Hi, Im Callie, and im considered the Go-to-Girl. I might not give perfect advice, But i do try my best. Im really bad at spelling, so please, bare with me threw it. I love to read and write. Poems most of the time. Sometimes songs. I play select soccer and im pretty darn good. I love to laugh and have fun. But belivie it or not, Alot of people consider me emo. And thats mostly because i like black, piercings. But i dont see how that makes me emo. But who cares. I cant say i have a perfect easy life. But i wouldnt trade it for the world. Even tho im good at giveing advice, I need advice. Alot. Because i Question many things that most people wouldnt think twice about. Also i know alot of useless information. And i Still have NO idea how i know it. haha. So if you need advice, Ill try my hardest to give you what you need.
Hope i have help, Hope i will help you in some way. And if you have a Question you want to ask, but dont want alot of people to see, You can email me on one of my email accounts. You can email me on Soccer_cheka_11@yahoo.com, or Lost_in_the_music@ymail.com. I check both almost everyday.
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i really wanna put some blue in my hair. not the whole head, just like, underneath so it'll show when its up in a ponytail and when i straighten my hair. but my parents INSIST that i cant. how can i convince them to let me due my hairr???
HEELPP! (link)
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hmm well there is hair dye that comes out in so many weeks/washes. and it works nice, it lasts long enough and its cheap. and it can be worn out if you decide you dont like it.
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Okay so this guy (Spencer) word got around that I thought he was awesome, and he randomly asked me out over myspace right when school got out. We've gone to dinner and a Gaming zone with his friends over a period of 1 1/2 weeks, and talked lots over myspace. He seems shy, but then again I think his friends pressured him into asking me out. His friends talk to me more than he does >.< and they're all still complete strangers to me.
we had an awkward momment when getting a ride home, it was just me and him alone in the back of a car in the dark. and like... he wouldnt even make eye contact. and truthfully. I wanna kiss him so bad. but Im afraid of what he'll do, and Im extremely shy myself! but does it sound like he's shy? and if he is, what do I do?!
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well maybe he is shy. and alot of people would be like, "tell him how you feel..blah blah blah." well i can tell you right now, thats hard to do. So maybe you should try and ease the truth out. just one night be like, are you a shy guy? and if he says yes, then you might need to make the first move. because he may think that you are just going out with him because of what all the rumors said. and if he says no, then ask him why he hasnt really shown any sign that he likes you. also, he may not want you to think hes a fast person, so he wants to make sure hes not coming on too strong. i had the same problem with my boyfriend. i just had my friends text him and tell him how i felt because im a shy girl around guys. maube have then talk to him. but not gang up on him and corner him. just you know, nice and easy.
Hope i help =]
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Okay I have a job with my older sister and we babysit 2 kids. The job is $2.50 an hour when we work together and $5 an hour when we work alone. We babysit an 11 year old girl and a 9 year old boy. They live right by the school and we can walk to go to the playground and stuff. They have a pool and a pretty big yard. No big deal right? Well we babysit from 7:30 AM- 2 PM. and me and my sister get really bored. I know its kinda selfish but it gets really boring. I need some advice on how to keep the kids and my sister and I entertained. Board games weren;t so hot last time and TV... well if you like Pokemon I guess its okay. And my sister and I arent aloud to use the phone unless theres an emergency or we need to talk to our parents. And our mom said we shouldn't be texting. They're a little old for nap time.. but I really need something, and anything will help.
Thanks! (link)
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i babysit 9 1/2 hours, 2 kids and by myself. and they have no pool. live far away fomr any playground and are at eachother 24/7. so what you do is, bring something that u can do. like you could all play a bored game. or watch tv. You all could play tag in the backyard. and as for something that could give you a little break. have "relaxing time" where they go to there rooms and watch tv. and relax. no games, no nothing. read a book, watch tv, listen to music. its something very close to a nap. and it gives you time to rest and find out some more things to do.
hope i helped
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I'm 16/f and I'm half black half white and my hair is annoyingly difficult to work with. It's naturally curly and I like to use a flat iron to make it straight. However no matter if it's straight or curly it always puffs and it's really annoying. I've tried just about everything and curly or not it always turns into a big mess. Does anyone know what would keep my hair from puffing?
Anything will help,
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i have the same problem. im half black and half white. i have to but a relaxer on it every 6 weeks. and that helps some. then i also use heat spray with frezz control. and that helps. also i use hair stuff that is made to help control frezz and also to help straighen.
hope i helped =]
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Hi.
