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Well, im 5'5 i have brown/blonde curly hair, i love to dance. i have no idea what i want to be when i grow up, hehe. i love giving advice!!!!! iv been threw alot and i love helping people do the right thing ;).

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ok me and my bf broke up because he found that i was talking to another boy but that boy really dont mean nothing to me i love my bf so much. anyway he took me back but i no he dont trust me! what can i say to him to get him to belive me? plese help me im so sorry i didnt mean for none of this tohappen
shaiina

Tell him, if you really love me you will trust me thats what relashionships are all about trust. if he dosent understand maybe you should consider someone who loves you and that will trust you.

Lovely.

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Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do?

Trust your boyfriend, if he really cares about you he wont do anything to hurt you, if you cant trust him, maybe you dont like him as much as you thought.

Lovely.

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my dad is always so mean and curses alot he is an alchoholic what can i do to make him be a normal dad?

You cant do anyone, but if your feeling threatend go to your school counsler, and if you dont want her to say anything you can tell her to keep it confidential, and she can give you some better pointers than anyone on this site.

Lovely.

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a lot of people keep coming up to me and asking me if i'm anorexic. i'm starting to thing i am now. people always tell me how skinny i am, but i think i'm fat. and i'm obsessive over what i eat, and i always weigh myself.

it's my stomach i don't like. when i stand up and squeeze my stomach there's like 2 inches of fat! is that normal?! =(.. i feel so fat. i want to try to have NO fat there. does anyone know any good exercises to get rid of that fat?

so i have 3 questions:
-do you think i might be anorexic?
-is all that fat normal? you can compare me to a normalish stomach or whatever, i don't care.
-what are some good exercises to get rid of that fat?

if you do have anarexia. but dont be ashamed lots of girls have it and most people dont get it. dosent sound like you have a lot of fat, but theres not enough detail to know if you even need to get rid of it.
but crunches usally work for me.

Lovely.

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Ok, if you somehow make a fake human body, wheather as real as you can get, or a metal designed one, or a robot, and put the brain of someone in it, but keep the brain alive and successfully put it in another body which you bring back; is it possible to bring that creation to life? will that body have a soul? If having trouble, read doctor Frankenstien for more details. This one has stumpted me. Help me out people.

No its not possible, unless you where god. :) hope i help

Lovely.

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I'm hooking up with this guy, and I don't know if he's hooking up with other girls or not. We're not in a relationship or anything, but I would just like to know if he's with other girls or not. I don't want to straight out ask him, and i don't want to involve my friends, so is there a way I could get him to tell me without straight out asking him "are you hooking up with other girls?" All advice is appreciated. Thanks all!

If i where you i would casully say how is your dateing life? you know something like that.

Lovely.

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Every afternoon in school for about 2 weeks I get really bad stomach Aches. I have no idea why. If i go home and go to sleep for like even a half hour they get better. Is there like a reason for this or somthing.

You dident give enough detail, but it might be an ulcer, thats when you are stressed alot the coating in your tummy wheres off, tell your mom what the pain feels like. i hope you feel better.

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i am 13/f and i have a boyfriend even though i'm not really supposed to. anyways my little sister who is 10 found out and now she is threatning meand i don't know what to do.i don't want to break up with him. i tryied talking to her but that made it worse! what do i do?

Sounds like your sister is the devil, no im just joking.
But dont do what she says if she tells denie it all, if your parents ask just be like we are doing a project thats why he calls but dont give into your sister. Get something on her so you can black mail her.

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ok so my friend is 15 and her and her bf had sex but the condom broke. well she got this short period for march. it lasted a day and a half she said. shes been eating alot and peeing alot now too. does it sound like shes pregnant? im going with her to planned parenthood tomrrow..but what does it sound like to you guys??

you dident give enough information to tell, but its really good that you guys are going to planned parenthood. Good luck and sorry i cant be more of a help.

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hey everyone! ok, this is going to be so lame, but me and my friends are trying to find this one site and its' one of those website quiz things- it's the one where it says like " number 1-11" and like 'put someone of the opposite sex on #3" and then "put a song on #11" and like when you're through it'll give you the answers and will be like "the song title in #11 is what describes the opposite sex person in #3" do you know what i'm talking about? any help would be appreciated! thanks!

Sounds like your talking about ....http://www.saiyanisland.com/test.html
it actully sounds excatly like it. hope i helped

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We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this?

Its not easy to get over a loved one ( even if it is a pet ) but i would recamend that you keep a picture of your dog in your room, and when you feel your self crying think of how happy he is now, even if he isent with you.

Ask your mom if you can go visit the dog once in a while, until you grow out of the sadness.

