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Online Dating..is he cheating?


Question Posted Thursday April 12 2007, 3:50 pm

I have been online dating for over a year with this guy from germany. And im from there. so it doesnt really make a difference. I know oline dating is scary..and blablabl..please dont tell me how to be careful because i know all that. But recently, he stopped writing me. he keeps telling me he will tell me all later about all his problems, and i should keep writing even though he cant always answer. But evertime he writes he asks why i dont write. Im fed up writing him, because he never tells me what is going on. He used to tell me evrything. Something is wrong with financial or so, but i dont know. Is he cheating? should i write? what should i do to tell him i really love him, and i that i dont care how old he is, that i really want more. How do i tel lhim i miss him, and that i really love him, even if he sees me just as a friend. please help.. i WILL RATE!

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DearAbby92 answered Thursday April 12 2007, 5:29 pm:
You two have a communication gap, and thats not uncommon with long distance relationships. Only serious, open, and honesnt communication will solve your problems. Write him a heartfelt letter. Tell him, calmly of course, exactly how you feel, and ask how he feels. Let him know your hurt and mad and just want to make your relationship better. If he really cares about you, he will understand.

Good luck,

-Abby

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turn-n-burn answered Thursday April 12 2007, 4:06 pm:
First of all I think you might want to delete the part about you rating because it can get your question deleted, anyways I know this isnt what you want to hear but because you are not there and you only talk online and all that he could feel as if he can get away with anything, you need to ask him what is going on you might also thinki about people can be a lot different online and on the computer than in real life if it were me in the situation I would breake up with him.

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blair_ok answered Thursday April 12 2007, 4:01 pm:
First of all you really shouldn't online date...just my opinion no offense. Just ask him and ask him and ask him until he tells you. Oh and by the way I think you should go meet him in person.



-Alex

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