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Mkkkayyy where do i start.
so my best friend maggie;
we weerre very close, i meen so close we lived at eachothers houses. we would hang out evvvveerryday and do evvveerything together.
we liked the same type of guys and the same clothes.
i meen, we were honestly the best of friends.
well. summer came.
and i havent talked to her in foorrevver.
i meen , 2 months now?
in the beginning of the summer we hung out like.. 3 times.
but, idont know. i think i stopped hanging out everyday because we fought too much.
i meen, we fought over ANYTHING and EVERYTHING.
-if i ust wanted to relax and not hang out? it pissed her off.
-if i gave her a "cocky" look; WORLD WAR3 STARTS!
ughhh it bugged me so ffreekin much..
also i have another very close friend,lindsey.
i meen im so close to lindsey that i consider her my sister, ive known her ever since the 4th grade.
well lindsey lives right across the street from me and sometimes comes over when maggie is over
now.. im totally fine with all three of us hanging out but MAGGIE. SHES... i cant even explain it! shes such a differant person with lindsey.
its like.. she sucks up? she tries soooo fcking hard to make lindsey laugh.
sure- i get jealous.
but yeah her fakeness allllwwayyys brings us into fights when lindsey is around.
like, when lindsey is around and were having a fight, she always turns to lindsey and has that cocky face like " can you believe her.." or like " lindsey what do you think about that"
im like !?!? LINDSEY ISNT IN THIS SO STOP LOOKING AT HER FOR ANSWERS.
UGh it bugs me!
but .. that was a long time ago.
shes still like that im sure.
Also the 3rd time we hung out in the summer, the most recent, she had a guy problem
like; her ex called her and started talking crap about her bloah blah, and maggie starts crying and says she hates him and i have to like comfort her for an hour and you know.. stick up for her.
well.. what do you know.
she goes back out with him the next day.
THIS JERK! she goes back out with!!
and im like. wwwttfff??
you cried for soo long because this kid was so damn mean to you..
his name is devin who is the younger brother of lindseys boyfriend.
so , lindsey john (lindseys bf) maggie and devin all started to hang out. this happened before , so im used to the ; feeling left out part.
also where i thought i needed a bf who was friends with john and devin just to see lindsey and maggie.. but im not that dumb.. i dont do that.
okay so . maggie and devin broke up because devin told his friends he was goign to cheat with maggie.
maggie starts hanging with a close friend of hers, just like we hugn out; evverryydayy.
i cant say she didnt try to call me, because i didnt.
i feeel like, i dont need to.
for some reason, i dont want to see her?
idk.
i dont want to get into fights,
i dont want her to be a fake around lindsey,
and i espicially dont want to deal with devin.
what do i do?
i meen, we havent talked in sooo long.
and if this happened two months ago,
and we didnt talk for one DAY,
it would be a problem..
i think i was too attached to her
and now i dont want to be.
how do i tell her that?
like.. im not even sure why i dont want to see her,
but when i see her on myspace or something i just get so dang fed up with her..
what do i doo???? (link)
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Stop hanging out with her, to put it bluntly.
People change, and theres not much anyone can do about that. I think shes taking you for granted, because you are always there, so she feels like no matter what she does to you, you'll still be there.
She feeds off of your loyal personality, and doesnt even care if she hurts you. Shes fake. There are better friends for you out there
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please put songs about best friends that aren't best friends anymore
they got in a fight and never made up but you want to (link)
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The only one i can think of is Nickelback "Far Away". If you've heard of this song, then I bet you're saying in your mind that it is a lover's song. But to me it can go both ways.
Heres the link: http://youtube.com/watch?v=yaLvyIdlWlQ
its just the music lyrics so, you can just concentrate on the words.
Friends can love each other as friends (even if theyre the same sex) but surely you knew that :D
and here are some lyrics which sounds more like proof that its a 'romantic song', but i'll show you how it can be related to friendship:
"I keep dreaming that you'll be with me"
Translation: I keep dreaming you'll be my friend
"On my knees I'll ask last chance for one last dance"
Translation: give me one more chance to prove to you that I can be a better friend
"With you I'd withstand all of hell to hold your hand"
Translation: I'll always be there for you, no matter what the cost and no matter how much I'm against it. I'd do anything to make you happy
"Cause I'm not leaving you anymore"
Translation: I'll be loyal to you and stand by your side, instead of running away.
