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Hey, it's Kristen. I'm 17. I'm here to give you advice honestly and straight forward so ask!

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me adn my friend brooke spend an auwfull lota time together.. and people are starting to call us twins... we look nothing alike.. well kinda i guesss tall and blond hair... we both hate it so much and always say no we don't!! but people just keep saying it !! ugh ..what should we do~!

Don't sweat it. Just let people know that you two (or you if it only annoys you) that you dont appreciate it and it's starting to work your nerves a little. It's not a big deal, just something to say to occupy peoples time. Plus, you obviously have a great friend here. Don't worry about everyone else. Enjoy being each others friend and ignore them saying that. You're lucky and they probably aren't. Hehe

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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave and we are right next to each other in the seat but my friend is between us and he got up and kept looking back at me and then he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened?

It's hard to tell, guys can be confusing and misleading. He could have just been looking for a good time for a day and then that was it, or he could have just not asked since your friend was between you. Seeings he kept looking back at you. He probably didn't want to come ask you and be rude with your friend there, or maybe he was just too shy. It's really hard to tell why he didn't. It seems as though he fancys you. Are you going to see this boy again? You really should try to get in to contact with him and ask him what is going on and if he had a good time and such. You can never be sure unless you get the reassurance. Because I don't understand why he'd be so sweet to you, looking back at you, and not like you in the slightest bit. Really, get in touch with him. That's all I can say. That's a really tough thing to answer. I can't give you a straight answer, because this boy didn't give you clear signs at all in his actions of not asking for a number, or saying he had a good time or anything. Good luck, let me know how it goes in feedback, and if you need anything else, let me know. Xo

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where can i get cute myspace layouts??

If you go to this site I am about to give you, you can design your own layout in a way. You can get a colored scroll bar, change your font, text color, put music on it, put a backround on it. It's easy to use and makes your myspace cute. Xo

Link to site:
http://www.strikefile.com/myspace/editor.htm

And for extra help in special effects you can put on your myspace. Go here. It is a tutoral type site.
http://www.myspacehelp.uni.cc/

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I took a quiz and am wondering if it would be alright if i changed the Html to change the type of quiz

I don't think you can do that. Why don't you just find the quiz that you are wanting, take that one, and get the code instead of trying to change it? It'd be a big hastle to do it other wise. If it were webpage html, it'd be a different ball game there. Later

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Ok well me n this guy have been friends for awhile. he told me he likes me but him and his girlfriend are on break. He is waiting to see whats gunna happen with her. I really like him and want a chance. He tells me he really wants to be with me and wants a chance too. I dont know what to do. Should I wait or just give up? HELP ME! I'll rate. x0x

You should just wait. If it's meant, you'll get him. If not, then that's that. If you push the issue, he'll probably get turned off by that and just say forget it. So don't push, wait patiently, if he thinks it's what HE wants then he'll come to you, if not, well don't sweat it. There are only a million other guys in the world that would probably love to date you. :) Good luck, xo

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Okay, I met this guy through the internet but he was like 20. He lives over here and all, and he goes you should talk to my brother, hes 16! So I'm like okay...he checks out my pics..likes them..so he starts talking to me. We talked for 4 hours on the phone and he is sooo hott. I have to show you his pic! Anyway I think I'm so0 close to getting a bf. we might hang out next weekend.....and hes the perfect black guy. Doesnt drink/smoke and just..yay! His name is Brandon lol. dude im so happy..

That's cool chick. Good for you. :-D Just be careful if you ask me man. Internet stuff can be dangerous. So unless you knew him before hand.. I'd take someone with you and make sure you have your cell incase trouble comes about. Wouldn't want you gettin hurt in any way, plus I just learned about all this internet stuff at skool so I'm just watchin out for ya. Later days chick. x0

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1. I was wondering if it was normal for a 15 year old(3 months away form being 16) not to have her period?

2. Is it possible for someone not to get their period at all in a a lifetime?

1. That is quite normal. All girls mature at different ages. If you don't get it before you are 17 or 18, you may want to see the doctor. Sometimes if a girl does not get her period by the age of 16 then something is wrong. I highly doubt you'll have that problem though.


2. If that were possible it's about a 1 in a million chance of it happening. All girls get periods unless something with their body occurs that they can't.


