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Hey!*I'm michelle...my old column name was: Michelley but I really messed up the colors and stuff! ask me a question and I'll do my best to help you out =)
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm in 7th grade and i belive i have met "the one" and me and him want to go all the way (sex), and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it with protection, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my dad is the one whos conserned my mom doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, r u still a virgin? if not then how old were you wen you lost your viginity, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate!
Wow. I'm 14 (*9th Grade) and I'm still a virgin. I realllly don't think you should have sex w.him. Your parents know whats best for you, so I'd definately listen to them. I mean, there are things I and everyone else does thats their parents don't want them to do like go places w.people I'm you're not supposed to and have guys over when they're not home...but I never do anything dumb or smthn that could have serious consequences (*besides getting caught) Protection doesn't always work..and if you're only in 7th grade..then you might love this guy, but you seriously probably don't. You might in the future..but you're still only in 7th grade. Try to do normal stuff 7th graders do and don't try to be too fast w.guys. It'll bite you in the ass later. But if you do decide to have sex w.him...definately use a condom..this is what my health teacher said "Don't double bag it, this ain't Food Lion" because if he wears two the laytex will rip! good luck...whatever you decide..talk it over w.this guy and your parents...if you do have sex w.him..they need to kno..because if they find out later..they'll be mad and parents always find out!!
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By friend at school got a boyfriend and after she got him I just started flirting with him over and over and I dont even like him not like that or anything just as a friend and my other friend lets me I really dont understand
You're friend probably thinks theres no way you'll steal her boyfriend..so she really doesn't care..and she probably thinks its great you two are friends! Most guys still flirt a lot even when they have girlfriends....unless its really serious. If you don't like him then it doesn't matter...just keep doing whatever you want and if he brings it up that you flirt w.him just tell him you don't like him like that at all...just a friend and you're just really flirty. And if she brings smthn up, tell her the same thing. If either of them want you to stop...then you really should. You are probably flirting w.him a lot not bc you like him..but since your friend was going out w.him..you started to see that qualities of a boyfriend in him. I dn..its hard to explain. But it always works that way. You probably didn't see anything in him but once your friend did...you did too. Maybe you don't like him...but you want him to like you? Or maybe you just flirt a lot..don't bring it up..unless they do first, and just be honest.
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do u have to not be a virgin to be put on birth control??
Well why would you need it? In health we talked about this..and some girls are on it to regulate periods bc they have smthn wrong w.them or just because they want to..if you're a virgin now and you are going to loose it soon, then talk to your doctor and they can get you some pills or smthn!
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