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Strange Feelings
By friend at school got a boyfriend and after she got him I just started flirting with him over and over and I dont even like him not like that or anything just as a friend and my other friend lets me I really dont understand
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Just stop it right there, not because its wrong but because he and your friend and others will probabley get the wrong message. Just be there stay off her turf, I'm sure she understands but honestly I'd prefer it if my friends wouldn't flirt with my boyfriend- and hopefully he'd think the same (or I'd kill him aww not). Flirting is a lot of fun and a way of showing an interest in someone usually. I know because I do it a lot that I could just be talking to him just in a friendly way and do it, but I don't because it would hurt people to do so.
Flirting is tonnes of fun, its the best conversations ever but you must be careful of who you do it with so you don't step on toes or hurt people's feelings. You probabley just do it becaise its fun- IT IS FUN, but you can't do it, so just stop yourself before you start. It will turn out a whole lot better in the long run.
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You don't understand why you flirt with him? or why she let's you? Maybe you do like him and you don't realize it, or maybe you're jealous that she has a boyfriend. As for your friend letting you flirt with him, it could be that she's really secure with herself and she's not worried about him liking you.. or maybe she's just scared of how you'll take it if she does say something. Talk to her though and let her know you don't like her boyfriend or anything like that... That way she can't be mad at you.
Hope I helped!
~Lana
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Well that is odd. mayb u are jealous
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Hey your just like my friend. Maybe you should tell your friend about it. That might make you feel better and maybe your friend will talk to you about it so your not flirting with the boy all the time. If your friend is not a good good friend she might not under stand. Try it! Hope I helped-
littlebeanies LOL
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You're friend probably thinks theres no way you'll steal her boyfriend..so she really doesn't care..and she probably thinks its great you two are friends! Most guys still flirt a lot even when they have girlfriends....unless its really serious. If you don't like him then it doesn't matter...just keep doing whatever you want and if he brings it up that you flirt w.him just tell him you don't like him like that at all...just a friend and you're just really flirty. And if she brings smthn up, tell her the same thing. If either of them want you to stop...then you really should. You are probably flirting w.him a lot not bc you like him..but since your friend was going out w.him..you started to see that qualities of a boyfriend in him. I dn..its hard to explain. But it always works that way. You probably didn't see anything in him but once your friend did...you did too. Maybe you don't like him...but you want him to like you? Or maybe you just flirt a lot..don't bring it up..unless they do first, and just be honest.
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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Maybe your friend is just going out with him to have a boyfriend so she doesnt care what he does and maybe you just like him to do something
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