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Hey my girlfriedn and i we want to try to do sex but we already tried 3 times and she bleedss a lot its that normal? how can she do to stop the bleed? (link)
oohh well then mayb you should gett it checked out. but people might not take you seriously beacuse your but merly 17. just use protection! and dont do it so constantly if she keeps bleeding, and why did you only give me a 2??.....


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today i just found out that a guy i liked last year liked me back and he asked me out. i said yes, because i felt i wanted a boyfreind and i thought i liked him alot. of course 20 minutes later my concience caught up with me and i started doubting my liking for him and now im scared i dont like him at all. he's a really good guy and im scared im going to lose him if i tell him about it. last year my boyfriend and i broke up and it took me a long time to get over it and i just don't want to get hurt again... i dont know if i should tell him or just go on a date with him and see if i really like him. im not sure. also i havnt told my family yet because they always make fun of me for having a boyfreind.

what should i do!? (link)
i think your just being really paronoid! lucky you, you have a boyfriend! your only 15, be happy! live alittle. your just haveing second thoughts beacuse your thinking about it to much. try it out, see how it goes! im sure youll look back at when your concience caught up with you and lahgh!! whenever i go out with boys im always like DO I LIKE THEM??!! OMG DO I?? like i think of it as marrige but i relize im young you know, let me have my fling! mayb it will be seriouse but ull never no untill you try

dont worry,
keep me posted!!

p.s dont tell your family, unless is gets serious. beacuse their not gonna take you seroisuly


I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
Ok i know how you feel. I have felt so useless and depressed that i didnt know what to do! But suiside isnt the anser. Just add soem excitment to your life, Have kids, adopt, get a new job, take you wife out somewhere nice. Explaint to you wife how plain you feel your life is. Im sure shell undertsand. Just dont commit suisde. Please dont. If you need to talk im always here. You were givin a life to live it to the fullest, dont abuse thata atvantage.

Feel better,

if you need to talk my aim is sasa9821


Help i like my best friends boyfriend i've liked him from the moment i saw him and then he left 4 two years and i still thought about him then he came back and my best friend asked him out. What do i do? (link)
Don;t tell him. Im sorry just if you lov your best friend then you should say anything to her boyfriend. You can gently break it to your best friend. Im srue if shes your best friend shell understand, but dont tell her boyfriend. Thats betrail.

i hope i helped


how can i get a body like a victoria secret swimsuit model, like thin and lean, but like musculish.

pls help, workout &food tips. (link)
Walk to school whenever you can,
Eat heathier.
My friends on a no carb diet,
she lost 4 pounds in 1 week.
If your already skiint then just sign up for a gym or go to dance class. Yoga and kick boxing are fun to!

goodluck!


this week i have had my period (i think) nothing gets on the pad but when i go to the bathroom there is some but only a little bit is this normal? will it get heavier? this is the third time i've gotten it and this is the only time this has happened. ♥ (link)
Yes its completly normal, this alwayd happens to people. You just luckely, have it really light!! Its possible it will get heavier, there is no garenttess. Be happy!! enjot it while it last, light = better


15/f.

This only started this year...is it normal to get a sudden attraction to EVERY guy that passes by? (He has to be Okay looking though :P lol)......and getting a sudden urge to talk to that person or communicate to him? :O (link)
If hes hott then its totally nromal and yet encoruegd to talk to him! im impressed that you always do, its brave and bold!you have an attraction to good looking men which is normal at ur age

xx


I have the urge to have sex all the time. It is so hard. I don't have a boyfriend. Well I have had alot of boyfriends but my boyfriend just broke-up with me and now im single. And all the boyfriends I have had were to good to have sex. How do I stop these urges? (link)
Well number one you should focous on somehting else like school, or join a team or get into a new hobby. Maybe sign up {if u still in high school} for an after school activity, get a job or babysit. A job like that you cnat have sex or even the urge bc it will be infront of kids, I know this ideas sound dumb but it will work. if those dont work, honestly see a therepist. It will help.

Hope i helped,
x


I am a freshman. And im popularISHH I am not the most gorgeous person but im cute. I am madly in love with this senior!!!! I like have an insane crush on him. I dont know what to do. He is popular and intimidating. Hes single and no girls {besides me} like him. Its so random to go up and talk and i way to scard to do that! What do i do?

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okay me and my boyfriend were at church a few nites ago and we were gonna go down the stairs. okay there's this little space beside the stairs where two people can be alone and he pulled me in there and kissed me. he didnt talk about it for the rest of the nite but i know he's gonna bring it up next wednesday. i mean, it's not like i didn't enjoy it or anything, but i don't know if i should take it a step further (as in having sex) or keep it like it is.help? (link)
i do agree, sex isnt the next step but it deffintly will come up. I think you, should be the brave one and start uo the conversation and say that you want to wait (depending if you do)




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