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14/m. my girlfriend is comeing over soon n im so nervous. when we kiss we makeout n shes the sweetest ever, last time we were all over eachother n it was my very first kiss, i jacked off, n my boner made her jump, then i started to... and get really into it. then she got off me i felt soooo bad, she didnt do it ina mean way she just did her little cute smile then kissed my cheek then sat back with my arm around her. im scared if it happens again, what would i do?
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Ok well your only 14 and your body is still maturing and a male want fully mature until he’s mid 20's or on but in your case don’t worry about you have to make her understand if it her first time with a guy she has to understand that most men in their younger years can’t control their hormones or boner and ok when or if you masturbate by yourself you won’t go as fast because you’re by yourself and when your girlfriend is kissing on you or feeling on you it's the fact that she is there making you more relaxed and ready to feel good and go but as you do it and do it over and over again with her your body will get use to it and you will be able to control your pleasure points or your hot spots and if you want to know what to do like to stop from going for a while you and her need to make out as long as you can to pleasure her and pleasure your elf without you or her touching you or if she does or you do decide to go for at first you too start kissing let her rum you ball sac and that’s where if you don’t know that’s where a man’s sperm is made and is a hot spot but so you don’t cum as quickly stay away from the tip of your penis that’s a man’s climax point which means you’re going to cum real fast no matter how expericed you are or not it can’t really be controlled. but if you have any other questions to ask me just ask anytime ok but if you ask me just try to be more specific in question not so many ... you know but it’s ok I knew what you meant, I really hope I helped but if I didn’t answer your question right just message me again in a similar question ok thank you
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Well, first of all, I don't believe you should have "jacked off" on your first kiss... Though I'm not totally sure what you meant by this.
Second of all, you can't really help it if it happened. Its a all natural involuntary(basically automatic) thing. You don't have control over it. You can avoid her freaking out by preparing for it to happen. Such as repositioning before hand or avoid wearing loose pants. I don't suggest you let her know you have an erection, because it seems shes grossed out about it. If it happens, it happens, and if she notices, don't make things more awkward than it already is. Just go with whatever she wants...
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Sounds to me like you went farther than you were comfortable with.
Talk to her about what you're comfortable with and what you're not comfortable with.
Establish ground rules.
Really it's probably not worth it to lose your virginity at such a young age.
I say just watch a movie and hold hands or something- nothing too big.
Thanks for inboxing.
--Jack
(16/m)
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