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Serious or Just a Flirt?
Right now there is this guy that i have known for five years that I've had a tangled history with, we are now 15 and 14. He first notices me a little over two years ago and acted like he hated me, but it definately got my attention. That summer he admitted to liking me and we dated for a month. He then suddenly broke it off. We grew majorily apart, mainly from angry and I was very hurt. He was still interested in me when we started school the next year, but never said anything, so I moved on to other guys. We remained really good friends, growing closer again day by day. We almost went out again the beginning of this school year, but he said something just didn't feel right. We continued to talk very seriously (something unlikely from a guy) but it hasn't developed. Now he is dating a girl from his church, and insists he couldn't be with me because i don't share the same beliefs and values. He knows this hurts me because it isn't true, and still continues to flirt and about getting serious. I've tried to forget about it but I can't, what should I do?
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It is just a flirt. You guys went out and hit it off. Then he broke it off and made up a bullcrap excuss about not sharing the same beliefs. He is retarted!! I hate guys like that (i am a guy), but seriously. All i have to say is you are better then that! Don't even let it get to you. He is a _____. (You can fill in thr blank!) But you dont deserve someone who can "throw you out" like that. Dont let it get to you. Stand up and get yourself another man!!
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It`s gonna be hard to just let it go. Especially if your feelings are true fOr him. I think,from experience, yOu shOuld tell him if he really feels that way then why dOes he still seem tO flirt and pay so much attentiOn tO yOu. It is hard to forget. He'll flirt and flirt but never seem to qet tO the pOint where yOu and him are the oNly Onesz. Either yOu confrOnt him..or keep it aLL tO yOurself.
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Let it go. Just let it go. You're always the one waiting by his side. He's the one breaking up with you, giving reasons you can't be together. Just let it go, it's not working out, and it's not good for you to continue like this. He has a girlfriend now. Stop hurting yourself and move on.
-Farren
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this guy sounds like a player and likes the reaction that he gets when he hurts you i think that staying away from him would be a good decision if he could not treat you right fom the get go he doesnt deserve to be with you and you will be the better person if you totally ditch him hope this helps
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