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Hmm.. well I am 12 years old. You can ask me just about anything. I have been through ALOT of stuff, and I can answer just about anything. I may only be 12, but I'm ready to answer anything that comes my way.

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ok..this is kinda weird..but i have this friend and she always always always has super bad breath...its so gross i can hardly stand to talk to her..but do i do..shoul di tell her or let it just stay?

*~`stinked out lady`~*

Dear Stinked Out Lady,
Well...it kind of depends on what kind of friend she is. If she's a very sensitive person, maybe just offer her some good smelling gum each day or something..haha! If she's the kind of friend that's close, and wants to know those kind of things, tell her in a way that won't upset her or something...maybe in a joking kind of way...? Just make sure you know the kind of person she is, and don't hurt her feelings! Hope this helps!

*xoxo* brookanne

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Alright I really like this guy, and I know he knows who I am, but how do I tell him how I feel, and when do I know when the time is right to tell him because I don't wanna rush anything if you know what I mean I just dont know how to tell if he likes me either
-?Very Confused?-

Dear Very Confused,
Ok, you might as well tell him you like him. If you don't, how will you ever get a chance with him? There isn't really a "time", just do it when you feel ready. Have a friend tell him, or write him a note or something. He'll never know you like him, if you don't tell him, and nothing will happen if you don't tell. He might have feelings for you, so have a friend ask him if he does. If he doesn't... still tell him how you feel and just be his friend, and let time put you two together! Hope this helps! Good luck!

`xoxo` brookanne

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ok...this has been bothering me for like ever! well i have a friend that likes this guy who likes to do stuff that i know she isn't aloud to do. I talked to him on AOL sometimes and i got into a bad conversation with him that i really shouldn't have. He's been saying stuff around school about me that isn't true and i know that if it gets to my best friend that she'll probably believe him b/c when when she talks about him i'm not paying full attention to her. What should i do? Should i tell her about it ... I know that you'll probably say that if she's my best friend she'll understand but it's way worse then something like that ... i'm so worried! i don't want to lose her!!!!!

.. Alright. I'll try to give this one my best advice...! If she isn't aloud to do stuff that he does... she probably won't. I would say you should tell her about it before something does get to her. If she is your best friend though, she shouldn't believe whatever is told to her, but you should stillconsult her before she believes it. Just talk to her though, and tell her the whole story, leaving nothing out. You both shouldn't let a guy get between you, even if she likes him alot, and you don't. Try to pay more attention to her though when she's talking about him... even if you don't like hearing about it. Let her know that you understand that she likes him, but also tell her in a way that won't upset her how you feel about him and what he does to you. I really hope things work out for the best! You sound like a really good friend, and I have full confidence you won't lose her! Hope this helps a bit!

--xoxo brookanne

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okay....well i have a boyfriend who is absolutly great...and i am like best friends with this other guy--he is really easy to talk to and funny--hes just an overall a great guy to be around...evryone(including most of my friends) think i like him more than just a friend(..i used to but not anymore) and i dont know what to do to make people quit thinking that...almost everyday people ask us if we are going out and it gets super annoying...How can i make people realize that we are JUST friends!?!?!

Alright... all I can say is to tell people how you feel when they do that, and tell them that you have a great boyfriend already. Tell them how you feel about your best friend (as in that's all he is). Don't let anybody break your friendship with your best friend though, just because they think something other than the truth, and don't let them break you and your boyfriend up by saying that. -I hope this helps hun!

oXoX brookanne

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i have this friend who likes my boyfriend, i know she does cause you can just kinda tell?what should i do?

love,
~very confused girl~

Dear Very Confused Girl,
That's kind of a tough one to answer. ... I'd say just talk to her about it, and see if she really does. Even if she does like him though, I don't think it should matter, because if she's your friend...nothing with happen. Just don't let ANYTHING get in the way of your friendship. A friend is alot more important than any boy... so just talk to her... but don't ruin what you have with her...! Hope this helps!

xoxo brookanne

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Dear Brookanne,
I'm currently seeing a guy. (Steven) .. but I think I might still have feelings for my ex .. (Mike)... Mike and I dated over the summer and lets just say.. we've had A LOT of firsts together. The 1st week of school Mike broke up with me. Since then I've been annoyed by him .. yet constantly thinking of him. Is this fair to the boyfriend I have now? Is it possible that I still like my ex??

