Me and my best guy friend talk all the time on AIM. Mainly every night before school. But I have 2 classes with him, and he RARELY talks to me in class. Is there a reason for this? It kind of makes me upset.
Hm, guess I'm not the only one then.
My best guy friend has been doing that to me since school started. It seems like he talks to everyone in class but me. Ask him on IM why you guys don't talk much anymore. Maybe he likes you and is too nervous to talk to you now. Try talking to him first in class and see if he starts talking to you more.
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I'm 14/f and yesterday my best friend and I walked in on my 15yr old brother by mistake while he was in the bathroom masterbating. I know he must be really embarrassed and we haven't said a word to each other since it happened. Should I say something to him about what we saw?
I'm so sorry that it took my forever to answer this, but my computer's been broken for the past week or so.
Anyways, If I were you, I would just try and forget about it. Don't talk about it with your friend or anything. Don't act weird around him. If he says something to you about it, say, "I'm not gonna tell anyone or whatever you think I might do. Let's just forget it. Okay?" But, unless he says something about it, don't mention it to him. Just start talking to him like you normally do and things will go back to normal.
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ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do??i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me.
Stupid guys. They confuse me too much.
I haven't had a boyfriend either. I came pretty close last year, but it didn't work out because of my "best friend."
Anyways, be more outgoing. Talk to people more, but don't be mean to anyone.
Start exercising and eating healthy. You'll lose weight in no time. If you drink green tea, it will help speed up your metabolism.
Go shopping. It always makes me feel better for some reason. Get clothes from places like American Eagle, Aeropostale, and Hollister because for some reason some people think you are a total loser now if you don't get stuff from there. I have no idea why.
Get contacts also. Since you're 13, you can finally get them.
Good luck!
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TOTAL MIXED SIGNALS!
my crush and I, we IM:ed earlier today..
and he went "you're so perfect for me, we like the same movies, songs, everything" and i was soooo happy because of that, but i had to go offline, so i said bye, but then i realized id rather talk to him than do anything else.. so i went online again, and he blocked me! my friend said he was still online, but he "went offline" as soon as i logged in.. WHYY? i cant ask him about this, so do i just NOT talk to him until he talks to me? or what?
Aw, he's so sweet.
He blocked you because he got nervous and felt embarrassed about what he had said to you earlier.
Let him know that you feel the same way about him. You NEED to talk to him, so do not wait for him to talk to you. That might give him the impression that you think he's some freak for randomly saying that stuff to you.
Wait till he unblocks you and just act like you didn't know about it. IM him and say, "Hey. You know what you said to me earlier?" and wait for him to say something. Then say, "Well, I feel the same way about you." Just wait for his response and see how it works out, which from what he said to you, I think it will work out great.
Good luck!
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okay i'm 14/female
sorry for the length of this.
i always wondered why i can't get a boyfriend. all the guys i like either have gf's already, or don't like me like that but we're still friends.
i'm in high school with over a thousand kids you'd think someone would like you.
i'm 5'1 and have brown eyes and brown hair with a purpleish red in it. i'm skinny, but average, and i think i have a really good personality, and i make good grades in school, but i'm not a nerd. i just haven't figured out why guys don't like me gf wise. why won't they ask me out or even like me?
any suggestions would be great. just drop off any questions you have about my personality to me. that way i can get better advice on what the deal is with me. and what i need help with.
thanx in advance :)
Nothing is wrong with you.
I haven't had a boyfriend and I'm your age also. My friends want me to have a boyfriend more than I want one myself!
There's someone in your school who likes you.
My friends kept saying to me, "There's got to be someone who likes you! I KNOW THERE IS!" And I always said the same thing. "No, there isn't."
But, yesterday I found out that three guys liked me! Trust me on this, there's at least one person at your school who likes you. You just have to flirt and make better friends with them to find out!
Maybe they're intimidated by you. Some guys are shy, so they're too scared to ask you out.
Ask your guy friends if there is something wrong with you. I tried that and they said, "Well, if you smiled more. Guys like that." So, they'll at least tell you one tip or something!
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my best friend just asked me out today and i said yes and usually we talk ALOT on aim but im scared that there will just be an awkward silence tomorrow wen i see him at school because he is in 2 of my classes. i REALLY suck at making conversation so do you have any tips or things we could talk about?
thanks in advance
Things you should NOT do/say:
-Gossip (It makes them wonder whether you talk about them behind their backs also. Sometimes it might make them start thinking you are a jerk.)
-Make fun of people (Its okay if he does it and if you say something just as a joke and its actually funny.)
-Don't complain about everything (It gets on their nerves and it's very annoying to them.)
-Talk about clothes, hair, make up, etc. (They really do not care about that stuff.)
