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mental health
okay well before you read this. i realy need help. so dont make fun or make rude comments. okay so i made a few fake myspaces just so i could talk to this boy whos older then me and better looking. ive been a fake for about a year without getting caught. i really like this guy now. hes like all i think about. and all i think about it the girl in the pictures and him being together. like fay dreaming. i would always stay up late to talk to him and not do my school work and miss school just to talk to him. now i have to go to summerschool because i failed 2 classes. he just found out i was a fake. but he doesnt know my real identity, which is good since i live in the same town as him and my life would be over if people found out it was me. but anyways i want to think normal again. and NOT think about him. like i forget what its like to be normal, think normal. i miss when i could jsut be ME and not some cyber fake chick. PLEASE HELP ME IM IN NEED OF GOOD ADVICE.
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What you did is understandale. No one is perfect we all make mistakes and honestly, it takes maturity to realize a mistake, and admit it and desire to change it for the better. So, first I want to commend you for your question and honesty.
If you have missed school and failed classes, the first thing to do is what you are doing, correcting it. Great job on deciding to go to summer school. While going to school the focus has to be on that while concentrating on not failing again.
The second thing is living in a small community, people are MEAN and judgemental. I lived in one too. Next, because people are already mean and judgemental, they are going to judge you anyway at some point. Seriously. So, You shouldn't give a hoot about what anyone thinks of you, because whatever you do or decisions you make from now on should be about you, your life, and your happiness. With me so far?
Now, the word normal is the opposite of abnormal and you were never that,so let's remove that word from thought(it lowers self esteem)"smile". So, you want things to return to the way they previously were. Right? Now, previously you didn't like him the way you do now, and you have grown attached "to a certain sense" to the communication with him. This must be reversed in order to move forward. We are going to erase the things you want to erase and replace with permanent ink of the things you want to do to feel good about YOURSELF without thinking of what others think or will think of it. It's about YOU.
If you don't wish to be a cyber chic, then don't do the things that cyber chics do. Delete those pages and promise yourself that you done with that chapter of life. I would make NO contact with the guy you were communicating with either, regardless of what you feel. Close that chapter too, because it started off fake, and will end fake. Relationships tend to end the way they start, real talk. PLUS he may have a girl already from what you wrote in your question.
Good Luck and remember: NEW BEGINNINGS COME TO ALL WHO SEEK THEM. You can do it! make it a good one girl!
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It is completely normal for feeling this way about a guy. Trust me, I'm no angel either. lol
Maybe you should tell him? Tell him you couldn't help it. Tell him your true feelings and talk like adults. Tell him where you went wrong and your intentions. If it makes you more comfortable, talk about it on myspace. You never know, you may get a friend out of it and maybe more later. Time will eventually heal.
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