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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm in 7th grade and i belive i have met "the one" and me and him want to go all the way (sex), and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it with protection, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my dad is the one whos conserned my mom doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, r u still a virgin? if not then how old were you wen you lost your viginity, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate!
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Hey I think 7th grade is a little young. There are so many risks and everything and no form of protection is 100% guarenteed so there is always a chance of getting pregnent or getting an STD and if that were to happen to you at this age it would totally screw up your entire life. And like most people who have sex at a young age almost ALWAYS regret it afterwards. And just to let you know, if anyone else at your school found out (and trust me, the guy WOULD tell ALL HIS FRIENDS) then your reputation would be SO SCREWED and you would be thought of as a slut. Sry I didn't mean it harshly but it's the facts. :-/ But anyway its your decision, do whatever you feel is the best choice for YOU.
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First off, i think its really cool that you can talk to your parents about having sex. Im also a bit suprised that your mom is fine with you having sex, but I guess everybodys mom is different. Im a sophmore and yeah, Im a virgin. I plan on being one for awhile i guess. I wouldnt do it right now, sex is a big deal. You dont have to have sex with this guy to show that hes mr right. I beleive you when you say you've found a great guy. So, for now how bout you lay off the sex idea and continue just being together? There will be plenty of sex in your life, you dont have to start now. I think in the end you'll be happier that you waited.
-melissa
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Don't have sex this early in your life. You may think he's Mr. Right, but in reality he's probably not. Sex is something you should save for when you're older and married. It's something really special you should give to the person you truly love. Now you may think that's the case with this guy, but you shouldn't put yourself through this. People say if you have sex with someone, it takes your relationship to the "next level." This isn't true at all. Many times it hurts a relationship because after you've done it you think, "That's all?" And what if you regret your decision? Maybe not now, but later on you will. But your virginity is something you can't get back. Once it's gone, it's gone. People who have sex, you know, sometimes they tell all their friends and act like it's the best thing. But at night they look in the mirror and think "Why did I give up something so special to me already?" And inside they aren't the proud person they seem to be. What I'm trying to get across is that you will regret it and right now it seems new and exciting, but it's a huge decision. You think you're ready, but once it's done you are going to know you weren't actually. Tell this guy you like him very much, but maybe you should think about sex another time. Please really think about what you are about to do.
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Wow. I'm 14 (*9th Grade) and I'm still a virgin. I realllly don't think you should have sex w.him. Your parents know whats best for you, so I'd definately listen to them. I mean, there are things I and everyone else does thats their parents don't want them to do like go places w.people I'm you're not supposed to and have guys over when they're not home...but I never do anything dumb or smthn that could have serious consequences (*besides getting caught) Protection doesn't always work..and if you're only in 7th grade..then you might love this guy, but you seriously probably don't. You might in the future..but you're still only in 7th grade. Try to do normal stuff 7th graders do and don't try to be too fast w.guys. It'll bite you in the ass later. But if you do decide to have sex w.him...definately use a condom..this is what my health teacher said "Don't double bag it, this ain't Food Lion" because if he wears two the laytex will rip! good luck...whatever you decide..talk it over w.this guy and your parents...if you do have sex w.him..they need to kno..because if they find out later..they'll be mad and parents always find out!!
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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If you truely found "the one", think about this! If you go ahead and do have sex with this guy, you'll regret it, trust me! You can't get it back! I think you should wait! If people find out that you lost your virginity at this grade, look at the reputation you'll have! Seriously, think about it! I think you should listen to your parents this time because they may be right! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Sweetie, all I can say is no. I'm your age, and I know how it feels to be pressured into stuff like that. Even though you think you are comfortable with it, you wouldn't be if you got AIDs or a disease. Or if you got pregnant. Listen to your dad, because he knows what is best for you. I am STILL a virgin, and I will be until I'm old enough (an adult at least). So hunny, please just take my advice and DO NOT GO ALL THE WAY! If he's really the one, you can wait.
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Umm..if yOu believe yOu`ve fOund the One..then yOu need tO think it Over..i`m nOt sayinq..he isn`t but i made the misTake..i LosT my virqinity in 8th with a bOy in my neiqhbOrhOod that wuhz in 7th..i Loved hiim..aCtually-i stiLL dO. iF yOu believe he REALLY feeLsz the same way for yOu then-oKay..bUt keep in mind-thaTsz what i thOught..and Once yOu lOse it-yOu`ll NEVER EVER qet it back. i lOst my guy of cOurse,but i`ll never be abLe tO chanqe whaT happEned..weLL think abOut it aS lOnq as pOssibLe ok!?
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