18 years old, female. i really like my best friend. he understands me, he would never do anything to hurt me. i'll admit, i do have my bad days and my moments, but he puts up with it and acts like it doesn't phase him. when i see him though, i feel so..ugly. like i'm not good enough for him, or pretty enough. i get myself ready and try to look cute but i'm never happy with how i look. some days i will like the way i look but whenever i'm going to see him, i don't feel pretty. he has seen me with my with my hair a mess and when i'm in a sweatshirt, and he still continues to talk to me, and hug me, and hold my hand. i'm amazed that he still talks to me and wants to hang out and maybe even "be with me" when he see's me at my worst days. why do i feel like this? i feel like he deserves better than me, like he can find a prettier girl that me. when i hang out with other guys, im so confident with myself though, but when i'm with him things change. i'm so self-conscious but really it doesn't seem like he cares what i look like. sometimes i say things that don't make sense, and he just laughs at me but doesn't judge me. when i'm with him he stares at me, but i don't want him to because i feel like he is staring at my imperfections. what's wrong with me? why do i feel like this. i've never had an ACTUAL boyfriend before. when guys like me, i seem to always push them away. i dont know what to do
The reason you act this way is because hes become a variable in your natural equation. Your use to guys judging you or whatever, but because hes not doing that the change in everything is different. Maybe because your use to other people caring, or your use to having to complain about how your not pretty today and its your worst hair day and you have so little make up and people noticing this and being slightly affected by this. But because he isn't its making you uncomfortable. Now, I'm not saying this is a bad thing, I actually admire the guy for acting that way. You, however, should understand that we are who we are because of our imperfections. He isn't seeing you for what you make yourself look like on the outside, hes paying more attention to who you are on the inside. Though you might not know anyone who usually does this, you should admire him as well for the fact he like you for who you are and not what you look like. Those are the kind of people you can almost always count on when no one seems to want to listen to you or acknowledge you.
What you make with him is up to you, but overall, just know you can be yourself around him and don't need to be self-conscious. Every body thinks a certain person deserves something better, but people like him see that they have everything they need in what they have. You are part of what he has, and he wants nothing more really than what comes about.
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Does anyone know if the Acer laptop is a good kind of laptop? I was thinking about getting one of those really small 8 inch ones for christmas, but I don't want to end up with a crappier laptop then the one I've already got. Thanks!
I have a friend who has an Acer thats the same size. Its really sexy ;p
Its good to point, as are all laptops. Being small, its memory won't be as big as normal computers and the processing power isn't as good. Its good as a school laptop for small things like typing up work or making presentations, but if your trying to use it as a personal PC, you might be disappointed if you try to install too much to it. Overall, it is a good PC, but not for everything a personal PC could handle.
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25/F
About 4-5 years ago, I met a guy that I'll call 'Chris.' Chris and I became friends, and were JUST friends, for about a year. Then, one night, Chris is hanging out at my house and we're both intoxicated and we end up sleeping together. After a few weeks I come to the conclusion that he and I are 'friends with benefits.' Something that I'm not proud of, but that was where I was at that point in my life.
Anyway... Chris and I are 'friends' on and off for about a year and a half. About two years ago I started talking to this guy that we'll call 'Jay' and I haven't spoken to Chris since. Jay and I started dating and we've been together for almost two years.
I haven't spoken to Chris... I haven't thought of Chris... Last night, I had about five dreams just about CHRIS. I can't remember much... Only that I supposedly cheated on Jay with Chris... Jay and I broke up... And then Chris and I were together, and I don't mean in a 'friends with benefits' sort of way either. Towards the end of the last dream, right before I woke up again, I remember feeling really... Happy.
Which is odd. Because, like I said, I haven't even thought of Chris in two years. During the times that Chris and I were together, I knew that he wasn't relationship material. I never had any delusions about being in love with him. Which just makes these dreams even stranger.
Why am I having these dreams? And why now?
There are several possibilities to why you could be having this dream. If it keeps repeating, its because your mind is telling you something that your not listening to.
Different people have different types of dreams. And different people dreams for different reasons. So don't rule yourself off to one of the reasons listed, it could be anything really...
It could be:
You still have feelings for him
Your mind is telling you not to do it again
Your mind isn't going to let you forget what you did
Your mind is trying to get you to do it again
etc...
