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MY NAME iS TiFFANY . . iM`A 16/F/FL AND Y0U CAN SAY i`M THE TYPE 0F FEMALE WH0 HAS BEEN THR0UGH MY 0WN UPS N D0WNS iN LiFE..ESPECiALLY WHEN iT CAME T0 RELATiONSHiPS. GETTiNG PREGNATE , FEELiNG AL0NE, GETTiNG DUMPED, AND STUPiD EN0UGH T0 GET UP N G0 THR0UGH iT AGAiN. i WANT T0 HELP 0THER PE0PLE AV0iD MAKiNG THE SAME MiSTAKES i HAVE. i HATE ASKiN PE0PLE F0R ADViCE THAT D0N`T KN0W WHAT THE HELL THEY TALKiN` ABOUT WHERE ALL THEY CAN SAY iS -"iT`LL BE O.K. KEEP YOU`RE HEAD UP.." THAT`S N0T ADViCE. Y0U CAN C0UNT 0N ME T0 TELL YA ASS STRAiGHT UP WHAT T0 D0 THAT WiLL B BEST! HiT ME UP!
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ok, so i have this really personal problem, i am a 16 year old girl, but i was born with male genatiles. I dont know what to do becuase i have a steady boyfriend, we have been seeing eachother for about 3 months. We have gone to third base( but i gave him pleasure not the other way around)and he told me taht he wants to do the smae for me. Im afraid that if he sees my 'down there area' that he will be grossed out. But i really really love him. Help me, how can i tell him?!
-worried (link)
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Girl..I`ve never heard nOthin like this befOre..if he really cares abOut yOu asz much as yOu do fOr him...then he shOuld understand...but dOn`t get me wrOng because nO One wOuld take that well at all....umm-can`t u get ir surgically remOved? i knOw yOu have thOuqht abOut it but yOu shOuld really gO intO that. yOu shOuldn`t have tO live with this humiliatiOn
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm in 7th grade and i belive i have met "the one" and me and him want to go all the way (sex), and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it with protection, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my dad is the one whos conserned my mom doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, r u still a virgin? if not then how old were you wen you lost your viginity, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
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Umm..if yOu believe yOu`ve fOund the One..then yOu need tO think it Over..i`m nOt sayinq..he isn`t but i made the misTake..i LosT my virqinity in 8th with a bOy in my neiqhbOrhOod that wuhz in 7th..i Loved hiim..aCtually-i stiLL dO. iF yOu believe he REALLY feeLsz the same way for yOu then-oKay..bUt keep in mind-thaTsz what i thOught..and Once yOu lOse it-yOu`ll NEVER EVER qet it back. i lOst my guy of cOurse,but i`ll never be abLe tO chanqe whaT happEned..weLL think abOut it aS lOnq as pOssibLe ok!?
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do u have to not be a virgin to be put on birth control?? (link)
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nO..thats nOt true..there are plenty oTher ways to USE BIRTh CoNTRol..like..if yOur menstraL sYsTem is f*cked uP..it helPsz manaqe it ya knO...yOu dOn`t have tO lOse yah v-carD to Use b/c
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Right now there is this guy that i have known for five years that I've had a tangled history with, we are now 15 and 14. He first notices me a little over two years ago and acted like he hated me, but it definately got my attention. That summer he admitted to liking me and we dated for a month. He then suddenly broke it off. We grew majorily apart, mainly from angry and I was very hurt. He was still interested in me when we started school the next year, but never said anything, so I moved on to other guys. We remained really good friends, growing closer again day by day. We almost went out again the beginning of this school year, but he said something just didn't feel right. We continued to talk very seriously (something unlikely from a guy) but it hasn't developed. Now he is dating a girl from his church, and insists he couldn't be with me because i don't share the same beliefs and values. He knows this hurts me because it isn't true, and still continues to flirt and about getting serious. I've tried to forget about it but I can't, what should I do? (link)
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It`s gonna be hard to just let it go. Especially if your feelings are true fOr him. I think,from experience, yOu shOuld tell him if he really feels that way then why dOes he still seem tO flirt and pay so much attentiOn tO yOu. It is hard to forget. He'll flirt and flirt but never seem to qet tO the pOint where yOu and him are the oNly Onesz. Either yOu confrOnt him..or keep it aLL tO yOurself.
