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I'm Kyle I'm 20 years old I am An United States marine that plays Guitar and writes songs in my free time.. I used to get on here alot but im starting to get into this again now that im Settled down FINALLY!! Soo get the Questions coming!

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i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do!

If you like him and he likes you.. be open.. and tell him what you want.. in a kind way... not too agressive.. even tho some guys may like that

KYLE

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okay there is this guy and we are really good friends! He comes over and stuff and we just hang out and have the BEST times! We can talk to each other about anything! We have such a good friendship! I was thinking about him the other day...i might like him! I think it might be wierd though, and he hasnt given me any signs about him feeling that way... i don't think so at least. But i don't know if i should give him hints as to taking it to a higher level, and if i should then how should i do it?? HELP ME PLEASE!

You gotta just keep it real for a while.. and wait for him to kind of hint it to you.. or else he might get a little creeped out.. because.. ive had a close friend that i like.. not give me hints.. and suddenly kiss me once.. it was kind of like kissing my sister.. i got grossed out.. in a way.. and was just confused.. soo id try to wait it see how he reacts around u more.. i do wish u the best.. and if its meant to be.. then it will happen!

KYLE

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hey yall i jus found out that my bf is probly cheating on me and this stuff happens to me all the time i always get used at and it really sux and wel i jus dont no how to deal with it cus wenever this stuf happens i get really depressed and shit and i think about cutting and stuff but i never actualy do it i jus need sum way to get out of this place or idk i jus idk

Get better guys.. or just kind of tease them.. and see if they are worth ur time.. before you actually commit!!!!!!!

Kyle

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~*Hey I have this problem with my cuzin. She is now 14. She thinks she is better than every1 else...she even told me that once. She dresses like a slutt...most ppl call her 1. She wears skirts that don't cover her a**, and shirts that go just bellow her breasts. Every where I go wit her guys r always starring. She always brings me down, and told me that she was ready to have sex!!! She is turning anirexic(food disorder). I wish I could help her. All she does is tell me how much she thinks I wanna be like her. I just don't understand I love and care for her and she treats me like this. I've tried asking her whats wrong, and she just calls me a loser and walks away. Pls help wit my problem*~

She is either.. Angry with herself.. and just wants attention.. or wants to feel better by gettin guys to notice her and not you.. just relax.. she is just threatened by you.. soo wants to do things to stand out more.. SOO KEEP HER JEALOUS..and have fun.. but if she is starvin herself.. u need to talk with her or her parents.. thats not cool

KYLE

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I've been having problems with my dad lately ... well now that I think about it i've always had these problems. Sense my parents got divorced when I was like one I've only seen him everyother weekend. I used to hate it and lately i've been wishing I'd never see him. He always seems busy, and when hes not he always seem to be judging people, and mostly me. He won't let me have certian piercing because he think they will make me a bad kid ... he honestly said that! He also said he'd be embarresed. I've just started to learn he doesnt realize im growing up, I just can't stand him sometimes, he makes thing seem like there always my fault, and I just feel really uncomertable around him, like I can't be myself, and he doesn't know me so hes always asking me questions about drugs and stuff, I just don't know what to do, ive tried to tell him not to judge me to get to know me, and i've told him im growing up and he needs to accept it, i evenasked him to respect me because he didn't act like it. And after he seemed like he felt bad, but it didnt last long. Any advise would help thanks aton!

Many parents live in the own little world and are over protective.. of their little girls.. im soo sorry "FRIEND" but like u said we are in the same boat.. soo here i come to ur rescue and try to help.. well.. if u dont wanna see he him you shoudent have to.. not sure about laws and stuff.. but you and ur dad need to talk about judgement. and try to change his point of view. at least make him get to know a person before even attempting to judge them.. its not cool to sterotype and lable people freaks and things.. becaues of how they are on the outside.. if he is goin to judge he outta at least judge there character.. cause that woudent bother me.. if someone says YOUR A GREAT GUY.. and have a reason.. i would appreciate it.. and admire them for at least taking the time.. to get to know me.. and if they said i was an asshole.. for whatever reason same thing goes.. at least they took the time!!!!!!

