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whats wrong with me?
whats wrong with me? honestly im a fun person positive, i have so many friends and lot of them guys too...but why cant someone just seem to find me attractive enough to date me or want something more!!????
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If you don't have a confident self image, people tend to sense that and it tends to affect their opinion of you. If you are great than keep believing it, and keep doing things that will boost your image of yourself.
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I'll be blunt as you want to know the truth after all. You are trying too hard to attract them and don't really know that this is what you were doing. Don't feel embarrassed as tons of guys and girls have that problem.
They/you want to have a boyfriend/girlfriend badly so you start telegraphing it a bit too much. The guys are probably intimidated by you or don't know how to deal with you properly or even approach you.
I know there's tons of guys in your school that like you. You may not have met them yet or they're too shy or don't know what to make of you or how to approach you yet.
You have to make things easier on them as well as yourself. Stop trying to attract guys so hard at even at all. Instead, be frinds with guys and girls and just be yourself and as outgoing as you usually are and guys will start noticing you as dating and relationship material.
You really don't have to do much to attract a potential suitor other than smell nice and be well-groomed. The important part is to just be you and not try hard or at all and guys will start approaching you.
Right now they are getting the wrong signal from you. They either think you're trying too hard or are desperate for a relationship. This is all stuff you are telegraphing to them without thinking about it.
You need to relax, be yourself and stop thinking about guys as they'll start noticing you and want to be around you more because you are fun to be with and are acting natural and not phony.
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Boys aren't everything, and neither is being liked. Yeah, it's nice to be liked & have a boyfriend, but it's not the main thing you should focus on.
Just flirt with people, and smile a lot. If people still don't like you, that's their problem, but don't think it's you because it's more than likely them.
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Well put yourself out there, show your true side flirt alittle let people know your the hot **** out there. just dont make a fool of your self. :D
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