Hopefully that doesnt sound stupid translating all the lovey dovey sounding stuff lol
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I'd really appreciate answers from people who have actually BEEN pregnant, or are a nurse or something along those lines.
I'm not trying to say that other people don't know what they're talking about. I just need a REAL straightfoward answer, that isn't a bunch of myths.
Okay, I don't want to hear 'OMG YOUR SO STUPID!' Or any kind of lecturing. I know what I did was stupid, and irresposible. But, my and my boyfriend of 3 years recently had sex, it wasn't out first time together but it was our first time without a condom, and I'm scared I may have gotten pregnant. What I'm asking is simple:
What are the first signs of pregnancy, and when do they start? I can't rely on my period as one of them, bc that's irregular as it is. (link)
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well, considering that you've been together for three years, it isnt as bad as knowing him for a week. so dont feel too badly about it. To answer your question, every womans body is different. You could have some of the symptoms and not even be pregnant at all. But I would say, spotting on your period, or not show up at all, morning sickness (does not have to be in the morning) but it is where you are puking, or are very dizzy and just feel sick, moody (like when youre on your period or worse), your boobs are very tender or painful to touch, cravings for food (this is not always the case, because anyone can get a craving), tired all the time, and im sure cramps as well.
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i'm 15/f.
i'm really sad about mostly everything in my life. i can't feel happy ever it's like nothing makes me happy. i'm so depressed i'm about to sleep with a guy i've only dated once which i know is bad but there's nothing else i can do. i feel like i have to give in to the pressure of just having relationships for sex because no one wants me for anything else. I need to stop being depressed all the time but i can't. I've felt this way for like 4 years. If i had the balls to end my life right now i would. but i don't. so i'm pretty much stuck here.
i've been on meds and seen shrinks and stuff but nothing works for me. please give me some advice that wont make me feel worse.
i am tired of people calling me ugly and insulting my body. how do you handle that kind of treatment all the time.
i have no friends. i cant keep a relationship for more than 2 months. i hate life. (link)
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Don't worry about what people call you. Just toughen it out. I know its harder than people realize to toughen up when someone is saying rude things about your body/personality. I understand completely what its like because I had to put up with it for a long time. Family members called me fat, and so did children in my preschool. From now on, when people call you ugly or something else that is uncalled for, say to yourself,
"If they say I'm ugly, then they must have feel as ugly as I do deep down", or "They're having problems at home, or with their relationships, thats why they feel the need to pick on me, because I'm hurting and feel lost".
I know sometimes, people do this to look 'cool' in front of their friends, but instead, they look like complete jerks. But if you defend yourself during these situations (I learned) earn you more respect. I went through years of humiliation, but once I defended myself (in words) the more they seemed to like me. I guess thats admirable, to be confident and strong-willed.
If I can do it, so can you sweety.
I bet youre a beautiful person deep down. if you EVER need anything, feel free to talk to me, even if you dont want advice. I'll listen to you without judging you in any way.
Hopefully I helped, good luck
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okay so i have been having diarrhea on and off for like the past month and dont know what to do about it...i will not poop for a couple days or so and then have diarrhea... i am going on a road trip this friday and will be in the car for long periods of time, and i am really worried that i will make my family stop alot... i also dont want to tell my mom about this, if possible
thanks- muddymidfielder (link)
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i would say go to a doctor...
this doesnt sound normal at all.
and dont worry about it being embarrassing, its totally natural.
But please get that checked.
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I have built up a lot of cofidence this past year.
Especially with school and relationships. My girlfriend has almost all this power from me and I have no idea why I let myself give it to her. she's incredible and extremely nurturing. Though she broke up with me for not even a day and then the whole time we were apart it seemed extremely wrong. I realized she was my best friend and my girlfriend.
She cried the whole time she left my house to her best friends. We saw each other that next day and talked the night of all of this. She said it was a mistake. We just had our 4 month and are extremely pleased with each other.
My only issue is..what if this all happens again because I use to be suicidal but now as I have grown it's been something different. When she was there I even broke down I tried holding it in for when she left. Sure, i am emotional but I try my best to make sure she knows it's alright. I am just so scared to lose it all. I think were fine as of now, but if I do end up in that situation again what are some ways I may be able to handle it? (link)
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Thats so sweet.