YOUR FRIEND KYLE

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~Hey I have this cutting problem. I just always wish someone would take me away from this world. My parents just kicked me out...once for smoking pot and sex...and the other reason is becuz they didnt want me. Right before this happened I caught my almost husband in the bed with 2 otha gurls.I almost married him at 17!! I got a new bf though. That is the ONLY reason I am still her. I am living wit him for now. I tried commiting suicide once but my bf stopped me. Life just keeps getting worse. I cut myself to releave myself from deppresion, anger, and nething else. I want to stop cutting myself becuz my bf doesnt like me doing it. I was raped by my ex's friend(my ex set it all up)and my bf doesnt know yet. I am anirexic(food disorder). I am 5'6, 92lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, white wit a tan. Pls help me stop cutting myself~

Hey.. well if u ever wanna talk u can look for contact info in my profile or anything like that.. i would kind of need to hear more about your story.. and your life.. but i would love to help someone in such trouble as yourself.. because i care.. and the loss of your life would affect soo many.. please look me up if u wanna talk or anything!!!

KYLE

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I'm in like despirate need of a job cuz my mom decided to stop randomly givin me money wich sucks ass... so ne ideas for a 14/f!

Babysitting, gardening.. not sure about lifeguarding at a pool i think u have to be a little older.. it all depends on if u could pass a class.. um.. volenteer work sometiems pays a little .. use your imagination.. there are lots of ways to come up with money.. be smart.. and be creative.. try something new

KYLE

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okay i wonna know, how to have a nice ass? WHAT should i do?/ RUN?? or something?

Before u do anything.. u wanna streach out.. not to pull anything.. and it will also give ur muscles more shape.. and appeal.. things you could do are run.. do some squats (weights on ur shouders) do some leg presses.. um.. lunges.. things like that.. and also wearing tighter fitting clothing around that area will show it off nice as well!!!!!!!!

KYLE

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Theres one guy who changes mood's rapidly. He used to always be happy, now he's always mad, yet today he was happy. We used to like eachother, but never said anything. Point being, I still like the guy. I don't know if he likes me. I'm 19 he's 16. Sucks, yeah. But I love the guy. He's all I think about during the day. Even now..haha. Help? If I tell him, I know he'd laugh it off and act as if I'm joking. I don't really feel like talking about lovey shit, either.

Hey here is what i think you outta do.. if he changes moods alot.. try this.. because i have bad mood swings like that.. TELL HIM HOW U FEEL.. but.. u gotta have perfect timeing.. dont tell him when he is at a peak high.. because he will more than likely joke about it.. tell him when he is in a neutral stage.. or kind of not in a good mood.. show him that you love him.. and care for him.. and express your feelings.. i dont think age really matters all that much.. as long as you have alot in common.. keep it real... GOOD LUCK

KYLE

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I'm 13 and I weigh 126 pounds. I would like to weigh 110, and I really need a way to know how I could lose just a few pounds. My friends know me as the big eater. I'm not fat, actually I look very thin, but my stomach is a little bigger than I'd like for it to be. Some1 please help!

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I would do crunches sit ups.. swimming helps.. lay on your back and do bicycles.. jog every once and a while.. but dont starve yourself.. eat right.. and u may be able to eat smaller portions... personally i go and run around and go to the gym and workout everyday.. soo i can eat whatever i want and not gain weight.. cause i like to eat..

KYLE

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What do girls my age (14) like in us guys?

FUNNY.. and u gotta be kind of bad.. but know how to not get caught!!!..SWHOOSH 2 points

KYLE

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Hey its me Jenipher I have a really fast ? to ask , ok me and my friend are going away for a week, and we are really nerves about going to the camp. what do we do to get over this vervisy???
Oh and I emailed u and need ur help!! and fast!

Relax.. use your energy.. in a positive way.. think positive.. and have fun.. try this.. think about breathing.. close your eyes.. NOT YET..and when you take a breath in.. pull your stomach in.. soo u dont get as much air.. then.. when you breath out.. stick ur stomach out.. close your eyes when you do it.. and lay on your back and elevate your legs.. relax and breath kind of in reverse like that.. it works for me.. and if u wanna listen to some classical music while doing it that would also help.. GOOD LUCK

KYLE

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Hey well lets start off here, I'm 14 in a month 15(going to be a freshman), and the guy I like is 18(just graduated highschool). I know its crazy, but the thing is he was the one to approach me. He didn't think I was my age because I guess I look older, but we still hung out and had fun, talked on the phone now and then and texted eachother all of the time. One night I snuck out to see him ... and we kissed, and had dry sex (i'm not a slut it was the firstime I did something like that with someone that wasn't my boyfreind ... well dry sex first time ever). So of course ... I started to like him, this went on a few more times, But whenever we would talk he would talk about the age difference and how young I am, he also told me not to tell anyone, that made me kinda sad... not like I would have anyways. The thing is he treated me really wel lwhen I was with him, and made it seem like he liked me by saying tons of little things. So it's like two months later, and I got like no attention from him, one night I needed to talk to him but he was in Vagas and had to go. So I started to give up which was going okay. Then last thursday I saw him agian, and he hugged me and totaly acted like things were normal agian, I'm so lost, and I like him too much to try to let him go, I'm not sure what to do and I know everyone will tell me to leve it alone, I honestly don't think thats helping or that I can, Ive also been having problems trying to exlplane it to him, I told him I liked him, what else do I say? Well thanks for you time, and help me if you can!