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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

It's normal. I know it seems like EVERYONE is dating and making out. But that is not true. I am in the 8th grade among many 14 year olds and TONS of them haven't had boyfriends or girlfriends or been kissed. Teens these days grow up fast and that's probably why a lot of us have been kissed. Consider yourself a lucky one. You haven't had a boyfriend or been kissed at a young age, so you haven't had to deal with the hurt yet. Your time will come and probably soon. x0

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My friend wants me to hang out with her her boyfriend one of the school sluts and my friends brother in 12th grade when im a sophomore. I dont want to but i want to do something over the weekend is it a good idea to go along?

It depends. Do you get along with these people? I don't see your friends brother being in 12th grade a big deal if you are a sophomore. Not much to worry about there. You just need to do what you feel comfortable with. Are you doing to be comfortable hanging out with them? If not, then don't go. There are hundreds of other things you could do over the weekend besides hang out with them, correct? It's all in what YOU want to do. x0

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20, male.

Okay, the girl I'm going out with and I are sitting watching TV. We've only been dating for a few days, but I've been her friend since before elementary school. She mentions a mutual friend was talking about a movie that we passed. So I, the idiot that I am, accidently call her by the friend's name. She pulled away from me for a few seconds, and then went into my arms again.

I explained that it was only because she mentioned her name seconds before, but is that enough? Should I try to explain in detail that I have no feelings for this other girl or should I drop it?

If she seconds later went back into your arms then she doesn't care but so much. I wouldn't drag on about it. Just drop it. If she had a problem with it, she'd let you know in some way or another that you could tell by. You made a common mistake among people so it's nothing to worry over.

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Hey!
What are your favorite names for guys and girls??

Middle names are always appreciated too!!

:)

Thanks!
*(no worries, Im NOT having a kid anytime soon!)*

*-KeLs-*

Girls* Leah Marie - Alycia Michele - Talayah Marie - Serenity Grace - Angel Hope - Avenlee Kristeene - Alexa NicoleLeigh - Candace (no middle name for that one yet)


Boys* Steven Lee - Andrew Michael - Andrew Scott - Isaeah Steele - Daniel Joseph - Cody Lee


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I actually have 2 kinda random questions. Number 1. How do you get to the music part of xanga? I can't figure it out.
Number 2. okay, right, i like hanging out with guys for no apparent reason, but for some reason, all of my guy friends always think i'm interested in them in a different way. Some even get mad when they find out i don't like them that way, i don't want to get into that kinda relationship with a friend. What do i do?

1. This website has a long list of songs: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xanga_music When you find the song you like, right click and go to properties. Highlight the Url you will see and copy it or click Ctrl C on your keyboard and that will also copy it. Being logged into your Xanga website, go to the Look & Feel. Somewhere on this page, there will be a part that says Music Url or something of that sort. Paste the Url that you copied when you went to properties and check the box that says "loop". Then save your changes. Problem one solved.


2. If they are getting this type of hint from you, then you are probably a naturally flirty person with your friends and you just don't realize it. That is totally common in people. I sometimes find myself in that problem and it will cause trouble at times. Next time you are hanging out with your friends, pay attention to the way you act. Are you flirtacious? A little on the friendly side? If so, that would be why. If I were you, I would just try to be a little less flirty with them and try to see them as someone like a borther maybe? Flirting isn't bad, it can just be misconcepted. Though you may not like them, it may seem like it. They probably get mad because they may like you so be careful or you might hurt one of their feelings. If you don't want them getting the wrong idea then try not to flirt cause I'm pretty sure that may be the problem at hand. :)


I hope I helped. x0x0

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Okay,I was with this girll for like the longest time..Months & months.Everything was good then suddenly she broke up with me..She didnt give a reason.she still tells my friends she loves me but isnt with me again & I dont get It.should I talk to her or would that make her mad??:(

You should talk to her. Depending on how you talk to her and what you say will depend on if you make her mad or not. Girls are very sensitive and one wrong thing said can either make us cry, piss us off, etc. I suggest you talk to her. Ask her what is the honest truth of why she broke up with you. Just try to be cool about it and say you won't get mad, and you won't hate her because you love her, right? You just want to know the truth so you can move on if that is what she wants. I can't tell you why she broke up with you, I can only assume what I know as a girl. She could have been scared of the commitment and got rid of it. She could like someone else. She could have some personal issues that she just needed to be on her own with, so she broke up with you. All that I have just said could be wrong. Just talk to her. Be nice and curtious about it and hopefully she'll do the same. If she still loves you, she should understand your curiosity to know why something so real, so perfect, just ended. Good luck with it and if you need anymore help, please let me know. x0

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ok well theres this kid i like, and i just realized i like him, and he hasnt been picking up his phone and he hasnt been online, and i miss him so much, and it really got to me last night because i almost started crying, and its depressing me because i havent talked to him yet.

