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-:x:-Full Name:*Brittany Nicole Self
-:o:-Age:*14
-:x:-Birthday:*December 28
-:o:-Location:*Atlanta, GA
-:x:-Height:*5'4"
-:o:-Weight:*115lbs.
-:x:-Hair Color:*Brown
-:o:-Eye Color:*Green
-:x:-Parents Name:*Chris `nd Karen
-:o:-Siblings:*Younger sister(Ariel)
-:x:-Pets:*2 cats, 1 dog, 1 rabbit
-:o:-Contacts or Glasses:*No
-:x:-Favorite Color:*PINK!!
-:o:-Long or Short Hair:*Medium..
-:x:-Straight or Curly:*Curly..but I straighten it=]
-:o:-Skin Color:*White

FaVeS:
-:x:-Music Group:*D12
-:o:-Boy Group:*Um..Lonestar(country)
-:x:-Female Group:*TLC
-:o:-Male Artist:*Usher
-:x:-Female Artist:*Avril Lavigne
-:o:-Actor:*Vin Diesel
-:x:-Actress:*Brittany Murphy
-:o:-TV Show:*The Real World
-:x:-Soap Opera:*Days Of Our Lives
-:o:-Talk Show:*Ellen Degenare(sp?)
-:x:-Channel:*MTV!!
-:o:-Radio Station:*95.5
-:x:-Movie:*Pirates Of The Carribean(Johnny Depp is hott!)
-:o:-Song(s):*'Amazed' by Lonestar `nd 'Flap Your Wings' by Nelly
-:x:-Food:*TACOS!!
-:o:-Drink:*Mountain Dew

DiSlIkEsZ:
-:x:-Worst Color:*GREEN..ew!
-:o:-Worst Music Group:*The Beastie Boys
-:x:-Worst Boy Group:*N'SYNC
-:o:-Worst Female Group:*3LW(broke up)
-:x:-Worst Male Artist:*Elton John(lol)
-:o:-Worst Female Artist:*Britney Spears(I like SOME of her songs though)
-:x:-Worst Actor:*Um..I don't have one!!
-:o:-Worst Actress:*Don't have one of those either!!

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Occupation: Student at Harrison High School
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is it ok to have stretch marks or like scars of some sort on ur breasts? (link)
Aw, yes, it's very okay!! All this means is that your breasts grew really fast and the skin was not prepared for the growth. Don't worry about it, MOST women have the stretch marks on their breasts, it's very common. Not to mention, they fade over time and if you're feeling uncomfortable with the scars, they sale creams and stuff at your local grocery stores and stuff that help hide them!!


does anyone know any good techniques for basketball to get ur left hand stronger?

~i rate good~ (link)
Well, I should be able to help really well on this one, I've played basketball for 8 years and still going =]!! Aight, well, first, you wanna "flex" the left hand. If you don't know what that is, it's simply where you bend and lift it like you're shooting, kinda like you're waving. That makes it stronger, then you need to start dribbling between cones but SWITCH hands through out them so at some times you're dribbling with the left and then right. It takes time, but when you've got that nailed, try shooting from the LEFT side of the goal!! This should help!! =]


does anyone have any good ideas for a good job that i could have. im 13/f. i would really like to have a job. (link)
Well, you're still a little young for a job AND get paid for it, but I'm sure we can think of some exceptions, hehe!! If your mom or dad work for some place that needs like a secretary of any kind to answer the phones and stuff like that, you should start off doing that making maybe .. 4 to 5 dollars and hour!! That's what I had to do when I was 13 cause the lowest places hire now a days are 15 to 16. Hope that helps!!


Iwas under the wrong impression that a guy that I am friends with at the gym liked me. I asked him out for coffee and he didn't tell me right then and there that he has a girlfriend. He phoned me and told me after a week and a half. The reason why he didn't say anything sooner was because he felt it was too personal a subject to discuss at work, and that he could get into trouble for getting involved with someone in the gym (he is a gymnist). When he told me he had a girlfriend and things where quite serious,it hit me like a ton of bricks. Now I'm realy embarassed to even face him at the gym. He says we will always be friends but I've lost face. In my own eyes it looks like I'm the desperate girl that asks for dates and then gets rejected. I should never have asked him out at all. How am I going to face him like nothing happened? I feel realy bad and uncomfortable. Tell me what I should do in facing him. Maybe I should ignore and avoid any contact with him. I'm embarassed. Barbie. (26yr female) (link)
YOU DID NOTHING WRONG first off!! There is no reason to avoid him even though you might have been a bit embarrassed, but your dating life will continue to get better, just don't worry so much about it. Don't give up just yet, the best things come to you!! =]

P.S.- I don't care whether it was good for his job or not .. he should have told you that he had a girlfriend before he let you throw yourself at him!! Seems to me like the guy just likes to score with the ladies, so don't worry about it.