Hey Ali.. well.. we have talked about this before.. he seems like a cool guy.. but.. i think he really wants to have sex.. i mean he is older.. and i mean come on.. thats honestly what older guys go for younger girls. from experience that happened to some friends of mine.. the guys were in college and wanted "fresh meat" sorry to say.. but i hope he isnt like that ..

KYLE

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Ok, I play guitar..I have a guitar (always comes in handy), an amp and an fx pad. Answer this! What should I ask for when Christmas comes round?

First of all do u have a guitar.. or DO YOU PLAY IT.. if soo do you play it well.. and another thing.. Who says u really need things for christmas.. if soo why guitar stuff.. i think that if u can play guitar..well it would be nice.. to go to a childrens hospital or nursing home. and play for some people on christmas.. that would be very kind.. and show alot more than asking for shit!!!!!!

KYLE

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I'm just starting out in the guitar world, and I've been doing some research. I've decided that I want a Fender, because they've gotten good reviews and are in my price range (or the ones I've seen, anyway.)My questions consist of:

1. What's a dreadnaught? Is it bigger than a Grand Concert?

2. Are you supposed to use a pick with acoustics?

3. What is the best kind of case?

4. What's a good price (in general) for a Fender?

I think I want the Grand Concert GC-12 Acoustic, but I also might want the DG 245 Dreadnaught Acoustic.

1 dreadnaught has a cut in.. if i'm thinking clearly.. im very tired.. i may be wrong haha

2 I do.. classical style you dont use a pick that much tho.. depends on your style

3 I have a hardshell case more protection and i can lock it

4 fender strat anywhere 300$ and up ive seen some go for millions ( jimi hendrix, eric clapton guitars )

And if ur lookin at acoustics.. i would advise eather a dean or alverez 2 thumbs up hehe

KYLE

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I entered in a chance to win a fender "something or other" But I doubt I'll win. . So I will be crossing my fingers, and looking for a bass at the same time, thanks!

GOODLUCK!!!!!

KYLE

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I play classical guitar. I left my teacher a few months ago and I'm learning on my own. I need to know how to play sharps and flats on guitar.

Honestly im not that smart with guitars.. i just know what i know and that is HOW TO PLAY ... haha.. basically how i get sharps and flats.. is i use my whammy bar!! simple enough for me

KYLE

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Ok...I want a guitar. Badly. I've wanted to buy one and learn how to play it for like 3 years now. But, I know absolutely nothing about it. So could someone please tell me what's a good guitar to start out with??? Ahhh, I feel stupid. ThankYOU.

I would advise gettin an electric.. they are fun to play.. i honestly like how acoustics sound but it all depends on your style.. acoustics are harder to be good at.. because they are a littler harder to use.. but electrics in my opinion are way more fun.. to just go out and rock.. and u can make electrics scream, cry, wine. and many other things.. good choices .. are an electric.. get a fender or squire stratacaster/telecaster an acoustic i would get a dean or an alverez

KYLE

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i want to get a gutar, but i dont no what to get? i dont want it to hurt my fingers but i want to rock!

what should i get?

Get an electric for more advice on what kind email me or add me to ur instant messager and get back to me.. cause i would need some information...

KYLE

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Hey. Im getting a guitar for my birthday. And the sad thing is that i dont kow how to play one. Which means i need lessons. But i am lacking in the monetry department at the moment... so im gonna be a laxy screw and get them off the internet or summink.
Does anyone here use those online guitar lessons?? Do you reckon theyre any better/ worse than real live people lessons??
Any tips on starting out on the guitar would be peachy too.

Thanks n stuff...
~ Mordak, she who has moved your cheese.

Well.. having someone in person is nice but you would be amazed at how much u can learn from online sources or videos and stuff

www.olga.net
www.guitartabs.cc
www.cyberfret.com
www.wholenote.com

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