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I can try my best to give you my advice, ask me what is on your mind and i can give you my opinion.
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girl: i just really want someone to makeout with or a BOYFRIEND! i need advice, cuz ur like my brother :] :[
him: i jus want 2 be popular so you can
girl: wut
Him: i jus want 2 be popular so you can
girl: i dnt get it??
him: nvm g2g
him: signed off
what does this mean??? my friend saidhe wants to makeout with me, but im not sure
duckyville72
Him: i jus want 2 be popular so you can
Well he wants to be know, and he wants you to be too. is he your real brother or friend?
if he is ur friend maybe he was hintting to you "hey lets makeout and get popular together"
no clue but thats what i think.
Okay; so i'm Bi, ive known this for a whille now.
i finally told my mom about it. she didn't really say much. but i've ALWAYS hung out w/ Lesbians & Bisexuals. but now she thinks it's a big deal [now that she knows i like girls too].
what the hell.
what should i do/say to her?
She needs to respect you of who you are. sometimes our selfs are cerious of the same and other sex. its normal. a mother wants their child to do their best in life and she is afriad for you cause she thinks "what would people say or my friends?" but she might know that other people or friends might been though it or are it and wont tell. people have secrets and they hide it. but you good for you to tell your mom. someone that would be there to you thick though thin. tell her this "mom i know you are surpise about my choice but this is who i am. i feel comfortable respecting myself instead of being someone elus."
I'm bi and the only people i told was one of my friends and my older sister. they seem okay with it. and i seem to try to respect it. its hard but i know i'll understand alittle more. we all learn about our self every year. thats when we all become strong.
hope i help.
write me if you have anymore questions.
hey. well there's this girl, we'll call her ...lauren. well in eigth grade we got into a fight. [yes, a fist fight] well, the thing is that she didnt even know me when she wanted to fight me. (she was the one who wanted to fight me, she punched first and so i hit back) and she won. but, she like.. sat on me and i couldnt get up and she talks about how stupid that is to do that to someone because its unfair all the time. anyway, sorry for rambling. but, she hates me. Honestly, i don't know why. I'm not one of those girls who does things and someone would actually have a ligit. reason for it. she just...hates me. i mean, in class i dont talk. and out of school we have NEVER talked, not even for a second. well, besides the fight.. but that wasnt for very long. lol. she's always soo nice to me- but behind my back she talks about me. anyway. i dont want this to escalate into a fight again because i have to focus on my studies. [like, seriously] I hope someone can give me advice on what to do whenever she does try and talk about me. do i just ignore it? do i stand up for myself? and how would i be able to do that without getting into a fight with her. if you met her, you'd know what i meant. shes the type of person who gets mad at EVERYTHING. please help & thankyou in advance.
I'm a person who gets pissed off and annoyed easyly. but lauren should not be a kid about it. she should talk to you or you talk to her.
my friends know i get tick off easyly but they mess with me for fun. but when i'm mad at them they know when to back off to gvie me my space. and then i'll go up to them when i want. you should probably do the same. Lauren should be a grown up about it to let it go, i really dont see any thing wrong what happen or why she made a big deal about it, cause i always fits fight with my pals and its only for laughs.but just give her space wait for her to go to you. if she doesnt respon well then ignor her cause she seems to be weasting your time cause u worrying about it and you dont need to if someone not serious about you and her's friendship.
hope i help.
He's been like a brother to me for about 2 years now. I've liked him as long as i have known him. I would have already said something but he has already told some of my friends who tried with him that he thought of them as sisters and nothing else. But now I have people coming to me telling me that he does like me. But I don't know if I want to take the chance of being rejected like some of my friends were. What do you think I should do?
I'm in your same shoes too,well okay shes been showing me signs also and i need to ask her if she likes me.
the right thing to do is comfront him with a teasing way, flirt alittle see if he flirts back.
he is your friend and he will understand he will not make fun at you.
say to him i have something important to tell you.
clam yourself no worries he is your friend.
i hope i helped.
hey, i'm 14/f and in 9th grade. =] and this is my story.
i always seem to make really good friends then somehow distance from them, then I cant talk to them anymore and now everything is so awkward. this has happened 3 times but there's only 2 girls i want to be friends with again.