Im 13 years old- what do guys my age want? (link)
Guys your age are just now starting to grow up!! They're very immature and they don't see what's on the inside, they look for what's on the outside and go from there. They are very eager to be the first boy on their block their age to lose their virginity!! But, some are different, you just gotta fine the right ones!


ok im a girl, 14 -- can some1 give me advice with what to do.. well me and my boyfriend been together for like 2 1/2 months and i havent relle seen him at all this summer bcuz hes been away and shit.. and all these girls keep i.ming me sayin madd shit about me and how he only uses me and idk all this shitt and tryin to ruin outr relationships and i relle cant take it anymore and he never calls me anymore on the phone sence hes been away and everytime i call him he seems to never pick up his phone! and i ahardly call him bcuz im afraid he doesnt like me anymore and wants to break up with me and id talk to him bout these girls that are i.ming me and hes like he doesnt no them and w.e there sayin isnt true and all this shit but idk what to belive.. i think its these girls just bein jelous and tryin to break us up but im not gunna worry bout that cuz ima find out who they are and theyll get it from me.. but idk what to do with him!? i never see him, talk to him and were goin to different high schools next yr and this summer im only gunna be able to see him all thru august and i wanna break up with him.. but i like him to much to do it and i relly dont no what to do and i need some help pleasee! (link)
Well, as much as I hate to say, the relationship is through with. This is almost like a long distance relationship, and they're really hard, and you just don't seem like the kind of person that would be able to handle this. It is true that the girls could just be jealous, but trust is a big part of the relationship, and without that, it's just not worth it. Trust me, in high school, you'll find so many more guys that will steal your heart away just like he has .. you just gotta let him know it's over.


Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16? (link)
Hm, excellent question!! Um, I'm gonna have to go with the majority of other people, NO. The only way I'd have sex with him is if you're positive that he's the one you're going to spend the rest of your life with. Not to mention, he's way older than you, if someone found out and told your parents, they could press charges for Statutory Rape(spell check)!!


I've got the hots for a guy named (lets just call him Bob) Bob. He seems like the perfect guy when we talk online, but when we meet in person he acts really shy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too, and we're both 15 if that helps. Why do u think he acts so different online than in person, and do u think he's worth my time? (link)
I know exactly what you mean!! It's normal for someone to act completely different online than in person. I'm sure he's worth your time if he seems like a good guy, but let him know that he's safe when he's with you and no matter what you'll love him, so tell him to just open up some in person and be his self!!


how do u french kiss i mean i am 15 and i still havent done that and all my friends have so i feel weird...please help me!!!!!!!!! (link)
Aw, girl, don't worry about it!! When I got my first french kiss it came naturally. There are sites that you can go to that go into detail about it. Just go to google.com and search for "French Kissing Tips" and it should bring up a whole lot!! Just don't focus too much on it though when it's happening, you just open up your mouth a little and if theirs is open, which more than likely it will be, you slide your tongue in .. usually your partner will return the tongue in exchange ;]


Hey yall im 13 and i realy realy real realy like my bf and see this other girl said that she will give him head and his frend says that if i dont she definantly will and i was kinda thinking about doing it anyways but would that make me a major slut even no1 else new?
thanx confused... (link)
NOT AT ALL!! I know people make it seem like "giving head" is a bit hoeish, but as long as you're not known for it then it's no big deal. If you make a habit out of it, then that's another thing, but if you really like this guy and he seems worth getting sexually active with, I say go for it. Then again, if he's going to accept head from another girl, don't do it, it's not worth it cause that's all he's in and will be in the relationship for!! =]


Lately I've noticed that my friend's ex-boyfriend has been wanting to be around me alot. It's really sucky, because he was so mean to my friend! He constantly put her down & even told her she was a "fat cow". I've tried being subtle about the fact that I don't want him around me because he's so rude, but that just seems to make him hang around me more. He's really nice to ME, but that's how he was when he started dating my friend & then he just acted so jerk-ish afterward. I'm soooo confused, help! (link)
Have you tried avoiding him? It might not seem like the best advice, but ya know, it could work. You obviously don't need nor want to be with this guy .. look at the kind of guy he is. All I can say is either avoid him or tell him straight out how you feel!!


I'm miserable.See over spring break i met this kid lets say his name is Jake..and over the past 4 months we've been talking every day.I most likely wont be able to see him again until next summer.The real problem is i like everything about Jake* and he likes me too..we're like perfect together.But he's at camp right now so i haven't been able to talk to him and i miss him like crazy.ne ideas on how to pass the time..n also could u help me try n get over him..ive tried but no guy ever compares.please help asap.

admin. plz don't delete. ;-(..

