ok...this has been bothering me for like ever! well i have a friend that likes this guy who likes to do stuff that i know she isn't aloud to do. I talked to him on AOL sometimes and i got into a bad conversation with him that i really shouldn't have. He's been saying stuff around school about me that isn't true and i know that if it gets to my best friend that she'll probably believe him b/c when when she talks about him i'm not paying full attention to her. What should i do? Should i tell her about it ... I know that you'll probably say that if she's my best friend she'll understand but it's way worse then something like that ... i'm so worried! i don't want to lose her!!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Brookanne answered Sunday December 12 2004, 8:40 pm: .. Alright. I'll try to give this one my best advice...! If she isn't aloud to do stuff that he does... she probably won't. I would say you should tell her about it before something does get to her. If she is your best friend though, she shouldn't believe whatever is told to her, but you should stillconsult her before she believes it. Just talk to her though, and tell her the whole story, leaving nothing out. You both shouldn't let a guy get between you, even if she likes him alot, and you don't. Try to pay more attention to her though when she's talking about him... even if you don't like hearing about it. Let her know that you understand that she likes him, but also tell her in a way that won't upset her how you feel about him and what he does to you. I really hope things work out for the best! You sound like a really good friend, and I have full confidence you won't lose her! Hope this helps a bit!
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