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Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help. (link)
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ok..Well..1st your never to old for anythin no matter what u say or others..and also you should tell her start out..holdin this in may make her alot happier an more anxious to go trick or treating..so tell before its to late an you feel guilty and then go...it wont be soo bad..but if you dont wanna and she does..then just tell her out ...she should under stand.and if she doesnt and its all mad or anythin then thas not a true frined...so tell her a..
hope i helped
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should I be proud of what i am? (link)
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Yes..you should always be proud of who you are...no matter what you are or what people say..everyone is there own person...no1 can stop you from eatin dog food ...or even being gay..there are many different people out there...You should be proud on who you are n who you wanna be not on what others think and want you to be...So think on it everyone has there own self and ways on who they wanna be,,.dont think any wrong of it
hope i helped.
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My boyfriend told me he didn't love me but he likes me alot. He doesn't know that I love him and he keeps trying to get me to tell him but I wont, I think he's guessed. I just want to cry, I knew he didn't love me but when he told me it just made everything 10 times worse. I really love him, what shall I do? (link)
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well ..you love this kid right..and he said he likes you alot well thats just like sayin i love you ..so there really isnt a dif..but if you truley love him well stop holdin all your sad ness in and tell him eaither at the movies in a note or on the fone..but eaither way you need to tell him so that he knows its true..if you tell him then he may say the same back..if you kno those boys well enough he loves you alot and he wont show it but i bet he crys every night while he thinks of you...so just trust in your self and think postive not negative..tell him how you feel and it will change alot i bet !!
thankz hope i helped -tasha
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ok how do you get your hair to look like wet but wavy or well not wavy but i dont know! well if you have any idea on what i'm talking about how do you get your hair to look liek that? thanx! (link)
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Use gel...it helps
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dont think i'm weird but all my life i've looked at girls and never thought it was weird but now i might think that i acually like girls as well as guys but i'm not sure what to do?(i'm a girl)
i dont wanna be sean as weird for liking the same sex but i think i acually do its weird....so should i react on these feelings or just supress them and not do anything for fear of rejection? (link)
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Okay Gurl ..Lisen up ...I understand how liking gurls is posssible...im gurl too and yeah there are sum gurls i will look at ..but i dont think of them like that..sence you do i think you should just tell a really close friend and talk to her about it..or another thing to do is just not think about sum gurls and try your hardest not to like them...Just follow what you wanna do and do what you think is right ...hope i helped if you need me then box me in!!**
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My mom always complains about me never being home. She says that she thinks that i dont love her and only want to talk to her when i want something. (im sure everyone is gonna say that their mom is like that too), but are there any ways that i can 'hang out' or spend time with my mom with still being able to be as social and hang out with my friends as much as i do? please give me some ideas to have fun with my mom (i know that sounds lame) but i know it would help me to be able to do more stuff. (link)
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hey..me and you are just alike ..im neva home to spend time with my mom...and you kno one way to is have one of your bestest frineds and have you your mom your frined and frineds mom...and ang out some where get a bond with both parentes then soon enough youll be goin to your friends with your mom..but dont worry it wont constint..i kno i did that with my mom and nnow i hang out with my mom and friends..or another thing is just try to stay home on days shes home or if she is always home then stay home on the days shes goes out then ask to go with her..you kno if this happens sometimes theyll take u to the mall shopping..its great..lol...hope i helped....if ya need me box me in
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I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help! (link)
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Okay my Advice is to tell her to her face not on the fone or PC that usally changes things ...and also talk to her alot more then usal but dont call her 24.7 not good for that ..just tell her strat to her face how much you like her..and how bad you felt when she told you taht she like aonther boy more...just talk to her and then when its the right time ask her out..do what ya think is the best way to work...hope i helped ..ya neeed me box me in..
tasha
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ok im almost 13 and im going into the 8th grade. Ive never had a boyfriend in my life. But ive liked guys and i was always afraid if i asked em out theyd reject me and it would go around i would be a bigger loser that i am now because 'i tried to ask out someone more popular than me' or something. because im not a geek or anything but im not popular either. Im like the in-between-kinda person. I know you'll say "just ask em out, who cares what they think" but its easier said than done. I dont know what to do...PLease help me! thanks (link)
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okay gurl lisen im the same thing as you say but dont call ur self a loser...jus think do you really like these boys do you really need them..i have been through the same thick and thin..an its hard for the first one ..im not as poupler as people think but still i kno it very hard to go ask people out ecpessicly for us gurls and what you sould do is write a note to him and it dont hve to be perfect.but befor you do ask anyone out make sure you kno them well enough not to well or else it mite brake up the friendship.beloive i went out with this boy not even knowing him and he is such an ass to gurls..i hate im so befor you do anythin make sure you kno him pretty well and dont think about that boy 24/7 ...you should jus try to have fun...hope i helped..box me in if ya need me
P.S .follow your instinks
tasha
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hey im 13 nd me nd my boy friend recently spilt but i still like him nd i just found out that he still likes me to but i dont no wat to do cuz my best (guy) friend likes me now nd my ex nd him are really great friends nd they both asked me out tonite nd i said i have to think about it to both of them wat do i do!! thanks in advance! (link)
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Okay .well the thing i would is just give it some time let them think things over ..tell them both that you dont wanna brake there friendship..ut if its okay and then dont care who ever you date then just try to see who you realy truley love..just follow your instinks be yourself...dont worry about them..jus give them 2 time to think and see if they are really ready for this..i just dont want you to get hurt or them..some guys seem nice t 1st but in the end they change so think really hrd abut this who do you truley love...hope i helped...if ya need me box me in..