But even though it seems stupid right now, time eventually heals. When I lost my first love, I thought it was all over. Now, I'm practically engaged. So dont ever give up hope and dont let love slip too far from you. You'll find a great girl one day if it doesnt work out. As for the suicidal part, dont let depression bring you down. You're a strong person deep down. A lot of people are way stronger than they give them credit for. Just because you cry, or get mad easily or just very emotional, that doesnt mean your not strong (by the way, that was an assumption). In reality, I think those who cannot cry or dont have emotions are more weak than those that do. Because they are hardened over the cruel days of their lives, they cannot cry or show others that they truly care. And that is weakness.
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Yesterday my two dogs got in a big fight in the backyard when I wasn't home. one is pit-bull cross with rhodesian ridgeback, the other pit and border collie cross. The neighbor told me that they fought for 30 minutes and my dog, (the ridgeback) had the other by the neck for a long time. the border collie cross is very injured today, and the other has minor injuries. There was another time about 4 months ago when it went the other way around and the border collie tore a chunk of ear off my other dog. Normally, they get along great, sleep together, play, swim together. they are very nice to humans, and obedient. My ridgeback did snap at my son once however (now both dogs are only allowed in the house at night and when my son naps). i just don't know if this type of behavior is normal. Really, both dogs are really sweet, even if it does not seem that way from what I write. so my questions are: is this behavior normal? and should i keep them away from the cats even though so far they have been getting along with them? (minus a few growls from the ridgeback, although that one seems to like the cats the most) (link)
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Well I would keep them away from cats, now from hearing that.... you know, just in case.
As for the behavior, I know that dogs play around and are very aggressive with one another, but that seems a little strange...
especially if they have never acted that way before.
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okay well before you read this. i realy need help. so dont make fun or make rude comments. okay so i made a few fake myspaces just so i could talk to this boy whos older then me and better looking. ive been a fake for about a year without getting caught. i really like this guy now. hes like all i think about. and all i think about it the girl in the pictures and him being together. like fay dreaming. i would always stay up late to talk to him and not do my school work and miss school just to talk to him. now i have to go to summerschool because i failed 2 classes. he just found out i was a fake. but he doesnt know my real identity, which is good since i live in the same town as him and my life would be over if people found out it was me. but anyways i want to think normal again. and NOT think about him. like i forget what its like to be normal, think normal. i miss when i could jsut be ME and not some cyber fake chick. PLEASE HELP ME IM IN NEED OF GOOD ADVICE. (link)
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It is completely normal for feeling this way about a guy. Trust me, I'm no angel either. lol
Maybe you should tell him? Tell him you couldn't help it. Tell him your true feelings and talk like adults. Tell him where you went wrong and your intentions. If it makes you more comfortable, talk about it on myspace. You never know, you may get a friend out of it and maybe more later. Time will eventually heal.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 and a half months. It seems like so much longer though. We're so comfortable with each other, and we both know we're in love. The thing is, we want to have sex, but he's afraid I'm going to freak out afterwards. We've done basically everything else and I know theres no one I'd rather loose it to. Although, hes not a virgin. (He's 18) So my question is, what do people mean by sex changes everything? We already have an amazingly close relationship, and I trust him, so how would it change our relationship? (link)
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Wow... I've been in this boat before...
About a few years ago, I lost it to someone I never thought would leave me. We were very close. After we had sex though, everything changed. So I would wait. At least a couple of months before getting into that. Trust me, I felt just like you did, so confused as to why it mattered. My sister was always there to tell me "dont do it" but I did it anyways. Now, I am regretting what I did and I can't take it back. It's life changing and I guess you'd have to lose your virginity to know what I'm talking about.
Whatever you choose to do, I hope you have a good life and good luck. :)
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I am really involved in my church .. im there every day working or volunteering and i have gotten so close with all the people there the past few years, i've become attached. im gonna be a senior in highschool so will be leaving for college in a year, and i'm scared i will be really really sad to leave them. when i can't be with them or talk to them i get really upset and i know that in college i won't be at my church a lot, probably only once a month. how can i not be so sad and need them so much? and im involved in so many things i can't just stop going, and i want to enjoy all the time i have left with them (link)
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I'm sure thats tough....
but as hard as it seems now, it will get less and less frustrating and painful over time.
you have to get your education up, God will understand. Be grateful to see them once a month because its better than forever.
