me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ?
I had A friend in which she had a boyfriend who would be playing around and hit her and then he would get mad at her and hit her and at the end say he didnt know what he was thinking and that he was sorry and it would end up getting worse and he would hit her more and more and wouldnt want her hanging out with hre friends or anything and what I told her is that she needs to break up with him befor he ends up really hurting her and if they grew up and got married then he would beat her and beat her kids as well, so if i were you i would leave this guy, hes not worth it, if any guy can hit a girl then they are not worth it at all because a real man wouldnt hit a girl no matter if they were playing or not, one minute its playing then the next its serious, so dump this guy, thats the best thing you can do and just stay away from him. I hope this helps!-Nikki....*Feedback is greatly appreciated*
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my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he idd'nt have time for a girlfriend school and training. So he broke up with me and was realyl rude about it saying all I did was care about myself and I was self centered. But yet last night he had girls over at his house. He has time for hoes but not a girlfriend? I'm really confused I really love him and everything what should I do?
He more then likely just said he didnt have time for a girlfriend because he couldnt think of a better way to tell you that he wanted to break up, if i were you i wouldnt even worry about it, i'm sure you can find you someone else, and if hes haveing hoes at his house theres no telling what he could be doing with them and they could have STD's or something else and he could have sex with them and then if yall got back together if yall had sex he could give it to you, so if i were you i would just move on!..I hope this advice helps, tell me how everything goes!-Nikki..
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I am very new to this site and have only heard GREAT things about it. I have a very important question… I have never had a date on Valentine’s Day EVER!!! What can I do to make guys like me? I am very outgoing and intelligent. I am not the prettiest person in the world but definitely not the ugliest. If anyone can help, I would love to hear someone else’s opinion. Any help will do...Thanks!
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Honestly, I have never had a date for Valentine's Day either, but I dont let it get to me, I would say to try tlaking to some guys ya know and get to know guys and let them get to know you and just try to be really outgoing and i'm sure someone will ask you out on A date if no one ask's you out on a date on Valentines day, dont worry everything will be okay, i'm sure you will get a date with someone, when the time is right, remember Great things come to those who wate! But just be yourself and i'm sure everything will work out fine, keep your head up and try not to let not getting a date for Valentines day get to you, I hope this advice helps! Let me know how things go!-Nikki
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i have hair down the middle of my stomach.. im alittle conscience about it.. should i wax or shave it?
What I do is shave it, you might have to shave your stomach all your life but hey its worth it because ya wont have hair on your stomach and it works! Well I hope I helped!-Nikki
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Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!
Hey, I would say that if he asks you to sit in the back of the bus again tell him no and that you dont want to be anywhere near him and if he doesnt leave you alone then tell the bus driver or tell someone who can help you and make him stop bothering you that is called sexual harrassment and you need to do something about it quit befor it gets worse, it could end up him forceing you to have sex with him which would be considered rape, and you should tell someone a/s/a/p like a grown up, telling your friends isnt that much help because theres not a lot they can do about it but tell your bus driver or someone you trust! I hope this helps, if you need anything else let me know and i'll help you out!-Nikki
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i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15
wow, 15 thats very young to have a baby and to get married thats the age I am...But what I would do if I was yall was tell your parents, their going to have to know one way or another because your girlfriend cant get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption because thats not right, and if I were yall I would keep the baby, tell both of your parents and talk to them about if they think yall should get married and if yall are not ready to get married then just stay boyfriend and girlfriend and support your girlfriend the best way you can, yall cant hide it from your parents because it will eat you up inside and I think it would be best to tell them whats going on and that yall are scared and dont know what to do and dont want them to throw yall out on the streets or anything, I hope this advice helps, if you need anything else just feel free to ask me and i'll help you out the best way I can!-Nikki
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Has anyone ever been in a depressed mood for no reason?
yes, its called depression, many people get it.
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I think it would be considered as molestation but..what are like some signs of maybe molestation?? My dad seems to be touching me just like a little more then he ever has..I mean not in my "places" but he will just rub my shoulders or something?? The other day he also told me I have very pretty green eyes(their like a mix but blue and green but anyways..) and I was like umm thanx?? (thinking uhh wtf?) So what im asking is do you know of any signs or anything that this is the beginning of umm "molesting??" Also is this the right "catergory" for this?? I'm just a little confused sorry.