tasha take care
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ok, my friend did this project in health class, and she used this article (i think it came from the newspaper). It was a 5 year old and she was pregnant! Is that possible or is it just a lie? (but newspapers dont really lie..so??) (link)
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yeah..i heard about that the 5 year old pregent...but im not sure..i think it aint possible becasue you need to have your period to have a baby..theres no other way..unless the 5 year old did have its period that young...doubt that..lol...well in my opion it cant happen.at least i dont think,,,so hope i helped take care..need any more jus drop in the box
tasha
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13-Female
I went out with this guy for 4 months, (From October to January) and I broke up with him because I thought I had no feelings left for him. I guess it was just a time of the moment thing, because ever since January I've been soo depressed. I've wanted to kill myself. I'd cry every single night. Sometimes I still do. He's not taking me back, and he's a year younger. So I guess he might think I took advantage of him. But, his bestfriend rides my bus and he told me a bunch of shit that wasn't true, and he made me believe it. So basically I was forced to break up with him, blah de blah de blah. I told my ex about his best friend, and he made exscuses for him. Like "Maybe he was jealous, or sometimes he gets mad or hyper and does stupid stuff".
So anyways, this guy that I seriously want to spend the rest of my life with, well I need a way to get him back. I don't just want to be with him forever, I need to be with him forever.
Please, If someone could help me at all, I'd owe you a big one, and I'll rate you too, I just need help. =/ (link)
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look gurl im 16 i been where u been i thought i was in love...and one thing i learned is that love conquers all...and itf its meant to be itll happen...now as much as its goin to hurt if u want this boy back act as if you do not care ur not wit him...go out and have fun with ya gurls...live it up gurl u only live once u got ur whole life ahead of u...another thing do not let him kno u wanna spend foreva wit him..guys r terrified of commitment and thats prolly why he isnt wit u now becus he is afraid to think of commiting to ONE person for the rest of his life...another thing...when u see him act like nothing eva went on no drama nuthin u see him in the halls simply smile and keep walkin or if he is walkin wit someone u kno go up to the person he is walkin wit and hug them say hey wuts up a lil conversation and then just walk away and act like u didnt even see him cus that will get him thinking like "i thought she liked me""wuts goin on" and then he will keep thinkin bout u and then hell come to think why didnt i get back wit her...and who knows maybe by that time u will be wit someone else but im here for you gurl u need ne more advice u no where to find me :)
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Okay i have been with the same guy for the past 4 years all high school you could pretty much say, but anyway...All this time i have been a virgin yeah we do everything else and yatta yatta but i dont know i think that i want to have sex with him, i know that im ready but idk I love him with all my heart but what if i could get better or something? i mean i know hes awesome at everything else but what if hes not good at sex? then what do i do just resort to everything else that has kepted me happy all this time? please give me some advice
-Cass- (link)
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OKay wow..lol..i understand but i think that you should wait till hes ready and if he is then go ahead but what im sayin its gunna hurt and will suck after words..but if you reallly love him that much that wont show love its jus a thing..so do what you think is best
Tasha
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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go? (link)
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Okay Lisen..i understand what your goin through but alot of people are goin through the same thing i think you should just try as hard as possible and just let it be..dont let them get to you .It belive i kno but you kno once your gone they are gonna be way worse ..so Im telling you kno jus dont run away dont be bad ..and just be yourself and enjoy life
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Okay there's this person who I know and like they have always depended on me for like a lot of stuff since like 7th Grade and now were going to be Juniors in High school. but we never hang out like maybe ocassionally on a friday during the school year. and like recently they called me like at 1:30 in the morining for me to come pick them up and take them to my house and I'm not 16 yet and not legally to drive but my family is out of town....so they told me to pick them up from somewhere because they did something really stupid and didn't want to risk getting in trouble with there parents...but yet me get in trouble for several things....what would you guys consider this person? (link)
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OKay ..Now if a frined is risking for you 2 get in troubnle then jus dont help her at all..i mean its happening all over the world kids driving with no liesnse..so im tellin ma sis went trough and she aint no longer frinends with that person...so Try to follow oN what you think is good and you should have the right choice..Hope i helped /..
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ok me n my friend got in trouble with the cops tonight and well both of our parents know now and were BEST FRIENDS i mean we've been there for each other everytime we could and we live in a pretti nice neighborhood with nice house and nice people and me n her we relate with alot of things and we were at the park burning stuff and a constable saw us and we tried running and well she caught us and now were both royally screwed in the ass and i still wanna see her shes my best friend and i cant loose her what do i do??? (link)
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Okay..Lisen i have some of the similar Prombles..Tell your Parents that she is your best frined an call your friend tell who ever answers like Her mom or Dad and say a diff name if you aint allowd to talk to her an then talk to her about it an tell her how we need to get together and talk fam with fam......And about the whole talkin well another thing i had to do was SUCK UP..lol it was hard but im aloud to hang with ma frined again..Finally ...So if you could jus make plans to meet up with you your frined an her parents and jus talk about this ..then you should jus be fine...Hope i helped..Thankz
Tasha
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Okay I am in love with this guy. We are friends but he doesn't know I like him. He is a year older than me but in the grade behind me.. ya not the smartest person and he is coming to my school next year. So, he thinks i'm hot but he doesn't like me. But I really like him do you know any way I could tell him and keep our friendship the way it is like not change it and do you know anyway i could maybe make him like me a little bit more (link)
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okay well i think that you should tell him but make sure he knows that if he doesnt wanna have that kind of relationship with you that you can still be friends... i hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box... :)
Tasha
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