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I like him alot...But hes does things in the past.
ok so imn going out with a really great guy but...... last night i found out that he has gotten drunk like 5 times and hes gotten high like 2 times. and im not sure if i need to freak or not, he said he woudnt get high again because he said he likes me alot. and my friend asked him the farthest hes gone with a girl and he wouldnt answer... so should i be worryed. and my friend told him to kiss me( This is my best friend. Who gets in my love life.) well he said ok and then later i asked him about it and he said he wanted to. only problem is that iv only kissed one guy...(i know, loser right? lol) and idk, its kinda scary for me....
please, guys, girls, older people, anyone.
please tell me what i should do.....
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Lovetornado, being thirteen and drunk is NOT not a big deal. It's illegal.
You aren't a loser for only kissing one boy at thirteen. Cherish your innocence, please. Don't be worried. If you want to know what your boyfriend's done with other girls--ask.
The only thing that would make you feel more comfortable about kissing is practice. Plus, only kiss boys that don't really care whether or not you're a good kisser- they like you.
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im 13/f and hes 14/m and everyone around here gets drunk, so its not a huge deal
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Well, first off how old are you. If you're like 16 and he's been drunk then yeah I see why that worries you but if your like 22 then I don't see why he can't. If he said he's gotten high in the past, well the pasts the past. You can't change that. You'll have to just get used to it I suppose. You have to trust him he won"t get high again.
The kiss, don't be worried. Kissing is not as scary as it seems at first. You'll have a total blast (;
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I wouldn't worry about it. He's even said that he won't get high again, it's just a matter of trusting him. If he's a good person whether or not they've been drunk before wouldn't bother me all that much. You can set certain boundaries [i.e. no drinking when you're together, you won't hang out with him if he's drunk] if it'd make you more comfortable. A relationship between the two of you will work only if you're willing to put up with his past behaviors. He may have been experimenting, doing what a lot of teenagers do, and has also said he wouldn't do it again so make a decision for yourself, it's your life right?
I'll put it this way. I know plenty of people who don't drink who are complete jerks. I also know people who are sincere and kind individuals who have gotten completely drunk a couple times. It's not always a clear indicator of personality.
As for kissing him, just have fun with it and don't worry about it at all. You'll enjoy it a lot more =]
-LM
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