i used to be best friends with a girl (I'll call her "Ellie") in 2nd grade to 5th grade. Then, we kind of drifted..and now I really want to be friends with Ellie again, but I have NO idea how to go about it. We havent talked in like 4 years or the entire school year, but now we share a class and I know she notices me because we've made eye contact but neither of us says hi..which is kind of awkward
I'm shy as hell too, but it can be rude. if you want to be friends with them see what they like, hang out and tell them you want to be friends again. and if they dont keep in touch its not you its them. you need people who respect you of who you are. i found friends who are just like me but differences of course. and we became great pals like sisters. anyways. you need someone who likes who you R dont act like them or try to like what they like because you will weaste your time you need the right friends and to find them well, try to study with unknow pepole, talk to people in a club that you might like (art,music,fashion ect)in those school clubs things and you might find someone.
hey. sorry if this is really long but I could def. use some advice if you have any. I had this group of best friends in fifth grade lets call them Rachel Jessey Jennie and Hannah. Anyway we were inseperable. Then in sixth grade Hannah moved to live with her mom and we threw her this big party with good luck gifts, cake, the whole thing. At first we kept in touch but once Hannah started making new friends she slowly stopped talking to us. Like especially me and Rachel we call her all the time and invite her places but she always has an excuse but then she can always hang out with her new friends. She blew off my birthday at the beginning of 7th grade year (this year) and at first when we started asking her what was up she was nice but today I found out she blew me off this weekend for one of her new friends Jaymie and she got WICKED mad at me for bringing it up and she kept saying oh I`m sorry I have a life and I made new friends blah blah blah and Rachel totally agrees with me and Hannah says that I`m the one that changed and that makes me really mad because I think I`m the only one that stayed exactly the same. What do you guys think. Any help would be great. ♥
That is not true friendship. i'm friends with only three people and i knew them all my life. they are my second family and i might be moving also. but i made a promise no matter what i will keep in touch. i hate when people do that to others and i dont like how hannah treated you. she needs to realize that you can be friends with old friends. anyways she is not wroth your time, dont worry about someone that is not worring about you. it breaks your heart and dont make it wrose. Rachel seems like a good friend stay by her side and with your other pals.
Hannah might miss that and she comes clawing back dont take the BS cause she all ready lost her good friends.
hope i help.
Me & my baby want a song. We're young & in love so a love song would be nice =] any song suggestions???
love song by 311 i luv the lryics and you both will love it too. i think?
My best guy friend asked me out a week ago, and I liked him a little, so I said yes. Well... now he's getting annoying, and sometimes I have feelings for him, sometimes I don't. I kinda like someone else, but I know I have no chance with him, but I still don't want to go out with my boyfriend when I don't really like him. Help me, PLEASE.
okay, i been thou this and my friend. see with my friend she thought she had feelings with our guy friend, but it was feelings of friendship. she only went out with him for 3 days! she realized he wasnt the one she wanted so she moved on but we are all friends still. dont go out with a guy cause of self pity okay. with me i had a crush on a guy in high school and when he had a girlfriend i got over him. till next year he liked me and we went out. he was annoying! he was like a puppy and couldnt stand up for him self when i yelled at him. so that didnt work out. so think twice before its too late. hope i help ;)
16/m Ok, so I have grown extremely close to a girl, and we are best friends now. Lets call her Betty for this. However, this girl happens to be one of my best friend's(who we will call Bob) girlfriend. Now, they have been dationg for close to 3 years...since before I met either of them.
Betty is everything I would look for in a girlfriend...she is pretty, smart, funny, and we just get along so well. I don't want to have feelings for her, but i can't help it. I would never want to move on these feelings because Bob is a close friend of mine. People have also told me that they think she likes me too.
About 2 months ago I got into a huge fight with Bob, because he was mad at me because Betty was flirting with me, even though I was not flirting back.
Betty flirts with me all the time, and always tells me how Bob is being a jerk to her. Now they are boken up but still kinda together, and she always talks to me about how he is an @$$hole.
Basically I just need to know what I can do. I have feelings for her that I do not want to have, but I can't help it. Bob is too good of a friend to lose over a girl, and I never want to lose any friend over a girl. Is there like anything i can do to get these feelings out of my head?
I'm in your shoes too, see i'm good pals with my friend and we both like the same girl too. but instead of going to her you should try to talk to Bob. i did that to my friend, i told him that i liked the same girl he likes and i think she might like me back. i dont want to have a girl come between us so please understand. he then told me thank you for telling him that. Thats a true friend. now bob and you need to talk first, then if he gets the okay of you to talk to betty then talk. if not then try to talk to her.
getting over someone is hard so what i do is keep my self bussy with work, school and hoobies. so good luck!
okay well i have this crush on this kid in my class- at least i think i do. i dunno if i really like him sometimes i really feel like i like him but other times i feel like we are just friends. but i think i might just be pushing this thought that i like him out of my mind
because i am scared because i do not know what to do if i like him or how to let him know (i dont want to let him know). last time i had a crush was when i was 7 in first grade i am now 14 so i am new to this and i dont ever really get this feeling.What should i do? should i just give up?