You need to talk to someone about it as soon as possible i'm serious, dont listen to what some of the other people said on here who were being rude...you need to talk to an aunt, or your mom, or someone at your school or something i'm serious, sometimes molestation does start with just a touch of the sholders...there are all sorts of ways that people do which is the beginning of molesting someone believe me I know...contact me and I will tell you more about it in an e-mail or on msn, and I will help you out!...My e-mail is sassy2dacore101@hotmail.com which is also my msn name, so i can explain it to you more...but you do need to talk to an adult as soon as possible...i know this may not help but send me an e-mail or IM me on msn...-Nikki
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Ok.. My friend wants to kill her self and when we were at a party she locked her self in a closet and tried to find something sharp to kill her self with and I am really scared for her!
plz help me!
Ok, This is what you have to do....You have to tell someone, her parents or a teacher or someone who can help her and talk to her and see why she wants to kill herself be there for her and tell her your there for her and tell her that has to be a different way to handle whats going on then killing herself theres always another option, and I can see your a good friend because you are asking for advice on what you should do...ok, just be there for her and talk to her tell her to talk to someone about it who may can help her and just let her know that no matter what she has you and that you dont want her to do a stupid thing like killing herself, I hope this helps you out if you need anything esle then you can ask me, I know alot about everything!...-Nikki
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Hey, this morning I woke up and my eye was crusty. And then I looked in the mirror and it was all red. it still is. My mom said it might be "Pink Eye" but my eye doesn't itch, and it's not really goopy. Does anyone have any ideas on what this is?? I rate all 5's.
It is pink eye, one of my friends had it really bad and it sounds just like what your describeing, and people can catch it very easily...what my friend did is went to the doctor and got some special eye drops that will clear it up, hope I helped!-Nikki
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ok well i messed around with this kid (lets call him rob) and well lets just say we ddint go all the way but we had fun.. but anyways i have a boyfriend and another kid that i am suppost to mess with ( im not a hoe ) and i mean this kid rob is like everything to me and i dont think he
really likes me.. how can i tell if he does? and what should i do should i still mess with him?
HELP
What i'm wondering is why your messing with this "Rob" guy when you have a boyfriend, dont you know thats considered Cheating?...which is very wrong, if you dont wanna be with your boyfriend then break up with him and stop cheating on him dont lead him to think yall are together and everythings great if your gonna just go off and cheat on him its just wrong, and if "rob" is everything to you then why are you still with your boyfriend?..anyways if you want to be with your boyfriend then you should leave "rob" alone...sorry if anything i said may have offended you.
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All of a sudden, I've become EXTREMELY emotional. I just watched Titanic, and I cried and cried and cried. I watched Homeward Bound the Incredible Journey with a kid I babysat with, and when the animals came home I was choked up. What's wrong with me? 13/F
Theres nothing wrong with you at all, It just means you are careing and that you have a heart, its nothing really big to worry about, everyone crys when they watch Titantic...I cry everytime I watch that movie and any other sad movies, so theres nothing wrong with you, I hope I helped!-Nikki
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my friend, lets call her anna. well anyway anna has a lot of problems. she is depressed.she has eating problems. she used to cut herself and drink. she told me that she stopped, but im really not sure if shes telling me the truth.im so scared for her. shes my best friend in the world!if she dies i sware i will kill myself. any way shes been telling my other friend, lets call her amy, about all of these things. i am sad, scared and mad.i told her that if she doesnt stop this ill do what shes doing, i told her that i love her and if she dies i will too.i call her pretty much everyday to mak sure shes not cutting herself or sumtin! im still not sure if this will help. please tell me a way i can get her to stop. ill rate you five for even reading this!Thank you thank you thank you!