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I just bought a shirt from Urban Outfitters and I got the smallest size of the shirt but it was still really long! Like to the bottom of my lower back & butt! I dont know what to do because the rest of the shirt fits good all around. Will shrinking it make it shorter? If not, what else can I do? If I should shrink it can someone give me specific instructions how? Thanks!! Ill rate 5's and give feedback =)

Well if i where you i would cut it, but not alot because when you put it in the dryer it will kinda shirink. cut stuff is the style now, so it will look cute too, hope i helped

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14/f
summer is coming up and i am going to be swimming ALOT. i got my period at the very end of last summer so i didnt have to worry about swimming. but now that this summer is getting closer i am considering tampons so i can swim whenever i want. my questions are what brand of tampons are best and should i start now so i will be more confortable or will it matter?

thank you.

Pearl works best hun trust me ;)!!! they are comfy and long lasting!!

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Ive been down in the dumps lately about alot of things..first off my parents split up after a 22 yr marriage..then i didnt make my aau softball team that i make every year...and then things didnt work out with the guy i thought i liked. I really am depressed..i know i am..the symptoms are all there. I need something that will hype me up a little..ne suggestions?

Go to your doctor, hes the only one that will know if you really need to take meds. but for now these are things that get me happy

1. When i wake up i say something that God has done for me. like Gave me a great family..
2. Do some deap breathing, in and out for ten minutes. by my self.
3.Exercise/stretch.
4. Talk to a close friend if im feeling down.
5. think of things you like to do and go do them.

Lovely.

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R.I.P Pope John Paul II Karol Wojtyla


Now that he has passed away, how does everyone feel? What do you think is gonna happen? Is the world really gonna come to an end? - xglam0urx

First of all, you shouldent be worshiping a person, God is the only person you should worship. and the world isent going to come to an end. Only if God wants it to. okay.

Write me back i would like to know more. and maybe understand where you comming from

Lovely.

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My periods are very irregular, even though i've had them for almost 4 years now, my hair is falling out, im always tired, i get contipated and my nails are really weak. Does anyone what these symptoms could mean? my mum has a thyroid robleem and thinks i could have it also, i want to go to the docters but im terrified of needles, and they'll want a blood sample.
Please help

Well for starters going to the doctors might be scary but it always helps in the end.
If you do have a thyroid problem you NEED to tell your mom, thyroids can really hurt you.
But this could be a low iron and high stress thats causing this.

Lovely.

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Hi! Okay i am a really thin person....i am NOT Anorexic i swear! I eat actually alot, i just dont gain the pounds as fast! But my hands in the winter they will like turn colors...like in gym they will trun purple and red and stuff. And if you squeeze them they will turn red! Is this normal...my one friend said it could be a blood clot! Help me

This just means your hands are getting cold, and your nervus. my legs do that. its deffinitly not a blood clot, but if your hands get numb tell your parents, or maybe just to be safe i would tell them now.

Lovely.

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my family doesnt pay attention to me at all... its all about my perfect sisters... i used to wear one of my sisters clothes (bc i dont have any) and my mom was gonna buy me some clothes but she gave the money to my sister bc i ruined my sisters clothes and like my parents dont do crap for me im not tryin to be selfish but what should i do?

sorry for the writing I RATE 5'S!

Well, i would understand that your mom gave the money to your sister because you ruined her clothes, but other than that, i would recamend you sit down with your mom and dad tell them how you feel, maybe they have a good explanation. Im sure your parents love you, dont think anyless.

Lovely.

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Hey.. i got this thing with my parents, my moms ok.. i guess were all not so close.. but we still talk you know. well see my parents useally just argue.. alot.. but its becoming more violent. my dad hit me once before.. then slammed me into the tv shelf thingy. and sometimes into the walls. everytime i tell them to stop up my dad would tell.. you keep your mouth shut or i`ll shut it for you.. i dunno whats gunna happen after like.. 1 day thats over.. then they argue over somehting else thats really stupid. my problem is.. i have a hard time telling my friends. I got this one friend.. cause she knows how it feels and all.. and im bi i have a girl friend.. (ima girl to) and i have a hard time talking to her bout it.. whats a good way to open up.. sorry this is long...
i`ll rate.. please help.
thanks everyone!

If i was in your position, i would start the converstaion of will, i trust you with everything and now i know i need your trust more than ever.... and then take it from there, maybe she can help you ferther.

Lovely.

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This boy asked me out the other day for this friday. I really, really like him. But the thing is, I'm afraid I might say something. I don't want to give away his name...he's actually "famous" or w/e (my dad's a prop manager for the show he's on).
So we're supposed to go out this friday and its going to be hard. I know he's a normal guy...and so far I've treated him normal, when I see him for like 2 minutes at a time... and thats just on the set. Whats it going to be like out in the public with other girls everywhere?? And what do we talk about? Should I bring up the fact that he's on tv? That my friends want to meet him? IDK!!!!

Just do what you would usally do around guys, dont ask him about the show you dont want him to think your using him, and also dont let your friends meet him he will also think your useing him.

Lovely.

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