Had a sort of similar situation myself last night. But that's a different story. I wouldn't get too upset about it. Gettin upset will only make matters worse. Try to keeo your composure. He could have a good reason for not answering his phone and the best thing you can do is find out so you won't be upset n such. Approach him in person is all I can say. Ask him what he's been up to and mention you haven't talked to him in a long time. And if he blows you off, he's probably a jackass anyways. Or he could like you, and be avoiding it. Guys are odd. Talk to him and don't be shy about it. Good luck, if you need anymore help on it, let me know.

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Who the hell was it? Tell the bitch that if she fucks with you, I will fuck her up. I will find a damn way to do it! No one messes with my fucking lil sister!
I am glad you are going to be staying with your dad. I couldn't imagine you staying with your mom. OMG we have soooooo much snow right now yet we are still in school! This sucks! We have school no matter what. We were on a one hour delay though! That was only because it took the teachers longer to get here. Staff got snowed in last night so they will be here for a while! Grrr.......... I don't exactly care for them but anyways. I kind of messed up last night. I got into trouble twice. The first thing was I burned my arm a little. NOT with ice and salt, just little "rug" type burns. So I got into trouble about that. The second thing was, me and two other girls decided that we wanted to smoke, so we ended up going outside after lights out and were supposed to be in our rooms. Now staff tells me that they are disappointed in me and wednesday I have to have a mediation with the disappointed staff! WHATEVER. One of the girls has to give them a liter and three cigs though! At least that wasn't me! Anyways, how is school going? Anything exciting I should no about? Anyways, I am going to get off of here because its my smoke time. LOVE YA SISSY!

Didn't have school today. Too much snow!!! Probably won't have it tomorrow either. I don't know this person is but it wasn't Jeremy or Tyler and I am so pissed cause I still care about him sonmetimes but whatever. I don't care. Stay out of trouble chick, lol. Don't be doin that burnin stuff. I'll come to pilot and kick your sister ass. ;) Cigs... gosh.. can't leave them, lol. Well I'll ttyl. Love ya.

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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????

Depends, did you want to do it? Like, did you have the desire? Most girls at some point have the thought cross their mind. But if you were dared to, that doesn't make you a les. That just makes you a dare devil more or less. Lol. No harm

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Does anyone have any websites with charts on average weights and stuff?
thanks!

am-i-fat.com That is the best site to find that stuff out. If you don't like that may I suggest searching it on yahoo or google or askjeeves? Hope I helped.

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how do you let a guy know that u like him, but now being to obvious but by giving him little hints so maybe he will ask you out?

Flirt a little. When you see him, drop him a smile. Do little favors for him that just seem like you're trying to be a good friend. Get his phone number and call him maybe once a week just to talk. That stuff isn't too obvious. Good luck.

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I really didn't know what category to but this under but here is the question does anyone have any GOOD fundraising ideas to help raise money for the American Cancer Society? Thanks for all your help I need as many ideas as I can get.

There are lots of things you could do. You could try organizing a variety show. Have people preform on stage. Of course people would have to pay to see the show. Post a sign outside of the show saying all money will go to a charity. You could have a bake sale. America loves sweets. You'd make good money off of that. A yard sale even. Have you and some friends and family round up things they don't need much anymore and have a yard sale. You could have a hotdog and soda stan also at this yard sale. Are you in school? If so, you could notify your principal and they could make an annoucement and the whole school could participate and the raising of money for this society. Good luck.

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can sperm swim in the air and can you get pregnant from oral sex jus wonderin?

You can't get pregnant from oral sex. Once the sperm gets into your stomach, your stomach acids and such in a way rid of it. That will not make you pregnant. Sperm doesn't swim in the air. They say sperm dies when it hits air but that does not always happen. If a male had sperm on his hand or if sperm somehow got into your vagina region, if still alive, you could get pregnant. Very unlikely, but it happens.

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