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Hes Leaving
My boyfriend is leaving for Tennesee tomorrow and im really depressed about it. He's moving in with his mom and I probably won't see him much anymore since I live in Illinois. I spent the night with him last night, and im doing the same tonight, but im wondering if there is any way to make his leaving easier on me. I really love him, and i dont want him to know how upset I really am.
Is there any way I can ease the pain of him leaving me?
**we're going to try a long distance relationship, but it still won't be the same as having him here!**
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there really isnt anything u can do to stop the pain...i think it is good for u to try and do long distance, it will give u something to look foward to. but eventaully it isnt gonna be enough and the only way to get over it is to move on. good luck and i hope it works out!
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There's not much you can do about him leaving, but you can try you best to keep in touch and every chance you get to see him go. If I'm right, he should be able to visit his dad back in IL if his dad still lives there and that would make it a lot easier to keep the relationship going. Just KEEP IN TOUCH. My cousin met a girl at one of his bike meet things and she lived a long way from him, but they talked on the phone and AIM like everyday and visited as much as they could and now they are gettin married. So if you really love each other and wanna make it work you can! Good luck <3
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i was once in the same situation. First off, how old are you? If you're young(teenager) then go with the flow. I was 20 when the love of my life moved 3 states away. I remember chasing his car as he left, crying for days, but if your love is strong it can survive. I am not going to lie, long distance relationships are hard...but keep in contact, be open with your feelings, visit when permitted, and most of all have trust in eachother. Sometimes distance makes the heart grow fonder. Make your last days togethr as beautiful and memorable as you can. Good luck.
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Let him know you are upset he's leaving. It's okay to tell people how you feel. Just tell him to give you his address, phone number, screenname, email address, etc. That way you can keep in touch a lot. You should try to have a long distance relationship, it actually might work out. But if it doesn't..remember you can ALWAYS be friends. Just remember->never fall apart :).
xox
casey
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WELLL I THINK THat it would mAKE IT Easier on you if you tell him thAT YOU are upset ABOUT HIM LEaving becuASE YOU LOVE HIM SO MUCH , SO TELL HIM HOW YOU DONT Want him to go but you know he hAS TO , JUST TRY TO FIND SOME`1 WHO Makes you hAPPY INSTEad of your bf who is moving
sincerely ASKLane
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can he visit his dads on weekends and on breaks? my best friend moved recently and she does that hope it helps!
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aww im sry! i no its gonna b really hard and it isnt gonna b the same but you guys can write..call..and talk on the internet and if u r really in love u will find a way to make it work!*hope i helped* <3/Dakota ~If YoU nEeD nE tHiNg ElSe JuSt DrOp OnE iN mY iNbOx
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ofcourse it wont be the same but if your really inlove wit him you can make it work!
hope i helped rate me bye
<3.Taylor
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I don't know if things will get easier. :( Just write letters and call as often as you can. Make sure there's alot of communication between you two and your feelings. I hope things work out betwqeen yall... Best wishes :) -Britty-
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I'm sorry sweetheart, this must be very difficult for you. :/ What you should do, is let him know how much you love him, tell him you do. And write him everyday letting him know you care,and if he really loves you, who knows, perhaps wedding bells is in the furture. My advice is, get a gallon of cookie dough, a good lifetime movie, and a cushy couch. That would make me feel better, perhaps taking a nice hot bath. Your heart will heal over time.
-Megan
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pretend it is the same. Write every day, and call all the time.
if it doesn't work out, icecream and rock n roll are the best heart heallers.
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I'm sorry about this all but I hate to tell you, there is nothing you can do to make it any eaiser. Just try the long distance and if its true love it'll last. Best of luck! -holly- Hope i helped
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You could agree to writing letters everyday. And on vacations you could go see him or he could come see you.Also if you have aim you could talk with him on there!
xoxo chels
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