I am 15/f.
I have been having these "attacks" recently. I do not have any illnesses that I am aware of other than an unknown tremor disorder and I am also lactose intolerant. Other than that, I am pretty healthy. I work out regularly and I eat healthier than an average teenager.
Description of the attacks:
- Extreme and sharp stomach pain that just comes randomly and unexpectedly.
- Next, I start getting really dizzy
- Then, I start shaking beyond uncontrollably.
I don't really know whether its because of anxiety (I am not a nervous or shy girl but I do hold a lot of stress) or because of eating too much sugar.
I was just seeing if anyone has had this problem before. I am going to the doctor but I just want your opinion first! (link)
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i have the same problem, and im only 2 years younger. its a "panic attack" and it can happen because you have alot of stress. when i went to the doctor he said just try and take it easy. so if you start to feel dizzy. take slow, deep breaths. close your eyes and try to think of a "happy place" and to help get your stress out, you could write, read, or do something alot those lines. alot, do you start breathing really fast. and it feels like you cant breath? if so, then you should do what it says above. and when that happens it just means that you have too much air in your body.
hope i help =)
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I want a ringtone for NHRA racing (drag racing) like a burnout ringtone or something. NOT Nascar!!! But is there anywhere I can get one that's FREE?? I don't want them where they say there free but really you have to pay like $9.99 for them. So if anyone knows where I can get free NHRA ringtones can you please let me know?? Thanksss!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh yeah, I have Verizon (link)
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you can go to myxertones.com and theres free ones there
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ok so imn going out with a really great guy but...... last night i found out that he has gotten drunk like 5 times and hes gotten high like 2 times. and im not sure if i need to freak or not, he said he woudnt get high again because he said he likes me alot. and my friend asked him the farthest hes gone with a girl and he wouldnt answer... so should i be worryed. and my friend told him to kiss me( This is my best friend. Who gets in my love life.) well he said ok and then later i asked him about it and he said he wanted to. only problem is that iv only kissed one guy...(i know, loser right? lol) and idk, its kinda scary for me....
please, guys, girls, older people, anyone.
please tell me what i should do..... (link)
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im 13/f and hes 14/m and everyone around here gets drunk, so its not a huge deal
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What do girls like to get as a gift?
(only girls answer!!!!!) (link)
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take her out to dinner, get her roses, or a stuffed animal.
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Okay, do you want to no who i like now?!?!?!? Well, i'll tell you if you promise not to tell no one that i like him, and then you'll stop being mad @ me.
(and if yo uare reading this on her page, i no this chick personally.) (link)
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no.thats not gonna fix everything. you have to stopwith all the stupid hurtful jokes. cause im tired of all this crap. ok.
now tell me who you like.
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Why are you mad at me? I didn't do nothing to you, and you are taking Chyeenne side i all of this, and then she didn't tell you that she told one of my besties that i was "madly in love" w/ him. Wh yare you mad at me? And just so you no, i broke up w/ Brett. (link)
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well when we were in pe you were like all "when is your mom and mr.mannas wedding. and you know i am tired of all the mr.mannas stuff. and you know it. and im not takeing cheyeenes side at all. this iasnt about her me and you. this is about me and you. and how you can just let things go. you have to go around makeing eveyones life harder. and you said how much you and brett were perfect for eachother. so you cant even be blaming me for all this and you cant even be getting mad at me.
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why do a lot guys deal with their problems by partying, sleeping with lots of girls and doing drugs? (link)
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well when guys have problems in there life alot of time they just want to forget about them. Partying, sleeping with girls and drugs are there way of dealing. they do those things cause those are things they think they can control.
if u have any other questions, please ask.