-Aa million pointless questions. (He probably doesn't want to answer a lot of questions that are just plain stupid.)
-The weather. (I seriously doubt that he cares about it.)
Things to talk about:
-Ask him if he wants to go see a movie or something this weekend.
-Talk about what you did over the weekend.
-Give each other your phone number unless you both already have each others.
-Maybe have a party together with all of your friends over the weekend. It would be fun AND it would give you stuff to do because you have to plan.
-Talk about school. Like your teachers and rather you like them or not.
-Talk about funny things that happened in your classes, last week, etc.
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This boy & I are best friends, but recently when he IM's me/calls me we don't have much to talk about. So, for 3 days I didn't get on AIM/answer my phone..sort of avoiding him, so we'd have stuff to talk about when I got on AIM/he called me.
Well yesterday I signed on AIM, and he usually instanly talks to me, but he didn't. So I waited a bit, then put up an away msg. I was kind of hurt, I won't lie, that he wasn't lonely without me hah. Well later on that night my away msg said something like, "F you I'm still riding the bus, just because you're riding it & I'm trying to avoid you doesn't mean I shouldn't ride it." So, after reading that he IMs me, like, "Who are you ignoring?" And I was like "You." and signed off, and he called but I didn't answer. We're not going out, I just get extremely jealous of these other two girls he talks to on Aim, and whenever he's not talking to me, I feel like something's wrong with me, like I'm ugly or something.
His aim profile now says..
Recently, there have been times I wonder if you even want to be my friend. I try, yet no matter what I do it seems that it just angers you more. I guess what they say is true, that not everyone can like you for who you are.i'll be honest, it makes me sad.
That's about me, so idk what to do to be honest. Do I apologize? Or, just anything would help.
Wow, you are so lucky. He seems like a really great friend.
Do you like him? That might be the problem. Or are you just afraid of losing your best friend?
He might have not been talking to you on IM either because he thought you wanted space since you hadn't been calling him back or because he didn't notice that you signed on.
It sounds like he doesn't understand what he did or why you didn't call or anything. If I were you, I would call him and say, "Hey [name]. I'm sorry about the other day. I just got angry because I thought you were talking to everyone BUT me. I'm just afraid of losing my best friend to some other person. The reason why I haven't been calling you back is because we haven't had anything to talk about the times before that you called, so I thought that maybe if we didn't talk for a few days, we might actually find something to talk about on the phone or on IM. You really are the greatest friend anyone could ask for and I'm sorry."
Trust me, he'll forgive you. From what you said, it sounds like he really loves having you as a friend.
If you start getting jealous next time, just take your mind off of it and sign off and listen to music for a little bit. That's what I do all the time and it helps a lot.
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Hi,Umm.....I need your advice.Wen i go to school in the morning with my friends wenever i say something they look at each other and laugh for no reason.Why do you think they do that?I feel left out somehow.How can i make our friendship better?Thanx!
I HAD a friend like that.
And trust me, you don't need to be friends with those people. The reason why they are laughing is because they are being jerks and talking about you behind your back with each other and making mean jokes about you. You didn't do anything wrong. If you really want to you can just send them an e-mail or something and ask them why they do that and tell them to stop.
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My dad has always had a pretty big temper. He has definentaly put me into tears from his yelling quite a few times, and when ever i stand up for my self he just gets worse. well for the most part its never gotten to bad, but lately he has been terrible. Ususally my mom is in a good mood and she gets him to let up a bit but she got mad at me a week ago and lately she hasnt been helping me out. For the past week when ever im just minding my own buisiness he comes into my room and screams at me, and when ever i make a tiny mistake he wont let me foget it and rubs it in my face. Well last night i had a friend sleep over and we wanted o play quiji board. so we got it from my room which it right next to my parents room. well when we finished up we brought the board back up and we were litterally only in my room for 2 seconds when my dad walks in and brings me down stairs and begins to scream at me. saying how i had been up stairs making noise in front of his door for 20 minutes, he brings his face super close to mine and says really scarily next time you wake me up im going to be going to jail cause im gonna hit you so hard. then he screams how stupid i am until im finally in tears, and i try to defend myself and he says do you think im a liar, do you think im stupid, and he starts walking towards me, if it weren't for my brother being home for collage i swear he would have hurt me. i went back upstairs tears all down my face, my friend had heard everything. he always yells at me and calls me stupid and blames everything on me and i dont think im strong enough to take it. and when i tell my mom what he did she just reacts how she always does "dont worry ill talk to him'. but things never get better. advice please. thanks for taking the time to read this.