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My bf is 15 and his penis is almost 6 inches long is that about average? Also he wants me to give him a blow job should he wear a condom? (link)
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uhmM..wOw...6 inchesz..i`m quessinq datsz how it isz hard lOl..well i dunno his race..i queSs for whitesz it isz but fOr me its abOut 7.5 to 9...*bt they 16* weLL..he shOuld wear a cOndOm if it`sz like his first/2nd timE bt otherwisze prObly dOnt qotta worry bOut dat!
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Ok there is this guy Eddie Im like madly in love with him, but people in my family just wont except him because he is punk and wears eyeliner and black nail polish. they all of a sudden think he is all santanic. I dont know what to do...
Also he lives like a 30 mins away from me would this be a long distance realationship and would it work (link)
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yOur parentsz shOuld think abOut what makesz YOU happy and nOt just them. Yesz,iT`sz gonna be weiird fOr them tO adjust tO the culture and thiinqsz he believesz in but i`m sure they have pretty weird thiinqsz abOut themselvesz too! yOu shOuld have a talk wiith them and explain hOw yOu feel in this situatiOn and hOw they "shOuldn`t judqe a bOok by iT`sz cOver" i knOw that sOunds Old and qay but it`sz true..30 minutesz isn`t that lonq and ii really do believe yOu have a chance Of haviinq a qOod relatiOnship wiith him!! qOod luck!
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i'm a female and I'm in love with this guy who is 2 years older then me and he used to like me and we used to go till he found out i was 2 years younger then him! i really like him and i have fellings for him ! i wish he would go bak out with me but i think he is enbarsed because i am 2 years younger! what do you think..... (link)
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i ThiNk iF he`sz ThaT iMmaTure tO nOt qO OuT wiTh YoU BEcauSe oF yOur aqE aNd yOu likE eAcH oTher..thEn iT dOesn`t MaTTeR hOw yOunqer yOu aRe YOU aRe the mOre maTure persOn!! tAlk tO him abOut this anD asK him hOw hE feeLsz anD iF yOur aqe is reaLLy THAT biq a FaCtor in a reLatiOnshiP! qOod Luck!
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i like a few boys and i broke up with my bf just to look . do u think its wrong
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iT isz sO nOt wrOnq!! yOu`re aCtually dOinq the maTure thinq! aT leasT yOu didn`t qO lOokinq behind yOur bOyfriend`sz BaCk. yOu didn`t dO anythinq wrOnq!!
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I am a 22 female and i have been living with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We both work ALOT and have stressfull jobs. He is always bringing his work problems home and it is affecting our relationship in many ways, like how we talk (or dont talk) to eachother, putting us both on edge at all times. Dont get me wrong i love him and we did have an awesome relationship till the past few months. he makes me feel unwanted or unattractive now. i try to initiate a sexual relation in MANY MANY different ways and i'm just "denied access" to every part of him. i even try to talk to him about it but he just goes on the defence and doesnt want to talk. getting him to give me a peck on the cheek is like pulling teeth, yet alone actually having sex,which is like once every other month and i'm getting frustrated sexually so bad that our relationship is suffering and i dont know what to do anymore. I dont know how many more nights i can be denied access and roll over frustrated. It's not like we work different schedules we go to work at the same time and get home at the same time and even shower together....but nothing comes of it no pun intended.i just dont know what to do anymore........what advice can u offer me ? (link)
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damN qirl..well lady.. i think yOu shOuld suspecT sOmethinq is wrOng with him. i ThinK yOu shOuld ask him what his prOblem is and why he is aCtinq like that. MaYbe he`z tired Or nOt in the mOod..i can teLL he dOesn`t want it as badLy as YoU..maybe teasiNq him wOuld even heLp..sOmething that wOuld put him in the mOod..dOn`t beq it'll make yOu seem desperate!
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I'm in love with a girl called sarah , but she fancies a boy called J. Last night she got really drunk and snogged me....IT FELT SO GOOD!