hope i hlped =]
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Okay I aready wrote this question, but im giving more infomation, and needing more advice and sorry its so long. So im a freshman in high school, and over the summer i met a Junior that goes to my school. We had a thing over the summer (2007), and well into the school year. We would hang out and hook up and everything seemed great. Before him i was in very serious relationship for about a year 1/2. When i met this other guy he was about the only one who i let myself open up to. Well at homecoming everything changed and he told me he didn't want to fool around anymore and that since we wern't even dating it wasn't like we were breaking up. I got really hurt and cryed all night. After that night me and him never talked, and eventually never talked... ever and would occasionally would see each other in the hallways. Well its been that way for about 3 or 4 months. I eventually became really good friends with his best friend, and he likes me and i kinda like him, but i dont have all the feelings im looking for. He asked me to prom, and we went 2 days ago. Well my "he" was there, and we all danced and everything, i had a lot of fun and we talked a WHOLE lot. We have been texting a lot and he told me that my hair looked good, and we should go shopping, and today a bunch of our friends went to lunch including me and him, and he said that being in the car with me and everyone and how nice it was today that it reminded him of summer and how we all hung out. Last saturday me and a bunch of mine and his friends went and played this game late at night where you have a few people hide, and some drive and the people who are driving look and if you are seen by the people driving you have to get in and help them by looking for the people who are still hiding, well anyways we had like a group of people hiding and all of them got caught except me and him, so we start out hiding and its just me and him, and we are just talking more and more and actually looking at each other, and than he becomes really thoughtful, like when we have to run and hop fenses he askes me if im okay, and he i need help, and he grabs my hands to help me a lot. Well we finally get back to where were all suposta meet, and he follows me around, and when were in the car we take a big corner and he grabed my hand, but i pulled away too fast to see if it was ment like that. Now we text all the time, talk at lunch and are going to play the game this coming saturday.... I dont know really what to say, but i mean it kinda seems like he likes me again, but im not sure. i feel blindsided cause i like him so much that i might not be seeing the signs of how much he does or does not like me. Its complicated. and i REALLY REALLY REALLY need advice. i need someone to tell me the truth cause im nervous and dont want false hope. so if anyone can help me understand this, please help me cause your my last hope.
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Well it seems as though he liked you, and then he thought he didnt like you. and then when he saw you again and started hanging with you, he liked you again. or it could just be that hes looking for some fun. guys are hard to predict. so if i were u i wouldnt try. he may like you. if it where me, i wouldnt get to hopeful, or anything. because if he broke your heart once, whats going to stop him from a second time.
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This is a bit long, but you have to understand the entire deal...
I was with living with this guy for 4 years. From the very beginning, we had problems getting along. I was in love with him at first, but over time, frustration built up, and my feelings began to die, and I finally built up the courage to tell him how I really felt (after months of what I thought were obvious hints.)
I finally kicked him out of my house a couple months ago, and at first, I said I wish we could be friends again. But, the moment I was nice to him, he assumed we're getting back together. So I started ignoring him. Then the text messages started. So I told him one day, that I wanted him to leave me alone, I had no interest in getting back together with him, and that it was time for him to move on. I just didn't feel the same for him anymore.
But the texts continued, and then the desperate, sad voicemails, then the emails all saying the same thing (I've changed! Give me another chance! I need you! I love you! What did I do wrong?). He's even gotten his sister and her boyfriend to bug me about it! And over the past month or two, he's just dropped by unannounced 4 times, one time coming in the back door when I didn't answer the front door. I thought if I just ignored him he'd go away, but things are just getting worse.
Aside from him calling me 5 times a day, his sister left me a text saying I had to talk to him because she was worried he was going to kill himself. And now, I think he started reading my email! (I've already changed my password) I never told him the name of a guy I was chatting with online, and I never called him a stalker to his face, but he's brought up both of those things in voicemails. Then, today, I got a notification that I requested my password on paypal, when I never did. That may not have been him, but it wouldn't surprise me if it were.
I'm starting to get really irritated, and a little concerned. I don't want to get a restraining order, because I don't think I'm in physical harm, but it's getting bad and I don't know how to deal with this anymore. Please help! (link)
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im sorry about all this. its kinda scary.
well first off. you need to then his sister to but out. this has nothing to do with her. and as for the guy, hes going way overboard. how many people have you told about this whole problem? what are there ideas on it. and if you think hes getting your passwords for everthing, then you need to call the police, because that can be a crime. and if his sister thinks hes going to kill himself, then she needs to get help for him. and if hes reading your emails, then you need to change your password. alot. and also, check your account settings to make sure that everytime u change your password, that he doesnt get an email saying that you did and the new password. and how do you know he wont hurt you? did you think he could be a stalker or that he could be this way? a restraining order does help. you could and maybe should call the police, or tell him that if he doesnt stop, you are going to have to contact the police. because he may be dangerous.
ps. maybe you should also tell the police if u think he may kill himself. cause that may be a sign of a mental illness and it could just be getting worse. and the reason for all this.