Then again, it could be anything. If I had time, I could make a good list, but I don't like to get to far ahead of myself. Your really better off just waiting it off and see if it subsides. If the dreams repeat, then you might wanna take into account what if. If the dream changes, then something new has come about. Again, lots of variables, tons of results that could be right and/or wrong. But its your dream and you should interpret it how you want to.
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I am a 29yo single male who has never had a girlfriend in his life. It makes me sad to see everyone else with their gf, and then there's me. There are times when I am feeling so alone and depressed. I don't know what the point of living is anymore. Seems like there's nothing left in life to look foward to except for.
You won't be single forever, but you can't just wait and hope a girl comes around. You should actually be a little happier you never had a first taste of a relationship. Most people either get into one but never really know what love truly is. Other are able to get a notion but then they lose it and can't find it for all too long.
There's always a reason to live and there always things to look forward to in life. Its just one of those things. Plus you can't expect to get a girl if you mope about how you don't have one and everyone has one and blah blah blah. You should keep an optimistic approach about it. SO you don't have one YET but there are an infinite number of chances out there. Don't put yourself down, it only leads to more loss...
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So on my Myspace profile I have a long list of my favorite music.
An I'm having a hard time finding an HTML code to make it not stay into a paragraph and all listed
It's like this:
All Time Low The Beatles Blink 182 Bloodhound Gang Boston CKY David Bowie Fall Out Boy Frank Zappa Green Day I Set my Friends on Fire Jamie Kennedy James Blunt Jimi Hendricks John Lenin Joe Satriani Led Zeppelin Linkin Park The Medic Droid Metallica Ok Gp Panic at the Disco Paul McCartney Ryan Higa The Slip Smashing Pumpkins Smosh Sublime Three Days Grace Vampire Weekend Three Days Grace We The Kings Weezer Weird Al Yellow Card
When I want it like this:
All Time Low
The Beatles
Blink 182
Bloodhound Gang
Boston
CKY
David Bowie
Fall Out Boy
Frank Zappa .. etc
But without a scroll box
So don't just tell me I need to find a code. Can you post one or give me a link to a site that has that code?
kthnxbi :D
use the code < br > without the spaces after each word. It will break it under each other. and if you need a second break after it, put it in twice.
The site below will give you more codes, which you should try to either bookmark or memorize for convenience
http://www.web-source.net/html_codes_chart.htm
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I need mega help i want to have sex but i dont got a bf and are u single maybe i can do it with you
That is not something you should ask any random person. And I do not feel obligated to answer this question in any manner
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OK I'm having a really bad sitution one of my friends moved and my other friend is mad cuz im annoying and a bleep
Help me get my friend back or earn new friends
P.S. Everyone teases me cuz im short and i need combacks too
If your friends get mad at you, you should try and talk to them about why they get mad. Try and work a compromise. They might know something that you don't notice. Earning friends is something you have to do. Advice on how to make friends is harder considering everyone is different and everyone has a different situation...
As for being short, you should just be proud of who you are. If people tease you about it, ignore it. Showing that it bothers you just makes it all the more reason to tease you. If you don't show a reaction or aren't noticeably being put down by the comments, it will die down for the most part. I think its actually cool to be short, I don't know why anyone would really want to be tall at all. You can totally use small height as an advantage at a lot of things that tall people can't do.
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14/m. my girlfriend is comeing over soon n im so nervous. when we kiss we makeout n shes the sweetest ever, last time we were all over eachother n it was my very first kiss, i jacked off, n my boner made her jump, then i started to... and get really into it. then she got off me i felt soooo bad, she didnt do it ina mean way she just did her little cute smile then kissed my cheek then sat back with my arm around her. im scared if it happens again, what would i do?
Well, first of all, I don't believe you should have "jacked off" on your first kiss... Though I'm not totally sure what you meant by this.
Second of all, you can't really help it if it happened. Its a all natural involuntary(basically automatic) thing. You don't have control over it. You can avoid her freaking out by preparing for it to happen. Such as repositioning before hand or avoid wearing loose pants. I don't suggest you let her know you have an erection, because it seems shes grossed out about it. If it happens, it happens, and if she notices, don't make things more awkward than it already is. Just go with whatever she wants...
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14 Female
Okay so awhile ago in science me and my best guy friend Steven were joking around and he was like I bet you couldn't get me hard. So in the middle of class I tickeled his knee and was like "Does This Get You Horny?" and he started laughing and like groped my knee and I was like AHH NO. Lol it was awkward. Well over a week I kept going higher and higher as a joke, and we did joke about it. Then i guess my BFF Becky asked him if I ever got him hard-- and he told me that she asked that, and i was like LALALALALA i dont wanna know LALALALALA. Then last night he was like Katie- you have gotten me hard In Science class and I was like =OOOOO.
