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boyfriend question
okay me and my boyfriend were at church a few nites ago and we were gonna go down the stairs. okay there's this little space beside the stairs where two people can be alone and he pulled me in there and kissed me. he didnt talk about it for the rest of the nite but i know he's gonna bring it up next wednesday. i mean, it's not like i didn't enjoy it or anything, but i don't know if i should take it a step further (as in having sex) or keep it like it is.help?
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If you don't know if you should be having sex, chances are; you shouldn't be. And it's a sin to do anything sexual in a church. Congratulations on getting a ticket to hell.
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i do agree, sex isnt the next step but it deffintly will come up. I think you, should be the brave one and start uo the conversation and say that you want to wait (depending if you do)
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Okay. Sex is not the next step after a kiss. Sex is serious. Talk to him about what you guys should do and what you shouldn't. If you can't do that, then you are definitely not ready to do it. But that is your choice, only you will know when you are ready. And whatever you do, don't have sex in church. It's really disrespectful. Even if you aren't that religious, it's disrespectful to those that are. If you need anything else, just ask! =)
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Hey,
Personally, I wouldn't have sex in a church.
I don't know how strong of a Christian you are, but I know that one thing God frowns upon is sex before marriage.
If you ARE ready to have sex however, have it at home, or a non-public place.
I mean, c'mon, think about it-would you want someone to come downstairs and see two people having sex..in a CHURCH?!
Kissing is fine; I wouldn't go any farther than that at Church.
Hope I helped, Good luck
-Jam
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well if you just started kissing him or just seeing him then i would not go a step further like sex i mean get to know him kiss him some more you know. if you do know him and have for a while im talking about like a year or a couple of months. if not then to early make it special. thats my opinion! but you do what feels rite to you!
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Sex seems a little extreme.
I think it should stay as it is.
Sex seems too early, but it depends. if you think you are ready for it, then go for it.
But it's probaly best if it stays liek it is
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