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hi,
im 14 and my penis is 4.5 inchs hard. is this correct or is it small for my age. (link)
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its a little small for your age. but ur not dont growing. you could grow quiet a bit in the next year or 2.
hope i helped =]
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How old about should a baby be when his/her parents stop having sex in front of him/her in your opinion? (link)
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i would think around the time that they can start seeing whats going on.or when they can start talking.
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Why do you keep tellin everyone about what me and Brett do at his kitchen table?!?!?!? (link)
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because you are being a real mean person and calling me a hoe and a bitch and a slut and stuff. so maybe you should quit with all the mean comments and then maybe ill leave you and brett slot with thwe kitchen table.
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My bf and i have been together for about 5 months we are both 15 hes my first bf and the other day he showed me his penis its about 5.5 inches long
is that about average? hes insecure about it (link)
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well in my mind thats a good size. for 15? yup. so you should tell him theres no need to be insecure about it. plus, hes not dont growing. so who knows how big he'll get in just a year or 2.
Hope i helped =]
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A few years ago I met this guy in college and I had sex with him. He was a terrible guy though and I wanted him to leave me alone. He did for the rest of college and for the last two years. But I got a call yesterday from one of his friends. They said, "Amber. Do you remember Ronnie?"
"Yes," I said, "the guy that was a complete and total mistake?"
"Yes, yes. He wants to get back together with you."
I hadn't even thought about Ronnie in two years and I hadn't seen him since college. I don't want to date this horrible man. He is really bad you don't even want to know some of the things that he has done. So I said, "No. I don't want to date him or even see him again. I don't want to put up with his bull shit."
Ronnie's friend said, "He is very passionate about you don't be that way."
"The only reason that he wants me back is because everyone he dates realizes that the only reason he wants to date them is to fuck them."
I hung up after that. But today, I got seventeen calls from Ronnie's friend and an e-mail that I can't put on this website. What should I do? I don't want this to turn violent. I need advice. (link)
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well it seems to me that maybe ronnie and his friend have some.....problems. and this could turn into something bad. i would tell him to leave me alone. i wouldnt use strong lanauge i would just plain tell him that he needs to leave me alone or i will call the cops. because for all you know this ronnie could turn this into a real stalker problem where he follows toy around and stuff. or it could turn into him doing something to you. Im not trying to scare you or anything im just trying to help. but it seems as though this guy could be dangerous. you wouldnt know because you havent seen him in so long. so first i would tell ronnies friend to leave you alone. and if that doesnt work then i would suggest that you go to the cops. get a background check on him to make sure he hasnt dont anything to harm anyone so that you are sure that he wont hurt you in any way. iv had a problem kind of like this. and it didnt turn into anything because i made sure i reported it because i wanted to make sure i and everyone around me was safe.
hope i helped =]
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i basically only had 2 friends a week ago. a guyfriend , Bob. and a girl whose a friend, jane. well jane and i go to the same school. bob doesnt go to our school and i usually went to his house every friday to watch movies and hang out. but he and i both really liked eachother. he had asked me out a few times and i turned him down each time. then he asked me out again last monday and we've been going out ever since. but i asked him if we could still be friends even if we are going out. he said yeah, but its not the same. i want it so badly to be the same. but thats impossible. hes always sitting so close and putting his arm around me and we kiss and stuff. and i know thats what your supposed to do with a bf, but i miss what we used to be. im happy with him, but im a changephobic. and that huge of a change for me? i cant take it. he was my best friend and now i only have one friend! can someone gimme some advice on how to either accept things and get used to it? or do you think i should do something else? (link)
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Hun a boyfriend isnt just a boyfriend. hes suppost to be your best friend too. so tell him how you feel. dont just let it eat away at you. cause that could ruin your friendship. and you dont have to just accept things. if you dont like something, change it. maybe just talking to him will be all it takes.
~hope i helped~
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I was just wandering if anyone knows why your balance would be off. I have been this way for such a long time & I am getting sick of it! Being clumsy is one thing, but, I can just be standing in one spot or walking normally & just literally start tipping over! My balance is way off! Any input on this would be helpful! Thanks. (link)
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This could be because your growing and your body has to get use to it. Like i know i had a friend and her feet grew and she triped ALL the time.
and it took her about 5 months to get use to it.
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