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I like this guy...
and he likes me too, well, used to. That's part of the problem. I'm not too sure what's going through his mind anymore. We've been hanging out alot and we talk everyday and this has been going on for the past 2 months and at the beginning of those 2 months he told me he liked me and I liked him back. Well, we've kissed and everything, and I'm just confused. I don't get why he hasn't asked me out by now.
He also always talks about these girls and ex-girlfriends and stuff to me. Like he tells me how his one girlfriend used to cook for him and how he thought that was cool and how his other old one used to be a real good dancer [ I don't know if he's trying to hint to me I should pick up on these things or what or if he's just making converastion about his past ]. But then he'll tell me about how he went to the mall and two girls gave him their number and everything. And I know this is a common thing to make the person you like jealous, but he's going a little overboard, now. He knows I like him, so rubbing 3940 girls in my face isn't making me too happy, but I can't say nothing because we're not girlfriend or boyfriend or anything. He's single, he has the right to flirt and do things with whomever he pleases.
It just feels like we're dating already, though. I mean we talk EVERY DAY and hang out as much as we can, so I'm practically the only girl he sees anyways and we have such fun when we're together and I love kissing him and everything. It's great.
But that's where I get confused, like I said earlier. I don't know if he's lost feelings for me [ but then why would he still be kissing me and everything? ] or what because I figured he would've asked me out by now.
Well anyways.
Last night I was thinknig about it and I got a little moody cause it's been upsetting me for the past week now and I was on the phone with him and he asked what was wrong, and I told him nothing. He asked continously and I gave him the same answer continously and we both got aggrivated with eachother. So today I texted him back apologizing for being so moody and hoping he'd forget about it, move on, but he didn't. He started asking all over again what was the matter and what was on my mind last night and I told him once more,"really, it's nothing I don't want to talk about it." Cause I don't have the courage to confront guys about things, I'm a wuss.
Well he hung up on me and texted me back saying,"I thought we were friends and could tell eachother anything. I know you hate secrets being kept from you just as much as I do. You call me when you wanna tell me, but if you don't tell me, don't call me at all."
I don't know what to do!
I want to just say it, but I get all nervous and I'm just so worried about how the outcome's gonna be. Him say he doesn't like me anymore and we're just friends and I'm all sad, or him say all that and then it's too awkward to be friends. Or then he ask me out out of pity or something. But now I feel even MORE pressured to say something because he basically just gave me an ultimatium. I don't even know if everything I've just written makes sense, but if it does, someone give me your opinion, please?
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You have to talk to him about it. It seems like he thinks that telling you about all these girls & playing hard to get makes you want him more. That is definately not how it goes, but he probably doesn't know that. You should tell him how you feel. Seriously, if you keep your feelings from him, things just go downhill from there. You are friends & it does seem like you're almost dating. Think of it this way, if the situation was flipped, wouldn't you want him to tell you? Call him, let him know. If you start having a real bf/gf relationship, you need to be open & honest. It's all about trust.
None of us can tell you if he likes you or not, but since you do talk daily, there's a good chance he still has the same feelings for you.
-hope that helped!♥
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Okay I'm a wuss too and when i dont come out and say it i look in the futuer of what if i never said anything of whats on my mind about this person. And i get a bad picture of the futuer, that person i like will be with someone elus or never my friend any more. so what i do is i twist my finger around to stop the dam wussy crap and do it! (i dont really do that) but my point is this is what you do "okay i'm calling you cause you want to know what was wrong with me that night. I'm getting mix signals from you, we have a great time hanging out and i love your company. but what is going on do you like me or what? please tell me." you dont have to go word by word of what i wrote but its best to tell him in YOUR own way. you got to let him whats on your mind if not he'll not be there with you any more.
Im going though this myself but its a little different ;)
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