PS he is like 5'6 and really like really skinny and i am in good shape but not really skinny i am 5'10
Ask him to be your friend. get to know him. the more you know him you might find out that you do like him. and show who you really are, he might like you too if you bring out your true self.
i cant see my best friend because im gothic i never even realized i was its just the stuff i like how i dress how im deppressed and my personality. i hate it so much. think how it is to only have one person in your life that even cares for you and i can only see him at school in half my classes. my family even my parents make fun of me and say im messed up i usually say then why wont you help me or you should have fixed it along time ago. im gothic i never knew but i dont wear the black pants with the trimppers i wear jeans or skirts or both and tshirts and hoodies but all the chokers and jewelry. i hate my life more than ever when you notice you have only one person that even cares for you that you barely ever see and everyone else hates you and they make it clear to you they do. his parents wont let me see him they all thats wrong with me i just am never right!whats all wrong with me ~me cursing, my music, being gothic, scareing people, my personality, my piczo, how i dress, suicide thoughts, he became gothic so they blame me, i love my guitar, my bff being a guy, hateing life, stereotypeing , the stores i like, i stare to much, ubsession with the mall, cant cry but am severely deppressed, loves explosives, having only one real friend but is a guy, love to evanescence(explains me), i can never ever do anything right, always grounded, takeing my hated life out in violence, and that is what i can think of now..thats all that people told me that i remember. right now im grounded but im on the computer so plz help soon! im grounded for yelling at my dad bc he was going off on me about him all thats wrong with him. im 13/f hes almost 13/m
there is nothing wrong being gothic. i have a friend who was like that. she told me she was suidicle. and i wanted to help her right then, i aske her y she was suidicle and she said that she was born with a bad liver and had to get a transplante when she was a baby only 6 months old. all her life was meds after meds and its still now. she had pain every time and she wanted it to go away. her famliy always go to church they wanted her to be just like them and she hated it.
she wanted every one to go away but i didnt. i was there when she was down i told her life sucks to anybody. it sucks for the rich,poor, popular people, gloomy people. ect.
i show her life was great if you stop the worring about what others think. so what they think you are scary HA! the only scary thing about them is that they have to wake up and see there stupid judging fucking face in the mirror everyday.
i think of suidiced myself but i stop and think "i wont just hurt myself i'll hurt my family and my friends who love me" if you want them to feel the your pain how you feel, you should go up to them and tell it to their face. make them know you are some body a person who wants love and care, who wants to feel happy every time even when your down. be strong show your true self. gothic people are not scary dumasses who judge are scary because they are sooo stupid i cant belive they are breathing. i'm not gothic but i'm in love with one who is. she dosnt wear the clothes but inside she is the little devil. (hehehe its a joke between me and her.) anyways one friend no matter i had one friend and she is still my pal, and now i have three great friends that are sisters to me. dont let any one pull you down okay. oh and sorry your grouned, i yell at my parents too everyone dose everyone always make misstakes but you learn from them. i hope i help you. ;)
your friend still care for ya right? find away to see each other thats what i did with my friend (the one who had troble) no body knew but we still got away with it.
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you ask me what does this mean:
are scary because they are sooo stupid i cant belive they are breathing.
it was a joke, people who judge are stupid. and when i said "i cant belive they r breathing" meaning i cant belive they are alive and wasting our time judging us.
sorry that i didnt make it clear for you.
15
Female
today i just found out that a guy i liked last year liked me back and he asked me out. i said yes, because i felt i wanted a boyfreind and i thought i liked him alot. of course 20 minutes later my concience caught up with me and i started doubting my liking for him and now im scared i dont like him at all. he's a really good guy and im scared im going to lose him if i tell him about it. last year my boyfriend and i broke up and it took me a long time to get over it and i just don't want to get hurt again... i dont know if i should tell him or just go on a date with him and see if i really like him. im not sure. also i havnt told my family yet because they always make fun of me for having a boyfreind.
what should i do!?
wow you sound like me when i was 16. i remember i was in your shoes. i broke his heart and still feel bad.Im 20 now. but my friend told me he called her up i ask for his number and i told him i was sorry for what i did. he said it was alright its the past.
