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Question Posted Sunday October 5 2008, 5:02 pm

14 Female
Okay so awhile ago in science me and my best guy friend Steven were joking around and he was like I bet you couldn't get me hard. So in the middle of class I tickeled his knee and was like "Does This Get You Horny?" and he started laughing and like groped my knee and I was like AHH NO. Lol it was awkward. Well over a week I kept going higher and higher as a joke, and we did joke about it. Then i guess my BFF Becky asked him if I ever got him hard-- and he told me that she asked that, and i was like LALALALALA i dont wanna know LALALALALA. Then last night he was like Katie- you have gotten me hard In Science class and I was like =OOOOO.
LAST TIME I JOKE WITH HIM LIKE THAT.
You dont get hard when we joke around like that. its creepy and then you don't tell me lol because then its awkward. Now im afraid to be in
science with him..
Well.. its weird to know that guy friends that I have had since forever and now getting in that stage of life. Which I know happens.. but why do they feel comfortable talking to me about it because I try to make it obvious that i dislike talking about like stuff. Like masterbation... ITS WEIRD.
But how do i explain it to make them stop and not make them think its because im interested.
and why do they not care that i know this stuff...


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Psycotheis answered Monday October 6 2008, 1:44 am:
The reason they don't care that you don't want to know any of that is because their simply immature guys. Take your friend for example. First of all, you shouldn't have started the "joke", but I don't blame you if your bored out of your mind in class and want to be entertained somehow. Second, you shouldn't have played the "joke" with a guy of all people, especially at your age. Guys like that have no sense of respect or the ability to acknowledge whats right and wrong.

If you meet up with him and he tries to talk to you about the subject again, you tell him that its enough and to stop doing that. Its not at all amusing or impressive. Be as blunt as you can, no matter how you think he might feel in the end. Because its likely he'll either stop right then and there or end up thinking that if he keeps doing it it will eventually become amusing again.

If he does pick up again, its better to tell a teacher or adult about it. They are more likely to be able to do something about it then you can, but use it as a last resort, because it can make things a hell of a lot worse than you trying to stop it...

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