LAST TIME I JOKE WITH HIM LIKE THAT.
You dont get hard when we joke around like that. its creepy and then you don't tell me lol because then its awkward. Now im afraid to be in
science with him..
Well.. its weird to know that guy friends that I have had since forever and now getting in that stage of life. Which I know happens.. but why do they feel comfortable talking to me about it because I try to make it obvious that i dislike talking about like stuff. Like masterbation... ITS WEIRD.
But how do i explain it to make them stop and not make them think its because im interested.
and why do they not care that i know this stuff...
The reason they don't care that you don't want to know any of that is because their simply immature guys. Take your friend for example. First of all, you shouldn't have started the "joke", but I don't blame you if your bored out of your mind in class and want to be entertained somehow. Second, you shouldn't have played the "joke" with a guy of all people, especially at your age. Guys like that have no sense of respect or the ability to acknowledge whats right and wrong.
If you meet up with him and he tries to talk to you about the subject again, you tell him that its enough and to stop doing that. Its not at all amusing or impressive. Be as blunt as you can, no matter how you think he might feel in the end. Because its likely he'll either stop right then and there or end up thinking that if he keeps doing it it will eventually become amusing again.
If he does pick up again, its better to tell a teacher or adult about it. They are more likely to be able to do something about it then you can, but use it as a last resort, because it can make things a hell of a lot worse than you trying to stop it...
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How do i turn off the comment approval mesg.
GO to My Account tab on the right on the navigation bar(the bar that has home, mail, etc.)
from there go to Spam and down to comments, there you can turn it off
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So, I just found out that the girl I've been with for over 2 months is doing ecstasy weekly. I absolutely hate drugs, but she told me that ecstasy doesn't hurt you. I know nothing about it, except that it heightens your sexual urges and makes you "float" and stuff.
The fact that she just decided to tell me is also bringing up the trust thing. If she's been doing this, what else has she been doing? Know what I mean?
Well, I just need to know what I should do.
Thanks
check out this website
http://www.ecstasy.ws/index.htm
it will give you everything you want to know about the drug and how harmful it really is.
Its understandable that the mentioning of drugs would make you wonder, and it should. I suggest you sit down and talk to her about it, alone. Show her the site. Get her to read it and understand the ecstasy that doesn't hurt you has the potential to kill her. Hopefully she'll open up, but she might also continue to deny it. Either way, you oughta help her if you love her enough, even if you end up ending the relationship.
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Okay, (rather long, brace yourself)
so my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost eight months.
And he does things that really piss me off to no end, he does really immature things, and he goes out of his way to make me feel bad about myself.
Ill give some examples.
Immaturity
When im telling him an important story, and say things like "He came really fast"
He'll laugh at the sexual content.
the other day a basket ball hit me in the face.
and i call him im like
"Jake, i was playing basketball with alyssa and the ball hit me in the face, it really hurts"
He'll laugh at the balls part.
Like, its funny the first few times, but then it just gets annoying, and it makes me feel like he doesnt care about me.
Or he'll (please dont get offended) say the N word to me and he gets mad when i dont laugh.
Im like, "Thats not funny, its mean"
and just other things, and they may seem funny, but he brings them up at the worst times.
Making me Feel Bad
We were video-chatting the other day, and my web cam is attatched to my lap top, so, when i move around it moves with me.
And i guess my boobs zoomed in on the screen,
and he'll start laughing and be like "Your tits were on the screen"
Or ill dive in his pool.
and i KNOW my bathing suit top didnt fall down, and he'll make something up to say he saw my boobs. And i'll automatically be embarrassed.
When i know that didnt happen.
Or if i point something out about him that annoys me or bothers me.
He'll turn it around and blame it on me, or make it look like its my fault
For instance, I was watching gossip girl one night, and he knows that i cant talk on the phone and watch t.v at the same time.
So, i was like "We can talk on AIM"
And he was like "nono its fine go watch tv, ill do hw or something"
I take funny pictures of myself and send it to him cuz i think theyre funny, and when i dont do something he wants, he threatens to put them on facebook.
Or he shows people, when i strictly told him not to,and one time he set one as his backround
I just dont trust his witht hem anymore
and he makes me feel really bad.
On purpose.
