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boyfriend
15
Female
today i just found out that a guy i liked last year liked me back and he asked me out. i said yes, because i felt i wanted a boyfreind and i thought i liked him alot. of course 20 minutes later my concience caught up with me and i started doubting my liking for him and now im scared i dont like him at all. he's a really good guy and im scared im going to lose him if i tell him about it. last year my boyfriend and i broke up and it took me a long time to get over it and i just don't want to get hurt again... i dont know if i should tell him or just go on a date with him and see if i really like him. im not sure. also i havnt told my family yet because they always make fun of me for having a boyfreind.
what should i do!?
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wow you sound like me when i was 16. i remember i was in your shoes. i broke his heart and still feel bad.Im 20 now. but my friend told me he called her up i ask for his number and i told him i was sorry for what i did. he said it was alright its the past.
you feel pity you dont like him.(or maybe) do not go out with him cause your sorry for him that is not love. and i always felt like my famliy will make fun of me when i had a bf. but my mom found out and she said "dont feel shy that you have a bf okay, we wont make fun of you. you are growing up and thats good that you are finding someone you like and experisents new things" i'm the youngest and every time my sister made fun that i had a crush i get mad. but now i should realize that was the past this is now.
if they still make fun tell them you dont like it and its very inmantuer of them.
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Stop thinking about it so much. Go out on a date, see if you really like him. If you don't, then you need to break up with him ASAP because if you don't, you'd just be leading him on & making him believe a lie, and he'd only get hurt worse in the end.
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Go on a date and see what happens. if you dont you'll be missing out on a lot. chances are you will get hurt more than once in your life time but how will you ever find the right person and learn from your mistakes if you never try. and dont worry about your family because they dont know him (probably) so they shouldnt say anything.
I hope i helped and good luck!
~becky~
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i think your just being really paronoid! lucky you, you have a boyfriend! your only 15, be happy! live alittle. your just haveing second thoughts beacuse your thinking about it to much. try it out, see how it goes! im sure youll look back at when your concience caught up with you and lahgh!! whenever i go out with boys im always like DO I LIKE THEM??!! OMG DO I?? like i think of it as marrige but i relize im young you know, let me have my fling! mayb it will be seriouse but ull never no untill you try
dont worry,
keep me posted!!
p.s dont tell your family, unless is gets serious. beacuse their not gonna take you seroisuly
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