...It is possible you are still liking your ex. If you had alot of firsts together, you may NEVER get over him. I don't really think it matters to the fairness to your boyfriend now, because you will probably always have those feelings, no matter who you are with. Don't lose someone wonderful you have now, for someone you think was wonderful that you had back then. .. If you don't want this advice... just give advice to yourself and follow your heart. This is about all I can say! I really hope this helps!

XoXo -Brookanne

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im 13 you know me and i know you .... i have this friend and she likes this guy thati like and she knows i like him and you can tell that she likes him becaus she flurts with him she saidthat shehated him but she is a liar she blows me and my friend off just to go flurt with him wut should i do i have no clue

Well... my theory is friendship is more important than any boy. Just talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel about both him and her. Tell her you don't want to fight with her or anything, you just want to straighen things out. So, I would just get things straight with her, and see how she really feels. Hope this helps you...!

XoXo brookanne

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Brookanne,
Hey! I'm almost 14 years old in the 8th grade.I've had a boyfriend for about 4 months now.I like him A LOT but the ONLY time I see him is at school. In the past, my boyfriends and I have done things outside of school. Like go to one anothers houses and hang out at the mall. The only problem is his parents are VERY STRICT. I'm not even sure if both of his parents know about me. =( !! Anyway, I've been wanting to get together with him sometime outside of school and I'm afraid to ask him!!! I think that if he really wants to see me somewhere other than school he'll be the one to ask! So.. should I ask him to come over or something?? but then what if his parents say that he's not aloud??? or should I just wait for him to make the 1st move?? HELP!

Well... he shouldn't be just the one that makes all the moves. You are both in the relationship together, so it shouldn't matter who makes the move, as long as you both want it. Just tell him you want to see him more than at school. Just invite him over, or tell him you want to see a movie. If his parents dont approve, find out why they won't allow it, and see if you can work things out. I hope this helps!

xOxO brookanne

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well see i like this guy alot and i don't know if he knows or not , well see he likes this girl and i don't know how much but i am pretty sure alot! Well see should i tell him that i lie him or not , and we are friends we are not close but we are friends! Well i was just wondering if i should tell him or not !! What do i do !!!!!! I think about him day and night!!!

Well...I've been going through the same thing alot. It's completely up to you on whether you WANT to tell him or not. If you don't tell him, then you will never have a chance of anything happening. And whether he likes someone else or not, that's not changing how you feel about him. Anything could happen if you tell him, good or bad.So it's up to you, but in my opinion, I think you should just go for it and tell him. If you are friends, him knowing that should not change a thing between you, unless it makes it better as in dating. Hope this helps! Write me again if you need to!

xoxo Brookanne

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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm in 7th grade and i belive i have met "the one" and me and him want to go all the way (sex), and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it with protection, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my dad is the one whos conserned my mom doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, r u still a virgin? if not then how old were you wen you lost your viginity, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate!

Sweetie, all I can say is no. I'm your age, and I know how it feels to be pressured into stuff like that. Even though you think you are comfortable with it, you wouldn't be if you got AIDs or a disease. Or if you got pregnant. Listen to your dad, because he knows what is best for you. I am STILL a virgin, and I will be until I'm old enough (an adult at least). So hunny, please just take my advice and DO NOT GO ALL THE WAY! If he's really the one, you can wait.

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Hi!Um I like my friend and he likes this one girl that has a boyfriend.His name's Evan and we sorta went out last year but I just started liken him again. He knows some one from skool likes him he just doens't kno it me.. I'm not sure if I should tell him how I feel or just give up on him...What do u think?

Well... if he doesn't know how you feel, then you should tell him. If you don't tell him, you'll never know how he feels. If he had feelings for you at one time, it's possible he still does. So... hunny go for it!

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