you feel pity you dont like him.(or maybe) do not go out with him cause your sorry for him that is not love. and i always felt like my famliy will make fun of me when i had a bf. but my mom found out and she said "dont feel shy that you have a bf okay, we wont make fun of you. you are growing up and thats good that you are finding someone you like and experisents new things" i'm the youngest and every time my sister made fun that i had a crush i get mad. but now i should realize that was the past this is now.
if they still make fun tell them you dont like it and its very inmantuer of them.
my bestfriend recently hasnt been talking to me...and i tried talking to him about it and he just blew me off...
should i try talking to him again? it doesnt seem like he even listens...
what should i do?
did you ever made him mad? ask if he did. wait for a week or so and call him up and ask again.
whats wrong with me? honestly im a fun person positive, i have so many friends and lot of them guys too...but why cant someone just seem to find me attractive enough to date me or want something more!!????
Well put yourself out there, show your true side flirt alittle let people know your the hot **** out there. just dont make a fool of your self. :D
okay well no we aren't married but u see the thing is our lives a fine it's just we keep onm messing it up with each other but we just can't stay away even if we are just trying to be freinds or sumthing. I really wantto be with him but i just don't know how....and he justwants to be friends i think i really don't know how he feels and he won'ttell me so i am just so lost
Well okay i read your last qeastion wrong sorry.its hard to read what u wrote, but he maybe wants some space, you were together right? tell him you want more than friendship, if he said no, sorry for that. but is he showing you he likes you? ask him about that too. he needs to stop toying with you he needs to step up and tell you how he feels. guys dont really do that but push him to say something. it hurts you and he cant bring it up cause it might make feel him uncomfretable, be clam and ask let him know that you are his helping hand. hope that helps.
okay well this guy i met last year has seemed to be in my life ever since.....i liked him a lot last year and a BIG part of this year.....(school year wise) and well ever since i liked him my life had ben fallin apart and he had changed me drastically. well i decided to try to get over him. i did for a while and then he started talking to me a couple weeks ago and i can't help but still like him. i know it isn't good for me to like him becasue of the effect he has on me. i just don't know what to do becasue i tried to let go but it isn't working anymore.
Keep your mind fouce life isnt always about boys boys boys. if he is affcting your school or people around you, u are hurting yourself and others even your goals, if he luvs you he should respect you and what you want. wants you get your life together then the both of you will have a great life. he needs to sort out him self too. cause love last forever but you need a job and brains so you can live under a roof (right) so whats more important...your life. and his too (if your married.) he thinks of himself you do the same. and what i mean by married is that married couples support each other so they can live in happy. your not married right? so he cant be just your whole world. first you! then him. if you r a famliy then famliy and you, get my point. hope that helps.
Hi. Lately I've been feeling like I've been growing apart from my friends and idk why... it seems like I'm always the one making plans with any of my friends and it really sucks. Most of them have boyfriends now that they hang out with 24/7 and I don't, so I'm hanging out with them less, or so it seems.
I've just been really bored and lonely lately and I know that's stupid because I do have alot of friends...but for the past 2 weeks I've just been home bored most of the time and I don't have any plans unless I call someone; no one is even making plans with me.
I hate this lonely feeling, it's pretty depressing. Why do I always have to make plans with my friends instead of them making plans with me? Now I have a week off from school and I don't want to just be bored the whole week or have to make all the plans? :-( :-(
I will hate that if that will happen to me and it might. but listen dont worrie they will realize that boyfriends arnt they only thing in the world. my sister made a mistake by always going out with her bf and not her friends. now she has no friends but her bf and they arnt working out well. talk to your so called friends, people have to make a equle amount of how much time they hang out with someone.(like they hang with you the other day and then they hanr w/ their bf the next)
they dont know how you feel so talk. or if the answer "oh no dont worrie we are still friends lets do something the next day" then they call "oh sorry i have to do somethin bla blah blah." then they become flaky on you. Now that is not a real friend. dont stay in your house moody all day show them that your alot of fun too.
just say "if your flaking on me then whats the point of being my friend, you just waest my time worring about our friendship and you dont even call cause blah blah ect." basically show your feelings how much you care about them.
theres this guy that i used to be really close with but now he's kind of at that stage where he doesn't eat, he doesn't talk to anyone, he's always fighting with his best friend and he always works and studies to hard. i don't know what do say to him, he won't listen to me or to anyone else. he thinks that what he's doing is fine and doesn't care. what should i do?
ps. i don't want to say anything to him because he gets angry easily and he's not to pretty when he's mad
I'm dealing with someone like that but its different. he doesnt get anger he just lies. this guy needs help he sounds broken hearted and needs help. ask all his friends to go in one room and comfront him. yell at him show him that you care and everyone elus. if he dosent listen then he'll lose his friends the only people who care for him no matter what. he needs to know he is not alone. good luck. ;)
and he likes me too, well, used to. That's part of the problem. I'm not too sure what's going through his mind anymore. We've been hanging out alot and we talk everyday and this has been going on for the past 2 months and at the beginning of those 2 months he told me he liked me and I liked him back. Well, we've kissed and everything, and I'm just confused. I don't get why he hasn't asked me out by now.