I love every part of her what do I do? (link)
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wdF is snoqqed? uMm well yEr a lez...sO yOu should tell this qirl...(hOpefully she's lez tOo cuz if she's nOt she'll b freaked OuT) WeLL iF yOu lOve her that MucH ..It shOuldn`t be that hard tO teLL her hOw yOu reaLLy feel
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ok, i have liked this guy.. he knows it and basicly everyone knows it. including my best friend. now... one day i introduced them to each other. they liked each other and he asked her out... she said YES! what kind of best friend does that!? she knew i liked him!? am i crazy, or is that wrong?
please help!
what should i do!?
thank you! (link)
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yOur best frien sOundz like a little biaTch *sorry* i HaTe when this situaTiOn happenS! yOu either LoSe a qrEat friendship oR tHe quy yOu LiKe..i ThiNk iT waS mOre than jUst wrOnq fOr her tO dO thaT tO yOu. yOu shOuld talk tO yOur friend and cOnfrOnt her abOut yOur feelinqsz..iT`ll be hard but wOrth it. JusT say- "yOu knOw i liked him-why wOuld yOu qO Out with him?" dOn`t sOund tOo harsh jusT let her knOw yOu reaLLy are hurt.-Tiffany p.s. nO yOur nOt crazy-i`d bE piSsEd!
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im 15/f n Derez dis guy i met at da movies once (18) (he works dere) n he was all flirtin wit me wen i was buyin popcorn n wen i went to da movies again a couple weeks later he saw me n said ooh so ur gonna act like u dun no meeh so i said hi n den he said maybe i can take u to the movies sumtime but ionno if he was jus kiddin or w/e cuz he neva even asked for my number or nething well tommrow i mite be goin 2 da movies w/ sum friends n i mite see him i kinda am intrested but hes 18 n im not even aloud 2 have a bf my age soo if my mom eva found out she would trip n id be dead .. hmm ionno tho hes kute n id deff wanna go (link)
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lOl this happened tO mE!! jUst keep in mind he may B dOinq this tO all qirLsz waLkinq the hallz of the theatre..i dOn`t think yOur mOm wOuld be that bad wOuld she? mY mOm was supriSed..iF yOu dO qO OuT wiTh hiM and yOur mOm dOesn`t apprOve lOoK at the bright thinqsz like-"hEy..he gOtz a jOb!" lOl..mY mOm fell fOr it. i think yOu sHould definiTeLy talk tO this bOy thOugh and maybe qet yOur friendz tO tOo!! =) i hOOOOOOOOpPpE i heLped qirl! gOod luck!-Tiffany
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well im not sure if i can say i like him.. but i have feelings. His name is Chris and i always see him in school and he usually looks at me when we are passing eachother in the halls. theres just something about him that , i dont know hes just my type. well the other day i took my friends bus and he was on it and when i looked back at him he was looking at me like in the eyes. one of his friends sits in back of me in my study and he sits alone so should i say somethin to him? i was just going to say sumthin to chris but we like dont know eachother.. and i dont know how to talk to him and i dont want to soudns weird.. id take my friends bus and what should i say when i first talk to him, should i sit near him and smile and say hir os tumhin or ask him if hed wanna hangout? i dunno:-/thankss (link)
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i ThinK yOu are just a LiL nervOus tO have that first One On One cOnvO wiT him *lOl* ObviOusLy!i ThiNk yOu SHOULD say sOmethinq tO hiM...jUst b a casuaL taLker =) He`sz prObably as nervOus tO talk tO yOu as yOu aRe tO hiM..yOu shOuld deff. sit bY hiM aNd ask him iF he wants to hanq OuT thaTsz deff. a siqn yOu wanna qeT tO kNo him n mayBe later On qO OuT! maYbe yOu sHoUld keep takinq yOur friend`sz bus.keep smilinq tOo! it`LL make him tO want tO talk tO yOu real badlY!! weLL i hOpe i helPed at least a LiL! qOod Luck-Tiffany
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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think? (link)
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weLL yOu dOn`t wanna really have ORAL sex with him sO i dOn`t think yOu shOuld..i mean..mOst the quyszi knO wOuld NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR qive a girl oraL sex..lOl..but yet-they want it themseLvesz..i think iF he really wants tO dO it..and yOu dOn`t think it`sz a qOod idea..then yOu shOuldn`t..i`m nOt intO oraL sex either..it kinda sucks..i meanthe thought of kissing them duz suck i kno but..i mean its YOUR stuff...as lonq as he never did it tO anOther qirl..it`sz all qood..but the thouqht of sOme bOy's HEAD between my leqsz is uHhHhH no! lOl..but dO what ya want and whatever just fLows becuz if yOu let him dO it..yOu kinda do "Owe him One" BuH bYeSZ!