First of all, you sound brave if you stand up for yourself like that! :]
My dad does the same exact thing. No, I'm not just trying to make you feel like you aren't the only one and all that crap. He does the exact same thing. Except with the threats...he saves those for my mom, who doesn't do a thing. So, I know what you are going through and I'm not going to be an idiot and say, "Just walk away and everything will be fine." because I know EXACTLY what you are going through.
Try talking to a very close friend and tell her everything he does and start from the beginning. That way you have someone to go to when your dad does things like that.
Do you have a good friend who lives in your neighborhood? If so, she should be the one who you talk to. Ask her when your dad starts having the immature fits if its okay to spend the night at her house. Just quietly sneak to where your mom is and ask her if you can spend the night at the person's house and leave. That what I do and trust me, you feel a whole lot better! :]
In your situation, I would talk to your SCHOOL counselor as soon as you can.
Next time he has one of his tantrums get your cell phone and call 911 or a child abuse hotline.
Good luck!!!!
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There is this dance and I am going to go with this guy, the dance is in 2 days, and I said yes to him yesterday, today he gave me a hug, do you think he thinks we are going out?? Also, he is a wigger and that is not my type, and he is on my nerves...WHAT TO DO!!?!?!?!
Just say, "um..we aren't going out or anything are we?" or say something like that and see what he says.
Obviously he likes you if he asked you to the dance and if he gave you a hug.
He might think you two are going out. I can't really tell. Like if he was walking down the hall with you holding your hand, then um yeah, I'd say he thinks you guys are going out.
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How do you get rid of a really bad sunburn in one day? Is it even possible?
Well, I think it's possible. It really depends on how bad it is.
I was an idiot and sat out in the sun for two hours yesterday and got burned on my face.
It's already starting to go away. You can barely see it now and this is what I have been doing:
Washing my face with dove deep moisture body wash.
Putting AcneFree Oil-free moisturizer on my face ever 3 hours.
And before I went to bed I used Vanicream Lite Moisturizing Skin Lotion.
The stuff I was using is really hard to find except for the dove thing which I got from walmart so if you can't find those things you can try this:
Buy the dove stuff from walmart. Well, pretty much anywhere has it. And wet your face with a cloth and then put some on your hand and rub it till it starts to lather where ever you're burned. Then wipe your face gently with a cloth. Make sure you're using cold water.
Then you can buy Johnson's baby oil from about anywhere and put that on where you're burned.
Just try and keep a lot of moisture on it and avoid going in the sun.
It may not completely go away but it wont be as bad. Trust me.
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13/f
its almost been a week ive been sad. and he still ignores me. i found out another reason... he thinks i like another guy, and he thinks i flirt wit' him... and its pretty much natural rightt? you flirt when you dont' know that you are... but he should've told me to change, or told me, or asked me if it was true. Instead of saying "its over." and leaving me there.. thenn some of my bestfriends is on his side, and im like "we have sides now?" and hes still ignoring me.. he looks at me.. but he doesnt takl to me, im trying to straighten things out wit him.. but he wont listen to me. its nearly impossible to get his attention. if i told my friend to tell him he'll say "so?" in a mean way. if anyone wanna know what else happened.. aim me.. i need ALOT of advice. As for it.
he seems happier than i am right now. my life is messed up at the moment, idk what to do.. im sad, im stressed out.. i cried yesterday.. i felt like crying today..
the things i wonder; if hes sad too..
if he regrets it.. [but hes hiding it.. not sure]
if he still likes me.
lemme guess you must be wondering.. "why do you even give a shit about him ?!" maybe because i still like him.. and wondering if he feels the same. i want him back at the moment. its like nothing .. or nobody can cheer me up or get my mind off of him.. HELPP ?! ADVICE.. ?!
Do you have his e-mail address? e-mail him. he can't ignore an e-mail. He'll read it, but he might not respond, but at least he'll know how you feel. Just tell him this in the e-mail:
(the guys name), I don't like (the guy who he thinks you like). I promise I don't. Why would I be going out with you if I did?? I'm sorry for making it seem like I liked him. I wish you would have told me what I was doing because I would have realized it and stopped. I'm really sorry..you don't know how sorry I am. Please forgive me. I'll do anything...I really will. I haven't smiled once for even a second since we broke up. You are the only one who can cheer me up when I'm sad and you are the sweetest boyfriend anyone could ever ask for..I mean it. I don't know what I'm going to do without you...I miss you so much. (His name)I love you.
Or leave him a message on his cell phone saying that.
You could also just write him a letter and find a way that you can give it to him.
Yes, it's natural to flirt like that. I do it all the time and I don't even realize until someone asks me if I like the guy.
Most likely he regrets it. He probably still likes you but is confused and being stubborn like most guys.