He also always talks about these girls and ex-girlfriends and stuff to me. Like he tells me how his one girlfriend used to cook for him and how he thought that was cool and how his other old one used to be a real good dancer [ I don't know if he's trying to hint to me I should pick up on these things or what or if he's just making converastion about his past ]. But then he'll tell me about how he went to the mall and two girls gave him their number and everything. And I know this is a common thing to make the person you like jealous, but he's going a little overboard, now. He knows I like him, so rubbing 3940 girls in my face isn't making me too happy, but I can't say nothing because we're not girlfriend or boyfriend or anything. He's single, he has the right to flirt and do things with whomever he pleases.
It just feels like we're dating already, though. I mean we talk EVERY DAY and hang out as much as we can, so I'm practically the only girl he sees anyways and we have such fun when we're together and I love kissing him and everything. It's great.
But that's where I get confused, like I said earlier. I don't know if he's lost feelings for me [ but then why would he still be kissing me and everything? ] or what because I figured he would've asked me out by now.
Well anyways.
Last night I was thinknig about it and I got a little moody cause it's been upsetting me for the past week now and I was on the phone with him and he asked what was wrong, and I told him nothing. He asked continously and I gave him the same answer continously and we both got aggrivated with eachother. So today I texted him back apologizing for being so moody and hoping he'd forget about it, move on, but he didn't. He started asking all over again what was the matter and what was on my mind last night and I told him once more,"really, it's nothing I don't want to talk about it." Cause I don't have the courage to confront guys about things, I'm a wuss.
Well he hung up on me and texted me back saying,"I thought we were friends and could tell eachother anything. I know you hate secrets being kept from you just as much as I do. You call me when you wanna tell me, but if you don't tell me, don't call me at all."
I don't know what to do!
I want to just say it, but I get all nervous and I'm just so worried about how the outcome's gonna be. Him say he doesn't like me anymore and we're just friends and I'm all sad, or him say all that and then it's too awkward to be friends. Or then he ask me out out of pity or something. But now I feel even MORE pressured to say something because he basically just gave me an ultimatium. I don't even know if everything I've just written makes sense, but if it does, someone give me your opinion, please?
Okay I'm a wuss too and when i dont come out and say it i look in the futuer of what if i never said anything of whats on my mind about this person. And i get a bad picture of the futuer, that person i like will be with someone elus or never my friend any more. so what i do is i twist my finger around to stop the dam wussy crap and do it! (i dont really do that) but my point is this is what you do "okay i'm calling you cause you want to know what was wrong with me that night. I'm getting mix signals from you, we have a great time hanging out and i love your company. but what is going on do you like me or what? please tell me." you dont have to go word by word of what i wrote but its best to tell him in YOUR own way. you got to let him whats on your mind if not he'll not be there with you any more.
Im going though this myself but its a little different ;)
alright so i really like this guy and he likes me back and we sit next to eachother in english and today we were watching and movie and ussually when we watch movies we'll like sort of play with eachother..well just the other night i found out he liked me but he really liked this other girl more so today when we watched the movie and he tried to go up my leg i moved his hand and he tried one more time and i was like no..dont so then he went back to just feeling my leg and i was idk sort of sad i guess and then after english was over he came up and gave me a hug from behind and whispered im really sorry and then i turned around and gave him a long hug and then kissed him on the neck and was like no its not your fault im just having a bad day,, so now im really confused about where we stand..so can you guys tell if he likes me..thanks soo much
Well to me he wants you, the thing is when he said he likes this other girl did he tell you that right after he told you that he like you? if he did it was for like "oh i mean and i like this other chick um so i dont really love you like crazy i just want to let you know" (if that makes cents.)he was nervous problemly and wasnt sure if you like him so he hop over to "oh i like this girl too", people do odd ting when they are nervous. And he wants to let you know he likes you more than the other girl. talk to him ask him if this is becoming a realtionship. play it cool and relax you'll get though this.