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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
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i think iT`sz sweet hOw yOu andyOur bOyfriend really care abOut each Other...but a baby!??! uhh yOu`re 15..whUt wOuld yOur parents think if yOu had a baby with this guy and u havent even graduated??bUt iT`sz yOur chOice..if yOu really think yOur ready then qO ahead. i`m nOt callinq yOu a sLut..i wOuldnt!i miqht b havinq a baby and the dad duznt want NOTHINq tO dowith it..actually he dOesn`t knO..but anyway! i tHink yOu shOuld really think abOut this siuatiOn and ifyOu think yOur ready tO handLe the consequences qO ahead..cuz Yeah-yOur friendsz are qOnna think sOme bad thinqsz..alonq with many Other peOple..but iT`sz yOur baby nOt theresz! hOpe i heLped =) -Tiffany
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Ok, there is this boy at school that I think I love and I want him to be my boyfriend but he thinks he's to young to have a girlfriend, Well I kept on trying to tell him in secrets and notes that I love him and I want him to be my boyfriend, But he just wouldn't listen, so then I would start saying it out loud that I love him and stuff so everyone could here but now he is getting anoyed and now I dont know what to do and I realy need advice on what to say, and I dont want to ruin his and mine friendship! (link)
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Aww i`M in this pOsitiOn..jeez i can reLate tO everyOne! lOl..weLL i think yOu shOuld qive him spaCe..that`sz what they respect (bOysz) leT hiM think abOut what he wantsz and maYbe talk to him persOnally abOut how yOu feel. dOn`t let him just tell yOu a lie just tO make yOu feel qOod! qet the trUth...let him knOw yOu really care abOut him and yOu want tO knOw hOw he feelsz...ThE bOy i like is qettinq annOyed w/ mE dOinq the same thinq...like i sed...jusT sPace and tiMe and teLLinq yOur feelinqsz..everythinq shOuld turn ouT ok!
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okay well i feel really stupid asking this but okay here i go.. i have done everything with a guy besides suck dick/blowjob w/e.. okay and its not that i dont want to bc i do but im scared! What if i dont do it right or sumthing?! Do you have any advice on how to do it or step by step or anything?! If so thanx! i really appreciate it!
-Desperate girl- (link)
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HeY ..weLL i`ve onLy dOne it like 3 tiMesz...nOt exactLy by chOice...weLL it dependsz On hOw yOu do it..if it`sz wrOnq Or riqht..lOl wath the movie boat trip...that qirl qivEsz GREAT advice on hOw tO dO it! lmaO
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hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 .. (link)
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i ThiNk yOu have the riqht tO be scAred..bUt jusT suppOrt his recovery and pray tO gOd he`ll be alriqht. i`m sO sOrry this happened! i`m sUre everythinq will be okay it will just take a little time fOr everythinq tO be back tO nOrmal! gOod luck tO yOu and him!
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so what do you do if whenever you get in fights with your mom your step dad gets involved too adn every time he gets involved i tell him hes not my dad so stop talking to me and hten he says yeah im glad im not bc if i was your dad id beat your damn ass ... idk what to do or to say to him and its really pissing me off! please help! (link)
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TeLL that man tO bacK oFF...omq that shit is sO rude!! He`z nOt yOur dad..sO tell him yOu alsO dOn`t have to respeCt him as OnE either. iF yOu want tO be mOre mature abOut this situaTiOn i wOuld say tO taLk tO him and tell him that yOu dOn`t like havinq him treat yOu that way. the arqueMent is with yOu and yOur mOmm and its nOne of his business!
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Ok, I am 44 yrs. old and my husband is 47, we have been married about 6 months, and are professonal decent people. My problem is my husband is not interested in making love to me, when we first married, we had a decent sex life,. then no more for the past several months. If I bring it up he gets mad. Says hes just tired,or could be his antidepressants he takes, etc.. But he has time to be internet addicted, and reads a lot, anything to keep from being with me. I had caught him on the net several times talking to men, over a year ago, but he had a excuse for that, he was "just messing" with the gay guys for a laugh. Now I wonder. Ive tried talking to him but about this, but he dosent want to discuss it. So what do I do? I love my husband dearly but what do I do, Lonely (link)
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siNce he qeTs mad Over the subject yOu shOuldn`t pressure him into talkinq abOut it. I dOn`t think he`s qay..and i cerTainLy hOpe he isn`t qay but if yOu susPect that then i think yOu shOuld check intO it withOut him knOwinq. He seems paranOid abOut the discussiOn sO i think yOu shOuld let him take his time answerinq..he`sz qOinq tO qet mad either way-yOu miqht as well jusT tell him hOw yOu feel..
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