Showing off in front of his friends
He is a totally different person in front of his friends. He'll show me off in front of them about how we make out and stuff, and act like he doesnt care about my opinion, and says really hurtful things even though he's 'just kidding.'
Too close for comfort
he shares things with me that really gross me out, and he relies on the fact that we love eachother so much that i wont break up with him. He's got that wrong, becuase i can totally still dump his ass. We made a promise to eachother that we'd stay together long as possible, and he gets too comfortable with that, and thinks he can do anything, and i wont break up with him for it. Like saying mean things about my friends, and all of the above.
Now, my sisters wedding is coming up in about 2 weeks, and i invited him to it.
Im the maid of honor and i wanted him to be my date.
I cant break up with him now.
and i know if i do, despite all these things, i'll still be upset.
Why is that i can come up with a billion things i hate about him, but i still love him, and would be really upset if we broke up?
That makes no sense.
Also, what should i do about these problems?
Sorry for writing so much.
I really hope you can help
Since you already invited him to your sisters wedding, you kinda have to stay with him till its over. Its possible if you try to break up, he might do something overly drastic and you'll feel like its the end of the world and want it all to end. When the wedding comes or even before, you oughta tell him straight up that he needs to behave himself during the wedding at least. I don't suggest threats or black mail, but if you can, you should. Make him promise right in front of you if you have to, just to make him understand you are extremely serious for once and you aren't going to put up with it. But he claims he isn't going to, you might as well not bring him and break up right then and there. Its obvious he doesn't care for a relationship. To him, your just another friend whose close to him. And when you do break up with him(then or later, whatever you choose) he is likely to react hostile and get extremely angry because he won't understand why. He will probably still threaten you with the pictures which your going to have to shrug off. It will be much easier to deal with pics than with him, though he will still be a pain either way. His maturity level won't improve much over time I'm afraid. He has no respect now, he's not going to have much respect later.
I still say break up as soon as possible, but keep the wedding promise. If he can promise to behave at a wedding for you, then there's more to him than he wants to show. But if he chooses not to, then there's no use in trying with him. Guys don't change much over time, especially at this day and age. So better to save yourself the pain than to have to still go on through it all...
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i really want to learn how to take really good photos...any ideas?
15/f/usa
That's a rather vague question. First of all, you have to have a rather good camera. A good camera can mean the difference between high quality and crappy pictures. Second, you want to take tons of photos on one thing. That way to can change up on angles and catch the difference in lighting. Thirdly, you want a photo editing program on a computer. Some people may have a knack for taking great photos but its hard to get the right colors and lighting in them, so a photo editing program will take it further.
Professionals don't use editing software, but for a beginner, you should try to use it very little, but enough to enhance the quality of a picture without changing it too much. Photoshop is bot what I recommend, there are probably already photo editing programs on your computer if you have up to date software.
When you take pictures, take it of things you like. Don't worry what others think. If you see something that's worth taking a photo of, take it quickly because nothing lasts forever, and you may only get one chance to get the best shot.
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hey in legend of zelda orcarina of time to get the fourth bottle i hav to give some guy poes but he keeps on saying that it's just a normal poe. so wat kind of poes am i suppose to giv him it's so frustrating >.< plz help!
look up the FAQ on gamefaqs.com
They are more likely to be able to answer your questions than us
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Hi! Thanks for taking the time to read this.
At my school, we have two Improv teams: a Junior team and a Senior team. I am on the Senior team, and run the Junior as well as the Senior team with my friend. We organize practices, competitions, T-shirts and workshops- it's a lot of work, but I love it! Both teams participate in the Canadian Improv Games (CIG).
Anyway, we are tired of doing similar warm-ups/Improv games during practices. Does anyone have any suggestions as to some games we could play in order to have fun and raise the team's skill level?
Please don't recommend the following, as we already play/practice/perform these:
-Pop Up Book
-BANG
-Whoosh Whoosh Whoa!
-Cat and Mouse
-Life Event
-Story Event
I would appreciate all suggestions!
There's a game in Theatre class we played, its called Put(pŭt) Put. You have two rows of people, all facing one direction. And you tell the first person in he front a sound that a vehicle makes, like put put. The person in front is to turn around say put put to the person behind them, and it goes down the line to the last person who says it four times to send it back up. The object of the game is to be the first to send several sounds back to the front first. Its meant to improve reaction time.