Hey I read your question and I wanted to answer it because I know what its all like with the cutting and drinking and everything and I sometimes did it to get attention and to make people notice I wasnt happy and I mean that wasnt the only reason I did it I did it because it seemed like no one wanted me alive and that I had no one to talk to any of it about but your friend does have someone to talk to about it, and just sit down with her and talk to her and tell her that you are there for her and if she needs someone to talk to no matter what day or night to talk to you, but tell her that she is scareing you and if she doesnt listen to you then tell her to talk to someone that she will listen to because cutting is a serious thing and personally me talking to someone didnt help but maybe it would help your friend, tell her that there are people who love and care for her and she doesnt need to do anything stupid because it will hurt you and all the people who love and care for her, just let her know shes not alone in this world and that maybe she could try talking to someone whos been cutting their selfs and let them tell her why they decided to stop...I know this is very long but i'm trying to sum everything I know up as best as I can but just be there for her and tell someone like her parents and tell her parents your worried that she might do someone stupid and if you cant talk to her parents then talk to someone else who can possibly help your friend, I hope this advice Helps!-Nikki
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how do u become popular and have alot of friends
I think that popularity comes natural or something I dont know because i've never been popular but I would say just hang out with the popular people and if you end up becomeing good friends with them then you would be popular right along with them, just try becomeing friends with all the popular kids and i'm sure that will work. Hope this helps!-Nikki
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I dont know what to do I just moved to this new school. I still like this kid from my old school, and I know it might sound stupid but I really think we can be good together!! even though I might not see him again I still think about what we could of had.*help*
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I've moved pleanty of times in my Life and i'm only 15 and I did it all in 4 years to different states and everything and I had to leave the guys I thought would have been great for me but if your serious about him and hes serious about you then you could try to get together and if it doesnt work out then at least you'll know and it wont hold you back from meeting anyone new and haveing a relationship with someone at your new school...I hope this advice helps!-Nikki
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i tried my boyfriend's ciggarette the other day, cuz i just wanted to try. he didnt force me into it, i just wanted to try ; like i just said. so then the next day i craved for one soo badly and i bit my nails which i never did before. and i just want some kinda smoke in mah lungs now ! am i addicted already ? what should i do ?
Your 13 years old and for one you dont need to be smokeing because its bad for you really bad...it messes up your lungs and your voice and its just nasty you dont wanna start smokeing and I dont think your addicted to them I think you got it in your head that you want one and thats whats makeing you think your addicted so just do it for your own health and dont start because if you start and get really addicted then it will take you forever to quit, I hope you take my advice into consideration...-Nikki
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So I like this guy and everyone knows except him, and I am friends with him and all and I really have no idea what to do!! help!!
Just sit down with the guy and talk to him and tell him you like him or get one or your friends to tell him for you or...you could write him a note or letter telling him that you like him and you were wondering how he felt about you, and then see how everything goes because ya never know he could like you as well and if you dont tell him then yall would never get together so just tell him...I hope this helps!-Nikki
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theres this one guy in my drama class that i used to like but then hes always talking or bothering me after or during class. how do i get him to stop? ignoring him doesn't seem to help...
Just tell him in a very nice way to leave you alone and that you feel like hes bothering you and you want your space and for him just to leave you alone because its bugging you and getting on your nerves, hope this helps!!-Nikki
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I want to be homeschooled next year, and I was wondering if anyone knew anything about it and if it costs alot or not? If someone was to be homeschooled, would they still have to take gym or no?
If your homeschooled you only have to do work for 4 hours a day and no you dont take gym...you just take your normal classes, and it depends on what kind of homeschooling you get like if your parents or a family member is homeschooling you then it wont cost you a thing but if someone else is homeschooling you then i dont know how much it would cost but homeschooling is really cool..I hope this info helps you!!-Nikki
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Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child...
My thoughts on your question are dont get an abortion...no matter what, Have that baby, because its not good for one to get an abortion because that would mean that the baby got killed when it could have had a chance in liveing and haveing a life of its own, if anything give it up for adoption but dont get a abortion...I wouldnt even give the baby up for adoption either because if you do then you will regret it later...so just Keep the baby no matter what...its something thats apart of you so keep him or her and you'll have no regrets...I hope this helps, if you need anything at all you can ask me and I will help you out the best way I can!!-Nikki
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