Try to find something fun to do. Go see a comedy at the theater like talladega nights. I'm really hard to make laugh but I actually started laughing during that movie. It's hilarious. Avoid listening to the radio..it's evil. They play way to many sad love songs. Go shopping with some friends...that always cheers me up for some reason.
Good luck!
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OK, i started school and i have all my classes with this guy. Let's call him Joe. well Joe looks at me some, but i dont know if it's enough that he really likes me. Sometimes i catch himn looking at me but not a LOT. I really like him but i'm scared to ask him out. Cuz if we break up hardly, then i have all my classes with this guy that i hate. Soooo...i dont know what to do!! I like him and i really dont want him to say no because that will be really really embarrasing. What do i do?
Okay. You have a few options.
Option A:
If you're friends with any of his friends see if you can get them to find out if he likes you or not. If he says that he doesn't know or if he says no then tell them to say something good about you or something like that.
Option B:
Start talking to him a little bit more and maybe you guys can become friends. Then once you two are better friends you can start flirting with him. He'll end up liking you at some point during your friendship.
Option C:
Get one of your friends to ask him out for you. If he says no, then have a back up story.
Here's an example:
on your way out of the school to leave say,
"Hey Joe. You know how (your friends name)asked you if you would go out with me? Well, I didn't want her to because I don't like you as anything other than a friend. We were mad at each other for something that I did to her and she was just trying to get back at me. So, yeahhh. Well, I gotta go. I'll see you tomorrow."
and walk off.
whatever you do, do not be as stupid as I was. I was bffs with the guy I liked. we would stare at each other a lot, flirt every time we talked, talked to each other more than anyone, walked together, sat together, etc. I made the mistake of not making a move before him and we kind of fell apart. Now he's being homeschooled and we haven't talked in 3 months.
So, what I'm trying to say is that rather any of those options..a b or c help, you need to make a move. It won't be that bad. Trust me. I've been turned down before and it really wasn't so bad. I just laughed it off, moved on, and now I like another guy.
Good luck!
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I really want to become a singer! I practice all the time and people tell me i am great, but my friend is a singer too. I don't want to steal her spotlight, but it's my passion! I don't know what to do.
Signed,
Scared singer
Maybe you two could like do some duet thing or something.
You shouldn't let a friend stop you from doing something that you love.
Talk to her. Tell her that you really are not trying to steal the spotlight from her but you really enjoy singing and would like to start.
Good luck!
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I'm 14, female.
I've never drank, smoked, or done drugs.
I feel like a loser, ALL my friends do stuff like this, cause in my town, everyone just does. I don't want to risk getting in trouble so I don't. I don't cuss, do sexual things other then making out, and I'm afraid to do crazy things with my friends. I won't sneak out with them, or like steal road signs. I just feel retarded and immature around all of them, everyone treats me like a baby, I've even been threatened a few times for being too "good." What should I do? I'm friends with almost everybody in my small town, so theres no one to go to.
Wow, I'm proud of you.
You didn't fall into peer pressure like most kids your age do and that is very good.
Don't feel immature. What you are doing is the complete opposite of immature.
If people are treating you like a baby, then they are just being stupid. If they are saying something that makes you feel like a baby just interrupt them and say this loudly, "Look. I am not a baby. I AM FOURTEEN! So, stop treating me like a bay!!!!!!"
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I heard if you brush your teeth with baking soda, it will somehow whiten your teeth. But my question is, is it toxic if swallowed?
No.
It's not toxic if swallowed in small amounts.
The only way that it can be toxic is if you swallow it in large ammounts.
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Im 13, female. and i like this guy. but people at school really dont like him...and i have a small reputation and im afraid that if i go out with him, ill shatter it. see...he asked me out tonight and i said yes. and then after i thought about it...i didntkno if i am mature enough...WHAT THE HELL SHOULD I DO????
Screw your reputation.
Screw the people who hate him.
Go out with him.
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How do i make my cat stop pooping so much?
Don't feed it as much as you are now if you don't want it to poop so often.
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I have little red bumps going across my chest. What are they???
Probably acne.
You can buy some exfoliating body wash or some acne stuff and you can put on it.
Look at walgreens or eckerds for things to get rid of and prevent acne by aveeno, clean and clear, dove, etc.
Before going to those places, I would suggest going to WalMart and purchasing AcneFree. It works so good! To buy the whole thing is about twenty dollars, though.
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ok so i really like this girl. but there is a problem, she is my friends ex. everytime im with her it feels right. we kiss and hold hands. but somedays she acts all weird, like we dont have a "thing". does it sound like she is using me to you?
No, she is not using you.
She just gets nervous sometimes. That's what it sounds like to me.
If you still aren't sure, just ask her about it or you can get one of your friends who have seen you two hold hands ask her why she acts weird about it.
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