself!!



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this past week i went on vaca with my friends and 2 of our guy friends happened to be staying in the same town as us. we hung out with them like every night. one of the guys there was the guy i liked(lets call him jon). one night down at the beach we were all laying on a blanket and i was laying next to jon and after like 15 minutes he was like "can i put my arm around you?"..so obv. i said yes. the next night after walking around the beach we all layed down on the blanket again and me and jon ended up next to each other and for a while i was just laying on his arm cuz it was well...just there. after a while my friend reached over and put his hand on mine..well a few minutes later we ended up just cuddling and holding each other and the rest of our friends left. the night was great but the problem is i dont think he kjnows i like him A LOT and i know he doesnt like me...i like him so much and i doubt that night meant anything to him and now im just confused and dont know what to do

aww this guy sounds soo sweet!! And I deffanatly think he knows you like him. And it seems like he likes you too. Also, Im sure that night ment somthing to him. If he goes to your school you could see if he's intrested in you still. And maybe go out!



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Okay im not skinny but im not fat n i wanna lose weight but everytime i try lossing weight i always get hungry for like.. fat foods n like i need to lose weight how can i lose weight n not wanna eat so much? I RATE HIgh! PLEASE HELP!

If you really wanna lose weight eat healthy,run everyday and only have 1 to 2 snacks a day. If your still hungry after that try having a glass of water!

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hey i have these new black adn pink sneakers theyre mainly black but i was jus wonderin wut could i wear wit it cuz like i personally think it looks weird if im wearing shorts with it or a skirt with it i feel like i should b wearing pants with it all the tym... wut do u guys think?

I think you should wear your new sneakers with pants. But if your wearing shorts or a skirt wear flip flops they always look good!



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Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do

Don't worry about it... your time will come. And you don't have to do everything your bestfriend dose. When your ready the time will come!



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Is it considered "dorky" to roll jeans that are a little short into capris? or should I just cut them? Thanks

If you think they look good rolled then wear it that way. But if you think if would look better cut then cut them. I would roll though!



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Im 16, and a while ago I was involved with this guy who was 18. He was a senior at my best friends school, and he was gorgeous and popular etc. I met him because he works at My gymnastics school

Now me, im invisable in my school. Im shy and no one notices me, I hide behind books and avoid talking whenever possible, but im different at gymnastics. My teammates are my best friends and im outgoing etc when im with them

When we met, I was seriously depressed about being invisable, and only my best friend knew. Now she went to school with the other kid, but she wasnt popular so he didnt talk to her.
Anyway, one day my best friend was working with him, and he told her he really thought i was pretty and kept asking questions about me and this pulled me out of my depression
-he saw me when i was invisable

Then a few weeks later we actually talked, like hed call etc, and he eventually broke my shyness and i ended up at his house in his bed making ut with him. That went on for a while, wed keep hooking up till he tried to get farther to fast. I told him to stop and he respected that then not much later he blew me off because i wouldnt sleep with him

After that I pretended to get over him quickly, but I still saw him at gymnastics, and when i worked with him hed be all over me, or when id be working out and hed be coaching, hed coach when my teammates were on the beam, but stop and watch when i was etc. He played major mind games with me, and I played them back. I went out with this other kid he goes to school with just so hed be jealous (which he was and he also checked up on me) and I made him think I hated him on perpose, though I think if id showed him I liked him I could have had him back.

Then he got fired. I took it as fate. Someone was trying to help me get over him, but it wasnt that easy. HE alone saw me when I was invisable.

Either way hes going to college in like 5 days, and I miss him so much and I cant get over him and it hasnt gotten much better over time

What should I do?

I think you need to try to get over him. Hes going to collage and he'll probley meed other girls there. And Im sure you will meet other guys in your lifetime. If you did go out with this guy you would never see him and thats hard in a relationship. If you have his phone number try calling him,and maybe ask him if he wants to do something as a goodbye. Hope I helped!



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omg!!!! ok like 10 min. ago i was shaping my eyebrows , and i totally messed up , one is higher the the other and there to far apart . what can i do that can help in 7 days!!!!! thats wen school starts . please help

You could go to a salon and they could help you. Just don't try to fix them bc it might get worse.


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a couple weeks ago i kinda nicked myself shaving on my bikini line, and it hasnt healed yet. i put neosporine on it and havent shaved over it since, but its kinda turned into a lil red bump .. and yesterday there was a lil tiny bit of puss coming out of it, like if you squeezed a zit. but less. has this ever happened to anyone else & what can i do to make it heal? thnx & i'll rate if you give a good answer =)

This hasn't happened to me but ik its not bad. Just keep putting neosporine on it and try not to shave over it until it gets better. Good luck!!




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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx



~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~

Your wayy too yong. Why mess up your life? if you have sex you won't be able to stay in school,also that means you wouldn't go to collage. It dosn't matter how much you love your boyfriend or how ready you are don't have it!!!




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My boyfriend is leaving for Tennesee tomorrow and im really depressed about it. He's moving in with his mom and I probably won't see him much anymore since I live in Illinois. I spent the night with him last night, and im doing the same tonight, but im wondering if there is any way to make his leaving easier on me. I really love him, and i dont want him to know how upset I really am.

Is there any way I can ease the pain of him leaving me?

**we're going to try a long distance relationship, but it still won't be the same as having him here!**

You could agree to writing letters everyday. And on vacations you could go see him or he could come see you.Also if you have aim you could talk with him on there!



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I'm 16 years old and recently my boyfriend and I have been giving each other oral sex. The other day he fingered me, and when he pulled his fingers out, there was a little bit of blood. Could my hymen be broken, and if it is, do I need 2 get an exam?

No, i woudn't worry about if unless you are really worried about it. Your cherry probley poped or you got your period.



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