Charades is a simple improv game that anyone can do. Human Mirror, where two people partner up and one copies the motions of the other. Shadow is like Human Mirror, but one person actual does the improv while the other copy pantomimes behind them, like a shadow.
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okay, thanks in advance for reading this,
i want to start a blog, but before dong so, i would love some opinions, like, what would you like in a blog?, if you were going to start one what would yo u include? you know stuff you find relevant
it would be awesome if you helped me!
thank you very much,
A.
A blog is a place where you put your thoughts and opinions, likes and dislikes, the good the bad and the ugly on. Its your blog, make it about you. Don't worry about what the people want, its your blog. You can write whatever you want on it. Deepest darkest thoughts, personal accounts, questions that you can't seem to state out loud but want to put it out there, poetry, the list can go on. If you really want to appeal to anyone so they would read your blog often, keep it updated a lot and make it look nice. But make talk about you and not what other people want to hear. They can see a therapist for that.
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I have the newest Windows Live Hotmail..or whatever it is :)
I remember that if I was sending an email and I clicked ''Attach'' it'd give me two options 'Add File' and 'Add Picture' now I just get the file option.
How can I get the picture option back?
Thanks!
A picture you attach to the email is the same thing as adding a file. Just click on the pic you want to attach and it will upload it. No worries okay, nothings changed they just combined add file with add pic
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okay so on facebook i was on my home page.
And you know how when your on your home page all your friends updates are ont here too along with new comments on pictures?
Well, theres a pic of these 3 girls and one is in their white bathing suit.
So from far away it looks like a bra
and my mom came in and was like "WHAT IS THAT?"
and i thought it was funny so i told them, i was like
"ohmymgod is Kristen in her bra? lmao my mom came in and was like "WHAT IS THAT?" cuz i was on my homepage.. haha thanks =/"
but you could tell i was only kidding about the "thanks=/" part.
They all like, attacked me!
They said i was blaming it on Angela, the girls picture, and that one little comment triggered like 320234234 of their comments
i cant even explain it!
I dont talk to them much, but i thought i'd be funny and say that.
And they were being total bitches!
angela was like "why were you looking at my profile? and why do you care?"
and tthis one girl britney was like "yeah that looks nothing like a bra"
Its like they didnt pay attention to anything i said!
so then i said
"i wasnt blaming it on angela, and on your HOMEPAGE it shows up, i wasnt looking at your profile. Also, i said from AFAR it looks like a bra"
immidiatley i got like 6 responses
"You must have a pretty f***** up bra then."
and like a bunch of other bitchy ones.
then i was like
"sorry i just thought it'd bring some laughs (:"
and then britney goes
"well, here are your laughs
HAHAHAHAHHAH
ok."
theyre all such bitches i was only trying to be funny, and its like they listened to nothing i said. i didnt do anything wrong that whole convo and they were all nasty for no reason =/
i didnt respond to that last comment and i think i'd better stay quiet.
does anyone think what i did was stupid?
or does anyone think i should respond?
opinions?
answers?
help?
15/f
what you did wasn't stupid, you simply felt like you oughta mention it. Its the people that took offense to it, and its not really something you can help. You just have to watch what you say before you say it. Most people tend to realize that you don't mean anything, but others have no clue. But if it happens again in anyway, don't respond. It only makes things worse, and tends not help because those people are really dense... Overall, try to avoid it happening again...
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how do hormones influence when people do stupid things (e.g., have unprotected sex)? i know it's an "in the moment" sort of thing. but. like how strongly do hormones affect a teenager?
i'm 15f.
Hormones aren't the only thing that influence teens into certain situations. Communication can mislead a person if they are told what they want to hear and not whats going to happen. Certain events that happened in a persons life can alter their decision. A majority experience can make you think that because everyone else has done it, that you should too. There are several other ways a person can be influenced to do stupid things...
Hormones are simply a scientific and biological excuse. There's no way of controlling them, and there's really no way to avoid them. You just have to be strong enough to think about what your about to do and the consequences...
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im 24. i dont have any attraction to men my age. i keep getting attracted to intelligent men over the age of 35. is this normal?
am i making a mistake of ignoring men my age? am i putting myself in a postion to be manipulated by "more experienced" men?
thanks
Its normal to be attracted to men older than yourself. It just means you seek a person who has more experience and intelligence than you do, whether that means you see that men your age are dumb or simply not attractive in anyway. Now, I can't tell you that older men won't try to manipulate you considering they have more experience with dealing with women, but they probably have more manners and respect than younger guys.
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