thankz guys. (link)
I'm sorry to hear that you're miserable, I hate to know when people feel bad!! This guy "Jake" seems like a real stud, but there will be other guys. First off, ask yourself the question, "Am I ready for a long distance relationship?" I know you may not know this, or maybe you do, but they are really hard and about 90% of them end up not working. I don't mean to shatter your hopes or anything, but it's very likely that you're just crushing over this guy!! To pass up time, try hanging out with friends, ya know, like going to the mall, watching a movie, etc ..It always works!! =)


okay well here it goes ... well i went to the fair w/ a few friends -n- we were in line for the zipper -n- some girl behind us, she looked about 17-18, started talking to us and well she asked me if i played softball and i said i did and then she asked me my name and i told her...and then she goes well do you know who i am and i said no and she held out her hand for me to shake it and said "well i'm your sister, crystal" and it kinda scared me cus i haven't seen her in 8 yrs., she gave me her number but i don't know if i should call her b/c i'm scared to get to know her b.c we are half sisters and she knows my dad and i don't...so wut do i do????? PLZ HELP!! (link)
This can be scary, but face up to it!! Was it really her fault that she left your life or was it your parents? Truthfully here, I think you should give it a shot. Take things slowly, don't rush into meeting your dad again, but call her and see what happens from there!! You guys could be the best of friends one day, ya never know until you give it a chance!! =)


Okay im like 12 and i have this boyfriend that we'll call danny, i wanna kiss him so bad but i don't wanna make the move. I want him to. What should i do? I really love him!
-wanna kiss
p.s.
i rate real good! (link)
Well, do you guys have good eye contact? If not, then this could be the problem!! Usually the guy makes the move when he sees in the girls eyes that she wants to be kissed!! If he looks you in the eye and sees that you want him to kiss you, he'll make the move, but just give it time. If nothing happens within a month, then, I know you don't want to, but see if he throws out hints the HE wants to be kissed and then you make the move!!


HeY! Besides taking Midol or asprin, what a good way to realive or get rid of cramps?! ThAnKs!! I really need the advice! =) (link)
God, I know where you're coming from .. I used to get the cramps really bad. Well, I heard from a family friend that drinking a lot of water and laying on your stomach helps a lot. Water reduces the amount of menustral blood that flows out, which means the uterus does less contracting (why you get cramps in the first place) and laying on your stomach, well, I don't know, just relieves the pain!! Hope it works for ya!!


does anyone know like a technique to quit ciggaretes without money...im not legaly old enough to buy anything with nicotine and i really wanna quit but its a bitch..anyone know nething?? thanks for your time (link)
Well I take it that no one older or your parents know that you're a smoker or else you could have gotten them to buy patches or gum for you. Hm, okay, maybe, if you're a trustworthy person, get some of your friends to make you promise to them that you won't smoke!! Just go day by day and eventually, you'll forget all about cigarettes!! =]


i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
-confuzzled! (link)
CALL HIM CALL HIM CALL HIM!! If you don't do it now, he'll move on and think that you weren't interested in him!!


what does the song Back at one-brian Mcknight or have you ever by brandy or I swear by all for one ...talking about it whats the story behind it? Whats a good love song... (link)
GOOD QUESTION!! "Back At One" and "Have You Ever" are basically songs about getting over someone!! If you're looking for a good love song, you need something that explains love in it .. not getting over it. Personally, I love the song "All My Life" by KJ and JoJo!! It's an R&B song, which sounds like the kind of music you listen to by the question, lol. Hope that helps!!


why do i think its ok to masturbate and look at naked guy pics but i dont think its ok for my boyfriend to masturbate and look at porn. i feel like when he does it im not pleasing enough. why do i feel this way ? (link)
Well, that's a good question. You should tell yourself, "masturbation is a form of nature", cause that's exactly what it is!! Who's to say your boyfriend is okay with you masturbating to naked guy pics? I mean, there's always gonna be that jealousy between a couple if you're looking at naked guys and he's looking at naked girls. Trust me, you're pleasing him enough, it's just a common thing to do when masturbating, who knows, he might just think about you sometimes .. ;]


Okay me an this guy dated for like 3 months but we been off and on and threw alot of shit for the last 3 year's .. hes been tellin gme lately how much he really loved me and all .. well hes in the army so its really hard for me to trust him being as im being told by everyone at home that hes messin aroun.. and hes stationed right now so far away from me .. but i thought that love was enough for us to stay together and all .. Well recently we broke up i told him i couldnt deal with the worrying all the time, and plus long distance sucks soooo bad , Well now he like wont leave me alone at all, he tol dme he cared for me too much to see us just be over .. but I did love him and all and i still will i just I met this guy whos younger closer to my age, and lives around here .. Hes like the perfect catch i havent found a flaw yet hes just a dream come true, Well i mean i dont kno what to do do i throw basically 3 years down the drain for this guy who seems totally worth giving up everything .. or do i go back to this ex of myne ? .. Im so confused .. so please hurry with the juicy help! (link)
This is a toughy right here!! Hm, lets see .. Okay, this guy that you've dated for three years or so obviously cares for you, but you're young, right? I mean, you're at the age where you just wanna have fun and experiment with others, so I see nothing with "throwing the three years away", but I wouldn't see it as that either. You could simply just be on hold with this other guy and see other people, understandable. I mean, this new guy is more your age and could probably understand a lot of what you're going through better than the other!!




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