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I am really confused lately. I have a new guy friend, and we are becoming really good friends, and he is African American. And I hate to say it but, my parents..are racist. It's horrible. I don't know what to do. I just don't see why the color of skin matters so much. Help? (link)
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Continue to be friends with him. Don't let family ruin a good friendship. Just make sure you dont bring him around your house or anything.
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Does anyone know any know any songs in the rock/screamo/hardcore genres about relationships? Specifically relationships like where you love each other n would die for the other person, wanting to be together forever... Etc. Even if they sound kinda psychotic thats great too. Thanks! (link)
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well, if anything check out Slipknots Vermillion and Vermillion 2.... kinda the same, but kinda not either.... i dont know if its what you are looking for, but its the only one that i can think of. hope i helped
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and lately we've been going through a hard time. I thought I could trust him, but like I have issues with sites like myspace and facebook and stuff like that because of things that have happened in the past. But like he was having a hard time of having his friends know about me so I asked him if he would change his status on facebook to in a relationship. After a while of trying to convince him, he finally did. That was a few months ago though and the other day I looked on his facebook and it said single... I feel like he's maybe trying to tell other girls that he's free and stuff but I don't know. And like I also asked him if he wouldn't use it that much anymore and the last week I had a feeling he was using it still, and I asked him if he was using it and he lied straight to my face and said no. But then tonight I wanted to see if it was true and it wasn't... he was on it..and like I don't know. I'm in love with him, but like... I can't trust him online.. (link)
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yeah, if he keeps doing that, i would dump him... seriously... hes not a man at all. i wouldnt be surprised if he was 15.... thats terrible...
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How would a girl know if she were pregnant...like how long from the actual sex would it take to be able to tell? (link)
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i would say about 3-5 months, maybe less. it depends on the girl too. also, if theyre late on their period (miss one or two [or even spotting]), theyre more emotional then they usually are, they are often tired or fatigue, cramping, backaches, swollen or tender breasts, nausea (morning sickness), headaches, frequent urination, the skin around the nipples may get darker and food cravings... theres more, but you should google it.
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i have eyes that people usually comment on as being "big, brown and soulful". how can i make them seem bigger and more "soulful" with makeup?! thanks! (link)
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purple is a brilliant color. my friend ashley has the same brown eyes, and she always wears purple. it brings them out a lot!
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17/f.
ive been really good friends with this guy for a couple years. he's always liked me and i liked him a while ago. one night he completely flipped out and thought a lot of things happened which didnt. it was kinda hard for me cause i liked him and everything. well i guess he is a schizophrenic. its been almost a year since that happened and he's on medication and he seems better. im beginning to like him again, and that isnt really a problem, cause i know he likes me too. i just dont want him to flip out on me again, what should i do? (link)
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are you sure hes a schizophrenic? well, anyways, doesnt matter if he was, because this goes for any mental illness. but if you really like him, then you guys can work it out.
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Psychologists have proved that the more you see a certain face, the more attractive it will become? (link)
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i think its true. its happened to me before.
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i have a boyfriend.(been going out for about a month).and we were good together, but now all of a sudden something doesnt feel right...just how he's been making comments about me and then is like just kidding just kidding, and the other day i got a message from one of his friends thats a girl, and it was like "we need to talk, its important" (i dont really know her) so now im worried..i dont wanna break up with him though because we're still good ..but its these small incidences and past experiences that tell me to keep my guard up.
dont know what im asking..but any help??
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keep your guard up, but not for too long.... just find out what the girl wants. dont be afraid, ok? if what she says is bad, then confront him about it. if he still wants to be with you and says shes lying or whatever believe him. and if something he says really hurts you, tell him nicely if he can stop saying that because it hurts your feelings.
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Do you find super-skinny women like modern-day super models to be attractive?
Do you find super-skinny girls/women you know to be attractive? (link)
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i know that you asked for guys, but guys dont just think one way... some guys find bigger women to be attractive, and others skinnier women.... it depends on their type...
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14/f I like my best friend, but he has a girlfriend. How do I stop liking him? (link)
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well, you cant help who you like. only time will tell. not only that, but they could stop going out at any time.... if you get what im saying *wink, wink*
well anyways, if that ever happens, you should tell him how you feel. but not too soon...like a week.
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