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trust
ok me and my bf broke up because he found that i was talking to another boy but that boy really dont mean nothing to me i love my bf so much. anyway he took me back but i no he dont trust me! what can i say to him to get him to belive me? plese help me im so sorry i didnt mean for none of this tohappen
shaiina
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Tell him, if you really love me you will trust me thats what relashionships are all about trust. if he dosent understand maybe you should consider someone who loves you and that will trust you.
Lovely.
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your b/f is obviously just insecure with himself because he is jelous that you give other boys attention! he obviouslt thinks your so great that hes scared of loosing you. but this can klead to problems (believe me ive been there!) so sit down with him and tell him that these lads mean nothing to you compared to him but he cant expect you not to talk to boys. say that you love him so much and couldnt imagine being with anyone else! tell him how you really feel! he cant not trust you then! he just needsa bit of reasurance,thats all!
hope i helped!
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First of all...
1) really dont mean nothing
2) i no he dont trust me
3)for none of this
My advice to you is...
you're retarded. Please never have children.
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shaiina -
You really did nothing wrong so you don't have to feel bad for anything. My boyfriend gets the same way sometimes because he's afraid that if I talk to other guys there is a possibility that they will take me away from him. I'm guessing that your boyfriend is the same.
Just talk to him and reassure him that you want to be with him and nobody else. Clarify that just because you talk to other guys, doesn't mean that you're cheating or have feelings for him. Come to a compromise where you both can be happy, say if you're talking to another guy to tell him about it (but don't ask for permission, there's a difference).
Also if he's stubborn and still doesn't trust you, tell him that trust is one of the basic foundations of a good relationship, and if he can't trust you then there really isn't anything to build up on. Also by him being possessive, tell him that it's actually driving you away from him instead of keeping you closer. Both partners need space sometimes and need to live their own lives other than just the relationship. Make sure he gets that.
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Tell him that he was jumping to conclusions and that if he cant trust you, you dont want to be with him. Tell him that you do love him a lot and it hurts you that he cant trust you. xO ali
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I think he has no business telling you that you can't talk to other boy's. That is just stupid.
He sounds to possessive to me. I wouldn't let him get started with this kind of behavior.If you do he will next get mad if you happen to look at another guy. I say break up with him and find someone else, but do what you want.Be prepared for more controlling behavior out of him though.
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Your boyfriend sounds WAY over the top. He broke up with you just because you were talking to another guy? You have to tell him that there is nothing going on, and he HAS to realise is and get over these issues he has, because you can't have a relationship where's there's no trust. You deserve to be trusted - you've done nothing wrong. Tell him that you understand it's hard for him but he's going to have to learn to trust you - however long that takes - because you're should never stay somewhere where people don't trust you. He'll just be suspicious all the time and that will make you unhappy. No trust = no relationship. Tell him how much you love him, too.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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